Nicolette Vaughn

Yeah, he doesn't like it? Tell him to blow it out his dittybag! Especially when threatening a bad review! Tell him to go ahead because this isn't a review site, it's a recommendation site. And he could even go to the other board but over 50% of escorts DON'T show their faces so this is par for the course in this business. Hobbyists know that most times they won't get to see an SP's face before meeting. Don't let anyone EVER bully you or make you go outside your comfort zone.

Bad, bad, bad, idea. Hypothetically speaking, if I were that woman and someone approached me this way, I would be inclined to tell the bf when he returned with a cart and it would *not* be pretty. I would be freaked out by somebody coming up and saying this to me. LOL. I could just hear him now saying to the guy.. "I'll see you in the parking lot m***er****er! I've give you a 3 second headstart." Hahaha. OMG he would freak out!!!! Some things are better left unsaid my friend. It's okay to admire a woman from afar but never step into another man's territory especially where his woman is concerned. It's a respect thing. Unless of course you're cruising for a bruising..;)

She and I shared the same ad but different numbers so she was next on the list to call.lol

I was in a 4 star hotel last week and checked for bed bugs. Usually higher end hotels are good about this sort of thing when they realize they have bed bugs. Housekeeping is also trained to spot them as well.

Having a double payment come out of my bank account when in reality it turned out to be an error on the creditor's side. Stuff like that makes me scream esp when budgeting for withdrawls to come out on certain days. Thank God for overdraft and fortunate enough to have extra money in there! And then you have to make phonecalls, etc. Not fun at all but I worked it out. When I'm on my way to meet a client and I've got 5 people texting ( 3 of which are family or friends) me at once and I'm driving. Then they start texting asking why I'm not answering. Just phone me damn it! But when you're not busy doing anything, no one calls.

I'm convinced my cat has another home he goes to because he's gone all the time in spring, summer and fall months and once found him 5 miles away from home. I always have to feed my older cat in another room so he doesn't eat his food. He has gotten bigger over the years and is about 13-14 lbs. Here he is at normal size.lol

For my cats, I have a bowl that dispenses the dry food and I only have to fill it up once in a while. One of my cats who is very old cannot chew the dry food too much anymore so I give him a can of fancy feast twice a day. My other cat who is an orange tabby is one of those cats who is a glutton and will try to eat both wet and dry food and I always make sure he knows the pecking order. But when there is no wet food he will meow and want more. And another thing is if you walk into the kitchen at any time, they will associate this with getting fed even when they just ate.. I'd buy the dispenser dish at Canadian tire and leave it at that. Then they can eat on their own. Or you can give them feeding times and leave no food out after they're done but they will probably meow. I wouldn't give in to them because they will expect it all the time. Cats are excellent manipulators when it comes to getting what they want. lol.

My orange fat cat is hilarious! He just brought home a fake plastic mouse!

I'm sorry to hear this... I will be sending positive vibes your way. Fight it all the way and don't give up. There is strength in all of us to fight these kinds of battles. Thinking of you. xo

I could go on and on about this but over the years and having a better awareness of who I am as a person, I really couldn't give a shit about what other people think. When I was younger, I felt as though I've had to justify it or explain why I do this for a living. Now I don't. I do this job because 1) it is great money,2) I don't have to answer to anyone and 3) I am only accountable for myself and my own actions. If I screw up somehow or decide not to work one day, I have to answer to myself and deal with the consequences. I find I am disciplined when it comes to setting a schedule and making money. . Clients ask me why am I in this business... Many clients have uninformed opinions about it as well.. Drugs, bad upbringing, etc. Most ladies believe they have to say they are an SP because they just love sex so much. Not me. Because it is lucrative. Don't get me wrong.. I like sex but I wouldn't consider myself a nympho. However I am very sexually comfortable with myself as I get older and that transcends into much more enjoyable erncounters with clients. This is due to the fact that I know what I like and I know what I'm doing as I have a lot of experience now. When you are comfortable with youself, you don't have to pretend when you're intimate with someone, it just comes naturally. If I hated being an SP, I would have quit years ago. Okay I'm going off topic here but I felt that this is important with who you are and being an SP. Most people I know are aware of what I do for a living. Some accept it, others not so much but it's their opinion and everyone is entitled to have one. I just don't let myself be around harsh judgemental people because it is wasted energy. I really don't care what they think. As long as I am okay with what I am doing then that is the most important thing. Why am I going to care what they think? Because THEY don't approve? Are they paying my mortgages and the rest of my bills? No they're not. So they don't have a say in what I do. And yes, I've prostituted myself in many others jobs for an honest day's work and many times treated very poorly by employers until I told them to take their job and shove it. I could reiterate what everyone else has said about society's views on prostitution or why someone reacts in a harsh way but I won't because frankly it is mentally draining. So I will you this piece of advice from someone who is very experienced in this game we call being an SP. As long as you are okay with you are doing, forget judgemental people. Don't feel you have to justify what you do for a living to others because you're not going to change their mind. Be honest with your friends and if they can't accept what you do for a living, it's time to find new friends because you will have a difficult time relating to them. The secret you will be carrying around will eventually become a huge burden. And when the truth comes out, they will feel betrayed. Trust me, I know. Accept yourself for who YOU are. Not what someone wants you to be. Being an SP is what you do for a living, not who you are. Many people who judge cannot distinguish the difference. Over time when you have a grip on who you are as a person, all the worrying about the stigmas of prostitution and what others will think of you will diminish in time.

I actually felt that way last week and my headache lasted for 4 days. I lost a lot sleep because of it. Like you, I also have bad allergies. Here is a link that I found for natural remedies. http://www.farmersalmanac.com/health/2006/10/20/natural-headache-remedies/

I only use phone as a booking method since I find email a bit too anonymous. When someone calls me, I'm more than happy to give them info and whether we like or not, potential clients are consumers and are looking to find the most suitable SP for them. I don't really see it as tire kicking except when negotiations come into play which is a complete turn off. When someone calls me, I can tell amost immediately if I am going to enjoy their company or not. It's all in the tone of their voice, the questions they ask and how they respond to me. The best thing to do is be polite when you call. Many SPs may start a friendly dialogue with you and you can gain insight as to whether or not they're sincere. If they sound too business like and looking to get you off the phone right away, then that is a clue. If people are rude to me or want to start negotiating, I will end the phone call almost immediately. I know there is an awkward moment where you've received all necessary information and you feel as though you have to make a decision right then and then don't feel you have to be pressured into this. A good SP will not force you to make an immediate decision. When I take the time to talk to someone, the potential client remembers this and will see it as a good sign that the SP is friendly and nice and that it will be a good encounter if they met. Thank the SP and tell them you have some things to handle and you may call them back. SPs know people call around and inquire as one guy who called me was calling my friend the next minute and we happened to be together at her place.lol. The three of us laughed about it when he was speaking to her.

Happy Birthday Angela !! Love, Nicki xoxoxo

I'm going to plant some flowers today in the backyard My favs: Gerbera Daisies and Dahlias

I never used to offer anything under 60 minutes but like Sophia I have become accustomed to daytime quickies. Not everyone has time for a one or 2 hour appt in the middle of the afternoon, so after a few years hiatus I decided to change my business model. Most of my customers are half hour appts and I also have many that see me for an hour. 45 minutes is definitely a good option if a half hour is too quick. It's also good for MSOG.

So coming home after a long 7 hour drive from up north, I came home this evening to find my sister passed out drunk cold in my bed and having to throw cold water on her while dragging her to the spare bedroom and tucking her in. I guess I missed a damn good party here over the weekend. Her parties are legendary.lol Good thing she cleaned up beforehand or there would be big problems!

And still awake again tonight! I'm going to see a doctor about this. I slept 4-5 hours last night in a hotel with a nice bed but crappy pillows and was up at 7:30 am to go to the cottage and then a 7 hour drive home earlier last night. I can't chalk it up to stress because usually I can roll with the punches and there will always be stress in everyone's life but almost like a dull but pounding headache as well. Update... I got a full 8 hours sleep last night with no interruptions. I think I broke the cycle. Thank God!

E-C is a very reputable website and I have been a long time advertiser with them in the past before I came back to the business. They have never been known for bait and switch women which can be quickly spotted on cerb here or in Cowboy Kenny's Diary. That reminds me, I have to put my ad back up on E-C soon.lol.

Damn, still awake!!!

No problems yet and our houses were built the same year so who knows.... Can you come over and fix mine in your polka dot heels and that dress that I like? lol. Thanks neighbour!

I've had insomia for the past week. I cleaned my whole house the other night because I couldn't sleep. Had 4 hours sleep last night and sleeping pills no longer work. I think it's just a matter of turning my mind off. I stayed up all day today with no naps and no caffeine so here's hoping for a better sleep tonight but then again I'm in a hotel room by an airport... Damn...You can only hide dark circles with makeup for so long..

Staying at a 4 star hotel and waking up from a sore neck because of the pillows.

Nicki is cleaning her kitchen at 1 am. Unfortunately not with the french maid uniform on. What started off as one chore turned out to be cleaning the entire house! I think I'm OCD. lol. Going to bed now....

Happy Birthday Carrie!! Hope you have a good one!

How about catering one of Old Dog's infamous afterparties?