Nicolette Vaughn

A client you referred me to who is a porn star in the sack! It just can't get any better! lol. Naugh Nicki in a frisky mood today. hehehe...

When I stare deep into a guy's eyes and tell him exactly what I am going to do to him. Haha.

The Works @ Trim/Watters Rd in Orleans

To the OP, I'm not sure how you found out she has an SO but being an SP does not entirely define who she is as a person and it's sad because a lot of guys expect us not to be in a relationship because of what we do for a living and that no one will want to be with us because of the stigma attached to being a sex worker. I understand your POV about ruining the fantasy and I try not to let my personal life come through my sessions. Many people don't know my situation or they think they know but they really don't. Or some people want to know. I let them think what they what to think because frankly I don't care what anyone thinks. I don't like it brought up in a session because some guys do ask and then they get upset because the fantasy is ruined. I'm not saying this was your experience but just trying to give you an idea of how this can be a touchy situation for SPs and clients. These types of situations ( re: realizing SP has an SO) gets me a bit miffed because some want the fantasy but then they get curious and it puts me in a bad position and I run the risk of losing a client depending on if he is upset or not with the response I give. Usually it's "If I told you, I'd have to kill you." type of response. I don't ask every guy who walks through my door if he is married. It's none of my business. In short, I am selling a fantasy and it is my job to provide that and I'm damn good at it. Right now I am extremely fulfilled in my personal life ( notice how I didn't elaborate? lol) and happier than i have been in years. I also find it makes my encounters a lot more satisfying for myself and my clients. The best thing to do when you visit an SP is to think of it as a time to get away and escape. Sort of like meditating. Go with the fantasy and keep it separate from your personal life and the lives of SPs. There is nothing wrong in wanting to get to know your favorite SP but if you want to keep the fantasy alive then perhaps it's best you don't open Pandora's Box.

Working on my website today.

I usually don't receive a lot of gifts and that's fine but if you are going to give a gift to the SP, please think with sensibility and etiquette related to the SP/hobbying world. Some people try to be humourous and it usually blows up in their face. Even though gifts aren't expected or required yet always appreciated, just go with what you know. The more mainstream, the better. Think chocolate or gift card. I recently read an escort's blog on the internet ( I like reading escort blogs because they're interesting) and was horrified to find out that she was given this as a gift and the client made sure to throw in the smartass comment with the gift like "Don't say I didn't give you anything." Not only is it tacky but it's rude and disrespectful. Had someone given this to me, the appt would be over before it began. They would be tossed out on their ass in a New York minute baby. If you scroll down to the picture of the plush toy, it looks just like that... a plush toy. Now if you click on the link below, you will understand what I meant by the above comment from someone who thought they were being "cute" but in reality they were just an ass. Tacky, tacky, tacky imo. http://www.amazon.com/Giant-Microbes-Gm0150-Clap-Plush/dp/B000JZ08US/ref=sr_1_52?s=toys-and-games&ie=UTF8&qid=1335933326&sr=1-52

My philosophy in this business is... there are no guarantees in life except for death and taxes. Until that customer walks through my door, my fees are paid and we're off to the races, I don't count on anything before that. Most guys who call, I can tell if they don't want to give a specific time then it's on to the next guy. You snooze, you lose. It's as simple as that. I don't count on anyone booking if they don't want to secure a firm time. I like the guys who call and are ready to come over right away because they are the ones who are less likely to cancel.lol. I also won't apologize for the fact that there are other people wanting to see me. Even though I don't run a revolving door type business and setting aside the whole fantasy aspect, guys have to be aware that they are not the only ones and our schedule does not completely revolve around them. If anyone books in advance, there is always a chance something will come up. Until a set time is booked, tell them you can't guarantee it but if they call later with a half hour's notice ( my rule for booking) and you happen to be available...great.. if not then perhaps another time. No can argue with that.

I have a thing for womens legs and have always enjoyed admiring them. Personally I don't have long legs but they were always strong and I can run long distances. I like to see the definition in a woman's legs including my own.lol. Stockings or no stockings, they are all sexy in one way or another.

Damn, St. John's isn't on the list there. I'm planning a tour there for after the Labour Day weekend. Hmmm, I want a one way ticket back to Boston.lol.

My orange tabby is very forward and not afraid to get his own way. I will be sitting in the kitchen and he will meow to want to go outside and if I wait a few minutes, he will come over and from behind the chair, he will stand on his legs and will literally tap me on the back with his paw to get my attention! And he knows how to give paw when I ask. lol. My older cat who is about 15 enjoys chewing on plastic bags and he loves AngelaofOttawa! He sits on her lap all night. lol. He is like the Walmart greeter who will always say hello at the front door when someone comes in. He is pretty friendly. My other cat who had passed away a few months ago used to love to butt heads and play with my feet when they were under the blankets. I once was drinking a diet coke in a cup and he went on the coffee table and put his paw in it and licked it and continued doing this. His brother on the other hand wasn't the brightest when he'd try to stick his whole face in the cup. He was a quiet cat but never put up with any guff after I witnessed him jumping on a Rotweiller's back when I had someone take care of them when I was away. He was the boss of the house and I still sense his presence all the time.

Yay! Congrats! Babies are so precious and bring such joy into your life it makes me reconsider have another one. Ideas going through my head now... SP baby shower!!! Get that book "What to Expect When You're Expecting". Best of luck and keep us updated.

Years ago, this would have been a problem but now that there are vast numbers of cell providers offering pay as you go plans for a low all inclusive rate every month, there is an alternative now. I agree with others. If an SP doesn't answer blocked calls, you can get a throw away phone and your name will not show up when you call someone. I think if you want to meet the SP halfway where discretion and trust is concern, get a throw away phone and keep it in a safe place if you are married or have a gf. You get to keep your privacy and the SP feels her requirements are met. Having a throw way phone is not a guarantee that the Sp will be safe or not have a no show client but what if a client calls from a blocked number or payphone and a situation arises that the client is late or the SP has to cancel for some reason. She can't call him back. This happened with an SP I work with and the client calling from a payphone got lost when he was 3 minutes away from her place. 25 minutes later, she thinks he is a no show and books someone who happened to see her before and was in the area. The second client got there quickly and lo and behold the first guy finally finds her location and rings the doorbell while she is in session with the second client. She told the first guy he was late and she was seeing someone else. It's not her fault because he put her in a situation where she had to make a quick decision. Why should she wait around for someone who may not be coming? She is running a business and time is money. Even though he insisted on booking by payphone and she took a chance with this because she went with her intuition, it didn't work out. I personally don't book through blocked calls and payphones and feel if a guy wants to see me, he will have cell phone. I don't like giving out the address and I certainly won't give it to someone who may feel like he is trying to be too secret agent. If I feel someone has something to hide, what else are they going to do? SPs and clients have their ways of how to go about doing things but I think they have to meet each other half way and everyone is satisfied. If a guy hobbys regularily and doesn't want to get a cell phone then that's their problem but it makes sense to get one if they will use it more than once.

I had this happen to me a few weeks ago where the person booked the appt and said they were at the intersection. 20 mins later, they call me and said they had no cell phone reception in the visitor parking and were now back at the intersection. It takes not even 3 minutes to go back to the intersection and they are calling 20 minutes later? First off, I ound it weird about no cell reception as all clients call me from there and they've had no problems. I told them it was too late and not to bother. I'm sure they probably weren't at the intersection initially on the first call or they were just playing games. | If a guy is going to be late, just own up to it and give the SP a heads up. She will either keep the appt and the customer loses time or she may have other plans and cannot keep the appt because the guy is late. In this business time is money and sometimes SPs book appts back to back giving them enough time in between to get ready for the next client. If the first client is late, that fools things up with other clients. If a customer doesn't call to tell me he will be late, I will call him and tell him it's cancelled or tell him that I didn't appreciate him not calling me. I don't know if some guys ( not all) are under the impression that we have all day and we just lounge around looking pretty waiting for someone to show up and if they're late, it's no big deal to us. Actually it is. Respect is a two way street. I'm not perfect. I've made my share of mistakes along the way when running my business but I always make it up to the customer or at least try if they will let me.

I like a 10 inch dildo preferably in pink and one I had that I affectionately referred to as "Mr. Pink". Unfortunately Mr. Pink has been many places and in a lot of ways you could compare him to "Where's Waldo". Always going in and out of entryways, getting caught in the rain, enjoying a visit to Niagara Nicki ( opps I meant Niagara Falls) and sliding under a condo partion balcony on Somerset St where he fearlessly fell down 12 floors and hit the head of an unsuspecting passerby yelling "WTF" in such force more so than a penny dropping 100 floors. Mr. Pink continued rolling down Somserset towards Bank St and kept on going with such precision and rhythm as he does best. Two weeks ago after a night of unbridled passion and fun with a few participants, he was left behind in the wee hours of the morning in a hotel suite. Mr. Pink's owner misses him dearly and there will be a reward for his return! ;) Missing!

I used to pay for the room online, check in with credit card and leave when I wanted to without going to front desk.. Any incidental like parking would be charged to my card. And I'd find a side door to walk out of if it was very late.

I don't know if it's been said here or not but as a provider myself, I do not associate sexual acts with love. Some women view kissing as something more intimate than just sex so it's personal to them. I was always a sensual person to begin with so it just comes natural to me. If there was some sort of sexual thing I wanted to do but only with someone I was personally involved with, I wouldn't offer it. Having said that, things like kissing with an SP are services offered with the ladies nowadays. I don't find kissing any different in a physical sense ( more or less or lfk or dfk) on the job than when I'm involved with someone except more of an intense emotional feeling. Now if I walked away from an appt and had more of an emotional response after being with them, I'd really have to wonder. This is how I guage things. My personal relationships are not only based on physical factors but more of an emotional connection. My clients are great and fun to be with but I don't have an intense emotional connection as I do with boyfriends and vice versa. This is how I seperate it since I don't associate sex with love. To answer The General's question... the kissing doesn't slow down either way. When I'm involved with someone, I'm always in a happy, giddy mood more than usual so I'm sure the clients will reap the benefits.lol. I just like to kiss anyways and shows the passionate side of me.

I find 45 minute appts are good because some people find a half hour a wee bit too short and sometimes an hour would be too much. I'm considering putting this option in my ads.

Happy Birthday Rachelle! Hope you have a good one! xo

What a way to fight a traffic ticket and win at the same time! http://now.msn.com/now/0413-physics-paper-ticket.aspx

As a woman I just flash major cleavage or cry when caught speeding. lol. Worked both times. Haven't had a speeding ticket since 2002 where I got 4 of them in 2 months when travelling across Ontario and various cities in the U.S. Twice I got them knocked down in Canada and had to deal with Pointts. There was probably a warrant out in upstate NY for me because I didn't pay that one. lol.. I also had to go to traffic school where they give you a lecture on not speeding and the dangers. I lost a lot of demerit points and high car insurance rates for about 2 years. Needless to say as I am more mature now and not trying to get everywhere so quickly, I don't speed excessively. I did do a rolling stop in my neighborhood development at 2 am last year but again because of the blond hair, cleavage and that charming way I have, he let me go.;)

Having to deal with a beligerent intoxicated idiot approaching my car in a parking lot and trying to stick his head through my window that was open. Not personal or SP related because I would have kicked his ass. LOL.

I'm biting the head of a solid chocolate bunny right now that was left over from Easter. Guess I'll be going for a long jog tonight. Haha. With the head of the chocolate Easter bunny in hand, I notice that I keep watching episodes of A&E's "Storage Wars" just like when you see a train wreck waiting to happen and can't help but stop and look. LOL.

Meg Ryan andTom Hanks in "Sleepless in Seattle" and "You've Got Mail". Richard Gere and Julia Roberts in "Pretty Woman" and "Runaway Bride". The chemistry was just natural with these on screen pairs.

Elvis Presley! A person with such remarkable qualities but also the complexities of a man and that of a world renowned entertainer that made him that much more fascinating.

Seriously, I can't remember!! Probably because I was a zombie since I was working 2 jobs and going to school at the time. I guess the first time was nothing to write home about or terrible either if I cannot recall the encounter. I was not at the agency for very long before I ventured out on my own and quickly realized I was a natural from day one with the clients as well as the business aspect of it. This explains why I'm still here with a few hiatus' in between to pursue other avenues. Now the second time was a hot scenario. It was an outcall to a downtown residence and it was raining. A man in his early 40's opens the door and he was cute who beared a minor resemblance to Richard Gere ( I kid you not!) with his facial features and hair. We went to his room, I looked directly into his eyes and my beige trenchcoat fell to the floor only revealing red lingere on underneath on the body a young, flawless blonde. He laid me down on his bed and we kissed passionately as if we clicked. I realized at the moment that I had the knack of seducing men. It was a hot sensual encounter that ended well but I never saw him again. The rest goes down in history as my time as an SP in Ottawa.