Nicolette Vaughn

Elvis has NOT left the building and is still alive! He was spotted eating a peanut butter and banana sandwich at a small town diner in Nebraska!! And on a more serious note, the conspiracy theories I believe in are... The Mafia killed JFK. Lee Harvey Oswald did not act alone and was simply a scapegoat. The Kennedy family had something to do with Marilyn Monroe's death as a way to keep her quiet permanently since she knew many personal and political secrets of the two brothers.

I think men sending pictures is very rare but I've had 2 or 3 people send them when they are intially building up a dialogue with me. I don't have a preference either way and I certainly don't requre them it's just a surprise to me when I do get them. I personally prefer a bit of mystery but no south of the border shots please. They won't do you any favors because I'm not casting for a porn star actor. LOL.

I just got woken up by a cat jumping on my chest and can't get back to sleep so bear with me here... If I knew for a fact that I did not see this person and was in a wicked mood after reading something like that, I would tell him to blow it out his dittybag and to take a hike. Or I would be professional and do what I do best when people make me angry.... I would ignore them and press the delete button. There's no point in debating someone who has already 'rated you' when their mind is made up about something. Frankly, if someone saw me and then came back months later to tell me they were dissatisfied with my rates, why are they just having a problem with this now? I don't put much stock in review boards and what opinions they have. Because everyone has one. If there is a problem with the rate, the client may pay it once and not go back because a) he doesn't want to pay that rate again or b) because he simply can't afford it. If a person has an issue with rates, you don't tell the SP that she is too much money. That's just rude. And the rate system? Is this based on just the rate itself or the services that commands such a rate? If they're too cheap, then that's their problem. Every SP's rate is a personal one and that's what she chooses to charges. The market will pay what it can bear. So if she feels she is not getting the rate she quotes because no one is booking, then she should make a decision and make her rates fall in line with what she feels is appropriate based on various factors. There will be men who may think it's too much and those who have no problem with it. Thankfully most men I have dealt with have been respectful to me and I haven't really had to deal with this sort of thing. Most have politely said thank-you and hung up. Other people who engage in this hobby don't understand that this is a luxury service and more of a want than a necessity they need to survive basic human needs. It's like if I were to walk into a Mercedes dealership and become irrate because I don't have a Mercedes vehicle like my neighbor since the price is too high. I could have one based on the income I generate but I choose not to have one at this time based on other financial factors and I like to live within my means. Maybe if I save more money or when the time is right but in reality I live with the fact that it is out of my reach at the moment but perhaps a possibility in the future. It would be considered frivilous and a luxury for me when I can keep driving my Honda Civic and still get from point A to point B. Those people that publically use a rating system to try and ambush the SP into lowering their rate have issues and it's most likely with themselves rather than the provider. I don't understand why some men feel so entitled and angry and go so far to use a rating system based on rates because they can't or don't want to be able to afford such and such an SP. It's like a kid crying because he can't play with another kid's toy. Wah! Too bad so sad! They need to grow up or save up!

I vote for Old Dog's thread of "Things That Suck... and Not in Good Way" http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=52852 and Phaedrus' thread of "Unhijackable Thread of Randomness" http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=57257 I'm glad he started it when I was brainstorming the idea on the board one day. lol.

I've lost 7 lbs. Yay!

I haven't experienced that lately but prior to taking a hiatus from this business in the past, this was happening what from what I used to read. No shows, cancellations happen day to day but touring ladies are in a different category when it comes to this problem. Many of my SP friends from Toronto refused to come to Ottawa because there were fake appts and many cancellations. I don't know why this is the case but I'm surprised it's still happening. I don't know about local ladies and cancellations because I am blessed to have cultivated a large group of ongoing regular clients but I have seen it mostly isolated with touring ladies. They do spend a lot of money on airfare and hotels so when this happens, it is a big deal and many women have been vocal about not coming back here in face to face conversations and on the boards.

I love toys and enjoy putting on shows during appts that showcase my squirting talents. ;)

I think you have to do a few field tests (lol) before you find an SP that you have chemistry with. Perhaps start by searching the ladies albums here on CERB and refine it by age, body type and services. From there you should be ablw to narrow it down. There are SPs out there who are not high volume and have other jobs/careers in addition to this line of work. Correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds as though you're looking for a lady who is more low key and doesn't have a high profile internet presence in this industry. I truly believe that if you are destined to meet someone who strikes your fancy and just "click", it will hapen. I have met many great clients where we had a great rapport and chemistry and they are nice to spend time with. I've also had a few particular clients where on one initial visit we had a good time and the second time was completely different where it got really hot and heavy and everything in and out of the bedroom just flowed. I always look forward to visits with my regulars. :) I hope this helps. Good luck in your search! :)

I found this link on youtube:

I agree. As an experienced SP, when I speak to someone on the phone, I know in a matter of 30 seconds if this is going to be someone I want to meet or not. You can also tell by tone of voice, how they approach you and the questions they ask. If they are evasive or too pushy then those are red flags. If they also push for your address without committing to an appt, that's another red flag. I'll admit there were a few times where I didn't listen to my instincts and came to regret it. The encounters weren't horrible or life threatening but I just didn't like the person or their attitude. Now when something tells me not to book off the bat, I listen to my inner voice. In this business, you begin to gain almost like a sixth sense where you will feel if something is wrong, it will feel like alarm bells going off in your head. Please listen to it even if you haven't taken a lot of appts or need the money. If a guy sounds off or is doing something that is out of the ordinary, take precautions and remove yourself from the situation whether it's on the phone or in person.

Sorry to hear about your cat passing Victoria. It is not an easy situation to deal with and I know how hard it is because my cat passed away in January and he also died in my arms cradling him on my bed. The feelings you're experiencing muist be difficult because I literally cried my eyes out for a few days. Take solace in the fact that she is in a better place now and that she knew she had a good home all those year. I don't know if this is any consolation but think back to a month or two before your cat passed away. Was she seeking extra attention and very attached to you? If so, this was probably your cat's way of spending their last time with you in generally good health. Instinctively, they know when they are going to get sick and/or die. My cat followed me everyday for weeks at a time. I remember another SP being with me at my house and he latched on to her as well the whole night and never left our side. A few times I got annoyed but remembered from a few months before that the family cat did this before she died. I felt horrible and guilty for pushing him away a few times. My cat even followed my friend to the front door as he probably knew that was the last time he would see her. A month and a half later, he was gone. My other cat who is from the same litter is also slowing down and now he is following me everywhere. He seems very lonely at times and sleeps a lot so I'm trying to give him the attention he needs since my third cat is gone most of the time trolling for girlfriends.lol. Your cat loved you and you already know that and her waiting to say goodbye was a testament of her love for you. Take comfort in that. I've always have a soft spot for cats and absolutely love them. We raised over 50 of them on a large propert over the course of 20 years since I was young. They were always part of our family as pets should be. I'm glad you got to say goodbye to her. This is the way it should be. I really feel for you. Hugs to you! xo

R.I.P. Dick Clark. I don't remember American Bandstand but I do remember watching him every New Year's Eve in Times Square until he had his stroke and then he co-hosted one year with Ryan Seacrest. He was a figurehead that represented classic Americana. He was a great t.v. personality that will be missed.

I don't think he has a wife or if he does, the email was not from her. This is simply a case of someone who has a personality disorder or mental/emotional issues and difficulties relating to a woman hence, his hesitation to go through with the appt. The wife and kids are just an excuse to cover up his insecurities he has with women in general. His low self esteem got in the way, he cancelled the appt and to make himself feel better, he had pretend to be a woman and call you a homewrecker so he can feel better about himself after you rejected his advances. Can you see how twisted that is? Is this a harsh explanation? Yes but I've seen this before in my own experiences in being an SP and there is always something off with these types of men and the vibe they give off. In any event, keep all correspondence from him and if he keeps bothering you after you've been ignoring him, go straight to the police.

Sweetheart, I will surrender to you anytime. lol. ;)

Since the criminal code is currently still in effect for operating a bawdy house, what was the point of this woman announcing it? Perhaps she is confident in the fact that by exposing herself to the media that will set her in place as the top incall agency in town and also giving her business an advertising boost at the same time? That is a ballsy move if you ask me. Especially in a smaller city. There are no guarantees in what the final outcome will be be depending on if the Federal Government decides to challenge it or not. In regards to operating an escort agency, you would think one would want to remain off the radar from law enforcement. Maybe she wants to be the next Xaviera Hollander. LOL. The best way for her to conduct her business in this industry would be to provide good service with repeat customers and by remaining low key considering the bawdy house laws at this time.

My orange tabby cat has been gone since Saturday. I would like to think he's getting some action since he left for 10 days before but not sure. :( He's not at animal shelter or in their death records either. Meg, have you seen him? LOL. Additional Comments: My cat's ears must have been burning because I was downstairs in my basement and heard meowing in the back yard. He just came home and jumped right into my arms. Looks like he got in a few fights with all the scratches and is dirty. My old cat doesn't look too happy right now. Ha!

Burnt my thumb on my hair straightener which was at 400 F at the time.

On an added note, I am proud to say that it's the perfect mixture of my innocent sounding voice and my dirty mouth that makes it such a great combination. ;)

I used priceline last week for out of town guests and got the Marriott in downtown Ottawa for $93. And that was on a long weekend!

Yes, I know one. He is on the board here. He has helped other SP friends of mine. I'll send you a PM.

Thanks for the compliments everyone. Yes, I have been told I have a sexy voice, but it's when I turn on that innocent charm that it seems to work best.

I went to a movie the other night and went to go get a drink. I thought I was in luck when I picked the shortest line at the concession stand but of of course as Murphy's Law would have it, the person in front of me was not only ordering for her indecisive self but people who she was waiting for who had just gotten there. The other line had served 3 other people before the woman in front of me had left. That's Murphy's Law for you!

Giving can be enjoyable... much like receiving.

It depends on what you have done to them. I'm known among my friends as the ice queen. If someone has done something to me that is bad, wrong and something I feel can't be forgiven, then I will give them the silent treatment but at the same time I am done with them. I won't give them an explanation because they are no longer anything to me. Is it passive aggressive? If you are going to continue the relationship, yes, it is but if the person no longer wants to have contact, they don't owe you anything. Giving someone the silent treatment is cruel because you don't know what the other person is actually thinking. And it will make the other person give in to what they want them to do. That is not good. I've been in this situation lately where someone who I thought was a friend did something. I got tired of their games, bullshit, their problems where they didn't want to be held accountable and it was always everyone else's fault. She was either playing the victim or being arrogant to make herself feel better by putting others down or whichever was convenient to her that day. I don't want to go into detail but to make a long story short, she said some pretty mean things about me to another friend who told me the next day after I had been with them both the night before. Basically a two faced person. She knew what she did and called me and called me with crying voicemails but I didn't bother to call back. I no longer want anything to do with her. So technically I gave her the silent treatment. I had been a friend to her, went out of my way to help her and this was the way she treated a so called friend. I'm done. I froze her out. Good riddence. I could not be friends with someone who was that toxic. Just trying to talk to that person was making me mentally tired because no matter what I would say, she would find a way to make it my fault or someone else's for her actions. Now, if I am mad at someone and want to resolve the issue I will tell them. I'm known for being confrontational so if i've got something to say to you, I will tell you even if it's not what you want to hear. But if you've done something to me that I could forgive but not forget, then that is hard so my only other choice is the silent treatment because it's something I no longer choose to deal with especially if it's people who are causing toxicity, negativity or hurt in my life. In the past, I used to try and fix situations whether it was clients, friends or relationships but now I just walk. The less bullshit in my life the better. Silent treatment is the only way but it is a permanent silent treatment and these days I don't look back.

It says I will live to be 87. Sounds right as both of my grandmothers died in their early 80's.