Nicolette Vaughn

What I do with no shows is to never deal with them again. They had no regard me for the first time so why would it be second a different time around? I had one guy who has been trying to see me for 3 years calling from various numbers that I do block consistently after he no showed me twice. I even gave him a second chance. He now wonders why I won't text him back. Lol. I'm the ice queen if a person decides to wrong me. They won't hear from me again.

Hello Gentlemen, I will be available in Orleans the following days: Friday Feb 24 ( 10 am - 8 pm) Saturday Feb 25 (10 am - 8 pm) Sunday Feb 26 ( 10 am - 7 pm) I can be available on short notice with at least 30 minutes provided I can entertain your request. Please call or text. Texting apps or VOIP numbers will be ignored and I consistently check for them. Discretion is assured when booking with me. Should I miss your call or if I am in a session, I do not call back for your discretion so please try again. I will not text back after the 20 minute mark has passed. I see limited gentlemen on a low volume basis so please plan accordingly. About Me I am very voluptuous with a proportioned hourglass figure, round behind and creamy soft skin with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with impressive 40 DD naturals. My beautiful, youthful looking baby face has been blessed with full sensuous lips and seductive captivating blue eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I am always well polished from head to toe from my coiffed hair to my manicured nails and feet. I am perfect for those who enjoy more full figured ladies. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older looking to spend a relaxing time with a nice lady. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My Location My location is in Orleans and is an upscale, clean, quiet and discreet location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other amenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unhurried, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 -45 mins $200 -1 hour Sorry outcalls are not available CONTACT 613-404-7*8*8*7 - Call or Text is the quickest way to receive a response Blocked calls/Voip/Texting Apps and payphones will be ignored [/center]

Wiping mascara off my glasses. Sometimes having naturally long eye lashes can be really annoying. Lol

I'm sort of curious as to where the line is drawn between MA and SP? Besides the one obvious factor, it seems as though in the last few years those lines have been blurred. I offer both massage and escorting services but if someone wants more than a massage but not quite full companion, I will make an adjustment and charge a rate in between. Then there are those who try to strike out for more than what was intended and they need to be reminded that it is a massage session they booked for. Lol. I'm all for kissing and am GFE by nature but the reigns do need to be pulled in at times because there are those to the other extreme who REALLY get caught up in the moment ( I don't mean kissing) wanting to take it further. It feels like I'm being put on the spot to which I say...next time visit me for a companion session. Lol. I think the best thing is to ask in advance about things such as kissing. Where one MA may offer someone else may not.Always ask because no one wants to be disappointed.

FINALLY I broke up a knot in my neck that was a trigger point. My neck was so stiff. It took me 2 days and a lot of heat. I feel sooo much better!

Everyone has their different levels of boundaries and what they're willing to put up with but the fact that she stole and then lied...if I were a client, that would be enough for me to not have any more contact with that person. It's a learning lesson as we've all dealt with this at some point or another in the industry when someone betrays our trust. I think if you decide to have an outcall in the future where the SP comes to you, make sure all valuables or medications are nowhere in sight. When people come to visit me, I do not leave anything lying around that is personal such as my purse or anything that is valuable. It's like a hotel room. By doing so, you don't give them the opportunity. I also have a separate bathroom just for them as my bathroom is for my own personal use. I also agree with Raven and always tell gentlemen to bring their belongings with them when they take a shower. This way everyone feels safe and content. You need to do the same thing when someone visits you. Also never give them the chance to alone and be able to wander in your home. It's people like this that give the rest of us a bad name.

Washing $20 bills after lubricant was not closed properly and spilled all over including on my iPod screen. lol

Neck pain after an injury!

Gentlemen, I have to ask because a few of my SP friends and I chuckle when we see men use the term "smaller bbw". It seems like an oxymoron to me. I've been described as this ( not that I have a problem with this) but then again what would one consider a small bbw? I try not to get hung up on labels but this term has been thrown around a lot in the last few years and I had to ask. lol. IMO, there is no such thing as a small bbw just because the term itself is contradictory...I would consider the terms describing someone in this type of stature from small to larger starting from curvy to thick then voluptuous and then a bbw. Your thoughts?

meet new gentlemen as well as those I am already acquainted with. I will be available in Orleans Saturday Feb 18 ( 11 am - 8 Pm) and Sun Feb 19 ( 11 am - 6 Pm). I can be available on short notice with at least 30 minutes provided I can entertain your request. Please call or text. Texting apps or VOIP numbers will be ignored and I consistently check for them. Discretion is assured when booking with me. Should I miss your call or if I am in a session, I do not call back for your discretion so please try again. I will not text back after the 20 minute mark has passed. I see limited gentlemen on a low volume basis so please plan accordingly. About Me I am a cross between a voluptuous lady and a bbw with a proportioned hourglass figure, round behind and creamy soft skin with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with impressive 40 DD naturals. My beautiful, youthful looking baby face has been blessed with full sensuous lips and seductive captivating blue eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I am always well polished from head to toe from my coiffed hair to my manicured nails and feet. I am perfect for those who enjoy "thicker ladies". I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older looking to spend a relaxing time with a nice lady. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My Location My location is in Orleans and is an upscale, clean, quiet and discreet location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other amenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unhurried, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 -45 mins $200 -1 hour Sorry outcalls are not available CONTACT 613-404-7*8*8*7 - Call or Text is the quickest way to receive a response Blocked calls/Voip/Texting Apps and payphones will be ignored [/center]

If someone wastes my time just once , their number is blocked and I won't give them a second chance to waste my time again. They showed their true colours the first time. This is usually with potential new clients. Yes, life happens but a quick text or phone call takes a minute. If it was something serious then if he is a true gentleman, HE should offer to pay for her time wasted. I don't bother getting into it with time wasters who try for a second round because a) you don't know who you're dealing with and b) the waste of energy that it entails being upset about it is time you never get back. The problem with requesting a cancellation fee just gives these time wasters more ammunition to string the SP along and waste her time again. If one considers the source, they showed no regard for the SP and no showed her. Why would they pay a cancellation fee? This may be a good way to get rid of them for the short term but it is also a way for these people to keep the conversation going which is what they want. This is more time an SP won't get back by arguing back and forth as to why they feel shouldn't pay the fee. Two words- block them. While annoying and upsetting as it is, these type of guys at the end of the day just don't care so why should an SP? It's their loss and they shouldn't get a second chance. I've heard many excuses and things do happen in life but it is a case by case basis. If it's a regular and they are doing it more than once, I will talk to them about it and give them a second chance but if they keep cancelling, I will drop them as a client. These type of clients who are already friendly with an SP can be the worst offenders because you have already placed your trust in them but excuse after excuse just isn't believable anymore. Either the person isn't truly making the commitment to see the SP for various reasons or they like the idea of visiting in theory but just don't put it high on the list of their priorities. For me personally, I don't even bother to try and understand. There are many more clients out there who won't waste an SP's time.

It depends. I have to wear one in public because my chest is very large at 40 DD. During encounters I usually wear a chemise that has some kind of support but if I'm at home bumming around, it's yoga pants, white t shirt or tank top sans bra. I once made the mistake of going in my backyard a few years ago to water my flowers in a white tank top without a bra figuring it was the middle of the day and no one was home. I went to water the flowers and the spray for the hose wasn't screwed on tight enough, and of course on a day I happened to be wearing a white tank top. I was soaking wet and see through! The back door was locked so I had to go around to the front. Who was there when I was trying to go back inside? Of course my neighbor who was just getting home from work and he saw everything!! lol I never made that mistake again!

Happy birthday Cato! Have a great day!

Usually I reserve Valentine's Day for regular clients and/or those I have regular arrangements with if they decide they want to visit on this day. I like to do something special for them to show my appreciation and thanks. The same applies on their birthday.

A night in with some friends watching movies, tarot cards and the music awards. I am soooo glad to have a 4x4 as a second vehicle in this weather!

Just a side note to Lyla members, you might want to turn down the volume before opening this article as there is a video as well that started before I could scroll down to stop it. I wasn't alone either! lol. Okay, back to reading the article. :)

Getting back in the swing of things today since before Christmas but fortunately with a very nice gentleman.

With other boards there is advertising but there the US v.s Them mentality where SPs are to be only seen and not heard. I advertise my escorting services here but do not on BP because of the b.s. I will only advertise massage there since I don't have to deal with people asking for unsafe services and I like doing massage. I have met very nice clients from here for escorting and don't mind paying for advertising as long as there is traffic brought back to the board. The censorship that is in place right now is one of the reasons why a few clients have told me they left. If recommendations weren't censored, the new owners may see an increased amount of membership. There has to be an incentive both both clients and SPs to be here. I like the fact that I don't deal with tire kickers here while on BP you have to weed through calls and texts to find a decent client. I would pay for advertising to not have to deal with things I've had to deal with on BP (Wots, pimps making fake appts etc). However there had to be a reason for men to come to this board. They want specific details when looking at recommendations. I've had many men also tell me they are getting fed up with BP as there are many fake pictures and scams on there with people who aren't established. Notice they always come here to check to see if someone is legit? Without sites like this to double check, a lot of people would be taking risks when visiting new ladies so there is a reason to keep a site like this going. If there is good numbers in membership here, why not charge for advertising? If an SP can get nice clients here instead of dealing with b.s , I'm sure they would consider paying in addition to BP but the men need to be here to make it worthwhile. As someone else mentioned, each site has its own unique brand. Lyla may be known as "the rose colored glasses board" for its positive recommendations only but it also hasn't stopped members of other sites coming here either. Many use both but censorship is a big issue whereas other boards have less rules where censorship is concerned. I don't fully believe that the laws themselves have stopped men from hobbying. The more they have to make decisions on whether or not to see someone is key. This is why many have left.

I think there is a misunderstanding where guys in this hobby think we want to date them and only the good looking ones such as the client #1 would be considered suitable as the ideal man in real life. Sure they were good looking but a few in that category turned out to be full of themselves and trying to score a f**k buddy. If I want that, it won't be with a client. Sometimes I feel as though we can't win either because some men out there have low self esteem and when trying to give them a compliment, I get the "Harhahrhar I bet you say that to all the guys" which I find to be very insulting and clearly makes the SP feel as though she is a bullshitter. Those are the onesie have found in my experience who are more likely to assume that we will only enjoy our job with the likes of client #1 and they have a really skewed outlook of who we spend time with as an SP. Sorry guys but you truly have no idea. Some of the best times I've had weren't with client #1 and there are also nice guys who happen to fall into the category of client #1 but I wouldn't call them an ideal guy I'd date in real life. One can't pin down a "type" because there are s many different combinations when it comes to men. I have so many great special relationships with regular clients and each one of them are nice in their own way. And I repeat, they are not client #1 I say this because most assume we want to be with client #1. A lot of women are not as shallow as you think. Well at least not me anyways. I tend to steer towards men in their early to mid 50's as someone I would consider dating. This leads me to believe that a lot of men I've personally noticed think we're just in it for the money period and if we get young hot men as clients who are well hung then we REALLY enjoy it and that we just put us with those are older or not in shape etc strictly for the money. Sigh..... Sure there are men out there who aren't Adonises but does that mean they're not worth spending time with whether as clients or personally? Does it not mean that they have other desirable qualities that can attribute to a great encounter? Does vanity now equal self worth? No! I'm in no way skinny Barbie myself physically speaking but I do have great clients who do find me very attractive and there is a connection there. They like me for me. They can see beyond someone's physique because it's not the be all or end all. The same applies to clients. I think this thread should be renamed to "Who is Your Dream Guy in Your Personal Life". I don't think you would get the answer to that. Client #1 does not exist in the way one would assume.

This could be a case of "your mileage may vary" depending on her texting conversations with you. Then again, I'm not a mind reader and only a proposed scenario. Some SPs may feel pressured for whatever reason but contradicts what she previously stated which can confuse a potential client. In my personal experience, when I state a restriction, it's something I won't do -period...even with regulars because I'm not into it. If asked at a later date, I tell them it's not my thing. They can either accept it or go see someone else. Boundaries are in place for a reason and money or losing a client is not a factor in changing my mind. No one should feel coerced into doing something they don't like. Im not saying this was happening in the OP's situation but saying no to a certain activity (provided it's not something detrimental to their health and safety), this can be harder for newer SPs to deal with. They may want to avoid the feeling of being uncomfortable after saying no. This could also be another factor. They may feel they are losing out on something which is simply not true or may fear some sort of negative feedback/fallout with men who write comments on review boards especially when they are trying to establish clientele. They also may be struggling and feel they can't afford to say no. That truly is a personal decision when placed in that position so I can't comment nor am I in a position to judge. Some new SPs can be impressionable not realizing that enforcing a restriction by stating "no" doesn't necessarily mean there will be a negative impact on her. And if someone does give an SP a hard time on those boards ( I've seen it happen) after she has said no and he feels it's his duty to make this known in a disparaging tone then that shows who they are. I once had a new client for massage and he said he wanted to take a shower with me. I have a rule where I will only shower with long term regulars. This is something I'm willing to offer at a later date when someone becomes a regular with me but I also have restrictions where it's the same for everyone where it's something I'm not willing to negotiate ever. I have my reasons for not showering with new clients and told this person upfront on the phone. I said if it was a deal breaker then it's best to find someone else because I wouldn't want to damper the mood. He still chose to visit me and it was one of the worst dates from hell. I had never walked away from an appointment feeling so mentally drained like I did that day. He complained about everything from the coconut oil I used, to the body wash I had for my clients in the shower and then tried to guilt trip me about not going in the shower. Being the experienced SP that I was, I remained professional but no matter what, he would still find something to complain about. What he should of done was found someone else when I told him it's probably best but on the phone, it didn't seem like it was the be all end all for him. Boy was I wrong! Had I choose to lift that restriction because he was whiny about it, I wouldn't be staying true to myself. My advice is if someone first says something isn't available then it's best to move on.

Desperately needed black out liners from Costco for curtains in one of my rooms. It's not dark enough.

Catching up on the Saturday Night Live skits re: Donald Trump. The latest one is with Melissa McCarthy impersonating White House press secretary Sean Spicer is soooo funny! ������ https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fdewIJ0C0CQ I'm glad to see that Alec Baldwin has reprised his role as Donald Trump in 2017. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dGXOGFMe_CE

I went to see that movie "Founder"... the story about Ray Kroc and how McDonalds was created. Michael Keaton played a great version of Ray. Although it was a great movie, I no longer have respect for the McDonald's Corporation.

I've had it happen and they were told off. Very rare situations indeed but it happens. Usually these type of people have no boundaries and think it's perfectly acceptable to do this for whatever reasons in their mind. Would it be perfectly acceptable for an SP to go to a client's house and randomly ring the doorbell? Or hang around their house outside wondering if they are home? No, of course not. I won't see these people again and they know why. The trust factor is long gone.