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I like that Old Dog. He is always a good host with a warm heart! And he makes me laugh until I cry! xo

Get out of it ASAP. Tell them and be upfront that the damage is done and you can no longer see them. I wish I had done that with a client but it was too late. I was still seeing them and up until the date they wanted to meet, I was dreading it and it made me sick physically and emotionally. I did the appt to the best of my ability and walked out of there and vowed to never see them again because a) I did not trust them b) they creeped me out and c) he did a not so nice thing to me one time which I had sort of forgiven him for... okay maybe I didn't. I resented him ever since. I won't be seeing him anymore. Sometimes you just have to walk away. Let him see another SP. You are in a relationship but it's a business one... You are not their girlfriend and you do not owe them anything. Trust me on this one.

Here he was shortly after I found him as a homeless kitten. Not so innocent looking anymore because he's a scraper now with scratches all over his face. He's a true alley cat.lol.

That damn tabby cat of mine.. I come home this morning to find my cat coming up the driveway with a rabbit in his mouth barely being able to carry it. I start yelling at him and he runs away dropping the rabbit while I stand there thinking I will have to clean up this mess with blood and guts. To my surprise the rabbit is still alive and hops away!!

I can understand you are looking for certain things like the latex/pvc which Cleo said she doesn't have but to imply that you're "not that hard up and you can be selective" comes across as extremely rude. If you meant to say that you want that specific look, you could have said that you want someone with your exact specifications such as the latex look but you chose to word it so that it took a jab at Cleo. Not cool. Good luck in your search but I don't think you have gained any brownie points with the ladies here with your choice of words and foot in mouth type comments.

Happy Birthday Mrrnice2!!!!

Sorry for your loss Samantha. Even though we are providing a service and an intimate one at that, there is often a chemistry and a bond between an SP and a good regular client. Take comfort in the fact that you provided this man with a lot of happiness and pleasure at a time in his life when he needed it. I have known of a few clients of mine who have passsed away some were regulars others I had seen here and there but not too often. I had a client pass away last November and while I had only seen him 4 or 5 times, it was those appts where they were multiple hours or overnights and I got to know him better. So when i found out they passed away, I was shocked and sad because I don't think anyone saw it coming. He always said he wanted to have a good sex life and he fulfilled his dream and enjoyed the company of many SPs. I have always enjoyed my time with him and the other ladies who joined us and vice versa.

What I am about to say is not to critisize anyone in particular but we are selling a service and we are selling intimacy. These questions are bound to come up and at times you cannot sugarcoat it. Sometimes guys want to know and other than being really vulgar, how is someone supposed to carefully choose their words? What may be considered disrespectful to one person may not to be to another person. We have the choice to respond or not. For every guy that is rude, there are 10 other guys that will be respectful. These so called acronyms are ones that have been established in the business over time and I'd rather have them ask me these type of codes words than using particularily vulgar words which is really the only other route to take. I agree that there are ways to ask certain things and at the end of the day guys are just asking a question. And even though we may not want to be reduced to menus and body parts, if they are looking for a particular type of service, they are entitled to ask. We are selling intimate acts whether we like to think of it that way or not. There will be guys who will be disrespectful but for the most part they are in the minority. Perhaps I am a seasoned SP who knows the score and from day one if I couldn't take the heat, I would have gotten out of the kitchen. I used to be sensitive to certain things but now I let most of it roll of my back. All of it comes with the territory in this business, roll with the punches and take the good with the bad. I've got better things to worry about.

The best way to over someone is get under someone. ;)

Tania Foilleau seems to have her own agenda and she has found the perfect spot to do it by participating in this tour across Canada against human trafficking. I'm sure she'll sell more books and laugh alll the way to the bank. To Tania Foilleau... once a hooker, always a hooker. Sincerely, A Hooker not looking to be saved.

Do they need a picture book as well? Hahahaha. Sorry... from an SP who doesn't offer greek.

Guys think the deeper they go the better it will feel. NOT! And when an SP asks you if you need to use the washroom such as washing your hands, I would suggest doing it especially if you will be doing things with your hands. I tell guys how I like it even it sounds a bit bossy. I'm not going to pretend to like something if it's painful.

Rum and coke. Blonde hair and pale skin Blonde hair and tanned skin Big boobs and a big booty Big pouty lips and a penis A dildo and another dildo

I don't really have a euphemism for it.. the dirty slutty side of me just tells them I just need a good hard pounding. Opps! Did I just say that? tThere's that pesky inner voice talking again!

How are you going to know an SP is married or not unless she tells you? Or you see someone who is young enough to be jail bait and even they could be married. lol. She is advertising a service and her personal life has nothing to do with it and is actually no one's business. As long as her work is kept seperate and no man is in sight, why would anyone be bothered by this? Their relationship and whatever agreement they have about her being an SP is private.

I've met a few young guys and don't mind them now because I am older but when I was younger as an SP, I had a big problem with it. I have booked appts over the phone and didn't know they were young until they showed up and they didn't sound like it before I met them which was great. Now what I really can't stand and if someone really wants to get a bad response from me is when some 20 something dude calls me and tells me that he shouldn't have to pay the full amount because he "is sooooo good looking and that I'd want to do him for free". Hahaha. My response to these guys are "Honey, your so called good looks don't pay my bills." It seems as though they are legends in their own minds. LOL.That doesn't impress me and if I want a hot guy, I've got my own personal stash on file on my own time. I hate the cocky arrogant attitude that some of these younger guys have or the ones who say they want a student discount because they can't afford it. What am I? Shopper's Drug Mart or Subway? This is a luxury service and if some guys can't pony up the cash then don't bother. It is an insult when they ask us this or try to bargin for a discount. This is probably the reason why many SPs don't want to see young guys. Yes, they give a bad name to those who are willing to pay for a lady's time. There is often a sense of entitlement there and seeing an SP is a privilege, not a right and like I said, it's a luxury service, not a necessity. Would someone go into a designer clothing store and attempt to bargin with the sales person for a deal on clothing? It wouldn't happen. I offer a very good experience for the rate I quote and it is very reasonable. Older men have a lot more disposable income and are realistic in the fact that this is a service and most don't try and cross the boundaries and want to "hang out" with us. They have their own lives and many are married men with families. I can usually tell immediately when I talk to them what I am getting into and I will either get them off the phone or book them if they don't cause me grief. Before I wouldn't deal with anyone under 30 but with my experience and maturity over the years, I can read people like a book when I speak to them. I am very intuitive so sometimes I have to weed through the inquiries and b.s. before I find someone I am willing to meet. Some will ask if they can get MSOG on a half hour appt. That's fine but don't expect me to go overtime if you can't pull it off just because you want to get your money's worth. It doesn't work like that. Others will ask for a laundry list of services and when they get there, they want to treat you like a rag doll or try to direct you mechanically like you were starring in a porn movie. Nice, real nice. lol. A good way to bore me to tears and have me secretly yawn while you have me with my face down in the pillows. Maybe I will take a nap while you bang away endlessly without any passion. Not my kind of experience even if you are paying me as I am GFE. On the other hand, I've met some nice guys under 30 who were mature, respectful, didn't push boundaries or question my rates. However, if you think just because you are young and hot that you don't have to pay for it, get a reality check because you are looking in the wrong place. We are girlfriends on the clock, not off. You pay us to leave. I am running a business and if I wanted a boyfriend, I would leave this job and be with one. I'm not trying to sounded jaded here because I am very good at what I do and only speak from experience as I have seen and heard everything.lol.

I hate to say it but women don't have to hobby. I have a couple of young 20's something hot studs on speed dial when I feel the need. I think it is because men are visual creatures and they will go after what they want. Women don't have a penis so this is not something that drives them to want to have sex. Another reason is that a lot of men who hobby are married and they are either not satisfied at home or they just want variety so they will pay for it to be discreet rather than getting involved in an emotional affair which can be dangerous. Re: Why women don't have to hobby....The other night I was having a girls night out after the work day was over and ran into to one of her young studs she has on her speed dial while we were out. He texted her later and said he had to have me when he saw me. I think men are just wired that way with all that testosterone.

Many ladies have the opportunity to tap into a small market or even more metropolitan cities which is why some travel. Ottawa used to be a small market in this business and many ladies would visit here but things have since changed. Some another ladies like to go on what I call work binges and they will tour another city and go into work mode for a few days or a week, go home and then take that time off. Sometimes this can be a good thing and it's a good way to make a lot of money in a short period of time. Another reason ladies travel could be due to the fact that men want variety. They want that "new girl" so an SP could be viewed as a "new commodity" which could work to their advantage financially when initially visiting and even on subsequent trips you build up a clientele. When I first went to Toronto it took me about 3 months to establish myself there and I did extremely well. So well that I eventually rented a condo there and one here. I ended up living there at one point and then travelled back and forth between here and Ottawa. This lasted for 3 years and then I had enough. I have also worked in Vancouver several times along with U.S. cities such as Philadephia, Boston, Chicago, and Washington D.C. Change can be a good thing and sometimes staying local can become too routine or slow at times so it's a nice change once in a while but there is no way I would do what I just mentioned above these days. The business has changed, my priorities and obligations have changed but it wouldn't stop me from visitng another city here and there. I was fortunate enough to be in the business when it was really profitable and I was young. Living out of a suitcase sounds like it could be exciting but when I left the business for a few years, I did not want to check into another hotel, go to another restaurant or fly on a plane for a long time. I was happy to be at home. It's called travel burnout which happens to a lot of people in many different jobs and careers. It can be a hard life to travel for business all the time and I commend other SPs who do it because I have been through all that. It was fun while it lasted and I've met some great people and had some great experiences.

Happy Birthday Nathalie!!

I'm in my early 30's and have had people tell me I look younger. I still get carded at times! lol.

Sometimes I feel I need a receptionist because at times I'm too busy to answer and I will miss another opportunity to see someone else. There have been a few times where I have had Angela answer for me since we work together. I also ask people to call or text me directly becuse I am not always on Cerb. I f guy calls me and they don't hear back, it is usually because I am busy and too much time has passed ( i.e. over 15 mins) for me to call them back. Or they will call me back. Discretion is key in these situations.

I think I should be the president of this club! LOL. Count me in!

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