Nicolette Vaughn

Yes, me too. If the conversation starts out via texting, I will get tell the person I need to speak to them over the phone. I never give out this info unless I'm talking to them. Most times I will ask if *I* can call them just also to make sure their number is legit. Another thing I thought that might be worth mentioning is sending pictures by text. I did this once and it totally backfired on me. I sent one to a guy who really wanted an appt and was in a hurry. Everything was fine and he was literally in and out in 15 minutes and had booked for a half hour. I knew this when he booked so it wasn't a big deal. About an hour after seeing him, I get a text message saying that it wasn't me in the picture. I responded back "yes, it was me." They kept saying it wasn't me and finally I realized that I was talking to someone else when they started to get really rude.. This went on for a period of 24 hours on an off. I told them to stop texting me and I didn't care if they believed me or not. Finally, the person sending these messages admitted that she was this guy's wife and she wanted to know whether or not I had seen him. That's why she kept saying it wasn't me in the picture. She was trying to get ME to say something else like I had met him in person or elaborate in detail but I never did. I played dumb and told her I don't know who her husband is and that she must be texting the wrong person. She apologized and left me alone. I never heard from him again. Needless to say, I no longer will send out pictures by text.

Okay, so who is the best doctor in Ottawa to do implants? Will keep this in mind when I decide what I want to do. ;)

I was actually thinking the same thing recently. Some guys have said to me that they hate fake boobs and would never see anyone who had them but I think at the end of the day, there are others factors when choosing an SP. I would like to think that an SP's breasts would not dictate the entire encounter. From a personal standpoint, I do have a large natural set and have considered getting implants in the future when gravity starts to defy me.lol. I think I can wait a little while. I would actually like my breasts to be a bit smaller and perkier instead of large and full so I'm trying to work to get back to a 34 C instead of a 38dd.

Yes, I agree! I often nick my legs when shaving and would not feel comfortable using a razor on someone else.

Usually with SPs, expect 24-48 hours unless they are away and then they should have a vacation message stating that they are away. Personally, I'm not crazy about using email anymore and prefer that the person contacts me on cerb or by calling me on the phone or texting because I am never at my computer all the time. To cut costs on my phone, I do not have email forwarded there. I don't put an email address in my ads anymore either. With technology rapidly advancing all the time, I find people want a quick response and with texting, you can get an answer almost immediately.

A lot of people think we are actually sitting by the phone looking pretty and available on a moment's whim. This is just the opposite. In fact, I work from home at another job and have the ability to slip in and out when I need to. I need at least a half hour's notice to get my location which is only minutes away but people need to realize it's not like we're sitting around doing nothing.

Hahaha!! LMAO! Thanks for posting this!

Happy Belated Birthday Jasmin!

Please don't send PMs with one likers like the classic "What's up?" or "Hi". I don't have time to start a dialogue and go back and forth. Please state your intentions from the beginning. Please read our ads from start to finish. Don't PM me and ask what I look like, services or rates. It's all in the ad that I post everyday. Or if you PM an SP for a certain time don't send the message then disappearing and leaving us hanging. That's why I get people to text me or call me directly because there are times when I'm not on this site when I'm at one of my incall locations. Don't send out PMs to several SPs asking for the same time. Many of us know each other and in some cases are good friends. You will be branded as someone who is a time waster and you will never get a serious reply or be blown off and I don't mean in a good way!

Keep em' coming!!!

Yes you are correct! And normally this is what I do. I was just curious to hear about what others thought when an SP tells you she has another appt instead of just saying she's not available. Is ignorance really bliss? lol.

Happy Birthday Cindy!! Have a good one!

Congrats Pete!! Thanks for your contribution on the board! Keep posting!

I am taking a trip down there at the end of August for sure. I will also have to do some sight seeing.

I like it short and to the point.. For example: "Hi Nicki, this is John and was wondering if you are available today or tomorrow for an incall for 12 pm." I normally respond to texts but won't for the following reasons: - You start off in a crude way or "wassup ( known as the wassup guys)" or "hey baby". - You have pulled a no show on me in the past or cancel all the time at the last minute. - You are what's known as a time texting waster asking tons of questions especially explicit ones and nothing ever becomes of it. It's fine to ask questions but you can also read my ad and recos. Usually I can tell after the first text if someone is a time waster or just looking to "get off". - You harass the hell out of me. And then send texts one after the other wondering why I'm not getting back to you. I know of several people on this board who have done this to me and that's why they don't hear back from me. I will ignore you or tell you to stop texting me! If the above texting etiquette doesn't apply to you and you don't hear back from me within a few minutes I'm either sleeping, busy with a client or done for the day. I am not a high volume SP. I don't ask for much but some of the texts people send can be too much at times.

I no longer do outcalls to residences but when I did in the past, I would drive myself and dress discreetly. I would ask the client where they would want me to park.

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I should go to Calgary sometime since a lot of my family is there.

Yes, i can see how one could almost see the SP as a revolving door if she were to say that. My issues is I will book an appt with someone and minutes later someone else will call looking for around the same time. If it's someone I have never met, usually I say I'm busy but if it's 2 good regulars and they know I'm at my location and available, they obviously know what is going on. So a few times I've said I'm not available and other times I said I was going to be tied up until a certain time. I've used the line of saying I had an appt booked and couldn't see the person at that time and while it didn't seem to phase them, I felt weird. I also tend to shy from answering the good old question when a client is making small talk asking if "I have been busy today". I have been put on the spot like that a couple of times. I just wanted to know everyone's opinion since it is part of an SP's job to create an illusion. Thanks for sharing!

Thanks everyone for your comments. The reason I asked is because I had someone say to me one time that the thought of me being with someone else turned them off. They didn't want to have "sloppy seconds". Needless to say, I ended all contact with him the moment after he said that. He made it sound like I was seeing 5-10 people a day when in reality, I can only pace myself to do 2 half hour appts or an encounter with one client whether it's one hour or 2 hours. I found the comments to be very insulting and it caught me off guard.

Gentlemen, How do you feel when you are booking an appt and the SP says she's not available because she has another appt but is free to see you before or afterwards? Does this ruin the fantasy for you? The reason I ask is because even though I am not a high volume provider ( 2 appts max in a day) I am often faced with the challenge of trying to book with clients within a small window of opportunity and it is always around the same time. You guys must be reading each other's minds! lol. Anyhow, most of the time I say I'm not available but other times I have said I have another appt. Sometimes I don't know what to say. I've always been curious if this is a turn off or not. We all know that the ladies are running a business ( and a fun one most of the time!) but I can't help but wondering. Your thoughts would be greatly appreciated! :)

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This is against cerb rules as it is listed in the Rules & FAQ section of this site as is frowned upon by discussing it here. Not sure if you meant starting a group like that on this board but that would get you banned for sure. I would suggest if you are intent on finding an SP is who is "420 friendly" is to call them up and ask them yourself. A lot of ladies do not participate in this sort of activity contrary to what people might believe and then again there are those who do. Don't be surprised if you get hung up on though. Like others said, when doing business, most ladies consider this to be in poor taste. If there are ladies who do this with clients, they may not do it on the first encounter as there is a trust factor involved.

LOL. I will have no choice but to change them soon because I will be a blonde next month. And no blonde jokes please.;)