Nicolette Vaughn

I agree with you Angela.

David Gray - Sail Away

Damaging your brand new iphone by getting it extremely wet because of your so called squirting abilities. And the phone was across the room on the table. lol. You find out can't return it because it's Boxing Day. And for the record, this is a secondhand story that was told to me and not based on my own personal experiences. lol. I wish!!

I think I can honestly say that as my years as an escort, there is no prerequisite to have model looks or have a model thin body. It is how attactive you are to customers. When I say attractive, it is all in how you present yourself to them. If an SP answered the door disheveled and in a crappy mood, the tone is instantly set for having a bad encounter. When a woman takes the time ( and it doesn't take long, I can do it in 5 -10 minutes) to change into a nice outfit that is classy yet sexy, some makeup especially to make your eyes stand out as striking and do your hair, the SP personna begins to take shape in those few final moments before the customer comes knocking. I can only compare it to being on stage before the curtain goes up. You have those last final seconds to put yourself in a good mood. The final thing I do when I open the door is smile at the customer and give him a nice kiss and a hug. The mood is then set.. it's like making a sale... you have already won the customer over because you have broken the ice. If they reciprocate (95% of the time they do) they will have long forgotten about whether or not you have model looks. Remember the following quote? "People may forget what you said or what you did but they will never forget how you made them feel." This is my personal philosophy on escorting and apply it to my business on a regular basis. I used to be obsessed wondering what the customer may be thinking about how I look yet I think maturity and confidence within myself and not based entirely on how I look has caused this shift in how I think. Customers will also pick up on how you feel. You are going to attract what you are feeling so in the end it is not all about looks. Confidence is a very attractive quality and if you can feel it, others will take notice. That counts for a hell of a lot more than just model looks if you are attractive enough looks wise along with having confidence within yourself.

Damn it! I can't think of a story! And I always have good stories to tell.lol I think I was too much of a goody two shoes until my early 20's. Let me think about it for a while...

My sentiments exactly. I'm in my early thirties and while I still have a youthful look, I have a lot of experience under that garter belt. So right now I have the best of both worlds. I know guys here who only see those new and young girls and once they hit a certain age, say 25, they won't see them anymore. As a enarly 20 something woman I did not know what the hell I was doing sexually. Now I'm more comfortable in my own skin and I think most men can appreciate that. They reap the benefits!!

Yes, I agree. This has happened to me recently.

Or worse!!! Making a beeline to the bathroom and puking in the toilet bowl the minute a "stinks like ass client who refuses to take a shower" leaves the hotel room. I have a low tolerance for this and will refuse service than giving bad service. You buy a new leather handbag and your cat who is very old end ups peeing on it. You answer the phone and it's a telemarketer. Then they ask if they can speak to your parents because they think you are a kid. Your 13 year old neice is over for the weekend. She's got all her friends calling your house. The phone rings, you pick it up and it's her friend. The friend thinks she is talking to your niece and goes into a whole teen conversation about how this guy is a blah, blah, blah. A minute into the discussion you remind her that it's her aunt. I don't know why I get mistaken for having such a young voice. I've listened to a few conversations this way.lol.

Agreed. I cannot stand those who use religion to impose their so called values on others while others exploit their faith to the fullest. They preach their so called beliefs to others and turn out to be hyprocrites when they are found embezelling money, sex offenders, alcoholics and drugs addicts who are supposed to follow a certain moral code of conduct. I find these people who do these things are the worst of the bunch and you hear about them all the time. I've known a few bible thumpers in my time who were spreading their message around and were doing the exact opposite of what "God" expected them to do. Go figure.

We as sex workers all know "Chester Browns" and I think he has provided some much needed insight with his memoir and bringing it into the media. Society only sees one side of prostitution and the more it is hidden, the more taboo and immoral it will be. Surprisingly for Globe and Mail readers, the comments have been quite enlightening epsecially with their views towards prostitution. Thanks for posting this.

Have you seen this bus driving in your area? LOL. Give credit to Harold Camping who owns many Christian radio stations all over the U.S. while a few of them can be heard in Canada. The end is near!!! Bawhahahahaha!!!!!

When I saw you the social last week, you reminded me of Ashley Tisdale.

Beauty is so subjective and I think attitude and how you present yourself in terms of looking good for a customer and providing great service are key elements to making it in this business as opposed to someone just having model looks and charging a higher rate. As someone who does not have model looks, I consider myself an attractive and pretty woman and so do other people who have met me. I do perfectly fine thank-you very much. :)

The Vampire Sound Inc - The Lion and the Cucumber ( Jackie Brown Soundtrack) This song sounds like Motown on some sort of weird trip if you know what I mean.lol.

Sorry to hear about this Pete. That would definitely suck for other members who contributed to a reco thread along with the ladies losing them. Thanks for your efforts.

I have a regular who eerily looks exactly like a 40 something version of Robert Deniero. I always tell him he looks like him so when he calls now he says "Hi it's Robert Deniero. Can we meet today?" lol. Additional Comments: Yeah I can definitely see that! :)

You've been given orders by the head honcho to fire a lazy ass employee and that person and their spouse decide to go loco on you. Clients always showing up 10 -15 minutes early and you're still getting ready. You decide to do steaks on the barbeque and then realize you're out of propane. You have small kids over in the pool and one of them pees in it.

Well I didn't get stood up today and had a hot time with a cerb member. However, I did get called home for a minor incident but nothing that I couldn't handle.

Part of it was when the East European girls came into Toronto in 2002 -2004 and set the bar by providing almost everything while still playing it safe for the main event. Many SPs were pressured into offering these things in order to compete. From what I know incalls in Ottawa only began to surface 10 years ago. Before that it was unheard of. The term GFE was coined back then with kissing and just the overall intimacy for such an experience. This business has come a long way...

When another SP pops up out of nowhere and decides to use your escorting name with only variations on the spelling and tagline that you've been using for the last year. Be original and use another name and create your own phrase. Doing a rolling stop right in front a cop in your neighborhood while coming home late one night. You pop out the girls and step out of the car in heels just to make sure you didn't get a ticket. You bat your eyelashes and sweetly apologize to the officer while he is staring at your cleavage with a stupid grin on his face and he lets you go. Yes, I can relate! Once had 20 or so people show up 2 minutes before midnight on Friday night when we were about to close at another fast food joint. I was the one who told them to leave. They weren't happy. I went home and got 4 hours sleep because I was one of the people who had to open the store the next day at 6 am. I hated working at these places as a teenager and went on to becoming an assistant manager in a retail store.

Everyone is my witness here. I will not be stood up today!!! Understood? lol. The last Friday the 13th, I thought I had been stood up and the guy wound up in the hospital. Can't you tell I'm superstitious? Hahaha. Nicki thinking positive thoughts for today.

Oh yeah, I forgot to say... will you still be in love with an SP when she doesn't wash her hair, wears no makeup, have you hold her hair as she is puking in the toilet after too many drinks and then says she's not in the mood for sex? LOL. That my friends is true love!

F**K those kooks and the horse they rode in on.

If you've developed a relationship with her the whole time she was SPing, what's another 10 months? If you love her, then trust her. If your insecurities get in the way, you will sabatoge this relationship for good. There could also be some hidden resentment on your part since you've fulfilled your end of the bargin by leaving your wife. Being with someone isn't a contract and it doesn't have a deadline. You've also only known her for 1.5 years. Take your time. Just a word from the wise. ;)

Whatever happened to going to an SP because there are no strings attached and you go home happy? I've had a client tell me he loves me on a second appt. I had to correct him and tell him it was lust. I've had other tell me that I'M in love with them after a second time meeting. Come on! A legend in their own mind perhaps? Sorry guys, you cannot feel love for an sp whether it's 2 sessions, 10 sessions or 5 + years just based on sex and some intimacy shared between 2 consenting adults. And then others try to charm you in hopes that they will get free sex. After being an SP for many years, I can see right through the b.s. Many SPs have a personna and that's who clients fall in lust with. Most don't know the real me because like Samantha said a lot of SPs are good at compartmentalizing. This doesn't mean that because we have personnas that we do not like our jobs. It is a bit like being in a theatre show. I'm good at what I do, I like my clients but please don't mistake it for me falling in love. I have my own personal life and whatever that entails and so do my clients who don't say they're in love with me.