Nicolette Vaughn

My question's are- a) What does a SP consider the clock-on or start time for a sleep over? Is there only a certain amount of hours for a sleep over? Some say 12 hours some others do not specify any hours. I will usually start my overnight date around 7 Pm and it will conclude closer to 9 am. 12 hours is usually a good figure to use since you can g to dinner, then have dessert, sleep, wake up have dessert again and then breakfast. b) Does the sleep over rates that are quoted in their web site or ad's all inclusive? Yes, once I quote a rate, it's all inclusive. Some guys just think they can count up say 3-4 hours for an actual imtimate appt and then expect to just pay me $750-$1000 for me to stay the night. It doesn't work that way. You are also paying for my time and other obligations I am sacrificing to go on an overnighter. c) Is it of paramount importance that the SP, has met the gent previously? Yes, this is very important. I once made the mistake of seeing a guy from out of town for an overnighter and had only met him once previously. While he seemed like a good client for a 2 hour appt, he wasn't on an overnighter. We would be having some play time and it was starting to get late. He already had 3 msogs and just as we were about to drift off to sleep, he would wake up and start grabbing me. Let's just say I did not sleep that night and this continued until 5 am in the morning. It didn't matter if he could perform or not. I had to make deals with myself to not look at the clock. I had maybe one hour of sleep the entire time and as I was going to take a shower, he wanted to do it again!! I said that I had to leave yet he wanted to have breakfast to which I declined. By this time, I was extremely agitated and wanted to get out of there. You don't want to see me when I've had no sleep.lol. Sleeping is a prerequisite which is why my overnight rates are lower. d) Those ladies that do not advertise for a sleep over, ever consider this option? I don't advertise it but will have an overnighter with a regular and someone that I am compatible with. Doing a 1 hour appt with someone and then doing a 12 hour appt with that same person can be completely different. There may be enough compatibility and plesantries but might not be enough for an overnight stay. Another thing that is important to good sleepover date is conversation. It can't just one sided. Sometimes with clients I will repeat with here and there, I feel I do all the talking and then I will not say anything which will force them to say something to avoid awkward silence.lol. Not that I can't shut up on an appt but there has to be a dialogue at some point and not all sex related. This doesn't matter too much for a 1 hour or half hour appt but more than that, it does matter. And then I have regulars who I have a good time with all around and the hours go by too fast. For a good regular, I will charge $1500 for an overnighter. If it's someone else, a little bit higher.. around the $1800 -$2000 mark. I will not do one with someone I don't know.

This can be fought. You will definitely be in my thoughts. Stay strong! Nicki xoxo

I think everyone has made their point and it appears from reading this entire thread that every SP has their way of screening a client. For me, a lot of it is relying on my intuition and it has always served me well. There is no right or wrong way when it comes to asking for info from clients and ladies that ask for more info should not be critisized especially if a person will not be going to see them anyways. There are plenty of providers out there who will not ask for a full name or work number.

Most people call me Nicki because I've made it a point for others to call me that by using it in my ads.However, everyone always manages to spell it differently.lol. It came about one day when I was looking for something clever to use in my ads and the name Naughty* Nicki came to the surface. Nicolette sounds classy but a bit too long. I've also been called Nicole several times. My last escorting name was shortened to 2 letters when someone once wrote a review and it stuck. Maybe y'all should start calling me NV.lol.

\ OMG!! Good one! lol.

Good Morning Cerbites, I will be downtown today until 3 pm if you wish to buy your ticket for the cerb party. I can meet you at a pre arranged public location that is convenient for both of us. Please call or text me directly as I do not have access to cerb when I am downtown. I also wanted to mention that we will be offering discrete door prizes for the guys who attend the party as a way of saying thank-you! Ladies, admission is free for you and we will be giving away some fabulous door prizes and gift bags for you as well. It's a great way to network and meet some new and familiar faces. If you're interested in attending, see the post above or PM me. I hope to see you there! Nicki

I've had a small percentage of these types of phonecalls and told them it's not my problem and that they will need to figure out why their husband or boyfriend is cheating on them. I also told them that at least when they are seeing escorts that it's not an emotional affair which would hurt much more. I think they expect us to be scared by these ranting and raving phonecalls but many calmed down and were surprised by my perspective on things. No one has ever showed up and if they did, I would not take it lightly.

I'm not going to get into why should an SP should ask for full name etc or not since everyone has their own comfort levels. I work with another lady and I feel safer. However, this doesn't mean I am going to stop screening. We all have our own methods and just because someone doesn't like a certain method of screening doesn't mean it's right or wrong. There are ladies out there who won't ask for a full name but I'm sure they have a screening process. We do what we do to have to protect outselves just like we protect our home or lock our cars. I had an unnerving experience happen to me the other morning ( not SP related btw) where I would have been in a position to have to defend myself and I scared the hell out of the guy so bad ( I was in such a state of shock myself to the point where rage set in preparing to defend myself) that he was actually apologizing to me while he was running away and I was the one chasing him! I was simply protecting myself.

Good Evening Everyone, I just wanted to give you an update and let you know the guest list is just over the half mark and tickets are going fast. If you wish to attend, please PM me to reserve a spot. Ladies, I encourage you to attend as admission is free for you along with drinks and we will be having some nice door prizes and treats. If you are certain that you will be able to attend, I will kindly ask that payment for tickets be made by April 22 as there is a significant deposit to be put down in advance to secure this venue. The cost of a ticket for this event is $30. Gentlemen, there are 2 ways to pay for a ticket: Email Money Transfer: [email protected] In person: at my Orleans location ( payment can be made to myself or Angela) or my downtown location ( Bronson/Laurier every Wed & Fri). Please PM me to make arrangements to buy a ticket. I look forward to seeing you there! :) Nicolette

I think I need to look at Fredericks of Hollywood for dressing up costumes.lol.

Imkrissy and Apex, I have added both of your names to the guest list and Pmed you both. Hope to see you there! :) Nicki

As long as you don't block your number when trying to book with me, your name could be Bugs Bunny and I wouldn't care. The only time I require it is if a client were to ask me to go to their hotel. Then i would have to verify as I will not leave my house to go on a bogus call.

You can tell that commercial is old. The dude is wearing overalls! LMAO!! Now I feel like calling someone and leaving that on their voicemail like the old days. LOL.

No I am not a Royal watcher and don't really have an interest in the Prince and his fiancee. I was too young to watch Prince Charles' and Lady Diana's wedding and will most likely pale in comparison to the 1981 nuptials. I did meet the Princess of Wales on a Royal Tour to Canada when I was a Girl Guide and was lucky enough to get a picture with her. Such a nice woman..

I don't mind texts but the one liner like "Hey wassup?", "hi" or "how much for just a bj?", I won't respond to. If someone is going to send a text, get to the point. Your first name, an appt and for what time. I do not have time for texting dialogs or phone conversations that drag on forever only to find out that they're not interested in booking an appt. I am not a chat service.

Thanks for bumping up the thread Angela. :) Ladies, we are looking to meet some new SP faces and familiar ones at this social so don't be shy. We are a nice crowd to be around. :) I thought I would also mention that there will also be some lovely gift bags for you donated by myself and several door prizes if you choose to attend this social. Ladies and gents, please PM me if you're interested in attending. The venue can accommodate up to 60 people and the guest list is already half full. Please see the post above on how to buy a ticket. I would like to make this one of the best socials we have ever had and I'm looking forward to meeting everyone! Nicolette

Most of the time it's stockings with lingerie ( I always wear lingere anyways) or an outfit they have seen in my pictures like the outift in my avatar above. No one has ever asked me to wear any costumes like nurse or french maid. Not really my things anyways and I don't have any of those. Most will ask for stockings, dress and heels. I have no problems with that.

The majority of guys here are nice but many of them are lurkers so who knows who they are and what they're like...

That is horrible Vanessa. The cruel and bitchy part of me would have smoothly chimed in on the conversation nearby and I would have said right in front of his buddy "Yeah I fucked him but it was nothing to write home about." Have fun with your left hand. Ciao." or something related to the size of his member. That would have brought him to his knees right there. You did the right thing by ignoring him and obviously putting him on your Do not see list but the feistiness in me would have come back with something real clever and demeaning towards him. If people want to insult someone then expect it back tenfold baby. Locker room talk is expected among guys and a natural part of the ego but not in front of someone they've been in bed with or in earshot distance. He could have very well said it as soon as you left the restaurant but perhaps this is a blessing in diguise that he said it in front of you because now you know the real side of him and no longer have to pretend that you're pleasing him on an appt if he is that much of a jerk. Sorry, I don't want to paint all males with the same brush but some ( like in this case) are just so godamn stupid and childish. He obviously doesn't know the meaning of discretion and doesn't seem like he wants to know. I hope he's a member here and can read this because you're a idiot!! lol.

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I have 2 cats that are 14 years old, are in good health and came from the cat I had when I was younger. Their mother is 19 and still alive! One of them has 9 lives from jumping under the hood of my neighbor's car and riding to work with him unscathed. The guy heard meowing and he looked under the hood and my cat was sitting right there. This happened after he was hit by a car and in critical condition when he ran out of the house one night. The third cat I have is close to 3 years old and I found him while I was out walking one morning. It started to rain and I heard a meow and a little kitten ran out of the bushes towards me. Being a sucker for cats and having grown up with so many of them over the years and volunteering in shelters when i was younger, I took him home. I considered taking him to the Humane Society but as days passed, I couldn't bring myself to do it knowing that it wasn't the greatest place for them due to the poor conditions there. I did look in the area for signs and online to see if anyone was missing a kitten but to no avail. I don't know if he was abandoned by his mother or if someone dumped him in the middle of nowhere. So i kept him and he has a very good home.

I am happy to announce that we have secured a venue located in the market which is a very relaxed, upscale environment. We have our own private room including our own washrooms. This venue is within walking distance of the Courtyard by Marriot Hotel. Ticket sales are now in full swing at $30 a ticket per gent which will cover the costs of ladies' drinks and hor d'oeuvres. Ladies, admission is free with your rvsp. Gents, there are 3 ways to buy tickets: 1. E-mail money transfer to [email protected] 2. In person at my east end location in Orleans (to either myself or Angela) 3. In person at my downtown location in the Bronson & Laurier area. Please pm me in advance to make arrangements for payment. Please note that there will be a dress code in effect. Business-casual (no jeans please). Ladies, please dress tastefully as this is an upscale location. Ladies, if you are interested in attending, please contact me or Angela to secure your spot. Drinks for the ladies will be provided through ticket sales and the gents' generosity. We will also be having some draws for door prizes. We are looking forward to making this the best CERB social ever!!! Get your tickets now, as there will be a cut off of 50 people for this event.

Yes, I deal with this all the time. Sigh... If you want to really get a hold of me.. Call or text or you won't get a response until much later when it's too late. I don't have access to cerb at my locations. Another thing that is frustrating when the same guys email or PM me 2 or 3 times a week wondering what my availability is and never books. Always promising they will book. Then I find out they are emailing several different ladies at once. I just stop answering because these guys are viewed as a waste of time and don't seem serious in booking with anyone.

Yes, I do talk dirty and consider myself a natural at it. I've been told I have a very potty mouth. I figure it's from my experience working for a 1-900 call centre when I was younger. ;)

I've watched this thread progress and just wanted to say consider yourselves in the shoes of an SP... we are providing a service often combined with paid advertising and word of mouth. They are both imperative to being a successful SP. If a lady doesn't have a lot of recos, many members might think there is something wrong with her. Something else to consider would be from the point of a view of a member here. If no one is going to write reviews, how are you going to choose the next SP you see? I know for certain that those who are members of this community or a review board will most likely do their homework and read these recos/reviews before calling an SP. You all benefit from sharing. Writing recos is a give and take relationship amongst the guys here. I know it is on other sites and they make it well known for better or for worse.lol. Recos are nice to have from a personal standpoint to know that we are appreciated and secondly from a business perspective to make ourselves credible on this site. Yes, this site is all about positive comments and for some hobbyists, they may not want to write a rosy description about their time together and prefer to write a fair and balanced "review". And since you cannot do that here, that may be one of the reasons for not writing one. Speaking from personal experience, I don't have a lot of recos here as others but I have more than one or two. Having said that, I have often wondered why I don't have more recos and can certainly relate to Tiffany and Busty Vanessa's comments as well. Admittedly a guy feeling ashamed to let others know he had been with a larger lady had crossed my mind and felt this might be the case but I can't be sure. Something else that I have noticed is that I see a lot of lurkers on this site who have 4 posts or less and are not able to write a reco. I do have a lot of repeat business from cerb so I am not complaining and even though recos are nice, the important thing is that these gentlemen have come back to see me again.