Nicolette Vaughn

Next time vote Liberal.lol.

I'm someone who rarely drinks so I don't offer alcohol to my clients at my incall locations but if it is offered to me in the evening, I might have a glass and drink half of it and I also make sure they are opening the bottle in front of me. Other times I have simply declined and I never felt obligated to drink it if I didn't want to. I have noticed that alcohol puts me in a downer /sleepy mood and find it's not good if I have to be in a position of stamina.

McDonald's breakfast grease will clear up a hangover from what I've been told. In my own experience after a very rare night of drinking endless glasses of wine in Chicago, a steak dinner the next day worked wonders. Hangovers are not worth it and haven't gotten smashed in 8 years.lol. When I sip a glass of Chardonnay now, it still makes me gag.

No parent should ever give their child an ultimatum. Being a parent means your love is unconditional no matter what your child chooses to do in their lifetime whether it is personally or professionally. Sure children may make mistakes but does that really warrant an ultimatum? Basically your mother is dangling money over your head like a carrot. If you feel this is too toxic then perhaps you should take a long break from your mother until cooler heads prevail. If she is stubborn and doesn't see you for who you are as a person and love you like she should then it's not worth it. Yes, it's sad but parents are human beings too and they make mistakes. They are not always right contrary to what they want you to believe. Eventually you may have to accept her and the situation the way it is and move on with your life. You also have to realize that once she is dead and gone, there is no going back even if the relationship ended on a sour note. Can you accept this? At some point you have to make your own decisions and stop trying to please your parents. You are an adult. Your mother has a certain image in head of what she wants you to be. I had a mother like that and she always had a rivalry going with her sister and her family for 40 years. My sisters and I were always compared to them. After a while it left a bad taste in my mouth and had minimal contact with her after that for many years. I vowed not to make the same mistakes with my children in the future as she did with my sisters and I. My father is quite the opposite and never got caught up in the drama.lol. He always did what he wanted to do and followed his own path in life through the ups and downs. We have a good relationship as we are very much alike and also because I was his favorite.:)

It is already somewhat difficult as an SP to guard your privacy. Showing your face for advertising in this business, then hooking up with someone who is that high profile and not expect anyone to find out is absurd. Obviously she did not plan ahead and think of future consequences by getting involved with this man and threw caution to the wind whether it was for love, money or both. Imo, I believe she knew what she was getting into so no, I don't feel sorry for her just because of the fact that she was an escort. It's nice to try and support your fellow SP within the business and for sex worker rights but this is not one of those issues. Yes, it was sleazy how the newspapers used the escort angle to sensationalize this story but she was not outted. This whole incident is a two part story with her and her fiance getting involved in this business transaction along with the Conflict of Interest Act and secondly, with her being an escort which was used to vamp up the story so it would be interesting to the public.

This scandal will be used against the Conservative gov't now especially where their views on prostitution are concerned and the fact that one of Harper's "former" advisors was involved with an escort. Critics may view this as a case of guilt by association. I'm sure Harper acted swiftly when realizing this. The relationship between these two was not really a secret. He should have been a bit more discreet in his dealings with this woman.

I find this study very sexist and filled with assumptions. Many women (escorts or not) are postponing marriage and having children until their 30's or 40's and focusing on their career. Now whether you want to call escorting a career or not is one thing but since when are the ages of 26-30 the years of our life that can make or break us? Or ruin it for us to get married? Sure when I was 26, I was more mature than I was at 20 yet still young and had life experience so it was very attractive as an escort but are we washed up after that whether we are escorts or not to seek out a man for marriage? And I certainly wasn't thinking about charging a certain rate because those were the prime years to find a mate. I based it on how often I wanted to work and certain goals that I had financially. Not whether or not it would affect my marital status.

I once saw an old french movie cira 1960's called "Valarie" and the story line was about a woman becoming an escort and shortly afterwards she fell in love with a guy. He eventually found out about her job and it was pretty predicitable but nevertheless an interesting film.

Yes, I orginally put that link in my post.lol.

Have you ever wondered who the old lady was with the scowl on her face in the opening theme song for The Mary Tyler Moore show? Moore threw her hat up in the air at the end of the song and the old lady stopped and frowned at her. I watched a few episodes and thought it was kind of funny that she was caught in the middle of taping a theme song to a sitcom so I had to find out who she was. lol. http://www.jyanet.com/mtm/020514.shtml

In my experience I have noticed these guys looking for "only service" have seemed to gone to the wayside now that the CL section is no longer in existence. Once in a while I do hear from one and I end the phone call quickly.

Ask Away... Questions can completely silly..lol I'll Start... Have you ever wondered as a kid who the phone operator was and what she looked like? The one from the good ol' days (before computer generated voices) who said "Please hang up and try your call again.. this is a recording."

My two favorite stress relievers (running and masturbation) have one thing in common....I can keep going and going and going!

I once read a similar thread on another board one time and a poster said he noticed there was a difference in scents down there between women who were SPs and those who weren't in the business. He the said the ones who weren't SPs had a much stronger natural scent to them while the SPs didn't have it as much. He questioned whether or not it was the multiple times an SP takes a shower in one day. As for myself, I have a bodyspray that I found at Wal-mart that smells like cotton candy. The ones a teenager or someone in that age range would use. Many of my clients really liked it as it wasn't what they were expecting down there...lol... as i never wear perfume since most don't want to smell like it when they leave. Usually they like the smell of my hair. Ironically I once went on a duo in Toronto and the other SP had the same cheap body spray in her bag and when she saw mine, we both laughed. People always stopped and asked her where she got that perfume. Hahaha. I finally passed the cotton candy spray onto another SP that I did a duo with last year. ;)

I would just nod and keep on going. If they were with someone I would not do anything. Most clients I have seen in public were from afar and I was with someone so I just went the other way. I've known a few clients who were single who saw me downtown or in the mall when I was alone and asked me if I was alone and we talked for a few minutes. In these cases, we were literally walking by each other and had already established a longtime regular relationship as client/SP so it was alright. There have also been people who I have come into contact in my regular life and then realized were hobbyists. I have never said or done anything to jeporadize that as I would not want that done to me. It really is a small world. Discretion is always key. Your secret will always be safe with me. ;)

Samantha, you have been PMed. This is one of those incidences where it tops the list in terms of being very scared and fortunately this man survived. I have only been in one other situation where my client and I could have been seriously injured. I think someone needs to start a thread on an SP's most hazardous moments. lol.

Thanks for the nice words Isabella! I went out and celebrated women's day and doing what I do best aside from the obvious.... i went shopping...lol.

When I went on an outcall to a hotel and the guy ended up having a heart attack during our time together.

In my situation, I won't book without a cell phone because my girlfriend and I have been stood up this way before 10 times more than those who do have a cell phone. We do not feel comfortable giving out the exact address unless we know you're in visitor parking where we can look out the window from afar and see that someone has actually pulled up. Buzz codes are different in apartment buildings because if someone pulls a no show they don't know which apartment you're actually in. I would be willing to make an exception if someone booked from their home phone but that is rare so i don't book from payphones or those saying they don't have a cell phone without any other backup number. Calling from a conference/boardroom or main number of an office building without an extension won't fly with me either. My girlfriend once booked a call from a payphone and the guy sounded okay and everything but he was not at her place at the agreed upon time so I went ahead and booked an appt with one of my clients. He knocked on the door while I was with someone and she had to discreetly tell him that he could not come in because he was a half hour late! Apparently he had gotten lost and didn't bother to call. After that we said no more because we do things discreetly and we don't see clients at the same time. It is a matter of discretion and what can happen if there is no number to get a hold of someone. For SPs, it's really a matter of security. If you give out your address and the person doesn't show up, they know where you are and that is an uncomfortable feeling. The relationship between a client/Sp is give and take and if I am going to invite you in my private space then I ask for a number in return.

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If the SP saw the white bumps you're referring to, she would most likely put on a condom for oral instead of rushing you out the door. I always discreetly do a visual inspection first.

Happy Birthday Cheektocheek! Enjoy your day!

I just wanted to clarify my last statement when I said I was a clock watcher. Yes, I am aware of the time but I am not looking at the clock every 5 minutes or telling the client he has x amount of time left. That is extremely rude and no way to run a business. I am guilty of going overtime with clients in the past and I have put a stop to it because I do share a space seperately with another lady and I have to respect her time as well. Usually I leave when her clients arrive. These days I am on a tight schedule and have a very limited amount of time to myself and while I enjoy seeing my clients, I cannot linger for extended periods of time. I've had to stop seeing one client recently because he was a half hour guy and kept trying to push it to 45 mins. I told him that maybe he needed a longer session each time he saw me but he refused. Well, if you don't respect me and my time then I will have to stop seeing you. I also pay for incall space and I have to pay for whatever was agreed upon for the time I have used the place. If a clients purposely goes overtime and not taking hints that the time is up then I am stuck paying for 45 mins instead of a half hour and that is on my dime not the clients. I think it is safe to say that if you and SP run overtime and she is not demanding extra money from you, consider it a form of gratitude or a way of her saying thank-you for being one of her customers and because she enjoys your company. This may only happen once so it's best not to expect it all the time. To pay for one hour and then expect to have a 2 hour session is rude.

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