Nicolette Vaughn

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen of Cerb, Mark your calendars as Thursday May 5 is the next tentative date for the unofficial Cerb Spring Fling Social for those wanting to attend. More info will be posted in the next few weeks regarding ticket sales ( cost and number of tickets we will be selling), venue, etc, etc. Please note that this is not a Cerb sponsered party so please do not bother the Mod about this upcoming event. I, ( Nicolette Vaughn a.k.a Nicki) will be hosting this upcoming social while Angela of Ottawa and Carrie Moon will be assisting me in various duties to make this event happen. To ensure continued success of these socials and to make them even better, I will ask that you PM me in the next few weeks if you are interested in coming to the party. Please remember that tickets will be limited so it's best to secure a spot in advance. This will give me an idea of how many people would like to attend. Thank-you for your consideration and I hope to make this party as good or even better than the last one. I look forward to seeing you on May 5! Sincerely, Nicolette Vaughn

Best of luck Tiffany on your new venture. Will miss seeing you downtown. I know you will be a success! Kisses, Nicki

Last week in April might be good as it is after Easter and before Mother's Day and Cleo's birthday is that week! Yay!

I have a lot of non -full service clients so I will see them on these days but I really don't feel well or have much energy during that time for lots of action. Thankfully, it only lasts 3 days for me. As for birth control. there are many options that actually can make your period worse with painful cramps. A good example of this is the IUD. Having had one before, I had to have it removed because it was so bad.

What I don't like about last minute appts is someone will say that they are just around the corner and can they meet in 5 minutes. Umm, first of all, you only have an idea of where I'm located and second of all I can't be ready in 5 minutes. Some guys must think we are sitting around looking pretty all day. Then they say that 20 minutes is too long for them to wait. Give me a few minutes to look my best and prepare things to ensure you will have the best experience. Most of the time I am at home doing work on another job that is demanding but since I work independently I can get away for a half hour or an hour which is all I need as I am not a high volume provider and I can get to my location within minutes so it's not like i have to travel across town. Another thing is I've had many guys PM me for a date the same day when I explicitly say to call or text me directly. I don't always have time to check PMs or email because most of my business is done over the phone. And one more thing that's been bothering me lately... Please do not call or PM me everyday asking when I am available when my schedule is posted is here. I don't mind last minute appts but don't say you're going to try and get away but you're not sure. An SP does not want to hear this and does not liked to be jerked around. Please only call when you know you have booked time off and you are certain you will be able to get away or have already left work or home. Making promises every single day to SPs and making tentantive appts is not going to gain you any popularity and you look like a timewaster. It gets really annoying.

I am thinking of arranging the next social in early May before Mother's Day and Victoria Day Long weekend. As promised, we will have karaoke with bigger speakers.lol. A big thanks to Carrie Moon for trying to make it happen the last time. :) I am hoping that these socials will be a continued success and have a large number of people attend like the last party.

I actually do things at the last minute because I have other things going on and because I'm low volume, I can be flexible, I have found that the business has changed where everything has become fast paced to the point of people wanting 15 minutes which I DON'T do. I prefer someone to call me directly on the phone the same day as there is a little chance of cancellation with a half hour's notice and i can get to my location very quickly or just stay close to home if an appt doesn't work out. Gone are the days of booking appts in advance. I feel the business has changed and one has to adjust to make things happen. Now if I were in this business full-time and it was my only income, I would do things differently like only offering one or two hour appts like I used to, have the nice website I once had, etc, etc, etc.

We're going to try to have one sometime in late April. Maybe we can get bigger speakers this time for some Carrieoake.lol.

Kashmir - Led Zeppelin

I'm not sure how management and patrons of the selected venue would feel about that. LMAO!!! A nice fantasy though!

These stories always bring a tear to my eye. It is interesting to read stories about how people have overcome such horrific things in their lives. I would do anything for my friends or even strangers if they were in trouble or just to survive. You really don't think about what to do in these sorts of situations until you're in it. Having once helped an elderly man out of a burning car on the 401 definitely opened my eyes to what we are capable of doing for others in a time of crisis.

I just wanted to extend a big thanks to Angela (ticket sales, advertising, winning draws for prizes), Carrie Moon (ticket sales), Catherine Sinclair (for her lovely gift bags for the ladies) as well as Ottanon (picking the venue )and for making this event happen and all their hard work. It was a nice turnout in terms of attendance and was great to meet some new faces as well as familiar ones. It appeared that everyone was in good spirits and enjoyed themselves. So, who would like another social to happen in the spring? Perhaps sometime in May? I am willing to step up and host the party this time. A new venue may be in order this time around. Thanks everyone for your support and participation!

Sarah Harmer - Coffee Stain http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFHwMTkeuVA

If a Song Could Get Me You - Marit Larsen Pack Up- Eliza Dolittle http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SB0BwYivtLk

Google the state that you plan to visit along with the words "escort review board" and you should find a local one. I have traveled extensively in the U.S. as an SP and there was always a regional board which I found to be much more informative than nationwide sites such as TER.

Oprah Winfrey

Cat, I would describe you as curvy, not voluptuous. I once had your exact same stats as we are around the same height and same chest size and always desribed myself as curvy. I would say mature, soft and curvacious would be a few good words to put in your advertising. Your beuaty, grace and class are to be admired.

I think the word whore is a term that has been used excessively in this generation and will probably phase out. Such terms like media whore and attention whore have all been used in recent years. We never heard of this 15 years ago. Think back over 30+ years ago when guys used the word c**t to describe a woman's genitalia. Now everyone calls it pussy. And on another note, if someone wants to call a sex worker a whore then that's like calling a bus driver a bus driver. It's a word that's out there and is not going to go away anytime soon. I know of a lot of SPs who have embraced this word and admittedly I've used the term myself. Now would I want a client calling me this? No, just like he wouldn't want me to call him a trick or a john. It's just a matter of respect as these are all slang words. Go ahead and call someone a prostitute but it just doesn't have the same jive as saying "You're such a f**king whore."

Damn them for not offering to help. I would have come to your rescue.

I always liked this show as the sex industry is very accurately portrayed.

I briefly worked for a 1-900 number at a call center. It was weird. Picture a bunch of cubicles with a number of women from young barely legal girls as in my case to middle aged housewives all with great voices. I would often do school work in between calls and talk with the other women there. And like the person writing the article, I told others that I worked in a call center which was technically the truth. There would be many times where I thought I was going collaspe laughing , girls joking around back and forth while on the phone and then on the other hand many calls were often draining. And of course many that were disturbing to the point where I would have to hang up. The company had certain protocol for what topics you could and couldn't discuss. The money wasn't bad but as you can see I've taken this experience into a new realm of things after gaining the experience of having a seductively potty mouth. It has certainly come in handy!

Happy Birthday Emma. Enjoy yourself!

It can be thrilling to think that you know people here that you deal with in your everyday life or from the past but it's another thing when reality sets in and they actually do know you. A part of me doesn't like to think that I know people on Cerb because I like ot keep my business and personal life seperate. However, I'm sure there are people out there. Unfortunately Ottawa is not a big city where you could use anonymity to your advantage. And speaking of knowing someone on Cerb and then realizing that you know them has happened to me and while it was a surprise, there's really nothing you can do about it. I recently had someone PM me saying they think they know me yet they gave me no clues as to how I know them. I haven't heard back from them. Taking this discussion one step further, I think if you recognize an SP from the past or present, I think you should just leave it at that. It is one thing to book with someone and not realize it was someone you know but it's another thing to recognize someone from their pictures and intentionally meet with them for that purpose. That to me is wierd. I'm not keen on the idea of someone going out of their way to try and meet with me claiming they know me and putting me in awkward position while that person is still free to remain anonymous until if and when they decide to show up. This isn't high school and frankly I'd rather forget about some people from that era.lol. Trickery will get you nowhere. Discretion is a two way street and I would rather not be outted in such a manner. I am positive that many men here wouldn't appreciate an SP making their lives difficult by claiming that they know them from somewhere. I try to be as private as I can possibly be and realize there are risks in this business and attempt to minimize them as best as I can. While I commend other SPs who are 'out' there, I have chosen not to do that for various reasons. And even though we have put ourselves out in the public eye, it doesn't mean that we don't deserve privacy. If you see an SP's pictures and think you know her, it would be in my opinion to keep it to yourself. That's the thrill of this whole business is to keep those secrets, not expose them.

I used to get in trouble when I was younger when I would eat the Betty Crocker icing out of the container. I still do it when I need a spoonful of chocolate fix.

Sounds like the life Elvis Presley lived. I feel full after reading that.lol