Nicolette Vaughn

That and get a throw away phone and keep it seperate from your personal or business phone.

I've had this situation happen to me last spring after coming back to the business and it was a former regular who wanted to see me. He never gave a phone number and that day I ended up with a flat tire off highway 417. I had checked my voicemail and while he left a message I could retrieve a phone number. I felt bad about it and had every intention of meeting him but I never heard back from him. Had he given me a contact number, we could have figured something else out. I always ask for a cell number now and do not book from payphones or blocked calls. When these types of numbers cal me, I put them on ignore. It's in the ad!

Not to stir up anything from the past but I was the SP that was stood up that day. Quite honestly, I did go out of my way that morning and woke up pretty early and even bought a new set of sheets and candles for our 2 hour appt and was quite disappointed when I was left hanging. I did not receive your PM until weeks later but did not to know what of it which is why I did not say anything because I was still upset and was not sure of the sincerity of the message. If you claim you were in hospital and had no way to contact me then I will take your word for it because I believe many people deserve second chances despite their circumstances. Usually when someone stands me up, I don't bother with them anymore but because you've been so forthcoming about your situation here, I am willing to let this go. I don't want to feel any ill will towards anyone nor do I want to dwell on anything negative.

Yay! I'm looking forward to meeting you Soleil!

I believe there are different categories for guys who pull no shows. The first one is the guy gets his thrills by booking the appt with never any intention to follow through. The Second one is the guy who books, pulls a no show without phoning because something came up and doesn't have a care in the world to contact the SP. And lastly the guy who was probably on his way to meet you and the wifey reeled him back home somehow. And usually these guys don't call back most likely in fear that an SP will freak out on them. When i'm booking an appt over the phone, text or email I always tell the guy that if something comes up to contact me to cancel as I don't want to have to call him back since I am a discrete person. This usually works because they don't want an SP calling back wondering where they are if they're not going to be able to visit. I keep track of no shows and I do associate with other local SPs so I take it you get the picture. And usually chronic no shows have done it to other SPs as well.I've had guys pull no shows on me and they eventually end up calling me in the future and I literally had to tell one guy to lose my number because he was begging to see me. I know he never had any intention of booking anyone because at the same time he was texting my friend. He also sounded really creepy too.

Congrats Chanel. I've enjoyed some hot moments with you......Always a pleasure!

Yeah, I know what you mean. Sometimes I turn that show on when I'm cooking or doing laundry just to pass the time. I remember watching that show with my grandmother when I was young.

I will be putting myself to sleep tonight with Dateline: Real Life Mysteries on the TLC channel. Hopefully I won't wake up having nightmares. lol. Goodnight everyone!

Yes, one night I ended up watching 5 hours worth of 48 Hours Mystery. That or a Real Housewives marathon.

I am known as a reputable SP and am rarely reviewed now. I have met a lot of guys through cerb and other places and 90% of them do not review. I don't know why because I have a long list of regulars and figure they just don't want to write them. I'm not bothered by it because I don't think reviews are the be all end all to an escort's success. I don't feel that I'm worth anymore or less because of the number of reviews I have. When I first started escorting I had too many reviews to the point where I felt I was put on a pedestal and that I had to live up to a certain image, was threatened by other women in the business, had guys bothering me online and many questioned the authenticity of those reviews. It was maddening. At times I feel I have this uncanny ability to fly under the radar mostly because of my unassuming demeanor and quiet nature. I don't promote myself as much as I think I should but I also think a lot of clients I see follow cues related to my personal characteristics. At the end of the day, I'm not complaining and feel I don't have to justify anything to anyone where recos/reviews are concerned. Having said all of that, I don't discourage reviews or recommendations and always keep the lines of communication open between potential clients and current clients whether it is updating photo albums, PMs or profile comments.

Happy Birthday Barrhaven Woody and all the best in 2011! Kisses, Nicky

Start smiling more in my pictures. A lot of people think I have too much of a pouty look or that I look like I just lost my best friend.lol. I have chosen to cut a few people who I call "energy wasters" who always seem to suck the life out of me both in my personal life and in this business. And of course... lose 20-30 lbs this time for good!!

I don't see clients at my home and it's something I'm not comfortable with. Instead I share space with another lady and we are both discreet about it. It is also safer because there are times she is there or vice versa and out of sight and if there ever were a problem, at least someone would be there to help. Most guys are cool knowing she is there and some have even asked her to come downstairs during the appt. Hah. Not going to happen. We also have certain protocol for booking appts which is one reason we don't book from payphones. In the past I've had 2 really nice condos (one with a concierge) that I've worked out of in the past and both locations cost in upwards of $1500 a month. At one point I had both locations at the same time in 2 different cities. . Not something a person can justify. However in those days I could do 2-3 one hour appts in a day without blinking an eye. After a while it became a burden when I still had to pay for my own home as well and I wanted to wind down a bit from seeing clients.

Do not be afraid to ask beforehand. Most guys know the drill and take the money out of their pocket before anything starts. Most times I go to sit down and they realize to put the money on the table. Other times I have said "Shall we take care of business before we get comfortable?" There has only been one time a guy actually said no and I told him it's my policy and that he was free to leave. He paid upfront. Even people who will seem genuine and respectable may try to pull the wool over your eyes. I'm not saying not to trust anyone however most SPs are always on guard. Business comes first and then the good part for them.

- Start being wayyy more selfish... as in doing more things for myself. - Chill out and forget about the trivial stuff. I am getting better with this resolution.

Congrats!! I remember being there when my first neice was born. They are fun to spend time with and then you can give them back to their parents afterwards. Haha. I became an aunt 13 times over now while being Godmother to one of my nieces and have taken that role very seriously over the years. Once again my house was trashed during the Christmas holidays when they visited. lol.

IMO, pleasantly plump are better words to use than chubby.

I have seen some hobbyists on other sites use the term bbw once an SP hits 130 lbs. If you're not under that, you're considered fat. I've even had one guy call me a "smaller bbw". What the heck is that? You either are a bbw or you are not a bbw. I'm bordering between a size 8 and 10. So I suppose a "Smaller bbw" starts at a size 4 or 6? lol. This is not Paris or Milan and SPs are not models who are expected to wear a size 0.. It's nice to be fit and in shape but there is no such thing as perfection. We are all made differently. That's the beauty of it.

Happy Birthday Vero! Hope you have a good one! :)

Hahaha!!!! LMAO!!! No need to worry...I still have T&A at 125. ;)

I would consider women who are 200 lbs and over who wear a size 14 plus to be considered a bbw. Some men in this hobby have ridiculous standards and will call an SP a bbw at a weight that is considered healthy for her height. I was once told by a client that i needed to lose weight at 115 lbs on my 5'3" frame and that really made me self conscious. At one point I was trying to maintain my low weight from a crash diet I did ( 50 lbs in 3 months) after trying to ditch baby fat weight and because of the pressure from this business. It didn't work and I gained a hell of a lot of weight back. I was called bbw at 140 and bbw at 160-170. Maybe the latter was justified because I was too big for my frame. I was too big period! Now I am just below 150 lbs but I do not list my weight because I find some guys focus on numbers too much. I use a lot of pictures that are recent to give clients an idea. This is what they will see in person and I've never had a problem. I list myself as voluptuous (okay I am pleasantly plump) because that's what I am and have always had an hourglass figure with a large chest (38 DD currently) and behind while noticing that I can carry my weight well. I'm not crazy about the term bbw but I have a feeling no one will ever call me this again. I am losing it slowly and hope to get back to my weight of 125 lbs before all this craziness started.

Yes, I love watching Christmas movies too! Every year while stuffing the turkey, I watch "It's a Wonderful Life". I love that movie!

Mine is shopping for wrapping paper. Don't ask me why but I actually collect wrapping paper and gift bags. I find the paper/bags represents a certain mood I'm in at the moment so I look for really cool designs or ones ranging from simple to flashy, I will buy it if it catches my eye. I never stop buying them this time of year and have about 30 rolls stashed in my garage from over the years. I especially love the white Christmas tree with blue/silver ornaments along with the same colors for wrapping paper. I am a creative person and would start my own wrapping paper company if I could. lol.

Having been in one of thee arrangements, the mind games and attempted control or posessiveness an SD sometimes wants to have in unbearable. I could tell you countless stories within the span of one year and it was not good. At least this has been my experience. I was a pro walking into that situation and it was definitely an eye opener. It is something I will never get involved with again nor will I offer clients a retainer. These arrangements are more trouble than they are worth and I would prefer to be a "pro" even though it is often portrayed by society as immoral, demeaning to women, etc compared to a sugar baby who is still trading sex for money or material items. No one controls me and the person in the arrangement didn't get to either. Although he sure tried! Sure it was great money and reliable but often times they will slip up and not stick to the arrangement which means you have to a person who is firm or assertive or they will walk all over you. I am my own person and to be a pro is much more fulfilling both personally and on the job. No emotional or mental headaches after the person leaves. No one following you or accusing you of seeing other clients.