Nicolette Vaughn

More tequila for me!!! I was being a good girl that night because I had a multiple hour appt the next morning. I'm glad I had a good time while being able to go home sober. Next time is another story....Haha.

Luvdancers, Personally I don't have a problem with what you were looking for however, I think these sorts of activities are usually built up over time between a client and an SP. I actually like hair pulling and spanking but I won't do it with someone I have just met. Finding an SP who is very kinky during a first time encounter with a client is another story. As long as it is consentual between 2 adults, I don't see any problem regarding your query.

I think the term MILF has been categorized for a woman in her 40's but it can be applied to anyone who has a kid. However, most people will use yummy mummy for a younger woman with a kid.

Offering a GFE service and actually being a GFE are two different things. There are many unsavoury escorts and agents who will advertise this but when you get there, it's a completely different story. To me, being a GFE is not only offering a more personal kind of service by kissing, etc, it is more in the provider's attitude. One can provide these services but if their attitude sucks or they seem distant, then it really isn't a true "girlfriend experience". I have noticed in my years as an SP that it is not entirely about looks or what services are given, it is attitude and personality. If you have a good outlook towards your customers, you will go further in this business.

The term "hooker" really doesn't bother me. A hooker is a hooker is a hooker. That's like calling a bus driver a bus driver. It is what it is. I don't need to fancy things up. Instead I like to keep it real. My SP friends and I all call each other hookers and it is a word that has been embraced. Same thing with the word prostitute. Again, it is what is is. I'll be back shortly to answer a few more questions....as long as they are asked in an approriate manner.

Agencies tend to have a high turnover rate with the ladies so this could one of the reasons why clients don't review. They probably don't want to get anyone's hopes up about a new gem. The girl may be here one day and gone the next or also be new to the business and off the radar so no one reviews her. The client could have also just been looking for a quickie and isn't a member here. I can also attest to the fact that a lot of clients don't review and I have met a lot of cerb guys who haven't reviewed me. I'm not sure why but they have been back to see me so it's not because of a negative experience. I also don't advertise heavily so I'm kind of off the radar whereas in the past, I had a lot of reviews. Some guys just don't review and some just ride the coat tails of other guys reviews to get info, go see the girl and that's the end of it. Or he may just want to keep an SP to himself. Lack of reviews doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing.

A big thanks to Ottanon and Angela for planning and executing this party at a great success rate! It was great putting faces to all those cerb handles and all the ladies and gents were very nice. Everyone was in good spirits. Honestly, I don't get out much due to other obligations that keep me busy non-stop so I am glad I went. The tequila shots were fun. Hehe. For those who attended will know what I'm referring to.lol. And I NEVER do that sort of thing so you know I had a good time! I would be interested in helping plan or co-host the next party for Valentine's Day. I love to plan parties!

Happy Birthday!!!!

No I wouldn't let anyone tell me this. And to those hobbyists who tell ladies this, how about we told you to stop to stop having sex because this business is "immoral"? They would tell us we were crazy! I do not judge hobbyists for why they see escorts because it all revolves around personal circumstances and why they engage in the hobby just as escorts have circumstances for working in this business. That would be like SPs telling clients who are not happy in the bedroom at home to just go home and try to work it out with the wife even though she doesn't want to reciprocate. That's none of my business and this should also apply to an SP's personal life. We all know this business has a shelf life and if someone chooses to do this for an extended period of time and still have clientele, more power to her. You would be surprised how many clients are hypocritical and presumptious almost as if they have to give us a lecture. And my response is "So does your wife know you're banging someone else?" That shuts them up pretty quickly. If you want things to go south with me on an appt, I dare you to ask this question. Your mileage won't go very far and you'll never see me again. For those who know me, know better than to tell me how to live my life and the ones that do don't find themselves in my company for much longer. I have always been a very independent person and am capable of making certain decisions even if comes with consequences. I am well aware of that. Have I sacrificed things for this business? Absolutely! But I made those choices. Some made more carefully than others yet at the end of the day, it was my decision and it will be my decision when I want to "give this all up". It works for me right now while the business hasn't worked in the past and I've done other things. If someone doesn't want to accept me for who I am, that's fine but that means they cannot be with me. If I were handed an ultimatum, then I would have to walk away. If you care about someone, you don't give them an ultimatum. That person will end up resenting the person handing it out. When I 'give this all up', it will be for the right reasons and not because someone told me to. It is a business like no other and yet a business like many others.

I have to say thank-you to the regular who saw me this afternoon. You are aces in my books. We always have a great time together and it keeps getting better.

Regular clients make up for 50% of my business and my income. And when I say regulars, it could be those who see me every week, every 2 weeks or once a month. Then I have other clients that see me a few times a year. They are all important and I try to keep them happy and make the experience interesting every time I see them. It is always nice to be meet with someone you are already familiar with. Yes and I think this works both ways as well. Many clients like variery and often see many other ladies but they always come back. However, I have had experiences where I have been seeing clients for a long time and sometimes things can become mundane or other things happen ( good or bad) and I've decided to stop seeing them. I don't believe in meeting with someone when it becomes a chore or causes me anxiety.It shouldn't be that way so I won't put myself through that as it is also unfair to the client. On rare ocassions, I've been blindsided by a few longtime regulars who have done things that were unacceptable where I ended it immediately and in another case I tried to overlook it but I no longer can and have decided to stop seeing them for good. The financial aspect of it doesn't matter either as my philosophy is I won't put myself in a situation where it will make me upset or uncomfortable for the sake of the almighty dollar. This business can be stressful at times so limiting this sort of thing is always in an SP's best interest.

Only 3000? Lol. Just teasing. Keep posting gf!

Just the simple things in life that people often take for granted. Adversity and the ability to persevere. People who are trail blazers and not followers. People who are follow through and don't just talk about doing something. Children, their innocence and how they view the world through their eyes.

A lot of the male population see escorts. lol. As cliche as it sounds, be yourself. Just enough of your real personality ( without giving too much away of course) and people will view you as being more genuine than having a completely different "working personna".

Any updates on what's going on with the Xmas social? Who's in charge? Has a date been set for this yet. I need to start planning around work and the Christmas holidays. The first week of December sounds good.

I put off doing the garbage until the morning of and then I'm running around like a mad woman when the garbage truck is literally down the street and I'm running out with hefty bags and recycling bins. Another one is I will do the laundry, fold it but never put it away so I end up taking clothes to wear that day out of the basket of clean, folded laundry. Same thing with the diswasher until it's time to load it up again. When I get out of the shower, I get the floor all wet along with the carpet. I will leave cases of bottled water in the trunk of my car forever until the fridge is empty and I need them. I never shovel or snowblow the laneway.. I just drive right over it because I can. I will come home and find a neighbor doing it. Meanwhile when spring is around the corner, i will have layers and layers of ice waiting to melt. The worst is when I have a client coming to visit me. I can be ready with the room and everything in under 15 minutes and am literally straightening my hair as they are getting off the elevator or knocking on the door. I admit I am a procrastinator and find that I do well under pressure because I always feel that I need to be challenged if that makes any sense. It does however get me stressed out so I try to do things a little bit at a time especially if I need to be somewhere at a designated time.

I see what you're saying as I used to do this myself but my market has changed and most of the people I see want immediate gratification with a quick phone call. In some ways I wish I had the time to engage with clients over emails as I have done in the past but I have noticed that the business has changed in some ways particularily in that area in the last few years and have just decided to roll with it. I usually attempt to create the chemistry with a nice kiss at the door and that usually breaks the ice while setting things in motion from there on out.

We hit the sheets and talk dirty later.lol.

I wonder what quotation that monster Russell Williams will soon come up with?

Thank-you for posting that article Roamingguy. You should read some of the comments that were posted below. As the article states, this is not an issue of morality. If you really think about it, it is all relative. If the government decides to keep the industry underground as it has been for many years, there will be people who will continue to exploit women by hooking them on drugs, bringing minors into the business or human trafficking. On the other hand, money will continue to be spent on police agencies, hospitals and the legal system because many of those in the sex industry will require these services at some point because they will have been abused or even murdered by pimps or serial killers like Robert Picton. If prostitution is regulated in some way, it will cut back on what taxpayers will have to pay. It's time for a change and it should therefore be recognized as an industry without looking at it from the sole perspective of morality issues.

Yes, I was thinking it was Gary Ridgeway that said this as well!

About 8 or 9 years ago, I went to a Hallow'een party as a sexy version of Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz with the dress showing lots of cleavage, ( in those days I had to pad the bra a couple of times.lol) white ankle socks, 2 pigtails and those red shoes.

She double books on a regular basis, has an air of flakiness to her and/or just doesn't give a crap about the element of customer service in this business. The fact that she kept you waiting and waiting indicates that she had probably booked appts back-to-back or double booked ( worried that one guy might not be a no show) or some other guy may have showed up late. Meanwhile, you lose out on your appt that you took the time to book. As an SP, booking appts like this one after the other is very stressful because you cannot predict the outcome of schedules, whether or not the Sp is ready and prepared to see you, etc. Seeing client after client is like a mad rush ( I admit I've done it in the past when working for an agency) and can no longer do it. I like to have some time in between in case something happens. However, I don't always have this option but I always tell them when they are booking the appt that I need time to get ready which is about 20 minutes. I don't think it is because you are new to this or are inexperienced. It is also difficult to tell how reputable someone is on a board because you can only see one side of it and you cannot determine what a person's behaviour is going to be like out in the real world. I would say on future visits that you perhaps engage the SP in conversation on the phone to get a vibe as to what she is like. You cannot be certain if an Sp is high volume or not or she may be someone who is in high demand. My advice is to take a chance on someone else and would chalk up this incident to being a fluke. You probably caught her on a day where she is busy as Fridays usually are but it's still no excuse for unprofessional behaviour.

If you're just starting out, I would recommend a small dildo and go from there.

Very good idea Isabella. Christmas will soon be around the corner and I am all for supporting the food banks or giving toys to less fortunate children. I hope this thread will promote the "pay it forward' idea to other ladies and hobbyists here to donate something.