Nicolette Vaughn

Soft Cell - Tainted Love

Zero Seven- Look Up

Speaking from experience in regards to being married, it is very easy to get comfortable in a rleationship/marriage and things become mundance and routine. That spark is gone. Where do you turn? What do you do? marriage counselling may help but if you have no intention of leaving your spouse and/or it's too difficult because you're in too deep or have too much to lose financially, hobbying seems like the perfect escape where you can have the best of both worlds. It's a new, exciting experience in your life where there is a spark in your life again. Who wouldn't want some attention from a sexy female willing to cater to your sexual needs all within certain boundaries of course. I also think imo that a physical affair for an hour two is much less painful than an emotional affair. Having been in that position in the past, an emotional affair is much more hurtful to a woman than a physical one. Like others here, I do not equate sex with love. Look at the business that I'm in. LOL. I really don't think we as human beings are conditioned to be monogamous. However, as someone who doesn't associate the physical with the emotional, I would rather an SO of mine to see an escort than see him go and have a love affair. And I think that's why many men hobby. There is no emotional attachment. To me it is a physical release and while the client may fancy the SP and enjoy her company, 90% of the time it does not reach a more intimate level, just a business interaction. With regards to my opinions about clients being married, I am certainly not one to judge. I sell companionship for a living so that would make me a hypocrite. But I will say this and I find this hard to fathom and that is that many clients have asked me if I've had a boyfriend or husband and the million dollar question they ask is "Does he know and is he okay with it?" First of all, it's no one's business and second of all, I find it very hpocritical that a client would think that considering that their significant other doesn't know their activities but if an service provider's spouse or boyfriend knows what is going on and is okay with her doing her job, suddenly it's a big no no. Sadly clients do judge but do not bother to think of their own activities which have been kept from their spouse. Admittedly, that is when the wheels in my head start to turn and that's when I begin to think about a client's relationship. Then I realize I have to let those thoughts go because I do not know them. I'm sure they are curious about the lives of SPs as well. Personally I do not care to know about whether or not a client is married as I do not wish to discuss my own personal situation because it's no one's business. Period. I sell a fantasy and I think judging a client or vice versa about their relationship status would inevitably destroy that fantasy. This isn't to say the topic of spouses hasn't been brought us. Part of my job is to listen and I have listened many times and if this is part of the process of the client being able to let go, so be it. That is what I am there for - Companionship whether it is a half hour, an hour or five hours. I personally think people should do what they feel is right for them. We don't know everyone here or know them enough to judge them on a personal level. Each and every situation and why a man hobby's is different on a case by case basis. We are here for a good time, not a long time. Let's enjoy it while it lasts.

Dixie Chicks - Tonight the Heatache's on Me http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGawfjhI4p0

Righteous Brothers - Unchained Melody

Robert Plant - Mercy, Mercy Me

Nickelback- Someday http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YzFlUiPvwQ8

Norah Jones - Rosie's Lullaby http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmITW9-56W0

Xscape - My Little Secret

Norah Jones - Tell Yer Mama http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJQjKCzw5s4

Candi Staton - Young Hearts Run Free

Annie Lennox - Walking On Broken Glass

Kelly Price -She Was a Friend of Mine

Snow Patrol - Somewhere a Clock is Ticking http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLg7zXlgNus

Owl City - Fireflies

Yardbirds- For Your Love

Weeds Dexter Two and a Half Men The New Adventures of Old Christine

No offense but I don't find any of those cars appealing at all. Maybe they're just too futuristic looking for me. I'll take a Honda anyday. :)

Damien Rice - The Blower's Daughter

Bobby Womack- Across 110th Street

Suzanne Vega - Caramel

Drivers who stop and talk to one another in their cars in the middle of the road knowing full well someone is behind them while you have to honk to get them to move. Meanwhile, they give you a dirty look for interrupting their conversation. People in the check-out line at the grocery store who are standing in the way of letting you put your stuff on the check-out line.

Grass Roots - Midnight Confessions

I'll take it one further... hosekeeping walking in on you while you're on your knees in a compromising position. Yes, this really did happen!

I have a thing for pilots. lol. One of my former clients was a pilot and once showed up in uniform. Very sexy for some reason.