Nicolette Vaughn

There are 4 features that the old site format had that would be great to add on.. - Making log in of the site much longer. I went to go write an ad and the site had me signed out in under 10 minutes. This was frustrating because if it weren’t for copying/ pasting, one would have to rewrite the ad over again. I had to redo the ad twice with copy and paste as I had to going in my phone to pick out photos to put in the ad. - Making the edit function available to edit longer that 2 hours. The old site had it available for 24 hours. Went back to put my contact number in the ad and couldn’t do it because the edit function was no longer available. - In the profile section for each member, it would be great to add a header block for phone number just as there is one for Twitter and website address for potential clients to see and get a hold of someone quicker instead of them having to go look for it. - Having members being able to see their signature at the bottom. I put my website and phone number in there but don’t see it like I used to.

I read somewhere that saliva has the herpes virus in it and many men sometimes like to use their saliva as lubrication on women. Can someone confirm this ? Not fond of men attempting to do this and stopping them in the process. I have no problem in providing my own lubrication when needed. Also if I see something on someone’s mouth like an existing cold sore or on another body part, it’s a no go and will avoid certain things. However if someone has herpes, it’s always there. Reading about STDs over the years, I always do a visual inspection that is not obvious to the client. Better safe than sorry! However nothing is 100%.

Hello Gentlemen, Looking for an experienced and genuine provider in a safe, private and clean environment? Look no further! I am a very reputable, established and low volume provider who can help you relax and unwind into a world of pure bliss, sensuality and carnal desires. My strong hands will offer the massage you need to erase the stress of everyday life while my soothing touch will cater to your private desires. By nature I am a friendly, charismatic and down to earth lady with a non-judgemental attitude that will allow you to feel at ease from the moment we meet. My physique is one one that caters to gentlemen who prefer more voluptuous, thicker blonde women. With a beautiful, natural 38 DD chest and a proportioned 5’3” ( statuesque 5’8” in heels) hour glass figure with an attractive face and mezmerizing eyes, I embody all the qualities of a natural woman. I seek out mature (30+) respectful, discreet gentlemen looking for an unrushed quality encounter. My location is in the heart of downtown near Bank/Laurier that is very clean and private with shower facilities always available for your convenience. Sensual Massage 100- 30 mins / 130 - 45 mins and 160 -1 hour. -I am available every Tues & Wed 10-5 downtown for new clientele and Mon, Thurs, Friday, Saturday & Sunday in Orleans for clients I have already met. West end appts at Richmond/Woodroffe are available with 24 hours notice and one hour minimum. —Incall only with 45 mins advanced notice to accommodate your request. Rates are FIRM. -Discretion assured and I expect the same in return. Polite, brief intros will always take priority over one line text messages. Explicit messages will be ignored. -Regular phone numbers only. Texting apps, blocked calls and payphones will be ignored. This is for my safety. -If I happen to miss your call or text message after 20 mins please try again. I will not call text back after the 20 min mark for your discretion.

Ray Donovan season 6 just started back up again yesterday.

A contouring palette (makeup). Winter tires for a new vehicle I bought a few months ago.

I don’t do social media..had a brief stint on twitter but I completely agree about having separate phones for Facebook and also when travelling. I have a personal phone and have never visited Lyla or any other adult related sites on that phone. This way if you go travelling and customs wants to look at your phone, it has regular boring sites we tend to visit in our regular life. I’ve got like 300 windows open on that phone and all girlie stuff, YouTube videos, real housewives streaming shows. 😂

Tyrell chips from the U.K. are amazing! They used to sell them at Walmart but not anymore. I believe they are still available at Metro. They are also lower in carbs too. Sweet chilli & red pepper is my favourite. They taste amazing!

I also find there is another issue at hand relating to this subject where things can go in the wrong direction. For example: when a provider offers an excellent service and perhaps even has gone overtime in the session while having an interesting conversation...or has been seeing a regular for a long time and goes out to dinner with him and doesn’t charge him extra for her time because he has been extremely generous with gifts etc. Suddenly it’s expected and if the SP says no at a later date, suddenly the client takes offence and accuses her of being too business like when in reality she is not obligated to go anywhere with him or spend extra time when not being compensated. Or suddenly after being generous with her time to show appreciation for something the client has done for her, now they just want to “pop by” when they feel like it and get pretty aggressive about it. After being told no, they start to get passive aggressive or angry accusing the SP that it’s all about the money. Keep in mind I’m not referring to women blantantly exploiting clients telling them they “ love them” and want to be in a relationship with them while knowing exactly what they were doing. That is with intent and pathological. I’m referring to an SP/client who have a good connection and client takes that and runs with it or SP is too nice and gets taken advantage of or SP relies too heavily on client and starts asking for money. Its safe to say that keep it within the limits. Don’t go outside the boundaries no matter how casual the relationship seems because that’s when people get too comfortable and as they say ( and this is for either side) “You give an inch and they will take a mile”. Then people wonder why they got “taken”. If a provider says no to a client’s advances such as going out to dinner off the clock or offering to bring her chicken soup when she is sick, understand that this is for the client’s own good and maintaining those boundaries. In the end the provider gets blamed for just trying to do her job and how it’s all about the money for her. This is a business and for many how women make a living full time. We are offering a service and many of us enjoy meeting people but we are not looking to date or have a personal relationship outside of offering our services. Just dont go there no no matter how nice she is or how nice a client is. Maintain the connection in a friendly way within the parameters of how you both have met.

I think some things were left out by the OP here. He said he helped her out financially to stop working. Did he expect her to stop working? A lot about this situation is not clear. I think one has to keep in mind that no matter how one may feel about an SP and they are paying to see her, they cannot be upset about the nature and circumstances of the relationship between client and SP. Unless the SP blatantly leads him on and taking things to another level and still expecting some sort of compensation, then that is outside of the regular SP -client relationship. No one can blame an SP for a client having feelings and then getting upset that he has to pay her for her time. It doesn’t work that way. I know feelings can sometimes get ahead of reality but we all have to remember why we are here and how a client has met an SP. Escort ads aren’t dating sites. We are here to provide an experience with no strings attached. Bottom line.. don’t cross into uncharted waters. It can be a rough aftermath. Just enjoy the experience for however long it lasts.

Hydrogen peroxide has to diluted with 1 cup water to be used internally. I remember dealing with this only twice in my life, it does alleviate symptoms almost immediately and it does work. While your may not feel comfortable with using hydrogen peroxide, it doesn’t mean that it is not safe to do so. I have never EVER used feminine douching products or with PH cleansing wipes, baby wipes or any other similar feminine commercial products related and try to avoid antibiotics unless its for bladder infection or strep throat. A study was done on participants who used this for bacterial vaginosis. https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.thealternativedaily.com/should-you-put-hydrogen-peroxide-in-your-vagina/amp/ Anyways I don’t want to steer off topic...

A pair of cute muk luks from Nordstrom’s.

Haha there is nothing like seeing “Rude Asshole” pop up on the screen when with a friend or even when by myself. Then I realize I didn’t block this invidual but should have. I never enable my work phone to blue tooth anymore. Lol.

This happened to me because I was using a VPN from the U.S. I turned off the VPN and was able to see them.

I’m late on this thread but what about private albums?

Haha I retweeted that once on Twitter! 😂😂😂 ”Your pictures aren’t accurate” can often be an easy way out as that is a clear indication that they are putting the onus on you because YOu apparently misrepresented yourself. *Some* men will use that excuse but like others said, some get nervous, spooked or could even be simply a mannerism or something *they* don’t like. It doesn’t mean it’s your fault. Yes, it’s frustrating when this happens but if there is another time someone says that to you, just play the reverse psychology card when they say “ Sorry I can’t go through with this.” Just simply say “Yes that is very good idea. It’s best that you leave.” I had someone show up one time after I had just got a phone call about someone being rushed to hospital seconds after I buzzed them up. They could see something was wrong and that I looked like I was upset. At first he came to the door, looked at me and silence. He said maybe it’s best he go. I told him that was a good idea that he goes. I got a text from him minutes later asking why *I* refused him at the door. So he picked up on my vibe without knowing what was going on, I was in shock telling him it was best to leave and he took it upon himself thinking something was wrong with him and that I rejected him. I knew why he declined because I was in such a frenzy but after I told him what happened, everything came together. He ended up coming back to see me a few times after that. Sometimes its not really about you or its a matter of what they interpret in their head. Some men have this fantasy and what they see in a picture can’t be replicated in real life esp when personality comes into play. The biggest thing that freaks men out is if you appear rushed or anxious or nervous . That is a red flag for them. They will also check out your place just with one look. I’ve had guys tell me some places they went into were dirty dives and walked right back out. Not referring to you or your situation but in general these are some of the things that tip them off. I’ve had guys freak me out and I’ve asked them to leave. One took it really personal and was so incensed that he continued to call me leaving voice messages demanding that I see him. I knew I made the right choice by asking him to leave. If I’m in a bad mood, tired or anxious, I won’t see new clients. It’s those first few seconds that make lasting impressions so I try to be at my best when I meet new people and of course my regulars. its annoying when this happens because we often take it so personal but just remember the men out there who appreciate you for just being yourself. It’s his loss.

I was on Twitter but it was short lived. I wasn’t into social media to begin with even in my personal life but decided to give it a try. I enjoyed it at first but found it to be a big distraction. So I deleted it. I have gotten soooo many things done by not being on there. Maybe I’ll try again one day because my fan club is missing me over there lol. I had the same concerns as you as I didn’t want real life to slip over into my work life so I only made comments, followed people who were in the business. People who weren’t in the business followed me but I never made tweets to them or to people like Trump etc. Just follow other sex workers and don’t follow or tweet regular people if you really want to keep things separate. People are going to judge either way but the only ones over there who make a big fuss about sex workers and criticize us are the rad fems who hate sexworkers.. I shut one of those women down pretty quick and misogynists who are everywhere.

I can’t stand Nextflix. Android boxes are the way to go. I also stream all the latest shows with http://projectfreetv.xyz Trying to find the newest episode of Murphy Brown reboot.

Maybe get a second sim card which is easier to hide than a second cell phone. Many ladies have certain protocol in place to book an appt. They may not accept texting apps. Ive had clients book for the first time with their actual cell number and then switched over to texting app on subsequent visits. However I won’t book new clients from texting apps unless they use their own number first and then switch over. I consider my safety far more important than booking an appointment. Unfortunately texting apps have created a lot of problems for providers whether it’s time wasters booking appts with no intention of showing up, jealous competitors with an axe to grind or pimps booking fake appts. I’ve googled a few numbers from those wanting to book an appt and was another escort! Not booking through texting apps has cut down on a lot of this as well as no shows.

Picked up some Retin A at the pharmacy from a prescription my dermatologist gave me. Vitamin A...the closest thing to the fountain of youth for skin lol.

Both sides have to be careful nowadays. My phone likes to often sync with Apple CarPlay and I’ve had to stop enabling it because if other people are in my car, a text message from a regular could pop up on the screen. When I first got the car a few months ago, the sales rep at the dealership was showing me how to use all the functions in the car and he asked me to sync my phone. No way was I pulling out my workphone so he could see something like “Timewaster Do Not Book”. So instead I pulled out my other iPhone which is strictly for personal use and when I travel.

Welcome back RG! It’s nice to see you here again!

I think this is one of those things that may happen with a provider you get to know and trust. I personally don’t offer this and I will always be a hard no as from a from a health perspective, you can contract parasites this way. If you do happen to find a provider who offers this, you may want to keep it to yourself as this sort of thing is very much on a case by case basis and an SP wouldn’t want to be bombarded with inquiries about this ESP if there is questionable hygiene. And God knows many of us have seen some not so good things related to hygiene while other clients have been very meticulous in their hygiene. I remember I used to have to have reviews written on me or comments that I had this special talent. People would contact me expecting me to do this on command. I’m not a circus act and there really does have to be chemistry for me to do this. I would get requests and they would be expecting me to put on some kind of show. I’m not a porn stair and It doesn’t work that way. I have to feel comfortable. So this topic about rimming would apply as well.

Ray Donovan Season 6 is coming back! Queen of the South is a good one!

I’ve been listening to the same music since the dawn of time during my years as an SP. Diana Krall album “The Girl In the Other Room” and tons of Norah Jones albums. I should update lol but so convenient and already set up on a playlist. Will look at this thread for new suggestions. For my massages, I use spa relaxation on YouTube.

Hello Gentlemen, I have moved my incall location downtown for new clients/ those who find it more accessible to see me there. Many clients I am already acquainted with have expressed to me that they work downtown and it’s easier to see me there. My location is close to Parliament & gov’t buildings and will be available each week Mon-Wed 9 am- 5 pm. I will still see gentlemen I have seen before in Orleans Thurs-Sun. However, I will no longer be hosting new clients in Orleans. I will be downtown just for this Thursday August 16 from 11 am - 6 pm for slow, sensual and GFE encounters. Back again next week Mon-Wed 9 am -5 pm. I am a down-to-earth 5’3” voluptuous, attractive blue eyed blonde with a natural 38 DD chest. My warm demeanour will make you feel very comfortable from the moment we meet. An experience with me will be one that won’t soon be forgotten! I enjoy taking my time meeting kind, respectful 30+ mature friends and approach my time with a gentleman as a unique blueprint where we can lose ourselves in each other. I am a GFE that oozes sensuality. $120 - 30 mins $160 -45 mins $200- 1 hour (Rates are firm) To book: - Please call or text at 613-404-7887 and introduce yourself with a date/time you have in mind. One liner texts as an intro ( “Avail?” “Hi”, “Rates?”) will go unanswered. I prefer to keep text messages to a minimum and appreciate gentlemen who put all this info in the initial text. You must follow up with a phone call to officially book. - REAL NUMBERS ONLY. Texting apps will be ignored as this is for my safety and part of my screening. Blocked numbers/payphones will be ignored as well. Thank you for understanding. I am very discreet and do not call back. I do not use voicemail for this reason. Please try again. Hope to make your acquaintance very soon! Nicolette 613-404-7887