Nicolette Vaughn
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Advice for the ladies
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Emma Alexandra's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Yes, listing the hotel is a big faux pas. i once read a CL ad in Toronto where an SP ( obviously she wasn't a pro or the sharpest tool in the shed for that matter) listed the name of the hotel and the room number! And it wasn't a joke! It seems as though discretion has been thrown out the window these days. -
Your Life's Song
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Jabba's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Agreed!! I love all music! I have too many favorite songs to list but these ones I will always sing. -
Your Life's Song
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Jabba's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Paradise by the Dashboard Light - Meatloaf Breakfast in America - Supertramp Still Rock n' Roll to Me - Billy Joel Rock Me Gently - Andy Kim Sara - Fleetwood Mac I Did it My Way - Frank Sinatra Starry Eyed Surprise- DJ Paul Oakenfold ( I'm always singing this song in my head) Danke Schoen - Wayne Newton Ray of Light- Madonna Radar Love - Golden Earring Funhouse - Pink As you can see, I listen to everything! -
Getting the last word.
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Meg O'Ryan's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Sooooo, did you get my last PM? LOL. -
ISO a few Good girls for Group Party
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Molly Robinson's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
Molly I think you should come down to Ottawa and start doing duos. The ones we did together were hot!!! -
I don't mind facials but I will not offer them the first time I meet someone. Perhaps after several visits with a regular and if there is a certain chemistry that will make me want to offer it. I provide more of a GFE experience with clients but when I get to know someone over time, I am open to more PSE type activities because I do have a kinky side. I find it has to be on my own terms and that's why I won't openly advertise certain things that would make me uncomfortable for the first time. The establishment of trust and communication are key factors for being in mutual agreement to try different things. And I would like to know in advance since being the girly girl that I am, I will need to re-apply my makeup afterwards. LOL. :-P
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Thinking of Going Blonde
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Nicolette Vaughn's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
Not ready just yet. Still enjoying being a brunette for some reason. My hair is back to my natural color which I haven't seen since I was 13 years old. It's so soft and silky now. I plan on going back blonde step by step...just not right now. -
Cautions, Warnings and Nags in Ads
Nicolette Vaughn replied to rickoshadows's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
I always use a pay-as-you -go phone in this business. Yes, it's a big hassle but I have had several clients who worked for the top cell phone companies. Who's to say they couldn't just type in the number and find out all your info when you're on a regular cell plan? Lesson learned. Privacy and security are paramount for SPs and clients. If you're worried about privacy and discretion, my advice is to get a hobbying phone. This way you don't have to worry about SPs calling you when your wife or gf is around. Just shut it off and hide it somewhere after deleting the call history. It is also a benefit for SPs because as you all know, many of us don't answer restricted/blocked calls and sometimes even payphones. -
Chance encounter
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Caitiff's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
There is a guy I only saw once but I see him every morning at a local coffee shop. Except he hasn't seen me because I'm always driving in my car. Another time i saw a regular of mine with his wife parked next to me at the Canadian Tire. I was ready to get out of my car when I saw him but let him drive away first. He never saw me because I have tinted windows. I haven't really run into anyone except for me seeing them from afar. Usually I just go in the other direction. I know many guys are paranoid about their hobbying activities but what bothers me is that most clients think we are going to run up to them and have a conversation in front of their wife or girlfriend. So I ask, why in the hell would I do that? LOL. I have a life too and especially if I'm with someone, I don't want to have to explain. I guess it goes both ways. Usually I don't want to run into anyone and I have often found that many clients don't even notice me if I see them in a public place because half the time I am dressed down with no makeup or in a hat with sunglasses out running my errands. As many clients don't want their hobbying to enter their personal lives, I too don't want to be seen or bothered during my off time.lol. -
Setting the Stage - the little extras
Nicolette Vaughn replied to a topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Uh uh, you reminded me that I should have a CPR kit on hand due to the fact that I was once with someone during an encounter when they had a heart attack. And a fire extinguisher would be good too! LOL. -
Cougar vs MILF
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Meg O'Ryan's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
A MILF can technically be any age so why is it that women who are 40+ are categorized as a "milf"? Not all women in their 40's are mothers and a lot of mothers are not in their 40's. I don't like the term "Cougar" because it sounds as if a woman is a predator. Not all mature women are out looking for men in their 20's. I know when I hit my 40's, I'll stick to someone my own age. I think people should start using the word mature to describe older women because its a simple definitive term and not stereotypical that may not even apply to one's lifestyle choices ( i.e with or without children). -
Setting the Stage - the little extras
Nicolette Vaughn replied to a topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Fresh Sheets Fresh handtowels/bathtowels Candles Music A/C on Clean shower and bathroom Bottled water/soda And I always keep a can of whipped cream and strawberries in the fridge...just in case -
Stuck On An Island
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Kate von Katz's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I love sudoku!!! -
What I don't like is when a client will flat out ask you if you have a boyfriend or husband. IMO, this is the equivalent to being asked how much money I make every year or month as an SP. And of course then there's the million dollar question "Does he know you do this and is he okay with it?". That's a mood killer right there. I can understand if an SP mentions it in passing or if it's related to something else during general conversation but I think over time, the more an SP gets to know you, she will probably release details or her life here and there if she is comfortable with you knowing certain things. Lately, there are guys that I see for quick engagements and this never comes up because we are focused more on the encounter itself and then before you know it, the time is up. There are certain clients I that I have gotten to know that know a few small details of my life but there are others that I've seen several times if not many, many times and I still wouldn't tell them too much because they are too "private" themselves, others are just plain nosy and some guys I've seen were just too creepy for my liking.
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I am not a fan of what is more commonly known as rimming ( giving or receiving) and I am not a fan of anal sex/ anal digits either. I honestly don't think it jives with the GFE experience. When people ask what my restrictions are, the above are no nos during an encounter with me. I've had people try to it in the heat of the moment and then expect me to kiss them. Ever hear of pin worms? Fortunateone is right. There are too many ick factors to it. Not to gross anyone out but if you really think about what goes on in that area given its purpose, why would you want to stick your tongue there? To reiterate what everyone else hs said, ask first. Communication goes a long way!
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My all time favorite bumper sticker that I once had on my old shitbox car read a little something like this: "Stress... the confusion created when your mind overrides your body's basic desire to choke the living crap out of some asshole who desperately deserves it." People always thought it was funny. LOL.:razz:
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To errr is human..
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SP's your Favorite time to work
Nicolette Vaughn replied to E.D. man's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
My favorite time is from 12-3 Pm. I find that after I've had my caffeine, I'm raring to go and not sleepy. -
Annoyances!! (a rant)
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Kate von Katz's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I agree completely. The guys I see are usually the type who want a little action during their lunch hour or on their way home. I do 1 or 2 half hour appts and go home. The "wassup guys" annoy me and once in a while they will text during the day but you're right, the daytime clientele compared to the night time guys are like night and day- literally!