Nicolette Vaughn

Monogamy is like chivalry. It's slowly disappearing.

"If you have to ask how much something costs, you can't afford it." JP Morgan "Choose a job you love and you'll never have to work a day in your life." Confucius "Our greatest glory is not in ever falling but in rising every time we fall." Confucius "All greatest changes are preceded by chaos." Deepak Chopra "Women might be able to fake orgasms but men can fake a whole relationship." Sharon Stone "Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same." Oscar Wilde "Be nice to people on your way up because you will meet them on your way down." Jimmy Durante "I'll sleep when I'm dead." Warren Zevon

OMG!! lmao!

I wish I had known a while back. When i found him I was going to take him to the Humane Society but I just couldn't bring myself to do it since I knew I could give him a good home and he was so darn cute. He's a nice cat but hates being held. I often wonder if he was abandoned by his mother or just lost but he does love the outdoors and often sleeps in the middle of the backyard. My orange tomcat is out tonight for one last stroll. I figure I'd let him have that one before his balls get cut off next week. lol.

Yes I had an SP stalk me once. Well, also a client of mine that she also would see on a regular basis. I was at his place for an appt that was an overnighter and the next morning he woke up and there was a skeleton hanging on his apt door with a can of coke attached to the door. The guy liked to drink coke. He found that very odd but knew right away who it was. Who does that? Just stopping by so blantantly?? When I left, on the windshield of my my Porshe was a little mini skeleton attached to the wiper blade. And how did she know what kind of car I drove? I suppose she wanted to make her presence known. I bet she was upset when she knew I was seeing him more than she was. How's that for competition? LMAO. Mind you, that was years ago but after that he stopped seeing her. Imo, I would just try and figure out who it was and maybe question a few people you know. Obviously it is someone closer to you. Maybe a regular? But they definitely crossed the boundaries by doing this. Just showing up and dropping that off. Try and think of who you mentioned this to and confront them in a diplomatic way instead of being accusatory. They may just be straight up with you and tell you it was them thinking it was a harmless gesture.

That station is garbage and very juvenille as you said. While they are targetting a younger group of people, they are not setting a good example for the youngins'. That's why I always watch the news on t.v. before I go to work and have an ipod to listen to in the car. I don't need to listen to their crap before I'm even awake. I remember listening to this station a few years ago while driving down the 416 on my way to Toronto. One of the DJs called up her old boyfriend while on the air and pretended to be pregnant with his love child. WTF?? They got a kick out of doing this to some poor unsuspecting guy she had gone out with years ago. After listening to all of that, i turned off the radio and drove all the way to Kingston in peace and quiet. If you brought up this topic 10 years ago, I probably would have thought this contest would be a cool idea. Now it's stupid even thinking about it.

I have a horny orange tabby tomcat over here at my house if your cat needs to get laid. LMAO!! He is the one in my avatar on the right. He was also a stray kitten and has an appt next week to be neuteured. It took me a long time to get an appt with the Spay and Neuter Clinic but is less expensive than the vet. My other 2 cats had their surgery there back in 97' without any complications. My cat got out of the house a few weeks ago and there was a huge cat fight that went on for a half hour. I think my cat was fighting off some other male cat so he could court some female.lol. Nothing is worse than the sounds of them fighting. Just be sure your cat doesn't escape if you live in a house. For a quick fix, try some catnip. i know this sounds odd but it does work. I grew up with 50-60 kittens since I was 6 years old and this always seemed to do the trick when a cat was in heat.

Who is going to be in charge of the jello wrestling? I'll be the "Cocktail" or should I say the "Cocktease" waitress. And I will be on shift until 5 pm today.lol. And you'd better tip me well for swaying my big bossom in your face. Haha.

I had a client that died. I found out about it by reading the obituaries one day. His picture was there. I felt sad but I like to think he enjoyed him during our encounter. He used to tell me stories about his time in the Navy. May he R.I.P.

Comfort Inn is approx $60.00 for the day rate and it runs from 9 am -4 pm. I found out about this when i had my house painted since the fumes would have been too much. I just needed a place to relax and it was the front desk clerk that told me I didn't need to pay for the full day after some small chit chat with him. You cannot book this you have to walk in and ask for this because it is not something they advertise. Haven't been there for a long long time. I usually go through hotel.com It is good for SPs who maybe only have one client to see that day or on short notice while not having to break the bank by paying a $100-$250 for a higher end hotel. Ditto for guys wanting to do an outcall. Also, if you don't want the charges to appear on your C.C. just give them the card but then when it's time to check out, pay in cash. The only reason they want your card is because in the event that the room gets damaged, they have access to some form of payment for the damages. The only motel that will probably operate by the hour is one of the dumpy places on Montreal Rd. in Vanier. I've never go to those places so I can't fully answer that. They know what's going on.lol. And they don't care as long you're discreet.

The OP did not explain what the "disagreement" was about therefore making it sketchy to believe completely. There are 3 sides to every story. His, hers and the truth.

I actually heard about an escort in the U.S. who actually owned a newer looking limo and would pick up clients at a certain destination and they'd have a rendezvous with champagne in there while driving around town. I wonder what the legalities would be for that type of thing considering it wouldn't be considered a bawdy house and wouldn't be like making out in a parking lot where a cop could creep up on you since the windows would be tinted. It sounded like an interesting concept. lol.

My favorite restaurants: Wasabi Japanese & Sushi bar on Clarence Foundation on York ( I love the Ahi Tuna Spinach salad) Trattoria Caffe Italia on Preston Luxe Bistro The Keg Whatever happened to Outback Steakhouse? I loved that place!

LOL. That would probably never happen but it would be sweet. I understand other people's circumstances and daily routines. I have one too but it is not so much those who ask where I'm located and then say no because no harm has been done by asking. It is those who complain or expect me to go beyond my schedule or circumstances that really gets to me. Perhaps they think because they already know me that I am willing to go above and beyond. In reality it becomes difficult and not worth my time or where I do not break even on an appt especially since I may only see 2 clients a month because I have another obligations that no longer allows me to see clients on a regular basis. Then it is a problem for sure and usually I will not see these people anymore.

Thank-you but I am aware of a client's reality and was never accusing them of being lazy otherwise I don't think I would have lasted in this business. At the end of the day they should not be dictating where an escort's incall location should be. If a guy is really keen on seeing a certain SP, he will make the trip. If not, there are other escorts in their area. I have catered to many people by being downtown and it worked for a while for both myself and clients and there are times that I would go downtown just not all the time. I did not have a regular incall location for quite a while so was more difficult for me. The biggest issue I had was a few people telling me ( esp people I was already acquainted with) where I should stay or to make exceptions for them. They didn't like a certain hotel because it wasn't to their standard or because they knew someone who worked close to there. Sorry it doesn't work like that. Hotels are not cheap especially the nice ones so I have to plan accordingly. If I had to do it all over again, I would pick one day downtown and one day elsewhere. I was not a high volume escort so this would have probably worked for everyone.

I've had this happen so many times where I would think of client that I haven't seen in months or years and then a few days later I'd hear from them. Pretty wierd. It's like I have ESP or something. I have a few clients I see every couple of months and while they are considered "regulars" because I've seen them so many times before for years, I do not see them on a weekly or monthly basis. I think clients come and go and it is often due to circumstance. A lot of them fall off the radar but I've done the same thing before as well. Life happens...

I often see clients east just outside of downtown and they always seem to have a problem with leaving downtown. Downtown Ottawa is not the center of the universe. Plus where I do see clients, it is accessible off the highway and free parking. Try getting that downtown. I don't like going down there because it is often a pain in the ass and when I did work there, I'd still get the same hassle from guys who weren't familiar with that area or worked/lived elsewhere. So now I try to make it easier on people and I'm still getting the same old answer "No, that is too far away from my work." 10 minutes to get to an incall from outside downtown should not a big deal and if you're going to book with an SP then you have to book that time away from work anyways. And yes Ottawa is not Toronto by any stretch. This is one of the reasons why you no longer see me advertising because this is the issue I am always confronted with. And if you don't like where an SP is located do not ask her to make exceptions to go elsewhere in the city. End of rant.

Most guys refuse to give references because let's face it when they want to see an escort most of the time it is not planned ( sometimes the little head thinks first.lol) and on very short notice and some of them think they don't have to because there will always be someone else who won't ask for it. If a guy is really intent on seeing a particular escort who requires a reference he will get one. Some guys in my experience have been really rude about it demanding to know why such a thing is required. If escorts decided one day that all clients needed a reference there would be a more positive shift in the business. Sadly this business seems to have a lot of men who are the secret agent types and like to play the cloak and dagger game. As long as there are women out there who don't care so much about their safety then this will continue.

You have to keep in mind that this page was probably started by some immature punk who doesn't know the ways of the world and is supporting this group from their mommy and daddy's basement. Not worth getting upset over. This is their ultimate goal and moreover what makes trolls survive on the internet. They are only a small minority in a large cesspool of losers on Facebook.

I think the OP mentioned that it didn't matter if they were SPs or not. I don't know of any bars in Ottawa where SPs hang out to pick up clients. I don't think such a place exists.

Another good place in the market is the Empire Grill on Clarence.

Yes, earlier on when I was new to the business. It was a teacher from my old high school but I never had him for any classes so he didn't know who I was. I did not stay for very long and nothing happened. His place smelled like a chimney and appeared to be heavily intoxicated while watching a ball game. It was just weird. After chatting for a few minutes, I told him I had asmtha. I don't smoke anyways so it tends to have a bad effect on me. I had to get out of there. My sister who was at that same school who was a few years younger than me and looked almost identical to me at that time told me a few days later that a teacher ( "Mr. So and So") was outside having a cigarette and appeared to be checking her out to the point where it was too obvious. His head did a 180 when she walked by him as she was walking into the school. She couldn't figure out why he was doing this and I wasn't about to tell her why. I'm sure he got the shock of his life when he probably thought it was a student from his school. I vamped up my screening procedures after that for a long time. He kept calling me after that for a while and I had to change my number. He originally found my ad in the Ottawa Sun.

Best wishes to you Nana at your new place!

I had one guy see me when I first started in the business and then told me he couldn't go through with it because I reminded him too much of his daughter.lol. I don't know hat age is too old. Sure a woman could be older, in great shape, etc but you also have to take into account the supply and demand. Many guys think women who are 30+ are washed up but on the other hand that could be argued because there are many women here who definitely defy those types of statements. Ageism plays a big role in this business but there will always be a market for different types of women.

I've been thinking a lot about this topic recently and I often wonder has your access to and use of escorts influenced your ideals in how and what attracts you to a woman? With an escort, it is so easy to just find some hot 18 year old and call them up for an hour. By doing so, has this influenced how you feel about women? How easy it is to just pick up what some men refer to as "fresh meat" that fits your fantasy description. Do you find that these fantasy ideals often become skewed when you enter reality whether it is in your relationship in a marriage or someone that you're dating? Do you find that seeing escorts has ruined it for you in your regular life? One good example would be the age factor. After meeting a hot 18 year old, how do you go about carrying on in your marriage and if there is or isn't an attraction and is it a problem when someone you may be interested in isn't in the 18-25 category? Because let's face it.... Men are not going to have long relationships with women who are much younger than they are and older women aren't going to have success in long lasting happiness with younger men either. Is this all we have to look forward to? Just some simple physical attraction to what we consider youthful experience and that all other necessary characteristics of a relationship are to be thrown out the window for what is played up as an instinctual urge? Is there a middle road? Your thoughts?