Nicolette Vaughn

It might be best to find a place where it is accessible by bus transit and decent parking. However, you won't be able to please everyone. While one person may find Gatineau convenient for them, others will flat out not visit you. I had this problem when I had a place downtown in a condo building. The guys who worked downtown would walk or take a cab to see me so it was easy for them but I had a couple of guys from other areas who came to see me and thought it was a nuisance going downtown. They wanted me to acommodate them elsewhere. Sorry it doesn't work like that. I also have this problem even if I'm outside of downtown. Guys from downtown don't want to leave downtown and even guys from west end don't want to take one simple drive down the highway where the location I'm at is so accessible with free parking. If you don't like where an SP is located then don't ask her to go somewhere else because it's not convenient for the client. What happened to the philosophy that if you really wanted to see the lady of your choice, you would go see her where she is located? My point is you're always going to have people who will not like where you're hosting your incalls. Just do what you feel is best for you but also take into account the location ( type of dwelling, privacy,e tc) and how accessible it is with parking. You will have to post what area you will be in on your ad or website so you won't have people wasting your time if they don't like where you are. There is nothing more frustrating than people who book an appt and once they find out where you are located, they say no.

This reminds me of another pet peeve. The "Captain -Save-a-Ho" type which is what I call them. You start seeing a client a few times, maybe more than a few. All of a sudden they start giving SPs lectures as to why they shouldn't be in the business and that they worry about them a lot (right after they have banged their brains out). Whatever...I've gotten rid of a few regulars in the past because of this bulls***. Nobody pulls these stunts with me anymore because they know better. I also don't get into anyone's business. Sure I have people tell me things that are kept in confidence but I don't push for someone's life story and I expect the same from them. if you want to get to know an SP over time, don't ask any personal questions. If she offers this info, that's her decision but don't push it. In many cases should you push for this info ( and the SP knows this), you may end up with answers that you wish you hadn't asked in the first place.

OMG! Some of these answers are making me laugh so hard! Okay, this isn't really a turnoff ( well.. yeah it i but funny as hell) but it completely wrecked the mood. I had one guy hum while he was dining at the Y. At first I was like WTF??? Then he started humming an actual song. I forget the name... it was some 70's song I had heard on Tragic 100 in the past. At first I had to contain myself. I was going to burst out laughing. He kept doing it, and I literally had to take a pillow and almost smother myself because I was laughing so hard!! I had to stop him. From there on out, I excused myself to the washroom telling him I wanted to wash up a little before we proceeded. I turned on the shower and laughed and laughed.. Then I went out and finished the appt. Surprisingly there was no humming for the main event. I was expecting to be serenaded at this point. LMAO!!

Looking at all the posts, the consensus here seems to be that the ARC staff are always lurking around and have caught a few of us in compromising positions to say the least. Maybe not intentionally but asking if you need an apple, water or a chocolate on your pillow at 9 pm at night can get pretty annoying if you're having some sort of sexfest. lol. I'll probably go there on an outcall at some point but i won't be booking there again. I love Indigo hotel! I've been there a couple of times but the only downside is that it's an open concept type hotel. It's like one big square and the front desk is located downstairs smack dab in the middle. So when you go up the elevator they can see which room you're going to except if you walk around the corner. The room I stayed was facing directly towards the front desk on the second floor. It wasn't exactly an ideal situation. Another thing is that the shower is good for other things as well. ;

The elevator access key is turned on beginning at 8 pm every night. Just meet your date near the gift shop by the elevators.

I don't know if it's just me but both times I have been there ( once on an incall and most recently on an outcall) someone tried to open the door. The first time when I booked the room, the housekeeper was doing turndown service and she opened the door and saw me doing something.. well shall we say.. sexual.. Anyways, I yelled at her to get out. She seemed rather embarassed and left. The last time on an outcall, a couple tried to open the door. They had the wrong room. Besides that no one has bothered me nor have I felt unsafe there. I believe it is SP friendly. If you do end up going there, lock the door and put the chain on, with the do not disturb sign. Be careful though.. because I did have the sign on the door and she completely disregarded it which is why I was upset. No one is supposed to just go into your room when the sign is on the door. It's an alright hotel. Rooms are small (boutique type) and modern but the rates are high unless Priceline picks it for you and be prepared to pay a deposit of $300 for room deposit. Parking is a pain in the ass. I don't particuarily like going there...maybe because of all the mishaps and overall price. Something always goes wrong but that's JMO.

Haha! I'd rather have a root canal than listen to them.

There is a similar thread for the guys on this subject so I thought I'd start another for the ladies. Ladies: What are your biggest turnoffs during an appointment with a client? I have a few... -Cigarette breath -Trucker crotch ( Wash your ass please! Otherwise you'll be calling 911 to pick me up off the floor after dying from the stench. Hehe) - If you're not circumsized, please wash under the foreskin. - Don't ask me if you have a big cock. No one will ever believe an SP even if the answer is "Yes". - Don't go for #2 in my bathroom Anyone else?

Yes, my sister had her breasts done through him. The only problem is they are supposed to be a C cup and they look like a B cup. She was originally an A cup. I would advise anyone looking to do this surgery to investigate it a lot and see a few different doctors. After a while, breast implants will need to be replaced. I was once on a U.S tour with another escort and one of her implants had deflated. This can be very dangerous.

Dr. Yves Toupin in Gatineau does great work. A lot of dancers have gone to him for implants. Another good one is Dr. Loyld Van Wyck in Ottawa.

I used to have a place conveniently located downtown (Kent/Somerset )and most clients had no problem going there. Parking was a bit tricker because it was usually only meters around but most of those guys worked downtown and walked a few blocks to my place. Seeing clients in the daytime was great because I would go home around 5 pm. Now, if I tell a client I will be somewhere outside of downtown even if it's easy to get to with free parking, they don't want to do that. It seems as though downtown Ottawa is the center of the universe. lol.

Most hotels will not accept a regular booking with a prepaid credit card. The best combination like Phoebe said is to book through Priceline.com using the prepaid credit card and since the room is paid for, all they will want is a credit card for incidentals. Most of the bigger hotels downtown WILL accept the prepaid credit card or a cash deposit for the incidental charges since the room is paid for. This usually runs you about $50-75 a night. Using a prepaid credit card is close to having some sort of anonymity because there is no credit card bill being sent to you every month. You access your account online by password only. So if you're worried about an SO finding out about your hobbying acitvities, they won't find out this way. I have one of those prepaid cards but if the hotel wants a credit card with the imprint since the prepaid is only electronic I will give in and give them one of my 3 regular cards. I will give you a heads up right now that any hotel in St. Laurent area will not accept prepaid credit cards and they will not accept cash only either. If you want to remain annonymous, book through priceline with a prepaid and go to a bigger hotel downtown. They will not give you grief or runaround like these smaller hotels in different part of town. The one place that did give me a problem about the prepaid card a few years ago was the Holiday Inn on Cooper St. but then they checked with the manager and since the room was already paid for with hotels.com I just used the prepaid for incidental. That hotel was a dump anyways and I decided not to go back there again. The Westin hotel will want a $300 deposit if you don't give them a c.c. Someone here mentioned about the Delta hotel not accepting Ottawa residents? I only stayed there once and there were spiders on the ceiling. I went and told the guy at the front desk and he basically just shrugged it off like it was no big deal. Another dump that needs to be updated.

secret Admirer, Thank-you for your comments. I hope you find answers to your dilemma. I think it will take a lot of reflection and self-analysis on your part to find the answers you're looking for. Nevertheless, you are brave for doing so. 30 is considered the turning point to the 'mature' category in the escort industry. Maybe it's time for me to receive a gold watch.lol. Although my 'skills' today are better than they were when I was younger.

I knew other women who dated older men and there was always some sort of underlying reason as to why why young women do this. If you really think about it, they are looking for something they could be missing. A father figure, wanting to act as if they are older, stability whether it's emotional or financial. Most men will think that it's great that a 20 something is showing interest in them because the man wants to relive his youth all over again and this young woman will help him do that but only for a short period. What happens when the young woman wants to pursue her own life and ambitions and starts to understand what she wants? The older man will be dust in the wind. Ask yourself what is it about young women that attracts you besides their youthful looks and body? Sure they have no baggage but baggage is a part of life and is a part of life experience. What is it about an older woman that scares you? Is it the fact that they're aging physically and this may cause you to stop and think about yourself beginning to age as well? At the end of the day the 18-25 age group will not be there when you want to talk or do something that is of interest to you. They are busy creating their own experiences in life and an older man will stop them from doing that. Sure they may have some fun with you temporarily but in the end it will never work. There are no common characteristics for a relationship to develop to the fullest. I hate to say it but most men feel the way you do yet many are in committed relationships and will seek out that 18-25 year old woman for a brief encounter to fulfill their fantasy but they know better to not go and pursue it any further. And even if they did, it will only be for a short while. This type of "ageism" is also carried out into the escort world. I have seen certain guys frequenting review boards for years now and they are always into that one age group. No one above that age is considered worthwhile to them and when that one escort they were once swooning over hits say age 28, she is considered 'too old' for them. Again they are on their quest for that next hot 18 year old. But that's business and seeing escorts is all about fantasy so age discrimination is a given. I also agree with another poster to try and find out why you are no longer attracted to your friend who is now 30 years old. Is her innocence that she once had now gone? Does her maturity reflect on your own mortality? Is it because you feel you can no longer 'lead the way' in your relationship with her? Many men have that instinct to want to take care of a younger woman and now that she is older she may not need you. Is it because you need to feel needed by someone who will look up to you for your insight and wisdom? Everyone is going to get old including all those ladies who are on this site right now that are in your preferred age group. I was once one of those women and while I have struggled with the fate of 'getting older', it is inevitable. It seems that once you are out of your late 20's, you are considered old in society or getting up there. Lately there has been a considerable amount of ageism going on in society today. Years ago, 40 was considered old for a woman. Now it apears as though a woman is old just after turning 30. That's insane if you really think about it. Your life is just beginning at this age. There are proably many reasons why you have a fixation on this age group. I think you have your own reasons for feeling this way but it is not based on the opposite sex, their youth or their young tight bodies. It all has do with how you feel about yourself and how you are aging.

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I can understand why you are upset about her not complying with your request for certain attire but in reference to her checking into a motel.... I don't think this this necessarily relates to whether or not she is upscale. Being upscale is almost like an illusion. What is upscale? I marketed myself like this for years. It's not necessarily logisitics but more in how you carry yourself. Now what type of motel are we referring to? Montreal Rd type motels ( insert a cockroach here ;) or one that belongs to a chain of respectable hotels? If you're referring to the latter then one has to take into consideration that higher end hotels are expensive and considering the way the economy is right now and how it affects the escorting industry, an SP may have to cut out a few luxuries and get back to the basics provided the service is still exceptional. I recently stayed at a few motels ( not the seedy ones mind you) because I don't meet 2-3 clients a day maybe 1 or 2 clients a week now so there are times where I'm not going to book a higher end hotel in upwards of $150 or more per night. Especially when no appt is ever guaranteed and no shows are rampant. I don't take those chances anymore especially since it's coming out of my pocket to begin with. Just an escort's perspective...end of rambling.

I agree. There are some nice newer houses in the Ogilve Rd area and it's close enough to downtown and have all ammenties close by. Living in the suburbs east or west is a pain in rush hour traffic. Barrhaven or as I like to call Farrhaven seems so far away and the developments keep getting so big that it's like living in a little city inside of Ottawa. You can find yourself driving 3 or more Kms just to get to a nearby store when you're living in one of these sites. Buying a home in the east end is cheaper than kanata or Barrhaven. Just don't buy a Minto Home in any part of the city. Complete nightmare in my past experience. Another good place to consider would be Alymer, Quebec. Minutes to downtown and most people there are English speaking if there is a language barrier. I like it there.

I had a guy visit me once with a really thick newfie accent. He kept saying "Yes, my love." I figured it was a Newfie thing but other than that I don't like being called honey, dear, sweetie, sweetheart, Alexis or Alie. I've met a few guys and they always seem to screw up my name. lol. I don't call clients hun or sweetheart either. Calling people those names is fake imo.

I knew a guy who had a whole collection of them. He never stole them and asked me for a pair. I gave him a pair... but not my favorite ones.lol.

Yes, it happened to me twice in one week! I booked a room for an incall at a downtown hotel and then a few days later realized I was going back to the same room. I confirmed this when I found the cover card with the room number on it in my purse. I've also been to several other rooms I've used for incalls 2 or 3 times at that one particular hotel on the same floor.

Use black paint as an accent wall in contrast with one or two other colors or if you're going to paint all the walls black, use silver metallic paint for the trim. Mirrors are especially nice paired with black walls if the purpose of this room is to give it a nightclub type vibe. Using different metallic accessories such as chrome, silver and crystal to decorate and having the metallic colors and textures in the upholstery and window treatments. I would also suggest using lighting as a focal point (i.e. a a scaled down version of a chandelier that you see in nightclubs nowadays). The furniture should be ultra modern similar to this http://modernlinefurniture.com/custom-seating-creations.html and can be found in many stores that exclusively sell these type of pieces that are similar to those seen in nightclubs and that you could also use in your own home. You don't have to spend a fortune as long as you have an idea of what you want and then find similar items at a lower price. Another tip is not to user black shiny paint since it will show up any inperfection. It is best to use a satin finish for easy scrubbing. If you're worried about painting the walls back to white or a more neutral color then you will have to use 2-3 coats of primer like Kilz Total One that you can get at Home Depot. Either way you're going to have to do the work to achieve this look and then get the walls back to what they were once you plan to move out. If you're looking for a pole, I'd recommend one that can be removed instantly if need be. Do a search on Carmen Electra's Pole Dancing products.

There are a few things you can do...Not sure what your situation is credit wise but you can: 1. Apply online for a secured credit card through capitalone.ca http://capitalone.ca/canada/credit-card/guaranteed-secured-mastercard/?linkid=WWW_Z_Z_UNS02_CNCMPMP_C1_14_T_CNCPSE This card is useful if you need to establish credit or begin to repair it. I used this kind of card years ago while in school when I needed to establish credit because I had none. They also have a few other credit cards depending on your situation. A secured card will require a $200-300 deposit which will also be the limit. This card will be accepted by all hotels. Once you begin to show a pattern of paying the card you can apply to have the limit raised. 2. You can go to Money Mart and get a Titanium prepaid card. It costs about $20.00 and you can load money onto it right away. The money is on the card right away as opposed to some C.C. companies where it may take a few days to receive a payment. The only downside is that there is a $2.00 transaction fee for every time you put money on it. Not a big deal imo. Once you get the card, I would suggest booking your hotels through Priceline.com The reason I suggest doing this is because there are many hotels in Ottawa specifically towards the East end ( Chimo Inn, Comfort Inn, Welcome Inn and others in that surrounding area) will not accept this type of card for a regular booking through their website/walk-in or to use for incidentals/deposits. Not sure why but they probably have been scammed. These hotels don't realize that with a prepaid credit card, a hold can be put on it and the customer cannot take the money off the card once a hold has been placed. With priceline you are getting the hotel at a very deep discount 50-70% off and the hotels are nice. Check http://biddingfortravel.com before you book through priceline for people that have posted their winning bids for hotels. This way you'll have an idea of what to bid and there is also a list of hotels categorized by star rating so you also know which hotels that participate through this this site. You don't get to pick the hotel but you do get to pick the level of hotel you want and the area in the city. Once you get to the hotel especially the bigger ones downtown they will accept the prepaid card for a deposit because the room has already been paid for. Doing it this way is a win-win situation because you're getting the room at an amazing rate and they will accept the card. In a worst case scenario, a hotel will take cash for a deposit. Be sure to find out what each hotel charges for a deposit. Most places is $50-75 a night and other hotels such as Westin will require $300. 3.Apply for a regular credit card with a $500 limit if you're a student and still use Priceline to get the best rates for rooms. Remember you don't want hotel costs eating up your profits from seeing customers. This prepaid card is also good for hobbyists because there are no paper trails such as bills being sent to your mailing address every month and you can set up an account online to view your credit card transactions.

Been there, done that AFTER leaving a local shopping mall only to find out on the radio that there was gun fire exchanged where i had been parked 2-3 minutes after i had left because of a jewelry store robbery inside the mall. I was on my way to see a client and they ended up having a heart attack when I was with them. DAMN!! I've told that story many times of a client almost dropping dead and all joking aside, it was very traumatic for me. Thankfully it was an outcall, he was from the Midwest and divorced. Usually an escort never entertains that thought... only the thought of who the person is and will they be safe. So I guess being a younger client has its advantages but having been with clients that were my age at the time, they had unrealistic expectations and this is where older men have experience. I found that young men (under 25) wanted a porn star fantasy and would give you cues on what to do. At times I had to contain my laughter because I never considered myself Jenna Jameson. Just a nice, young girl to spend time with. Other times I was never at ease. There were also other issues such as finances. They would often haggle with you and when the time was up, they'd want to negotiate another half hour. While older men may attempt all of the above, they have a smoother way of going about and aren't so obvious to the point where it becomes a larger issue or one you don't want to deal with right off the bat. I'm no longer that young, inexperienced girl and I suppose being "older" has its advantages for both escort and client. For some who are young potential clients venturing out to see a woman, they may be SOL. ;)

I won't comment on the article but I would like to contribute though. Who is willing to set this in motion?

From an SP's point of view, I would send her an introductory e-mail giving her a little info about yourself such as your first name, age, height, the kind of encounter you're looking for, etc ( not too much info but enough to break the ice). Then you can follow through with your questions about her looks and restrictions, as then it won't be so blunt or akward as it usually is on the phone. Explain politely what you are looking for so it doesn't come across as too direct. Many SPs get thrown for a loop if you call them and put them on the spot. Many don't want to answer these questions over the phone where restrictions are concerned for various reasons such as LE. When I get the kind of e-mails that someone takes the time to write, I am going to take them more seriously than someone calling and asking off the bat. If you initiate a rapport with her by e-mail and then ask to call to speak with her, you probably won't be as nervous. JMO.