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Nicolette Vaughn

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  1. Listening to the thunderstorm that is hovering over Ottawa right now. Only thing is I have to go take out the garbage but I love thunderstorms and a good downpour! Good thing I'm not wearing white t-shirt! lol
  2. Yes there is an answer and that is applying the law of attraction to your business. We've all been there in those rough moments and what vibe you put out, you are attracting right back to you. I'm not perfect. There are some days where I'd like to take a strip off of someone but feeling that emotion will bring more of it directed at me. Notice how you will get one WOT calling or texting, you get furious and it happens again and again and again in the same day? That my friend is the law of attraction. When you are saying what you DON'T want, that's all the universe hears and will give you more of it. In my ads, I say "Rates are FIRM". Why? Again when you say the word DON'T, that's all the WOTS tend to hear and will circle around you like a bunch of sharks. Stop saying in ads "I don't do this or that as much as you can. Instead of saying "No blocked calls", you say "Blocked calls will be ignored." I only have callers now who are willing to follow my protocol. Notice how I said in the previous sentence, I ONLY instead of "Don't?". So set your intention of what you DO want and focus on that but not efforting on it either even in a good way wanting it to happen. Just expect it. Don't ask or try to think about how it will happen. Just know good clients will come your way. You have to believe that. Stress, worry and anger all cause resistance to what you really want. Imagine your good intentions ( i.e. having good clients) was a rocket being launched out into the universe. You want to have good clients. The universe HAS to provide you with what you want. This is the law of attraction. However because you may still have wots on the brain and you feel a need to be in control of the situation then a WOT calls, followed by your own personal frustration and then there are more wots. This is called resistance. You need to let go and trust the universe. You have to wake up everyday and tell yourself you will be seeing nice clients and they will all follow your protocol. Any fear or worry will cause the rocket to go the other way to Wotville. My business has changed as a result with the above info and I have helped a few other friends of mine in the business with learning about the law of attraction and how to apply it in all areas of their life. I'd love to teach a crash course on this for other ladies because it really has changed a lot of things for me in a positive way. Also gratitude meditation works wonders for me in my business because it allows me to appreciate what I already have instead of focusing on what I don't have. See the difference there? When you appreciate, the universe will give you more. Never insult the universe by not appreciating. You need to buy the book "Ask and it is Given" by Esther and Jerry Hicks. This will change anything and everything about you will react to life's situations whether they are major or minor. I still gets the WOTS here and there but you have to respond favorably to YOURSELF instead of reacting to them. I still have my moments but they are few and far between as opposed to wanting to tell them to literally go eff themselves which I would never do because I'm a professional but that's my inner voice coming out right now. lol. I'm sure many have seen me bitch or be rather upfront on certain threads on this site but then I let it go. I have 68 seconds before it becomes a manifestation in my life. I'm able to get out of a mood quicker than I was before because I know what's coming for me if I don't! Once again, I'm not perfect but I'm aware of the tools needed to be used to change my attitude and I do it. There are the secrets that wealthy millionaires use all the time! Notice how the book "The Secret" had so much hype surrounding it 7 or 8 years ago? Why did people give up on it and claim it didn't work? Because they wanted their manifestations or their wants and needs immediately. They wanted it and kept saying "Where is it?" which is resistance so they never received it. It doesn't work like that. And as for winning the lottery, the words "winning" and "lottery" are a large feat and uphill battle words to being with. They are resistance words because they are based on odds which is something else that also has to do with resistance. Set out the intention like mailing a letter, forget about it and it will come back to you. Trust me! I do it everyday. I have small manifestations happening for me. I tend to manifest good things. I can think about a client I haven't seen in a while, set the intention that they will call, forget about them and a few days later they call! Sometimes I have even managed to do this in a matter of a couple of hours and one time in 15 minutes while I was out the Home Depot. lol. I have a list of regulars I do this with in my mind and do it at the beginning of each week. One time 2 out of the 5 called and the other 3 the following 2 weeks after that. This is not luck. It's the universe responding and giving me the manifestations I requested. I also see triple numbers on license plates, on the internet and everywhere I go up to 20 times a day. This means I'm in alignment with the universe when I see this. It's being in sync. But that's a whole other subject which has to do with spiritual awakening and being conscious. I am appreciative of everything and everyone in my life. :) PM me and we can talk.
  3. Russell Stover sugar free strawberry cream candies.
  4. If it's any consolation, I can't paint if my life depended on it. I have a small room that needs to be painted and have been dragging my heels to get on it and get someone to do it. Other rooms have been done by someone who knew what they were doing. Maybe my fairy Godmother can find me someone who I can pay to do it. Just haven't had time to look through kijiji yet. lol. That and I cannot flip eggs properly. When I want sunny side up, they suddenly become scrambled.
  5. I enjoy meeting with my guests and it shows! I will be available in Orleans on Monday August 17 until 9 pm with 30 minutes advanced notice. Please call or text at the number below. I do not book through PM. Care to know more? Read on... Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be mature 30+. Thank-you
  6. I've had a few people call me and then when I said I was in Orleans, it was a big shock to them because they were in the west end. Its like c'mon! It said Orleans in the title. Lol, I am a patient person even tho sometimes it doesn't sound like that when I post on this site at times. Lol. I am a professional and hold my breath when I get called "Vicki" or even some far out name like "So your name is Cynthia right?" Umm, no that is not my name. Please read the ad and address us by the correct name. At least most guys get that right but for those who dont, take the tome to read for goodness sakes. It comes across as if the person doesn't give a crap about who they're calling. Posted via Mobile Device
  7. I always have a aerosol can of arrid deodorant for clients that I buy at WalMart for under $3 and doesn't have a scent to it. Actually that's what I use for myself. Posted via Mobile Device
  8. I just found an article related to oral and pinworms. Anything that has to do with fecal matter in that region can be spread through the hands and mouth. It may take some time to pass through but pinworms lay their eggs in the anus which is why people get itchy down there. They usually come out at night. Pardon my language but anything from ass to mouth is how this spreads when people get intimate. http://advocatesaz.org/2012/01/03/sti-awareness-intestinal-parasites/ Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: I would think a dental dam would be okay but don't quote me on that. Posted via Mobile Device
  9. Im on Atkins so once again it will be strip steak with asparagus and mushrooms dripping in butter. Posted via Mobile Device
  10. <p>I had no choice but to change my working name that was very well known in the business after being away for a couple of years. While I had let the domain name expire, I came back to find it was now a dating website for married people similar to Ashley Madison. I didn't want people to think I was associates with this site so a name change was in order. I actually like the name Nicki or Nicole better. Suits me more. I prefer people call me Nicki instead of Nicolette. Sounds VERY formal. Great for professional name but Nicki sounds more approachable. While many independent ladies change names from time to time, those who ate less established and constantly changing names and phone numbers will raise red flags. Some may be doing this to get away from someone or they have pulled a boat and switch and landed up on the Cowboy Diary. Rightfully so if they are using fake pictures. Always go with your gut, use tin eye as a resource to check and make sure they aren't some sort of internet modeling picture.
  11. Yes I agree with you. Technology provides instant gratification and people want everything right away. When I first started in the business, people took pleasure in reading ladies websites and even planning dates. Also with adult advertising, mainly BP, everything is in the moment, content in the ad is limited and the ads are moved to top every few minutes. I'm not sure if potential clients scroll down to actually look but if you're not at the top of the list, you're S-O-L. Texting is another one. No one takes the time to have a conversation anymore, there are acronyms for everything and most times I do not even get a "Hello" through text anymore. I blame it on technology. Everything is expected to be instant. While I'm up to date with everything, I'm old fashioned at heart. I like people to call me to book because that feels more 'real'. Rates, service and location" when I have a website listed on my ads, I won't even bother with a response. Especially after I say to read the website first for all info is listed there. I know who the gem clients are when they have taken the time to read everything and know the rates, etc. Those are the keepers. Posted via Mobile Device
  12. I was just speaking to another lady on the phone about this and the same thing happened to her. It doesn't even show anymore. Best thing to do when this happens is pay the $1.00 to make sure it stays there. Posted via Mobile Device
  13. Ok this is going to sound disgusting but pin worms are very easy to get from certain activities from mouth contact in the very low nether regions and then if you kiss the person. These worms lay their eggs in that area and people get very itchy ass at night. I always discourage anything to do with that area esp if kissing is involved. Posted via Mobile Device
  14. I do mostly massage now so definitely the massage oil. I actually use coconut oil because it lasts longer, is easy to wash in the shower and doesn't leave a scent. Other than that, it is good to have an endless supply of sheets, hand towels, face cloths and bath towels. I also buy a big bottle of mouth wash and also the little shot glasses so no one is drinking out of the bottle. Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: Yea the led candles are great to have as well. I had someone almost accidentally knock over a lit candle from the nightstand one time and that really scared me so no more of that! Lol Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: For my music playlist, I just turn the ringer off on the phone and go on YouTube a find down sort of jazzy playlist that is nice and relaxing. Ask me about any Diana Krall song and I can sing it! I've played it sooooo many times. Posted via Mobile Device
  15. Is this a free ad you're using and if you post a second time within the 24 hours, it will go up and appear live in the general listings for a few minutes and then disappear. It will go into what's called "additional city listings". If you move your ad to the top of the listings and it hasn't been 24 hours and you don't see it there anymore, do a search on your name or phone number if you're in the escort or massage category and there you may find it in additional city listings. When that happens to me, I use the pay safe card and pay $1.00 to bump it up and it stays on the general listings. Hope this helps! Posted via Mobile Device
  16. the law of gravity in my presence! I will be available in Orleans on Sunday August 16 from Noon - 7 Pm with 30-45 minutes advanced notice. Please call or text at the number below. I do not book through PM. Care to know more? Read on... Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be mature 30+. Thank-you
  17. A little birdy told me that they read on another site that my comments in this thread are off putting. Actually it's none of my business what people think of me but what I do find amusing is they took time to post about me. I guess I must be very important. lol.
  18. Depot or me? Let me make your errand running that much more interesting that will make you smile on the way home! I will be available in Orleans on Saturday August 8 & Sunday August 9 from 11 am - 9 Pm. Please call or text at the number below. I do not book through PM. Care to know more? Read on... Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be mature 30+. Thank-you
  19. Everyone has a need for human touch and intimacy. Underneath it all and put the mechanics of sex aside, this is what humans crave. This is the one thing a robot cannot provide. How is one able to "connect" with a robot?
  20. Happy Birthday MrNice2! May you have a wonderful day!
  21. Hehehe. No worries luv. I saw that before I had my caffeine fix for the day and then realized it wasn't directed at me. lol.
  22. to discover! I am available today in Chapel Hill, Orleans until 5 p.m. this evening and again from 7 Pm-10 Pm. Please text or call me directly at the number below. Care to know more? Read on... Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (a more statuesque 5'8" in heels) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 30 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me. At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: ( My location only) Rates are firm. $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be mature 30+. Thank-you
  23. Yes this is true. However, I will stay away from this issue because most people don't want to face the reality of this. While everyone has a preference, how many ladies are willing to come out and admit this in an ad? In the past, this would be considered business suicide. In all my time as an escort, I have NEVER seen this until recently or those willingly to publicly state that in prior years. If an independent escort were to state that in an advertisement, wouldn't she fear the backlash? I sure as hell would especially if I was working on my own in my own location. The amount of ads that state this on BP in the last year or so are very high. Are that many women who work independently wish to state this in their ad? I just don't think this is a high percentage based on preference but that's just my opinion. We can agree to disagree. Yes exactly. If I were in a black man's position and saw this, I would move on and find someone that wanted to spend time with me.
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