Nicolette Vaughn

Appreciation and gratitude for everything good in my life.

Hurt- Johnny Cash

Juvederm and a photofacial session at my dermatologist's office.

Vitamin C is a great pickup when you find yourself in an afternoon slump instead of reaching for caffeine. Instant energy!

Hello Gentlemen, I will be offering a nice, relaxing and exciting 4 handed sensual massage with the lovely Jenifer Jade https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=53878 in Orleans Thursday Feb 26 from 11-5 or solo massages with myself from 11 am - 10 Pm. Half hour notice is required please. If you wish for a specific time with the both of us or myself, please call beginning at 9:30 am when I turn my phone on. Please calll or text me directly to book. I do not book through private messages and will only answer inquiries through texting or calling. I can be reached at 613-404-7/8/8/7 A little bit more about myself.... I offer a full body sensual massage with non-scented oils. More along the lines of a deep tissue massage. Not only is it therapeutic but very relaxing. As soft music plays to create the perfect mood, feel my strong but smooth hands work out all the aches while my sensual nature will take you to the tenth degree of excitement! I am very skilled in all respects. You will feel the weight of the world leave upon our initial greetings while my friendly and seductive charm will immediately intrigue you! I am an attractive, 5'3" voluptuous blonde ( or a statuesque 5'8" in heels) with curves proportioned to my figure and my all natural 38DD chest. I am very feminine with all natural pretty looks and a great attitude. I'm looking to meet mature (30+ only) respectful gentlemen who enjoys spending time with a lady who offers a quality experience that will indulge all of your senses. As a woman in my thirties, I acquire the maturity and life experience to know what you desire during our time together while still retaining a youthful presence. I am a non smoker, I do not drink, etc. I'm located in Orleans at a private and clean, smoke free and pet free location. Shower facilities are always available with fresh towels, soap and mouthwash. Good hygiene will always result in a better encounter with me. I am extremely discrete and expect the same at all times. I offer 30, 45 and 1 hour sessions. My rates are firm. Always expect to receive the time you book for in a session and my complete attention focused on you. I require 30-45 minutes notice as long as I can entertain your request. I am primarily available in the daytime and early evening until 8 Pm or otherwise indicated. Please visit my website listed below for rates and further information. I look forward to hearing from you! Nicki

There is an over supply of women and not enough demand right now.

No worries! I understand about not wanting it to feel like a transaction. However, I can tell when someone purposely says this to try and get what they want as opposed upon greeting, the guest doesn't want to feel like a walking wallet or being abrupt about it. Some people especially if they've read my website place it on the table. If they haven't I will ask as a friendly reminder to get business out of the way first. I remember when I first started doing this, the client forgot his wallet in the car, I suggested he go get so then we can relax. I did not want to be on the end of " let me go grab my wallet and be right back" after the sesion ended and then they drive away. I make sure when I do ask it's not awkward but I can't help if they feel like that especially if it's their first time. Then I just show them a good time. ;) Posted via Mobile Device

I agree with both and lately that seems to be the very common theme on both. The first point you made seems to be asked sooooo casually now like it's no big deal. To expect that tells me they gotten it somewhere before and now there is an expectation across the board that it is available. No, it's not! The second point about the address, when they ask for the address, not the intersection I tell them I'm not a walk in studio ( I do more massage these days) and thinking their English isn't their first language, I tell them it's a private location abs they have to call and book. I also verify the number to make sure it's not a google or app number. Then they ask for the postal code insisting on getting the address without making an appt, so I give them the address of the park a couple of blocks away. Lol I'm sure when they go to google it, they will be surprised! Lmao! Posted via Mobile Device

Making the decision to do something else in the not too distant future. I have many talents and the knowledge to branch out onto another path in the future. Very exciting and fulfilling prospects.

is some refreshing excitement in your life! Allow me to help you with that! I am available this evening until 10 pm in Orleans. Please call or text at the number listed below. Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (but mostly 5'7-5'8" in stature because I always wear heels with my nice outfits) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 35 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me & You Host - I can visit with you at your place] ( Tributes are non-negotiable) At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour "You Host" Tributes: I can come to visit you. I can entertain requests for companionship. at hotels only with proper verification and a minimum of one hour with 2 hours advanced notice. $250/hr ( Orleans to Kanata) Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. 613-404-7*8*8*7*. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be mature!

Congrats lovely lady! I always enjoy reading your posts!

Finished a very interesting book today.

A couple of books on my favorite subject. :)

that I will be available till 10 Pm this evening in Orleans which is rare! Calling or texting is the quickest way to reach me. I do not book through private messages here on Lyla. Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (but mostly 5'7-5'8" in stature because I always wear heels with my nice outfits) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 35 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me & You Host - I can visit with you at your place] ( Tributes are non-negotiable) At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour "You Host" Tributes: I can come to visit you. I can entertain requests for companionship. at hotels only with proper verification and a minimum of one hour with 2 hours advanced notice. $250/hr ( Orleans to Kanata) Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. 613-404-7*8*8*7*. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be mature!

I have a rare opportunity to be downtown this Thurs Feb 19 from 11 am-5 Pm at Bronson/Laurier. The best way to contact me is to call or text directly. I do NOT prebook appts and do NOT book through private messages here on Lyla. I am available to answer all questions by phone or text. If you wish to for a specific date and time, I turn my phone on everyday at 9 am. By calling me early in the morning to book ahead for the time of your choice will guarantee your chances of meeting me. I prefer not to book days in advance due to cancellations. Same day notice works better for me. I am available to meet with 45 minutes advanced notice provided I can entertain your request. Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (but mostly 5'7-5'8" in stature because I always wear heels with my nice outfits) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 35 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me & You Host - I can visit with you at your place] ( Tributes are non-negotiable) At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour "You Host" Tributes: I can come to visit you. I can entertain requests for companionship. at hotels only with proper verification and a minimum of one hour with 2 hours advanced notice. $250/hr ( Orleans to Kanata) Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. 613-404-7*8*8*7*. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be 35+ __________________

and another special way ( you will have to ask by calling me directly) to step out of the cold! A visit with me will have you relaxed without a care in the world and a lovely lady in your presence to spoil you! Ask me about my Valentine's Day package (only available for 1 hour or 1.5 hours) by calling or texting me directly. I do not book through PM here. It is one that is very special and fun! 1 hour $200 1.5 hours $290 I provide all the necessities required for our fun time together! You just need to bring yourself! I will only have limited appointments available for this special occasion since I only take a limited amount of appointments each day. It will be available until Sunday evening at 8 Pm. I will be available tonight until 10:30 pm Saturday February 14 fand Sunday February 15 from 11-8. Please allow 1 hour notice so I can prepare for our special time together! Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (but mostly 5'7-5'8" in stature because I always wear heels with my nice outfits) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 35 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me & You Host - I can visit with you at your place] ( Tributes are non-negotiable) At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour "You Host" Tributes: I can come to visit you. I can entertain requests for companionship. at hotels only with proper verification and a minimum of one hour with 2 hours advanced notice. $250/hr ( Orleans to Kanata) Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. 613-404-7*8*8*7*. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be 30+

Will make you feel like you're in heaven! Ask me about my Valentine's Day package (only available for 1 hour or 1.5 hours) by calling or texting. It is one that is very special and fun! 1 hour $200 1.5 hours $290 I provide all the necessities required for our fun time together! You just need to bring yourself! I will only have limited appointments available for this special occasion since I only take a limited amount of appointments each day. It will be available until Sunday evening at 8 Pm. I will be available tonight until 10 Pm in Orleans and calling or texting is the quickest way to get a hold of me. I will also be available Saturday February 14 from 11 am - 10 Pm and Sunday February 15 from 11-8. Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (but mostly 5'7-5'8" in stature because I always wear heels with my nice outfits) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 35 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me & You Host - I can visit with you at your place] ( Tributes are non-negotiable) At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour "You Host" Tributes: I can come to visit you. I can entertain requests for companionship. at hotels only with proper verification and a minimum of one hour with 2 hours advanced notice. $250/hr ( Orleans to Kanata) Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. 613-404-7*8*8*7*. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be 35+ __________________

I am not a student and not looking for tutor in exchange for my services. When I say I don't offer something and recommend someone else, I don't need the guilt trip of being told that they would have hoped that we had met under different circumstances. If a person wants to call themselves a John, don't put that on me. That's how they feel about themselves. I also won't have that same person attempt to make me feel guilty about what I do for a living yet requesting something that I say I don't offer for obvious health reasons and then being told that it's good I protect myself. Captain Save an Escort much? I'm a grown mature woman. I think I know what I'm doing and I've already been to school thanks. I do not need a 20 something guy to tell me otherwise. If a person can't afford to hobby, don't contact me! I sure as hell won't let their lack of funds be put upon me as a burden. I won't allow that. It's Friday the 13th today.... where are the guys who just want to have a nice time without making it so damn complicated?? lol

Men who say they don't want it to feel like it's a transaction but really it's just a guise for manipulation when they want it THEIR WAY which is best for them by the following: A) They want to negotiate the rate but will still see the escort after she says no which leads to... B) They ask to do unsafe things which the escort will never do and try to make them feel guilty in the process. Not her problem. C) They want to see the escort outside the paid arrangement D) They overstay their welcome This is a mentally overwhelming nightmare type of client because the entire session is about guilt tripping.. As someone who is more experienced, I am assertive enough to say NO to all of the above but many women who don't have that experience may encounter that as a big problem and very unnerving. I find it extremely annoying and will never repeat with people who attempt to ask for those types of things.

Good for her! I think she is setting a good precedent by doing this cover and for women (especially with youthful women who are definitely more impressionable) and being happy within themselves and not just all about how they look. The first time I remember seeing Cindy Crawford was after stealing my older sister's Cosmopolitan magazine. It was October 1990. There were always articles in there on men and how to know what they want. I bought a lot of Cosmopolitans as a teenager. I was rerading a magazine that was geared towards women in their 20's so I probably knew a lot before I should have known. lol. Cindy Crawford holds a special place in my heart with that magazine issue much like a guy's first playboy. There was one steamy article in that issue that I never forgot! Thank-you Cindy for always being you and for my fond memories with her being on the front cover of those magazines many times over the years. She is beautiful on the inside and the outside.

Being threatened to be violated in a certain way when I say I have an age restriction, using explicit language because a person can't asccept the word "No". I do not see anyone under 35 anymore. Accept it and move on. And I don't take threats lightly so if a person wishes to go down that road...I refuse to deal with any bull$it of the sort. Don't tell me how many inches you are. That crap doesn't impress me. What will impress me is if you act like a gentleman. When I don't respond back, it means I'm busy or not available. Ever hear of a day off? Dont send me a barrage of texts demanding a response. A person won't get one this way. Calling up and asking for the address ( not the intersection but the actual address) and insisting on it and not asking for information, rates or anything of the sort. Suspicious much? Not going to happen. Don't try to take the potato out of the steak dinner so to speak. When I offer a massage package, there is no cutting corners to get a discount on the rate. If a person only has X amount of dollars, don't try to make it my problem because it's not. While I enjoy what I do, what I don't enjoy is someone attempting to negotiate my rates like I'm some sort of product. Thats where I end the conversation. As the saying goes "No money, no honey."

that I will be available till 10 Pm this evening which is rare! Calling or texting is the quickest way to reach me. I do not book through private messages here on Lyla. Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" (but mostly 5'7-5'8" in stature because I always wear heels with my nice outfits) with an impressive 38 DD naturals and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice behind. I seek out mature, respectful gentlemen 35 years of age or older. Underneath it all, I possess a distinct prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate, fun and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents. You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me & You Host - I can visit with you at your place] ( Tributes are non-negotiable) At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. "I Host" Tributes: $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour "You Host" Tributes: I can come to visit you. I can entertain requests for companionship. at hotels only with proper verification and a minimum of one hour with 2 hours advanced notice. $250/hr ( Orleans to Kanata) Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. 613-404-7*8*8*7*. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I look forward to meeting you! Please be 35+

These days I have pretty much crossed over to doing primarily massage. While I'm still a companion, I have been on the receving end of negotiating in both areas. There seems to be an overwhelming sense of entitlement and a new generation of clients that I am not accustomed to. I would have to say it's with the youinger generation which is why I have an age restriction. I'm not in my 20's anymore and do not relate to this crowd. Nothing personal. I'm older. However, in my experience most do NOT take no for an answer when rates are quoted and stated as non-negotiable. Most men who are older say thank-you, accept it and move on. This is a luxury service we are offering. It is a want, not a need in terms of basic necessities in life such as food and shelter, etc. It's a want but some think it's a need. It's a desire and forgive me if anyone is insulted by this but if a person doesn't have the cash to play then that burden should NOT be put upon the lady. It is not our problem that a person only has X amount of dollars. Would a person go to a restaurant and say I only have x amount but you better give me that steak dinner I want so bad? No! It would never happen! This is a service industry and the same applies here. However, when one person starts doing it or someone is strapped for cash and feels they have to negotiate with a client to have their certain needs met, suddenly it becomes an expectation across the board. Well it's not. When I started in this business, that didn't happen and very rarely did men negotiate. Times have changed and so has this busness. It's not about booking time to spend with someone anymorte, it's all about what they can get, how fast and for how little the amount. Sorry but true! I've been around to see the trend go from one place to further downhill. It's like going to work one day similar to someone working on cash basis day to day and having the boss tell a person "Well I can only afford to give you X amount per hour instead." How would the person on the receiving end of that feel when they show up, ready for work and being told that? Not good! That person would know the work they're willing to do for a certain amount and if it's worth it or not. When someone tries to negotiate with me, I tell them rates, are non-negotiable and have a good day. Anything beyond that such as "Please, come on!" I don't respond to. I have been threatened because of my age restrictions and because I don't negotiate. I tell them to fill their boots buddy, take a hike and to grow the hell up. I have fixed my rates that are very fair for what I am offering and also in consideration to what is going on with the economy. I used to make X amount an hour. I don't anymore. I changed that BUT it was on MY own accord. I like to think that I have enough business sense to know what the market can bear that is alignment with what I am offering. I am at a happy medium with the rates I quote and if someone thinks that is too much well too bad. They don't know what they're missing. I could be charging a lot more for the service I offer. However, there is a line I won't cross when it comes to rates and that's my own perogative. I am a professional and always have been and my services and the experience I offer reflects that. If someone wants to dispute rates then they are just out for a deal. Many do it just for the sole fact of being able to attempt to do it. I don't bother with people like that and they are not in my target market either. I advertise myself as offering an experience and the clients I see value that. For many ladies, this is their livelihood and if a person wants to negotiate and the lady has to lose x amount of dollars, be prepared to lose out on something as well. It's only fair. You ALWAYS get what you pay for. I don't negotiate with clients because I would no longer enjoy my job and there would be resentment towards them. As a result, they wouldn't be getting the service that goes above and beyond in many respects. However, that would never happen because I don't work that way and would NEVER put myself in that situation to begin with. I would rather exit the business before allowing that to happen. As soon as guys start to negotiate, I get that uneasy feeling in my stomach and I wish them well. I don't want anything to do with it. And the bottom line is if x amount of dollars as low as $20 makes a huge impact on who they see then they can't afford to play. I would tell them they need it more than I do but with negotiaters I'm sure they don't need it nor will $20 actually put a dent in the budget. It's a thrill for them to get what they want.. because they can! I choose not to play their game.

I love Gerbera daisies as well! I used to plant these every year in several different colors in the garden. Here is a flower for you Emily!

Waking up above ground everyday and just being fortunate and appreciate a lot of things I have that other people may not. Watching a beautiful view like the sun rising right out my bathroom window. Being fortunate to have has one huge bath tub that I could technically fit three people in there if I wanted to. Just being able to light a few candles at the end of the day and read my book book in a nice hot bubble bath in peace. Spending time with my cat Watching the Harvey Specter character on Suits! Oh and remember those Good Humor strawberry shortcake ice cream on a stick? Ya! Just seeing those again at a store after many years of not having one made me happy! I should have bought one! Knowing that *I* have the ability to be able to do whatever I want because I believe that I can. Happiness to me is being content wherever I am at any given moment. Happiness is being able to control how I think and feel in certain situations. Happiness starts with self love.