Nicolette Vaughn

True friendship is give and take ( not one sided) accepting all their flaws and quirks along with their bullshit once in a while but there are limits and true friends will respect them. I have two good friends. The rest are conditional and some are fair weather types. I keep to myself a lot so I'm not much of a socializing type person and I don't believe in social media.

I have to give thanks as well for this thread. Very interesting to read! Additional Comments: I have to give thanks as well for this thread. Very interesting to read!

From my understanding we are legally allowed to tell clients this but if you spoke to a lawyer they would tell you if you mentioned that you offer x, y and z services then you are inferring something that would be illegal for the client to participate in because he would be paying you. Peter Mackay intentionally did this because he is an idiot and has the power to do so. You're right Gabriella, it is definitely contradictory. Getting a court to determine if something was considered explicit would be very broad.. Correct me if I'm wrong here but last time I read the bill it didn't define what "s services" actually were. Potential clients will have to read between the lines now and I'm sure some who do have an understanding of the new laws will be grateful that there will be SPs who will not have an explicit discussion with them for their safety. It's time to start using phrases that are not explicit. It's the only way around it. I've already made up a few of my own that get the point across that don't imply anything explicit. Gents, you will now have to read between the lines.

I can sometimes see the fakeness of "Hun" a mile away.c "Hi hun, R U available?" So fake and not to mention don't use letters to replace words. Ugh.. I don't call anyone "hun" unless they've been with me. Actually I don't even say "Hun". Sometimes I say "Thanks Honey" in passing but it's people I know and have spent time with. Never will I address them by that term unless I've met them. And I'm no one's "babe" and won't be again. That was reserved for my ex bf but he is long gone now. So please call me by my name until we have been together. Then I won't mind if you address me by a term of endearment. lol.

Law enforcement is NOT on a moral crusade here. They enforce it when they're told to. If and when, that is. And if they have the budget to do so. I've seen all the fear mongering "what ifs" and imo, people are scaring themselves for nothing. They are not going to be waiting outside your favorite local lady's apartment waiting to bust anyone. They would have a hell of a case trying to prove that. Stay away from the streets or ads on BP that look to good to be true. Someone is eventually going to take one for the team so ask here if anyone has seen a particular lady. Stick to ladies that you know have been around and are NOT LE. Just because some guys can't pick and choose who to call up at the last minute or ask the good old "Are you available now" and "Rates, services and location?" does not mean their hobbying lives are over forever. Do your research and you will most likely avoid the risk of receiving sub par service or bait and switch. It is your government that is only using this new law as a tool to win the next election. We are all just pawns in their game. Don't vote for them in the next election. It's as simple as that. I would like to re-visit this thread a year from now and see what has changed. Probably nothing.

Trying to warm up in a big bed that is cold. I turn heat off at night because it gets too stuffy and feels sickening. Posted via Mobile Device

Going to sleep in a big bed tht is cold. Posted via Mobile Device

When someone asks me next time about why I won't negotiate my rates...now I have an even better answer. You're paying for discretion. Good quality service and discretion don't come cheap. Posted via Mobile Device

Happy Birthday Yabut! Hope you have a good one! Posted via Mobile Device

There are fakers and scammers everywhere but I can tell you that before classified ads like CL and BP, there weren't as many as there are now. As soon as these sites came onto the scene, that's when some women who thought because they had a cell phone and throw up an ad and the ability to rent a hotel room that they were now considered ;in the business. It was never like that before. Most ladies started out with an agency and many moved onto establishing an independent presence. Not just put up an ad and now they're ready for hire so to speak. As soon as people starting using classified ads, no longer was the escort industry a taboo thing with their own websites. Now you could buy tires and a "date" in the same place. Without that kind of exposure, the adult industry remained more out of the day to day public eye. </p> And before anyone claims im putting down new ladies, understand that if these classified ads didn't exist, I don't think they would be as much bait and switch. Sure there are new girls who put in the effort but how many are out there thinking they can make x amount of money without putting a lot of work into it? Or worse, some ladies not being able to make their own choices as to who they can and can't see when it comes to clients. And the worst is a guy going on a site with reservations and hoping it will be the same girl in the picture and not have a big dude hiding behind the door waiting to rip a person off. These sites are so mainstream now that some people are in it just to scam people and that's it! Sorry but it's true. It didn't happen this way when a new girl entered the business or scammers passing through ripping off clients who want to just meet someone nice. Didn't work like that and in the last couple of years has gone downhill. There is no more effort anymore. Throw up a classified ad and you're now in the business. Everything is instant gratification and times it's like pulling teeth to try and get some guys to take a look at a lady's website and being told to eff off because they don't have time. It is known that I'm not a fan of BP. I tried it yesterday for the first time in 8 months and wanted to rip my hair out. I guess you could say I'm from a different escorting era.

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I look for signs that in new clients. It means they're not respecting your boundaries and that they are more important than whatever it is you're doing. I used to get this a lot by text and they were serial texting m to no end even after I gave them the cue to "Have a nice day". Most people pick up those subtleties. For others, they don't have boundaries. This is one of the key things I look for in new clients. If they keep the texts going after I said I have to go then I know they're wasting my time or just don't care. Those people are the ones I won't see. Posted via Mobile Device

Spent some quality time this afternoon with one of my longtime gentleman callers. Posted via Mobile Device

I get that a lot but I usually dismiss it. It could be casual conversation and sometimes people don't even really think when saying that. It's comparable to "How's the weather?" but for others, they could very well be implying how many appts I did that day. It's no one 's business unless of course they want the fantasy ruined. I dont know what impression some men may have but I'm not sitting there looking pretty all day seeing one person after another. Posted via Mobile Device

Start researching ladies by googling them as others have mentioned and see what other sites they advertise on because it is the only thing that will save you from winding up in a hotel room with law enforcement. This site is where most established ladies have a presence. Some remain low key on one site but it is here where you will find the answers. If it looks to good to be true on BP, it usually is.

If I have to hear "Rates, location, services?" one more God damn time....Actually no I won't as of Dec 6 because they will have to call me and actually speak to me. Talk to me like a human being with a "Hello" first. I'm no longer responding to these guys who say the above. I've been at this a while and I can tell who the tire kickers are and who is actually serious in meeting me. They usually start off my tell me that they liked my write-up. Right there, I know I will like them as a customer. This tells me they are looking for an experience while taking a genuine interest in what I offer as a companion and not get in and get out really quick for as little as possible. "Do you have a boyfriend?" My response: "I have many!" Additional Comments: Sounds like narcissistic behaviour and I've witnessed the same as you in the past. Unfortunately I've ran into a few in my lifetime both personally and professionally even before I knew exactly what these types of personalities actually were. The "I'm a victim" bullshit is just deflection because they are NEVER wrong. lol while their superiority complex is just a front to hide what *they* think are weaknesses when the rest of the world calls it emotional feelings. Run, run and run away from them as fast as you can!

Booking an appointment then asking for the rate. Then attempt to negotiate with me. No thanks. I always try and make sure I know where people have seen my ad and if they've visited my website first.

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It's as simple as this. You are now technically paying for time and companionship ONLY. It's best to call a lady by phone so no trail of email or texts. Do not ask explicit questions and especially where money is concerned. This will now be illegal on your end. The ladies are legally allowed to tell you what they offer but you CANNOT ask. Some ladies may not discuss anything explicit out of discretion for their customers because they want to protect the gentlemen they may be seeing. Stay away from anyone you cannot find legit intel on. Law enforcement will likely use BP site as a ruse to get guys to visit and the lady in the picture will be in her twenties, look perfect and anytime to visit will be perfect with them at a hotel or motel. In other words, if it sounds too easy and convenient, run the other way! And stay away from the street. This is who they go after first. Additional Comments: The business has changed and people want everything NOW! I remember when clients used to actually research ladies which is why it was called "the hobby". I don't know what to call it now in some cases. This also has a lot to do with technology. Everything is instant gratification for some. I was told to "screw that" the other day when I pointed someone in the direction of my website after already answering their most important question which was rates.. They can take the time to peruse adult classified ads but suddenly have a problem when being asked to actually taking a few minutes to read my website. These are not the customers I seek in my choice of target market. It will take some time but when people such as the above example truly realize the consequences of their potential actions, they will change how they conduct themselves when contacting a lady. It won't happen overnight. Some will give this up altogether but when I first started in this line of work, people were very hesitant in asking and often apologized for not wanting to come across as crude or rude. I often used code phrases that were not considered explicit with the phrases sounding like I was about to go on an actual date. I have also changed my website accordingly. A few gentlemen I have met in the last few weeks and months do not really quite know what's going on and I have given them a quick run down. They were very surprised and I let them know not to ask explicit things when contacting a lady. As members here, most of us who read this site on a regular or daily basis know exactly what's going on. Anywhere else, most are not up to date with exactly what is about to happen. Some haven't even heard about it. One customer at a time.

Met a very nice Cerb gentleman today for the second time. And he brought me my favorite gift card which was very much appreciated! xo

I wonder if they EVER "get any"? LOL.

I really looking forward to attending this social! I've missed a few in the last year or so. Will be happy to see new and familiar faces!

I received a not so nice pm the other day. It's not my intention to insult anyone and see it as you may. Peace out ladies.

Having been through many changes from once doing only 1 hour plus appts where clients would actually take the time to read a website and where the economy was much more stable with more cash to play around with to returning after a few years and everything was very different. I had more of a jet set lifestyle then traveling all the time and having 2 high end condos in two different cities at the same time. I was on my game when I left. I came back and began working with another lady doing half hour appts and realizing that most men were looking at the non industry sites where classified ads took over. This also included dropping my rates a bit to fit into the current business model I was now using. This was same day spots mostly middle day nooners for guys who wanted to by on their lunch break and the guys on the drive home. That's where business was at during this time. I didn't even know how to speak to customers on the phone because everything I used to do by email and get the number to confirm. It took some time and at first there were things I thought I didn't want to adjust to because I was so used to doing things a certain way. I told myself to get off my high horse because things were different now and if I were coming back to this business, nothing ever stays the same. I thought I was "humbling" myself at the time but I look back now and realized I became vert comfortable with the ways things were. I'm still here and I have adjusted. I have great customers, I've enhanced my communication skills by being able to converse with customers a lot more and more outgoing as a result. I took such characteristics as my age, my looks and body type, ny personality and made it work within the current climate in the business then and now. Sometimes there are things we don't want to necessarily adjust to but if you want to survive in business, you have to adapt to what's happening around you and just go with it. In any type of business, it's sink or swim. And I've decided to swim and I've got the life jacket. The life jacket came with life lessons learned, age and maturity and "humbling" one 's self when needed. I adapted many times and will again.

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