Nicolette Vaughn

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Went to my other house today. No one is home there. I see someone going to the back dressed in coat and hoodie. He open the gate, I shout at him to ask what the hell he is doing there and he keeps going to back of house ignoring me. I fling the gate open and he almost get hit with it right in the face on his way back out. It was the Enbridge guy. Lol he ask if I thought he was there to rob the place. Oops!

Wow! Just wow is all I can say. Was just told why they should have to look at my website and 'screw that'. Well okay then, I now know who I won't be answering again in the future and they always come back around sooner or later. It is jerks like that who are going to have problems with these new laws. Good luck buddy! Lolol Posted via Mobile Device

The short version is when you contact a lady, do not ask them explicit questions implying something else. That right there is what will get people in trouble. You will now be paying for time and companionship only. Ladies won't be allowed to advertise anything explicit here either. Other sites may operate differently at their own risk and while ladies under will be allowed to advertise certain things, some won't out of discretion for their customers. They will be able to tell you certain things but YOU as a customer cannot ask. Posted via Mobile Device

Pulled a muscle in my back on the left side ( don't ask why..lol) and had a spasm. As a result, had to cancel my appts today. :(

Tom, I had the honor of meeting you once in 2010 and had a great time. Although we dont know each other well as some others here, you have a been in my thoughts a lot as you continued to post your updates. I just wanted to say that you have been very strong at a time where others may have just given up altogether. I know you're hanging in there. It is my regret that I don't know you as well as others but you have been a great contributor to Cerb and please watch over all of us. I will toast in your favorite drink with a few of my close .. friends in your memory. Your memory will live on forever in our hearts and minds. As I write this without a dry eye, your courage is commendable and you will be in my daily prayers with my Archangels. Thank-you for being YOU! Posted via Mobile Device

We all think differently and I have been attacked for having my opinions so far but this seems perfectly acceptable. Using these words to empower myself are not from my generation and understand that in MY generation, sluts were those who were promiscuous and w's got paid for it long before I was ever in this line of work. Never did I imply NOT being paid for it was bad but some members here decided to imply and twist my words and insinuate this or I was being above everyone else. That is not true and I have helped and support A LOT of ladies in my time and have been nothing but helpful. I have heard this not once but twice now by the same person that I'm supposedly above everyone else because I have certain opinions about things. Perhaps it comes across that way since I don't mince words but I don't think like that and I certainly don't conduct myself that way in my business either. This lies within the person reading it to feel that way, not how I'm making them feel. Do I necessarily agree with the above bold statement I made a few days ago? In some ways, yes and in others, no. Part of my original statement that "Sluts don't get paid for it" is a statement I grew up with. It's what *I* know. If I solely believed in the above, I would be a complete hypocrite and no doubt that I wouldn't be a sex worker. Being in this line of work has also changed a lot of my views over the years about what I thought I knew about sex workers before being in the lifestyle. And what I don't appreciate is that I have been completely and utterly criticized as a result for not agreeing with others views because they have immersed themselves in Women's Studies. My apologies for not being so current and up with the times ladies. And thanks for looking down on others who don't share in your views and be completely attacked for having differing opinions. This also isn't just about a person's opinions, it was also HOW I was raised. I realize that I am quite a bit older than many who have different views, I do not have a degree in women's studies, I come from a very Catholic family etc and I don't believe in labeling. Is that so wrong to NOT be all of these things? Yet I have taken a lot of criticism for it in the last few days from those who do. I enjoy sex but I don't think I need to call myself a slut to empower myself or take back what I think I have lost. It's as simple as that. Perhaps I don't understand this generation. And while I appreciate Slutwalks for violence against women and what it originally stands for, I don't believe in using the term "slut" to take it back or own it. Women should have the freedom of being "sx" ual" and also be protected against the violence and harassment surrounding it. See it as you may..if you think I'm putting myself on a pedestal because I have different feelings so be it. That's HOW you perceive it. I just don't personally believe in labels. If a woman wants to be a slut or a ."w", get paid or not go ahead... but using these terms to identify ourselves just take us back a notch historically speaking. Imo, I find it counterproductive. Afterall, they are just words and do not define the true spirit of women and what we stand for.

No that's not quite entirely true. lol Poor hotel plumber.

There is NO party unless Old Dog is there!. lol. Glad to see you back my friend! xo

LOL exactly! That was yesterday, this is today. I don't take these things personally. It is what it is. I think the term "cat fight" turns some men on for some reason. lol.

LOL! A clogged toilet and having to change rooms. How do I explain to the front desk in a downtown Toronto hotel and a plumber that it *wasn't* me? LMAO. Looking back I can laugh about it now but wasn't funny at the time. Totally embarrassing. Haha.

Hello and welcome!

Gentlemen, Have you ever felt the rush of excitement being with 2 ladies? My friend Sophia is visiting Ottawa until Saturday November 15 and we will be offering unrushed ....... 4 handed massage duos as well as companionship duos downtown hosting at a private upscale location in the Byward Market until 6 Pm. Sophia is also trained and certified in hot stone therapy, Swedish and Shiatsu massage and has also given me some training tips. We are offering a 30/30 special for $330 for the full hour, all inclusive with both us offering half massage of your choice and the other half of the hour ....... companionship. You can visit Sophia's site at http://ladysophiaclassic.com or her ad here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=199477 My site http://sensualdiscoveries.com for more pics, info about us, etc. Come and FEEL the experience! I am also available for solo appts in Orleans today till 6 Pm and Richmond/Woodroffe till 10 Pm. To book an appointment for a solo or duo please call me directly at 613-404-7887. 1 hour notice required please for downtown meetings. Hope to see you!

Yes but now potential clients will be paying for time and companionship on this site.

Every lady has the right to run their own business as they see fit. Including whether or not they wish to speak explicitly to clients. How will this get them kicked off Cerb unless they did not comply with Cerb rules? I think there's a lot of irrational fear going on. Cerb is not the only site a lady can advertise on. Yes, you're right that this is a time of uncertainty and panic but those who will be able to adapt will adapt. I don't know about this witch hunt going on but people seem to be extremely sensitive and perhaps it's a fear of the unknown. And as for so called nastiness, supposed shaming and labeling, there is also A LOT of people splitting hairs at this point with other ladies taking words out of context and implying things that aren't necessarily true. Follow the rules here, advertise other places as you wish which will be permitted. I think everyone needs to take a breather at this point. The world isn't going to end over this ridiculous law. Let's not ruin a good sense of community here because the Conservative Government is clueless.

None of this would bother me either. As long as a gentleman is polite and hygienic, everything is good. Best wishes for healing!

It's a common phrase Kathryn and I'd sooner identify myself as a 'w' because I am being compensated. I just not choose these words to use for myself. I have a certain definition of what the term 'slut' and you have yours. To infer that I'm putting down other women for making that remark is ridiculous. And im not apologizing for my own opinions and perceptions because someone else feels put off by it. The only way someone can put you down is if you let them.

Happy Birthday Christine! Hope you had a good one! Posted via Mobile Device

Yes I would certainly understand. The experiences I had with this were not discrete and a mess was openly made in the bathroom and if it was no big deal for me to clean up. But to be so carefree about it is another thing. Posted via Mobile Device

<p> </p> We have a difference of opinion. I don't identify with this and am entitled to my opinion. Have a nice day.

Not to be graphic or crude but please when you go to visit an lady, do not do YOUR business in HER bathroom! Fortunately for me it has only happened twice in my time as a companion that I've had to endure the stench or witnessing a disgusting toilet bowl afterwards. And one time having my toilet backed up in the hotel I was staying at and had to change rooms ( very embarrassing telling the front desk this) after someone ate a heavy lunch and literally jumped up to go to the bathroom. I make him take shower twice after this! Please take care of these things at the gas station or coffee shop down the street and take a shower at the lady's place upon arrival. No one needs to witness this or smell the after effects. Please and thank-you!

I have a new blog with a couple of new entries and great news! http://www.sensualdiscoveries.com/#!blog/c1a5r

I`m surprised the word `slut` and ..... isn`t censored yet. I would never call myself a slut. They don`t get paid for companionship. And if someone wants to say that in anger to a woman, go ahead. It just shows who they are as a person. A pitiful loser. I don`t need to prove certain liberation or empower myself as a woman by calling myself names.. I do and think as I please already. And btw the `W`word in plural form has not been censored yet but already is in singular form.

Now overhauling my website to make it more "succinct". F**k me, I'm too wordy... it's gonna be tough with all the things I have to say. lol.

Christine was a ground breaker in this business by starting one of the first discussion and reco boards in Canada and I have been thankful to know her and learned a lot from her insight and wisdom over the years. Thanks Christine for all your advice, comments and opinions you have shared over the years. Way to go!!!