Nicolette Vaughn

Better yet.. write a "fictional story" on the internet that has nothing to do with an SP's website. Clients can go there to read it. Because it is not linked to her website, nothing can be proved. I'm thinking of implementing this as way to describe what a client can expect. I enjoy writing so this is what they can read and know what to expect so there is no confusion. I will not make a blind appointment without knowing what the client wants but I will not be discussing services over the phone or in text anymore either. They will be given a weblink to go and they can read my story. If the client wants to meet, he can call back with simply a "Yes, I'd like to meet for xxx amount of time" under the assumption that it is for time and companionship only. I've always been a clear communicator with my clients and this will not change. It will just be done a different way now.

With all due respect, this is contributing to the fear mongering. My apologies if anyone disagree with me. It's interesting that only these types of threads are coming up now since Ms. Bedford had decided to threaten politicians who she may have had dealings with. This could happen at any point with some unsavory SP and make things worse by wrecking your home life which is just as bad as a criminal record. Why is it that much different now? It now sets a bad precedent for us especially now when we have to in a way almost defend ourselves because of the actions of someone else who has nothing to lose because she has retired. Many ladies have built a solid reputation that may be viewed as questionable now and if she can be trusted because someone decided to use these threats in front of the media towards people in powerful and influential postions. I guess there is no other way to really try to grab a man by the balls is there? Imo, these types of threads contribute to this sort of thing.

I was just told I sound like a cross between Kathleen Turner and Demi Moore with my husky voice. lol.

Please act like you want to be there and not like a dead fish without even saying two words to the SP. If you really don't want to be there, give the SP something for her time and be on your way. Had a massage session like this not too long ago and I made all the efforts to be friendly and cordial, I counted how many words were said and it was under 20 with one liner answers. I know when to make conversation and can read body language when they want their surroundings to be serene but seriously? I'm assuming this was his personality and said it was his first time (okay no problem but at least say SOMETHING!) as I did everything on my end to be professional and courteous but it was EXTREMELY awkward. If this person ( they're not a cerb member) wanted to repeat, I don't think I could. It would be too painful.

Some SPs are not into the menus so there may have to be bit of a different dialogue. To be honest, if someone starts naming off an alphabetical list of acronyms, it tells me a lot. I look for someone who genuinely wants to spend time with me aside from what type of services they will receive. When I see a person who lists acronyms, I am hesitant. I understand that there should be some sort of expectations in terms of what services will be received and not received but to me this is very impersonal and tells me what type of client they will be. A first impression is always a lasting one. If the person takes the time to communicate with me in more of a personable way while still being able to get their questions answered, it is more favorable. I am also more patient in this regard as I answer phone calls and texts all day long so I'm used to having more of a conversation. A conversation on the phone with a potential client will always give me a signal in 30 seconds or less if I want to meet them. It is all in the way they speak to me, the way they sound tells me their personality and the type of questions they ask, etc. I pick up on people's energy very quickly whether it's good or bad on the phone and in person. I will never specifically book just by text. It is crucial I hear the person's voice. Don't ask me why but my instincts always tell me yes or no within those 30 seconds. So while I don't have a lot of time, my brain and instincts are processing this info very quickly in how the person is reacting towards me and the questions they ask. I'm sure this works if an SP is more upfront in her ads and you want to confirm these services but we all run our business a different way. I thought it was cute when you put in "Hunnie" but I never use terms of endearment with my clients unless I've met them first. This comes off as very phony when you haven't met them. A different approach will need to be taken once this new bill becomes law.

Yay! My personal friend coming up from upstate NY to see me again! Posted via Mobile Device

"Are you open now?" What am I? A convenience store? Lol. Some of the things I've been asked over the last few years, I just shake my head and can't help but to laugh now. This came from an SP friend of mine... Him: Are you available? Her: Yes Him: I dont want to pay. Fun is free Her: Would you like to go to work and not get paid by your boss because he thinks you enjoy your job soooo much? Him: No but having fun should still be free. Her: Well I guess you can't argue with stupid Regardless of whether or not someone enjoys their job or not, they are still entitled to be paid. While many SPs enjoy what they do, it is how they make their living. Never confuse her with enjoying her job that she would see a client off the clock because she enjoys it so much. We are also like everyone else. We have financial responsibilities, many women have children, etc. Some people attempt to confuse those lines where it is already apparent to begin with. Posted via Mobile Device

Lets come back to this very thread 6 months from now and see how things have been enforced. I agree with Fortunateone's comments. What if there was a rare police raid and a client was found in a bawdy house with the way the laws are on the books right now? You would still be subjected by LE, etc, maybe your wife would find out, etc. Why is it okay now but suddenly not okay by Dec 19 or whenever the deadline is? It's only now that much awareness has been given by the media that has people worried because of getting a criminal record. I understand why...don't get me wrong but to think you are safe now isn't entirely correct either yet people are still out there discussing, asking and agreeing when it comes to certain services. People associated with this industry ( SPs and clients alike) have all been breaking the law for years!! Do you know how much time, effort and money it would take for them to enforce this new law? If I were employed in a position in law enforcement, I would be so dreading the moment when this bill becomes official law. If you still want to hobby, then stick with who and what you know. There are plenty of reputable and well established SPs here with evidence to prove they are legitimate. Don't stray into unknown territories and you will be fine. I understand the worry of not wanting to get a record however the fear mongering that is happening when it isn't even law yet, is getting tiresome to be quite honest. Worrying and speculating about this when things aren't even finalized isn't good for anyone. Frankly, I'm tired of hearing all the doomsday b.s. If a person thinks that's how it's going to be then that will be the outcome. The sky isn't going to fall. Certain changes will be implemented and business will carry on but a bit differently. Yes I admit I've worried and speculated but I'm not going to let it get me down. There are many changes that I've had to adjust to while in this business and I adjusted. To me, this is just another brief period of adjusting. In some ways, it will do me a favor. No longer will I have to read "Rates, menu, location available?" I never want to see those words again! Now they will HAVE to say "Hello" to me! If a person feels out of sorts and has hesitation then it's probably best not to stay in the game. And this sort of feeling can apply towards any type of decision in a person's life. Not just this issue. Stop worrying! There are always alternatives such as established SPs who know how to be discrete!

One of my longtime regular's birthday today and I have a surprise planned for him. Posted via Mobile Device

Waking up in my sexy girlfriend's bed! Posted via Mobile Device

Sexy is all about manifesting. You think, therefore you are. Sexy is not having to prove a damn thing such as being sexy. lol. I am sexy.

MMF and I'm not telling. And please, no PMs telling me you can fulfill this. lol I may already have. ;)

OMG! First it was yellow jacket bees at my place and I got stung on the foot and now it's the invasion of the Asian lady bugs this week! They're all outside my patio door and some have been trying to get inside through the cracks and fly around. I have a can of Raid by the door. I don't think I've ever killed so many insects in my life!

Assuming we have no family or friends because of what we do for a living or that we're lonely ALL the time. It's how you choose to live your life and what you make of it. If you're going to be lonely and sad then that's what you're manifesting in life. If you want to be happy, then you're going to be happy. Your job is what you do and not who you are. This includes all human beings and not just SPs. This is sad that some people can think this. We eat, breathe, feel and love the same as our clients. Sometimes I wonder if some guys think we're not human. lol. Some people would be surprised how many SPs have regular lives outside of this business. However many SPs would think it's no one's business but their own which is true and only reveal the side that clients wish to see. Some things are better left unsaid. Including an SP's personal life. We are there to fulfill a fantasy that shouldn't be marred by the real world.

Happy Birthday! Posted via Mobile Device

Showing up too early Clients you have seen but they pretend not to have met you before. lol

Good luck in your future endeavors Vitto! Posted via Mobile Device

My word is Sensual

Sounds like censorship at its finest! I'm sure the Cons have their hands in CBC as well.

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Happy Birthday Cowboy Kenny! Posted via Mobile Device

Not to be rude but until you are a confirmed SP with pictures in your album and a recommendation from a reputable source here on Cerb, many ladies will be reluctant to answer your questions. Until you have a established more of a history as an SP, some may be wary of these types of questions as there are many people affiliated with the media who want to do these kinds of stories about the adult industry. And they are NEVER fair and balanced!

Turkey dinner... east coast style! I was the host and did the cooking. Holy crap, it was sooo good. So I'm damn tired now! I have so much food in my fridge right now that was left over from a dinner of 15 people. Turkey, stuffing with that east coast savoury in it, salt beef, carrots, whippy potatoes, cheesecake, date squares, pumpkin pie, red wine, white wine martini mix, coolers.. Omg, plenty of booze. Please! Someone come and raid my fridge!

Most of my family is aware of what I do for a living. I also have other revenue as well. While they may not approve, they keep these comments to themselves. I had 15 people at my place for dinner earlier this evening. None of them asked me about my job. No one in my family usually talks about their jobs because they are all boring as hell. Except for mine of course. ;) I have a lot of brothers and sisters so it's mostly about drama bullshit and who isn't talking to who. It gets tiresome. That sort of things usually happens with relatives I haven't seen for years and then I will make something up just to get them off my back or tell them about my little side business. I really don't care what other people think. I do my own thing. Immediate families will always closely guard these types of secrets. My parents always shut their mouth about everything including their own business. My father is one of those people who you can never quite read. He is quiet and unassuming, stays away from drama but then can tell someone to f off in the next breath if you piss him off. Now I know where I get it from! Extended family if you were to tell them, it's all downhill from there. I've had a few SP friends who had to deal with this at one time or another. Just tell them you have some boring office job doing payroll for a company. Barely anyone understands this type of work unless they're in it. They won't understand no matter how many ways you try to explain it to them. Especially if they're from a different generation... forget it. This business can get lonely and isolating at times but it also has it's advantages and rewards as well. None of which I regret. You just have to know how to balance your personal life and work life. Being an SP is like being in the mob. Don't tell any secrets. End of story.

If she asks you text at a certain time, text her at the exact time she asks you. I ask clients to call me 10 minutes before our appt to get logisitics and tell them if they are delayed and not at the location where I ask them to call me to let me know they are delayed. I do not like when someone texts me even if it's 5 mins earlier than I expect. Most of the time I'm trying to get ready and this makes me stressed out. There are many last minute things we have to tend to in order to set the right mood. This includes not looking stressed out. Show up at the time she asks you. Not before and not after. Call if you're delayed. It's always appreciated. As for giving up waiting for a confirmation, if I were the client, I'd wait 20 minutes max. Maybe try to follow up with her the next day asking her what happened. It could be a legitimate reason. If she doesn't get back to you, then it's probably best to move on. I've had a few run ins like getting ready and my cell phone fell into the sink where it got damaged with a lot of water or having a crappy phone charger that for some reason wouldn't charge my phone when I really needed it to charge. In this case I wasn't able to contact the client but made it up to one of them by giving them a discount. I've had a few disasters over the years including have a cell phone fall into the toilet. I'm sure in the case of the guy who I was supposed to meet and my cell phone fell into water, I'm sure he was pissed. I don't blame him but had no way of contacting him because his number was on there.