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Nicolette Vaughn

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  1. My cat once brought me a rabbit in his mouth and I yelled at him to drop it and the rabbit hopped away. This rabbit was still alive in his mouth and he carried him all the way home. lol. My cat used to run the neighborhood. I used to receive dead little mice on the front door step and once a rabbit's head full of blood. He spent most of his time outdoors and loved it. He also used to attack large dogs if they ever lifted their leg on the lawn. He once jumped a Rotweiller in my presence and one time ran out of the house while I was bringing in groceries attacking a Siberian Husky who stepped on the property as the owner was walking him. They said they had never seen a cat do that. I miss him. He was crazy once riding to work with my neighbor under the hood of his car without incident. lol. This was after being hit by a car with a crushed lung and broken leg as a younger cat.. He had nine lives for sure! He always thought of me and brought gifts when he wasn't acting crazy! lol. He lived to be 15 years old.
  2. Cute guy at Starbucks! Posted via Mobile Device
  3. Every now and then I see clients around in my area when I'm out and about and I prefer just to pretend we don't know each other especially if I'm with someone. Most I see with their wives and I act like I don't know them or go in another direction. I would never go up and talk to anyone ever. I give clients discretion and expect it in return. I do know a few clients who are for sure not attached and it's no big deal but I have known these people for a while and they are regulars. I will just wave or say "Hi" but only when I'm alone. One saw me in Ikea one day with a family member and we just smiled from afar at each other. It's funny because I did see one client and I was dressed down and they didn't recognize me. lol. Another saw me from afar at Starbucks and said I looked great wearing actual clothes other than what he was used to seeing me in which was lingerie. :)
  4. Happy Birthday! Hope it was a good one!
  5. Meeting a very nice client with a sexy Irish accent! Posted via Mobile Device
  6. I agree with the sentiments of others here. Fear mongering will manifest negativity and possibly a bad outcome. It is NOT an official law yet so lets try and not speculate something that hasn't even happened. Where there are laws, there will ALWAYS be loopholes. We will all adapt and adjust. Things will just be done a little bit differently. Despite what the government is proposing, we have all it had it very easy for a long, long time in comparison to other countries such as the USA. I look back and consider myself lucky that I've been able to the work the way I have. Instead of worrisome fear, why not discuss solutions if and when they do come into effect? I have many ideas that I plan to implement for myself and to ease clients fear of booking and much more of a higher need for discretion than ever. At least when and if it happens, we will be more prepared than feeling like deer caught in the headlights when it could become official. Embrace it instead of fearing it. While we can't control the outcome, we can control how we think and feel. Posted via Mobile Device
  7. Contemplating whether or not to leave the business at the end of the year. These new laws that are going to be passed are infuriating. I haven't made up my mind yet. Damn Cons..
  8. I don't know how many times I've expressed this to clients. 90% follow my protocol but to the ones who don't or haven't. ... Do they realize what a heat score they are being when they park far away? You are not doing a favor to yourself by trying to be secret agent. You are not secret agent by doing this! In fact when you think you're being so discrete, you're not! There are eyes everywhere. Act like you belong. Do they think neighbors won't notice them parking far away and wondering why they just don't park in the laneway?To them it looks like you don't belong there and this will raise red flags. Then some have the nerve to complain that they are worried about neighbors being outside as they have to walk past them. What do they think would of have happened when they leave. When instead they could have just jumped in their car and drove away. If you worry about an SP seeing your car or license plate and worry they are going to blackmail you, you should be even more worried if a neighbor thought you were suspicious by parking far away and they do take note of the license plate. Think about it. I offer discretion to my clients. I don't care what your real name is, etc. etc. I don't care about what kind of car your drive. I'm not interested.. All I care about is you show up and are discrete. This is becoming a problem a lot of the time and the number one thing about this job that truly upsets me. Do as the SP instructs because she knows her surroundings better than you do in order to keep your level of discretion and safety.I know exactly what goes on in my neighborhood. The client doesn't so please show good judgement call and think about the SP and what she has to deal with. The next client that does it to me, I won't answer the door. There will be no appointment. If they can't extend the courtesy to be discrete in my surroundings then I don't want them at my place. End of story. And did I say I CAN'T STAND secret agents? LOL. Thanks for the thread Meg!
  9. No outing the Cons is not justified even though they are CONS. I have met people in a position of power and/or affluence and would never dream of outing them. I've also come into contact with regular people who have a position of power in Ottawa within the careers that they hold and the same applies as well. Your secrets are safe with me! I would expect the same in return. Treat others as you would want to be treated. Outing someone would just set a precedent for other unsavory sex workers to use this as an excuse to blackmail their clients once these new laws come into effect. This is definitely not the way to go about it even though I can't stand Harper, Mackay et al. This industry has already been pushed underground enough. Condoning blackmail and threats, etc to expose someone isn't going to help anything. Exposing a Con or someone else on Parliament Hill may feel good in the moment but think about the consequences these actions will have in the long run. If a person is going to expose someone in the government, what is stopping a sex worker from threatening and/or blackmailing and/or expose a regular Joe Blow or John Doe later on feeling they have the right to do so because it was done to someone in the Conservative party or another party? Absolutely nothing! Once these new laws come into effect, I will have a booking process that will ensure safety and complete discretion for my clients. As they say, "Discretion is the better part of valor."
  10. I know I don't have to preach to the choir here because most of you I met from this site have been respectful but for the others.. Take your damn shoes off. Don't make me tell you to you esp with light beige carpet in a brand new home. Were you born in a barn? Do not open the second bedroom door. Respect the fact that the door is closed for a reason. Please park in laneway where I ask you to instead of making yourself out to be a heat score with neighbors by attempting to be secret agent when it is sooooo not secret agent when they wonder why you park sooooo far down the street. All good ways to make me really mad. Additional Comments: And don't forget well hung... Young, good looking and well hung don't pay my bills sweetheart.
  11. Meeting a great cerb gent for the second time. Very sweet! Thank-you!
  12. No underwear..ever! Even in a dress. Okay if it's a short dress, I will put a pair on. Otherwise, I always go commando.
  13. I'm single and prefer it that way. Although sometimes it gets lonely in that big bed of mine. I haven't found the right person so far but hope to one day when the time is right. It's not the right time at this point but I know he is out there and will find me one day. I do miss waking up in the middle of the night with a surprise bj. The ex bf always loved that. It's the little things I miss but overall I think I'm better off single. Honestly some of my longtime regulars who keep coming back just give me enough company that I need as well as new customers. I spend a lot of time alone and don't go to bars or any places like that, I don't drink, etc. These things don't interest me anymore. I have a desire to know why I'm here and my purpose, etc. A lot of interesting things have been happening to me in a spiritual sense in the last few months and I'm grateful for that. I don't look at life the same way anymore. I'm just figuring myself out at this point in my life. It's an interesting ride. I believe we are all separate beings and we cannot look at another person to make us completely happy. It is our own personal responsibility and one of these responsibilities to remain separate in terms of our own personal satisfactions and self-love while remaining true to ourselves despite the fact whether we're in a relationship or not. Only then can we bring our best qualities to another person who we decide to share our lives with.
  14. I've had very good results since implementing 45 min appointments a while back. Sometimes a half hour is not enough but an hour is too much time. Especially in the middle of a work day. Posted via Mobile Device
  15. Read something so profound today, it was mind boggling. A lot of answers I was searching for, I have found.
  16. Since when is there supposed to be a senior citizen discount. "I can't afford it. I'm a senior citizen." If a person can't afford these types of services, why are they calling? Posted via Mobile Device
  17. Hangers Dishes New decorative pillows More Egyptian cotton sheets... love them!
  18. The loud convo when leaving..."Thanks for the great roll in the hay" ( insert a few crude words here instead). Okay maybe I'm exaggerating a bit here but you get the idea. I always used to tell people the walls aren't that soundproof. Some people's voices carry. At the beginning or the end, I always carry the conversation to that of a general subject when near the door in case anyone can it from outside the apartment. Just pray you don't get an apartment next door to the floor's busybody. There is one in every on every floor in every building. Scope out everyone the first week, dress low key, blend in and pretend to be fake friendly even if you feel like they are nosy.
  19. Happy Birthday Isabella! I hope you have a great day!
  20. I would definitely give a large portion of my winnings to the person who gave the ticket as a gift if it was over $500. However, upon realizing I won the lottery I wouldn't tell a soul, get in my car and take a drive to the lottery office in Toronto. That ticket would hidden in a ziplock bag somewhere in the nether regions. lol. I've heard of people getting killed or stabbed over a winning lottery ticket. Trust no one when it comes to this sort of thing. Unless of course, it's your immediate family. Extended family tend to have flappy lips and everyone and your cousin x amount of times removed will be knocking at your door looking for a handout.
  21. I also used to work out of a place downtown Ottawa specifically for incalls only and the director of the condo board lived right next door. I was very low volume and only doing 1 hour or multiple hour appts at the time. What I used to do is as soon as I buzzed them in, I would go wait at the door and hear the elevator to come up, look out the peep hole and then would open the door for the client before they could ever knock. That woman who was head of the condo board always complained when I opened the closet door or if I was laughing on the phone with a friend or even breathed for that matter. The walls were terribly thin. But not once did she know my business. I have the ability to be very unassuming when I want to be and I dressed very low key and blended in. Thankfully it was a 2 bedroom and I used the other room that didn't share the same wall with her condo. However one day I heard her and her husband having sex in the middle of the night and she was a screamer so I banged on the wall. I never heard anything again. I used to spy on my neighbors and figure out all their schedules. lol. Years later I saw this woman in Holt Renfrew and still have that sound of her screaming behind the wall etched in my brain! Yuck!
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