Nicolette Vaughn

It's amusing to see how Peter Mackay makes himself look like such a douchebag for lack of better words with this bill and such contradictions in what he has proposed.. The Cons have shot themselves in the foot with this issue but time and time again, Harper's attitude is to just plead ignorance as always or as I'm sure we've all heard out of his mouth.. " I've had no knowledge of that." I know I've seen this type of statement quoted in the papers on more than one ocassion. Just wait and see how much these new laws will negatively impact the lives of people they don't even bother to address let alone acknowledge that they exist. You'll never EVER get my vote douchebag Cons! And as a result, the thoughts of retiring come to mind. If I can't work safely then what is the point? Moral legislation at its finest. They might as well call themselves right wing Republicans!

I'm a provider and knowing what many clients have told me and how they do love their wives but seek something that isn't in the marriage anymore or for other various reasons is very common. Everyone has their reasons for seeking out SPs or MAs, etc. I fully understand this and don't judge. Otherwise I wouldn't be in this line of work. I also know what it's like to be in her position and to be blindsighted by this. So I understand from both sides of the fence. Jabba, do you know what it's like to have your partner seek outside physical intimacy without your knowledge? Maybe you do, maybe you don't but please do not put words in my mouth! I never said she was a victim. It takes two in a marriage and a lot of work to keep a marriage going. Interpret it as you see fit but what you are alluding to is just plain wrong!

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I've been in the same situation when I was in your position once upon a time. Looking back, I find that those who see escorts or frequent massage parlours are looking for something physical. Imo, I consider it far worse if a man were to have an emotional affair than to visit a sex worker. Men are also visual creatures. I'm not condoning what your husband has done but if there has been a lack of communication or lack of sex, men decide to take things into their own hands. I think the best thing to do is confront your husband and let him know that you know about his activities and ask him why. Communication is key here and then you can begin to make sense of it all. And please don't blame yourself. Posted via Mobile Device

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Frankly I'm tired of what Peter Mackay thinks is best for me. While I agree with the notion that there should not be any type of hierarchy where sex work is concerned, I do think that those who do this for a living and are happy with their line of work should be heard. While no job is perfect and everyone has their moments, I'm content with what I do for a living and this is about legislation, NOT moral legislation! I will be writing a letter based on the fact that I have a right to voice my opinion not just as a sex worker but a Canadian citizen. I don't believe in different sets of legislation for different types of sex workers because at the end of the day we are all providing the same service. However, I do agree that our experiences need to be told to show such people as Joy Smith that we cannot all be painted with the same brush regarding stigmatization. No two sex workers are the same but the Conservative government seems to think so. I encourage other ladies to write a letter in order to be heard. Let's not make this a debate on street workers v.s. Indoor workers rather women who make up this industry and have the right to be heard. Posted via Mobile Device

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Asking an SP if they do all the things they "don't" do when they already know that the answer is no. Same with negotiating and "give me a better deal for an hour" while literally in the middle of a session. Sigh... a very good way to ruin the mood.

My next pet will be called Franky. I don't know where that came from but just popped out of my head. lol. Strongly leading towards a Pom after doing my research. I miss having a pet. He will certainly have some swag with all those little doggie clothes. :)

I have no pets right now ( my tabby is with my ex because of the outdoor space which I don't have) and really missing having one. I want this Pomeranian...So cute! He would have every ounce of my attention! lol.

I may have mentioned this before but I never wear underwear. lol

Don't ask someone to drink on an appt at 9 am.. Second of all, I don't drink alcohol anymore and never really did... unless of course it was a Cerb social that I helped organize.lol. Guilt trips because an SP said she doesn't drink anymore! C'mon!

A tribute to both of my cats ( Brothers) who passed in Jan 2012 and Jan 2014. I've had them since 1997 when they were kittens.

I go with my intuition and have a conversation with them for a few minutes. I listen to their voice, the way they speak to me, the questions they ask and even if they sound sweet and charming, that warning bell can go off in my head. It's weird because I can pick up a person's energy too and I listen to my instincts all the time. Ted Bundy was sweet and charming too. Psychic abilities run in my family and as time goes by, my intuition become more well honed.

There is nothing we can worry about or try to control until this bill is etched in stone. My prediction is that it will be modified. There will be ways around this. Find your trusted providers and stick to them if you are concerned.

Porkchops marinated in a brown sugar sauce with long grain wild rice.

This sounds just like the old days except for the texting part. LOL! When I first started as an SP, the ladies did NOT speak about sexual services on the phone ( acronyms did not exist), no one negotiated, there was none of this 15 minute b.s. or "How much for just a bj?" The client paid the rate for "time and companionship" which was reiterated over and over to each client. The client anticipated a good time. If they didn't, they never called back to repeat with that particular SP. The lady showed up, she didn't touch the envelope until some sort of sexual advance was made by either her or the client. That's how you knew neither was LE. The laws were consdiered a grey area back then and during this time in Ottawa, incalls were not a popular choice among SPs. If they did offer them, it was with established regulars. As years passed, SPs and clients alike became more courageous because they knew LE weren't enforcing the laws if you kept your head down and flew under the radar. The industry changed and kept evolving and business carried on. This is how it was always done in the early days ( before the internet and when the internet was in its infancy with escort industry sites) and this is the way it will have to be done again. If certain laws are passed especially regarding bawdy houses and making sure no one under the age of 18 is or could be present, the question will be how far LE will go to enforce such laws if passed? Will they have the budget to do it? It will be interesting to see how it plays out and how far they will go to prosecute. As Forunateone pointed out, they will go after the easiest targets and that's sexworkers who are on the streets.

<p>I think this bill will not pass and what we will see is a watered down version of it. This was probably presented in a bid to make the Conservative government look good right now. If a backlash ensues, it will not be looking good on them and onto a bigger issue. Right now everyone is thinking the worst and that's why they want is to put fear in people. Where there are laws,there will always be loopholes. P.s Peter Mackay can go f**k himself. What does he care about the sex industry? he already has his former beauty queen.</p> <p><font size="1"><i>Posted via Mobile Device</i></font></p>

I've been away for a bit and only had my profile open to those who were friends. Even though I changed it back, it seems as though it is still on private profile as someone else mentioned that they couldn't view my profile. Can someone who isn't on my friends list, please tell me if they can view my full profile and have access to viewing my pictures? Thank-you.

I've had many men say to me "My Dear" and for some reason it just feels normal. I'm from east coast and have heard soooo many people say that to me, I don't think twice about it. However, I don't see it as fake like other terms used to address a person. I usually see the word "Hun" in a text. I have many welll established clients I call "Honey" but it's more of a term of endearment after I've spent time with them. It is what it is. Go to Baltimore and you will hear "Hon" all the time! lol.

Don't insult an SP by requesting this. If you feel there is too much risk for you to go see an SP, don't go see one. Anyone can get an STI, not just a service provider and this is a great way to never hear from an SP again. There is always risk and the only risk free way is abstaining from sexual activities and intercourse all together. Don't expect an SP to clear your mind where STDS are concerned. You are responsible for your own sexual health as is everyone else.

And don't forget "My Duckie"! lol.

Seduction can summed up in one phrase..Actions speak louder than words! Unless of course, they're dirty seductive words that are music to a man's ears. Most, if not all seductive women are certainly acquainted with the entire vocabulary! lol

I am single and enjoy being ME without any certain expectations one would have when in a relationship.

Guys who hem and haw over text deciding if they want to see you making up endless excuses because they are new and nervous. It's understandable with newbies and I'm great with first timers in person but only to a certain extent via text before you realize they are truly waffling yet want to have an entire conversation about it. When you don't answer back they try to guilt trip you saying they think they've scared you off. Sorry I don't have time to text back and forth all day waiting for someone to make a decision. The person either wants to come or they don't. I'm not one for hand holding unless you want to hold my hand in person. -) LOL. Another one.. I can find it humorous now but certainly not at the time. "Hello Nicki?" 2 minutes later..."??" 1 minute later..."Nicki? Are you there?" 2 minutes later.."Hello?" 1 minute later.."Helloooooo?" 30 seconds later...Nicki wanting to throw the phone in the toilet. I enjoy what I do but damn that's aggravating! lol. I get one of these at least once a week and that's being conservative. Hehe.