Nicolette Vaughn
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Happy Birthday want some fun
Nicolette Vaughn replied to spud271's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Happy Birthday Want Some Fun! Hope you have a great day! -
Happy Birthday Miquelon!
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Cato's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Happy Birthday Miquelon! Hope you have a great day! -
A La Carte Rates
Nicolette Vaughn replied to HarveySpecter's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
My rates are all inclusive but if there is a special service I can offer, I will advertise it for a limited time. For example, I have this really nice big bath tub and never use it. Could be something special on 1 hour appts. -
Do You Believe In Love?
Nicolette Vaughn replied to drlove's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Love is similar to asking someone if they're happy. Both are very fleeting and elusive just like the initial feelings of "falling in love". That honeymoon phase doesn't last forever. Love is something that is earned over time like respect. It's easy to think you're in love or that you believe in it but it happens with time and it's a give and take thing. I can't say I believe in it so much anymore. It can be easy to love someone but love that transcends over time is built on so many other factors such as trust, committment, loyalty to the relationship and not just the other person, A LOT of compromising and being able to take personal responsibility while admitting your actions and wrong doings in the worst of times. The biggest thing is respect. Once that is gone, it all goes to shit. Love is fostered by give and take. I still stand by what I said last year in this thread but I'm recently single and woke up a few days ago and ended a relationship. Via text. That says it all! Looking back, I feel foolish for having invested in it now that I know the outcome but like I said before, you will always take something from a failed relationship and hopefully learn from it. In some ways, it gave me a lot of other things I was missing in my life at the time and for that I can feel grateful. However, love is blind. Not feeling the love at this moment. -
Our dear friend THE LIQUOR
Nicolette Vaughn replied to CristyCurves's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Sending big hugs your way Liquor. Thinking of you! xoxo -
Time-Wasting Opinions!
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Wolf Knight's topic in New to this? Things you should know...
To be honest, I do not like emails and do not have it lasted as a method of contact. I'm alo not a fan of the back and forth banter or the long winded messages. I don't have time for this and am someone who likes to get straight to the point with as much info as possible. I am someone who has a presence on this site and figure they should know me well enough and have read my ads to gain some sort of insight as to who I am as a provider. I expect that when a person PMs me, they are ready to book or close to it. I look for their questions to be geared towards my services as an SP and not those that are considered playful or not a serious inquiry. I am also open to addressing and anwering questions especially from gents who are new to this and need to know a few more things yet I can read between the lines when I know it's not going anywhere in a PM. While I am aware and appreciate those who follow me on this site, I am not here to seek out personal friendships. I am here to establish a friendly business relationship between myself and my clients and it is a respected one. I am very good at what I do but I also don`t think that just because I am an SP and a member of this site, that it`s a free for all for having others take advantage of my kindness. That`s where I draw the line. Im not interested in members who want to create some sort of "Romeo" type online personna who sends PMs to every SP wanting to meet`only to follow through with failed promises and gets caught up in his own ego stroking to the ladies that he actually tends to forget what is he doing and how it makes him look. Those SPs who do take time to cultivate relaitonships with male members here do not appreciate having their time wasted with empty promises. Being on the this site and communicating with others here can take up a good portion of an SP`s time and it`s the cost of doing business. However, being here has its advantages so one can only hope that the time spent here does work out for her in the end to some degree. If you're going to contact an SP, do so with good intentions. And not contact a dozen other SPs at the same time with promises to meet and not follow through or get them in the chat room to try and have them become your own personal 1-900 sex operator at any given moment. No one appreciates taking the time to speak with someone who could be a potential client and then having their time wasted or be taken advantage of. We all know why we are here so lets call a spade a spade. I`m not someone who is considered all business and I definitely enjoy what I do but I also don`t work for free either. Having said all that, I appreciate all my customers and feel appreciated when they end me a "Hello" type message once in a while or a "Thank-you" message but I just can't get involved in the endless back and forth conversation. It's just not who I am and I'd rather be honest than grin and bear this sort of thing. People know me for saying it like it is and I think I did just that.lol. I hope people can understand that. -
When you ask how the place is decorated, what are some items you are looking for that sets the mood and tone for an encounter? I've had incall locations that were professionally decorated that really created a nice vibe and I've used other locations where the interior was basic but provided the necessities. Clutter is not something that is appealing and minimalistic is best with the right accessories such as pillows, lighting, etc. I've also used a location of a friend of mine on a regular basis and they are an interior designer.lol. Sometimes the little things like candles, lamps, bedding provides a nice touch to make things more comfortable and sensual.
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Why ask me if I am a cop?
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Meaghan McLeod's topic in Legal discussion, cases & questions
American t.v. shows portray this wayyyy too much of LE posing as escorts or clients. The prostitutions laws differ greatly here in Canada as it is NOT illegal to be a prostitute whereas in the U.S it is. I believe that one has to familiarize themselves with the prostitution laws in Canada before meeting an escort. Being paranoid and asking an SP if she is a cop is not a valid one if one isn't aware of the laws regarding prostitution. And it's a question that isn't going to give someone brownie points with the ladies. Instead they may ask that person to leave. If a person has hesitations about this then maybe it's not a good idea to meet an SP in the first place. If a client is really worried that an SP may be LE, rest assured that once she touches you sexually and she is fully naked, you know damn well she is not a police officer. Discuss rates and services before visiting and if these questions aren't brought on by the SP at the beginning of the visit, she is NOT LE. Also, visit ladies who are reputable and well known and you won't have any problems. Just do not pick up a woman on a street corner. They focus more on streetworkers. -
How to make requests
Nicolette Vaughn replied to CaptJaG's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
When you have a request, the best way to communicate it is to send a PM or email to the SP and start out by telling her what it is you are looking for. Most SPs are receptive to this when it's done in a manner that shows you took the time to write it as opposed to saying "xxxxxx?" or one of the many one liners in PMs, emails or texts that an SP gets on a daily basis. This isn't to say that you would write that but when it is conveyed in a respectful manner, you are likely to get a better reponse. Don't get too long winded about it and keep it succinct. Most SPs prefer it that way as many of us don't have time for back and forth exchanges ( I know I don't!) to only request a specfic service in the fourth or fifth email or Pm. An intro with your name, age, your experience in seeing SPs, what you enjoy in the bedroom and what you like from an SP during your time together will show the SP that you are serious and not wasting her time. Straightforward in a nice, respectful way that is not crude is what many of us look for. -
Congrat Alb49 for 500 posts and your contributions to Cerb!
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What music are you listening to right now?
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Meaghan McLeod's topic in Fun Threads
"Work Bitch" - Britney Spears -
Breaking Bad
Nicolette Vaughn replied to MightyPen's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I'm going to try to get into watching this show. I'm still on season one and found it slow and draining but everyone I know says the Walter character gets better so I will try watching it again.lol. -
I know how you feel. Imagine doing it for 10 years! Additional Comments: I broke my crank in my bathroom window last week and yes, I had a few disappear as well.
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An AMEX gift card
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what are you doing at this very minute?
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Exotic Touch Danielle's topic in Fun Threads
Watching the Lindsay Lohan interview with Oprah Winfrey. Maybe she will take a page from Robert Downey Jr. She still has a chance and if RD Jr. did it, so can she. I always try to find the good in people. -
I remember another Asian provider in Toronto on another site who made a mistake in the spelling of the same name "Sexy Angel" only for her board name to be registered as "Sexy Angle" so she stuck with it after people started calling her that. lol.
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Do you know how many clients who are men/ past bfs/friends that I've asked to take a few pics for me? Does this mean I'm being exploited as well? Yes, okay considering I'm a very established SP. FFS, c'mon! Your post provides no proof and too much speculation on your part and you have just implied that she is a drug addict! I cannot believe what I'm reading here! If you are wrong, you have just ruined an SP's business! Not cool! Enough of the fear mongering! Until you have absolute proof that this SP is underage, you should not be posting this publicly. You sir, have a lot to learn about this industry before you go and decide to ruin some poor woman's image when she is only trying to make a living. Shame on you!
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what are you doing at this very minute?
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Exotic Touch Danielle's topic in Fun Threads
Just uploaded some new pics. -
I'm blonde again and hair is a tiny bit shorter and more manageable. :)
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Touch - 2000 Touching Posts
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Midnite-Energies's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Congrats on your 2000 milestone. Here's to many more posts! -
what are you doing at this very minute?
Nicolette Vaughn replied to Exotic Touch Danielle's topic in Fun Threads
Wartching Obama's speech on CNN about U.S. healthcare.