Nicolette Vaughn

I have a regular I'm fond of who calls me hundreds of different pet names and thought it was phony at first but he is a very affectionate person. There is only one person I call handsome but I do have clients that are handsome and will tell them so. I'm east coast so I always call people "My Dear" sometimes but I don't ever call guys "Hun". I find that a bit too much. It doesn't sound or feel right.

Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day!

Happy birthday Cowboy Kenny!

A friend of mine who goes hunting placed a camera for the deer in the woods this past summer only to see this... lmao Additional Comments: A text this morning from one of my most favourite gentlemen friends.

Brown sugar (the Splenda kind) glazed porkchops with long grain wild rice.

I've always wondered about this as well so I started asking clients what they thought about implants just out of curiosity. Most told me they preferred natural and asked me why I was asking since I'm naturally heavy chested. I thought what would it be like not being full figured anymore and losing my chest size of more than DD right now. At best, Im 36B when very slim and then I have to think about gravity, etc. My decision would have to be my own and not care what anyone else thinks but it can affect an SP's business especially when it comes to regulars. I also have regulars tell me not to lose weight but that's my decision. I wonder if an SP could potentially lose clients going from full naturals to implants. I just don't want to lose weight and have my breasts be saggy. On the other hand, I don't like the thought of having scars. I guess I will cross that bridge when I come to it. Hopefully I don't have to pull them up like knee socks!!! Just kidding!

We used to have a bidet separate from the toilet in our house when I was young. I used to wash my feet in there. Lol. They are very convenient for its regular purpose.

Made some scented soap...

Black Mass with Johnny Depp...It's about American Irish gangster James "Whitey" Bulger.

Thanksgiving dinner at the Keg Manor. Party of 7.

An afternoon alone with zero ways to communicate with anyone. Watched Scarface for the first time. I think I'm almost 35 years late for that one. lol.

Clients should keep the "Captain-Save-a-Ho" schitck for their inner voice. SPs do not need "fatherly lectures" on how unsafe their business is or that they can't do this forever. We understand this and do not need to be told. That is not a client's concern no matter how close a client thinks they've gotten with the SP. There is a fine line between caring about someone and lecturing them. It is hypocritical and more or less a put down especially after that client has partaken in supporting industry activities and more or less to ease their possible guilty conscience for whatever reasons that are none of our business. Everyone follows their own path and if the mood is going to be ruined, it definitely will be with these types of comments. Lol.

A lean cuisine. It's been a long day since 6 am.. I could close my eyes right now.

I don't have many clients who do the reverse massage but that's their loss because it really turns me on and I feel much more inclined to reward them even more for their efforts.. My idea of receiving a massage these days is going to a male RMT a couple of times a month who tortures the hell out of me with trigger point therapy and goes for the knots but I always feel amazing after! In fact I can still feel his thumbprint in my back from the other day! Lol

If the OP is going on business, the SP will have some time apart and some time for herself. I have travelled with some regulars before and I made sure I had some time to myself. They often had business meetings to go to and I would find some things to do on my own. I have one gentleman I have spent full 3 days with him because we get along so well and I can be myself around him. When that happens, it's amazing! In the past, I went traveling with one American gentlemen across North America. California was our favourite state. I remember driving down the highway in Memphis in a convertible Mustang and he had to hold my hair because it was flying everywhere. We always used to laugh about that. I would only go travelling with men I feel extremely comfortable with and have known for a while and the rate is very reasonable because I really enjoy being around them. The chemistry definitely has to be there and I don't just mean in the bedroom. That can wear thin quickly. Otherwise you really don't know what you're in for on either side. On ocassion, I'd find myself waking and crawling under the covers to "wake" them up while they were sleeping. It's the little things like that that make it great!

Led teeth whitening

A quick trip to Bahamas for when it is the dead of winter here.

I meant to post this a few weeks ago after the "Rocketman" speech...

My handsome. I found him as a kitten. He appeared to be in good health but looked as though someone simply dumped him. Found him one Sunday morning near the Ottawa River and took him home. The rest is history. My two older cats at the time HATED him! Lol Total tomcat in every way. Lol. He loves the outdoors.

Some more scenic pictures Ive taken as a beginner..

The reason it's still happening is because some men will see the person at the door and just think that while they don't quite look like that person or maybe not at all, they are still attractive according to their standards and are horny, they will stay. This will stop when men won't tolerate it anymore. They do it because they get can get away with it because men are letting it happen. However it seems in the last few years, BP is one stop shop and not a lot of people care to do research anymore. In the past, reviews boards were huge. Not so much anymore. BP quick shopping is the trend until something else takes it place. Everything evolves. Since BP, the standards have gone down when everyone and their mother can throw up an ad, get a room and use fake pictures especially when someone else is the driving force behind it all. Hobbyists who have been around long enough will tell you the same thing. Situations and circumstances vary with all these ads and with fake pictures that look too good to be true, they usually are. Additional Comments: BP is definitely not free if you want your ad at the top of the list. I can't remember the last time I advertised on BP but a few years ago, some escort ads were at the $10-12 mark prior to their credit card fiasco.

A client should never put his foot in his mouth and say idiotic or derogatory things to an SP. You can never unring a bell. I've gotten rid of some clients after they put their foot in their mouth out of the blue one day and my respect for them was lost forever. Get comfortable with an SP but not too comfortable. A client should never try to be funny in a mean spirited or demeaning way or pushing the boundaries by trying to give an SP advice particularly about our business and how "unsafe" it is. We are offering a service, not here to be lectured. In the end, these types of clients come off looking like foolish jerks.

Relaxing after a long day that started at 6:30 am.

In my big bathtub in the dark lol...

You would be surprised. I know many ladies particularly more mature ones who don't advertise and some other women might want to string them up if they knew how much they made all because they cultivated regular clients and actually kept them without even having to advertise. They pick and choose who they want to see. Myself, I don't see men under 30 because I'm not comfortable with that age group. I have never had to change this decision because the phone wasn't ringing. Your views regarding the industry are skewed on this subject. In fact, I am someone who defies that. I am not 20 years old, I am not model slim but I consider myself attractive with a personality and very skilled. I have many repeat clients. There are plenty of men out there who view women in this business differently and age or lost youth has nothing to do with it. Nor does having to do things we don't want to because the "client pool" is drying up. Not everyone wants a 20 year old. Yes, there is a difference between women who don't market themselves well and those who brand themselves but if they have certain convictions they stand by, the amount of money they make or not make doesn't really come into play where choices are concerned. I don't accept blocked calls/texting apps when I advertise as many other women don't either. Sometimes I will find other ways to screen them via reference etc but I stick to what I feel comfortable with. I realize I'm probably losing out on some good clients but my safety comes first. Money isn't the first priority and I don't feel I'm missing anything. I prefer quality and not some Joe Blow who may or may not have an agenda. I cultivate one client at a time and not thinking of getting fast cash in the moment. Not everyone is comfortable with certain ethnic groups. Just as some men don't like bigger women or vice versa, young or mature. It could be a cultural difference and that's their prerogative just as it is with clients who have specific preferences. I could whine about how some men don't like me because I'm full figured but then I'd be wasting my time focusing on the negative. Instead I focus on men who prefer my body type.