Nicolette Vaughn

I'm sooooo envious! He/she is soooo cute! Additional Comments: Saw one of my favorite gents today!

Eff you Jeep! I need a new battery for mine.

I love the tutus! lol

Way to go Sami!

Congrats Savannah!

Visited my Dad today. :)

Pulled a muscle in my neck a couple of days ago... don't ask but it was sex related. lol. Feeling much better after sleeping with no pillow the last few nights.

The spa A bottle of nice wine A nice bath in my big roman bathtub

No worries, rolls off my back esp considering the source. lol.

The pleasure would be all mine! And yours of course. lol. ;)

Don't ask for advice then from w****s, pimps and Johns then when you don't hear the answer or solution that you want to hear. We're not here to hold your hand. You cearly have issues and you're right... solve your own problems.

I'm currently using a friend's place in the west end and they have a siamese cat there and he is kind of weird. I always shut the bedroom door when a client is there and he doesn't bother me but he has this thing about sitting on my things and then swatting me. When I try to pet him, he always pulls out his paw. Last week after a client left, I had set my cell phone and cash down on a bench. He sat on both things and when I went to move them away, he swatted me and then violently hissed at me. I was like wtf? However, he is declawed but he just freaked on me. Yesterday he bit me. lol. Not a fan of siamese cats. I once went out with a guy who had one and trying to sleep at his place was a God damn nightmare. The cat would go to sleep on both of our pillows and having sex was always interrupted because she would be meowing at the door. There seemed to be a competition going on for his affection and she did not like how I kind of moved in on her turf. You couldn't pet her without her freaking out which is like the cat at my incall.

Different colors of paint

How come the people who work at certain cell phone companies whose name I won't mention are fucking morons and don't know what the hell they're doing?

And another example of this is...How come some SPs advertise as a "GFE experience" when the "E" already stands for "experience"? I admit I've written it this way before. LOL!

Imo as a sex industry worker is to just back off completely. No good will come of this and do you really truly know this woman? Have you NOT paid her at anytime to go out with you? If so, this is still a paid relationship. And just because she has appeased you in her lust for her probably means she finds this whole situation awkward and with the "We shall see" type comment. She doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to see you where a personal relationship is concerned. If she had feelings for you, you wouldn't be visiting her at the MP and paying for her time. She is probably at the point where she wants to keep you as a customer but your lust for her makes this difficult and what if one day she tells you she can't see you anymore? How is that going to play out? I'm saying this because I had to deal with this once ( non cerb member) from an SP's point of view, he crossed all boundaries asking me to dinner knowing I was personally involved with someone. It's like he just tried to barge into my personal life without a care in the world with the hopes he could win me over. He would put me on the spot trying to get me to go to dinner and not be compensated for my time and not realizing or getting the hint that it's crossing boundaries. I had to let him go as a client after knowing him for 5 months and he was very selfish not ever once thinking about me, always trying to get more time for free without ever once being considerate and was up to seeing me 3 times a week. It was too much and he would attach himself without it being reciprocal most likely because he was involved with a dancer who used him and treated him like shit. Seeing him became a chore and when I get that feeling, it's time to end it. I don't like to see people that I won't enjoy being with just for the sake of money. No amount of money is worth the anguish. He didn't take the rejection too well but I didn't lead him on and never went out with him for free. It's against my rules as an SP. Have you ever asked this woman honestly how she felt about you? This sounds all completely one sided and I agree that you are infatuated with her and the idea of her. But the personna she may be giving off may not completely be the real her. I think you are replacing her with something you are missing in your life and seeing SPs or MA's is just a short term fix. You need to ask yourself what you're missing in life. Additional Comments: Imo as a sex industry worker is to just back off completely. No good will come of this and do you really truly know this woman? Have you NOT paid her at anytime to go out with you? If so, this is still a paid relationship. And just because she has appeased you in her lust for her probably means she finds this whole situation awkward and with the "We shall see" type comment. She doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to see you where a personal relationship is concerned. If she had feelings for you, you wouldn't be visiting her at the MP and paying for her time. She is probably at the point where she wants to keep you as a customer but your lust for her makes this difficult and what if one day she tells you she can't see you anymore? How is that going to play out? I'm saying this because I had to deal with this once ( non cerb member) from an SP's point of view, he crossed all boundaries asking me to dinner knowing I was personally involved with someone. It's like he just tried to barge into my personal life without a care in the world with the hopes he could win me over. He would put me on the spot trying to get me to go to dinner and not be compensated for my time and not realizing or getting the hint that it's crossing boundaries. I had to let him go as a client after knowing him for 5 months and he was very selfish not ever once thinking about me, always trying to get more time for free without ever once being considerate and was up to seeing me 3 times a week. It was too much and he would attach himself without it being reciprocal most likely because he was involved with a dancer who used him and treated him like shit. Seeing him became a chore and when I get that feeling, it's time to end it. I don't like to see people that I won't enjoy being with just for the sake of money. No amount of money is worth the anguish. He didn't take the rejection too well but I didn't lead him on and never went out with him for free. It's against my rules as an SP. Have you ever asked this woman honestly how she felt about you? This sounds all completely one sided and I agree that you are infatuated with her and the idea of her. But the personna she may be giving off may not completely be the real her. I think you are replacing her with something you are missing in your life and seeing SPs or MA's is just a short term fix. You need to ask yourself what you're missing in life.

U is for underneath you.

Congrats! And thanks for your contribution to Cerb!

Congrats Meaghan on 1000 posts and for your contribution to Cerb!

Approaching a man with a compliment without looking desperate is to do it in a subtle manner and finding a reason to strike up a convo with him. For instance if you're in the produce section at a grocery store and you're both picking out vegetables, say something about the vegetables. Be friendly but not overly. Make it seem natural with eye contact and smile. Then you can sequeway into something about him having a nice smile or whatever it is you find attractive. However, it has to be a quality that isn't sexual. Men like women who appear to be in control in a confident way without coming on too strong. Then walk away and don't look back. If he's interested, he will make an attempt to continue contact with you. Engaging men and being friendly with still a bit of mystique and a touch of playing hard to get always work. If they're interested, they will want to know more. ;)

Reuniting with a nice Cerb gent. Thanks for a great time! xo

Was removing long sheer curtains before someone else moves into my house and carrying them down the stairs and suddenly slipping on them and falling on my ass. My first intial reaction was to start crying because of shock...and worse...crying in front of a total stranger who was moving a deep freezer for me.

I'm not a big ice cream person but I enjoy Oreo icecream and Baskin & Robbin's Maui Brownie Madness. Now I need a sugar free flavor...

If a client jerks an SP around enough ( cancelling multiple times) or no shows her then it's justified. Don't waste their time by doing this and there won't be a problem. Most won't call back and are considered time wasters and would be blacklisted by the SP. And if an SP did this, there would be holy hell to pay for if it were a last minute cancellation or she no showed. A professional SP will make it up to the client at a reduced rate or more time offered. If a client is intent on seeing a certain SP then keep the appt or cancel in sufficient amount of time. Other businesses will ask for the same so why should it be any different for an SP? I recently missed a hair appt because I was sick and cancelled on short notice and had to pay a cancellation fee of $100. Why? because it's policy and I respect the guy who's been doing my hair for the last 13 years and he is losing money. Short term cancellations aren't that easy to replace right away. And I also respect him and what he does.

Happy Birthday! Enjoy your day!