Nicolette Vaughn

Congrats on 1000 posts and for your contribution. I enjoy your wit and sense of humour. Here's to more posts!

I hate to say it but the OP would be called a "White Knight" and an ass kisser to the ladies. That's okay...I like having my ass kissed. ;) Thank-you to those who are gentlemen. The rest can get a life because they are so miserable if they feel the need to disparage women.

LOL.....Bah...killed 9 more wasps today...good thing I'm not living there. Need more Raid!

No, the wasps are in my other house. No choice but to live with the ghosts.

Long before Laura Dotson ( the blonde auctioneer) was a star on the A&E's hit show "Storage Wars", she was a contestant on the Price is Right in the 90's and her, her husband Dan Dotson and other family were also contestants on the game show Family Feud.

The expliotation of organized religion. Bullying Abuse towards women and children Animal abuse Enviromental issues like littering

A glass fell off my kitchen counter tonight and it was nowhere near the edge! No one else is in my house right now. How do you explain that?

Went to my other house that sits empty until the next long weekend. What do I find? Wasps flying around and dead ones on the floor. I suspect they got through the vent from outside, made a nest and went through the other vent in the house. I killed 29 wasps in a 3 hour period with a can of raid. F***K!!!!! Had to call an exterminator but that's not going to happen today... Still killing them!

I see what you're saying...To answer your question, a connection has to be developed. This can be evident from the first encounter through chemistry but the good connections develop over time. I have many great connections with my regular clients but *they* know it doesn't go further than the SP/client relationship meaning they come to see me with anticipation, we have a lot of fun and we go our separate ways until the next time. I wouldn't view having a connection with a client as leading someone on as long as both parties know what the score is. Most of my clients are married and have no interest in an emotional attachment with me outside of what other than we do during our time together. My clients have an affection for me and I know that they care about me to a certain degree. I had one recently boost my vehicle with his after the light was left onside all night. Imo, a connection cannot be considered role-playing and that to me implies that it is something phony. There has to be some chemistry there to begin with. I've had clients come and go where there wasn't much going on in the chemistry department at the beginning but they returned again and again where a connection slowly developed over time. I've also had clients come and return just for the service where it is friendly but we both know that they want the service without te connection. And in my experience there are varying degrees of connections. Some are friendly, some are hot and heavy and some are intense but the key is the connection that occurs during that time stays within that time until both SP/client meets again.

To put it bluntly, these men who say these things still had sex that `fat pig`` , the SP with `gross acne scars`and the chick `with cellulite that looked like an orange peel``. We are NOT models and never claim to be ``perfect``. You are paying us for our time and YOU paid to be with her and did not walk away so to write about this is almost like an oxymoron. What I would say is take a look in the mirror. Are you Brad Pitt yourself. Just because you are paying, doesn`t mean you`re better or holier than thou. To the men who do appreciate us, thank-you! We certainly appreciate you!

Many guys tend to fall in lust ( not love) with the idea of the SP and what *they* think she is or the image she portrays in her business. I am pretty much a genuine person but I also have my faults/flaws and am not perfect. Some clients tend to fall in love with the illusion we offer. It's a fantasy and that is what draws men towards SP. Personally, I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me and for an SP, it is extremely awkward to have to deal with a customer who crosses boundaries and doesn't respect them. Do you really want to know all of me including the not so good side? Most likely not. I once had to deal with this sort of situatuon with someone who isn't a Cerb member and met them as a client through another type of escort advertising. Having to be put on the spot about phrases like "I think you're great and I consider you a friend. I would really like to take you out to dinner or a movie." or "Anytime you feel horny, give me a call." And all the while knowing full well about my personal situation and NOT respecting it by pushing their way in. How am I supposed to respond to this? Shall I be clear, blunt and be a bitch and say "Is this off the clock?" or "Okay, I can go out with you, it's going to be this much." How is a client who is clearly falling for an SP going to respond to this? I know what it's going to be...disappointment, rejection and I'm a money hungry bitch. it will be all put back on me when I'm just trying to do my job but put in a situation where it is only one sided. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or to hang out on the side! I am well aware that some ladies do this and some unsavory women may use men despite the type of job they hold in this industry but I'm not one of those women. I see my clients, give it a 100% when I'm with them and that's it untll they decide to call or text me again. I do not contact them out of the blue, use them to my advantage to get extra money by leading them on. That's not the way I roll. I am not interested in having personal friendships with my clients and maintain two different worlds. Sorry to say but it can only go so far. Having to let someone down isn't easy because they are going to feel rejected either way even if it's put in a nice, polite way. If an SP isn`t being reciprocal in your advances to take time to see each other off the clock, take a hint and understand why. She is doing her job! I refuse to have a client turn this around on me and make me feel bad when THEY decide to blur the lines. if this is the case and my boundaries are not respected, I will no longer take them on as a client and it's not my fault. If a client can't understand the difference between a real friendship ( without being paid) and one with an SP who he pays, then he has to deal with some issues of his own. I've encountered a few clients who really did blur the lines and were in denial and didn't want to think of their favorite SP as someone who was in a business relationship with them. Often times, they have issues going on in their lives and quickly attach themselves emotionally to an SP due to the imtimate intricacies involved in an encounter. Many clients have said to me that they feel when they're with me that they don't even feel like they're with an SP because it feels so natural but they really are with an SP! Don`t get me wrong... I really do enjoy what I do for a living but it`s what I do for a living and I am good at it. It is not something that coincides with my personal life. If my personal life is affected and I feel anxious or awkward every time a clients pushes the boundaries, money is not an issue with me when it comes to my mental and emotional state. They will be asked not to return. Respect your SP..

I don't care either way.. as long as they're on the floor! lol.

I'm actually doing this program and have done it in the past but you have to make it a lifestyle. This is where I've failed in the past. There are many diabetics in my family and I have a serious sugar addiction and an emotional eater. if I don't get it under control now, it will come back to haunt me later. I am a non smoker and do not have the vices like ciagrettes to keep me skinny. Sugar is the kiss of death for me!! While the first few days of Atkins is difficult, after the third day you will feel better. You will never feel deprived or hungry. The sugar and carb cravings will soon go away once it's out of your system. Most of the meals I make are regular lunches or dinners but just modified such as not eating spaghetti. I cannot and will no longer do low calorie or low fat diets. This is what causes serious health problems such as adding more carbs to low fat or fat free products. Atkins has received a bad rep for not allowing any carbs or kidney issues. This is bullshit. You can eat carbs and through the different stages, they are worked back in but with good carbs. No fruit is allowed during the first phase. You would also have to eat copious amounts of protein to have some sort of issues with kidneys. I did the Atkins program 8 years ago for 9 months straight and went back to the doctor to have my cholesterol checked. It went down significantly after eating doing this program. Bacon and eggs were one of the daily meals that I ate. In moderation of course. I have more energy and I sleep better. While it is easy to lose weight on this diet quickly, that is not what I'm initially focused on this time around. I've been doing diets since my early 20's and it hasn't gotten me anywhere. I've gone up and down so many times, that I've lost count. I'm working on it but I consider myself a work in progress. Once I lose it, I want it to stay off for good. I am not always in the induction phase of this program at the moment because I need to create the patterns for good eating habits and doing this has helped me a great deal. One has to make the conscious decision to follow a lifestyle all in moderation. There is no secret, no magic pill or anything else that will make weight loss effortless. It's all about a will to live a healthy life and modifying former bad food habits with some hard work and determination thrown in there. Exercise keeps me feeling better as well. I walk, run and bought a new mountain bike as well and go everyday for 30-45 mins. Atkins works well for me because of my sugar addiction. It's all or nothing with me. I find I can't eat sugar in moderation because once I get the first taste, it's all downhill from there. To make up for any lacking vitamin or nutrients on this program, I supplement them with vitamins. This program isn't for everyone but if sugar is your problem, it may be worth looking into. One way to determine your progress on this program is to go the pharmacy and buy some keto sticks. When you uriniate, dip the stick into it and if it turns pink to a dark purple then you are in ketosis which means you're burning your own fat for fuel. A side effect of this is bad breath because you're burning ketones through your mouth but it's nothing mouthwash or gum can't take care of. I've also listed some resources that I use and order products online from Toronto to follow the lifestyle. http://www.thelowcarbgrocery.com/catalog/low-carb-c-132.html?gclid=CJ779Oe387gCFUhgMgodjz8Aog http://www.lowcarbcanada.ca/ And Sugar Free Sheila...She has been a good inspiration and she's hot too! lol. http://www.sugarfreesheila.com/

Damn you Ikea furniture! Was making the bed last night and hit the side of my thigh on the sharp corner of the footboard. Now have a painful bruise!

Congrats on 100 posts!

Imo, from what you just mentioned above, your friends are totally missing out on the act of intimacy in its entirety.

Yay! I need a damn good orgasm today...

I had a guy say this to me one time but we were both in our late teens. I was stunned. Ok, to some degree I can understand the snowballing. I'm not into cim but when a woman gives a man a bj without completion and he doesn't want to kiss her directly afterwards, I don't understand the problem. Is he afraid of his own cooties? lol.

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Was gardening in a white tank top. I turned on the hose and it happened to have a leak in it and soaked me entirely. I came around the corner of the house to try and get inside quickly without anyone noticing and of course my neighbor who is a dirty old man caught me in a soaked tank top.... nipples and all!!!

No tattoos Curly or straight haired women?

Regular chairs Car or pickup truck?

U is for underneath you!

My orange tabby brought back a rabbit in his mouth this morning...except he was still alive! This is the second time he's done this... I yelled at him to drop it and the rabbit hopped away. My cat has an interesting personality to say the least.