Nicolette Vaughn

I think it has been established in this thread thus far that there will always be someone trying to negotiate. As an SP, I will always anticipate this. I don't care if someone tries to ask me because I know what the answer is and it's going to be a resounding "No". However, it is another thing contacting an SP knowing full well and already stated that her rates are NON-NEGOTIABLE and someone trying to haggle them down. The real issue here is that *some* men ( not all) feel self entitled to be able to meet whomever they feel like and demand this sort of thing or not let up when the answer is already no. I've only had one person try and do this to me and I hung up on him. It's like he thought that he was entitled to see me for the rate that HE felt like paying and really got enraged when I declined. He claims that in his country they barter. I realize that bartering is considered the norm in other cultures and countries but for lack of better words, you're bargining for what is supposed to be an intimate service and this is insulting. Don't tell me what you think my pussy is worth to put it so bluntly. I told him where to go and hung up on him because he would not take no for an answer and became really irrate. Did he really think I would care to seem him after that display of rage? Not on your life. I've come across these sorts of customers in other businesses that I have worked in and when they become really irrate and the attacks become personal, that's when I remove myself from the situation. Some men out there also fail to realize that when being an SP, we also have to incur certain costs. For me, that is using someone else's location. Right now I have 3 different locations I use and since they are not mine, I have to pay by the appt to use it. So when I charge my quoted rate for a half hour, a small percentage of it is gone even though I am independent. I like doing it this way for various reasons and have no problems paying for space by the appt. So when someone is trying to low ball me, they are not even taking this into consideration and don't seem to care when I tell them. Plus I have to pay for gas to drive from one end of the city to another and with the vehicle I drive, it's not that cheap but I had already taken that into consideration when I determined what my rates would be. So after everything is said and done, I am out a minimum $40 on just a half hour for using the place and for gas in driving there and back home. I also feel that with the service I offer and the costs /time I have to incur that this price is very fair. If I were to let someone low ball me down and wanting a $100 for a half hour which I never would, at the end I would only walk away with $60. How is that fair after what I am going through to get to the appt in first place with the chance of someone no showing and no guarantees? Makes no sense. This can be a risky business ( bad dates, constant no shows, wierdos) and the ladies rates are warranted for this very reason. To sum it up, read the ad and/or website first to see if she states that there is no room for negotiation. It is rude to ask after knowing that she will not negotiate. Those are the people I have a problem with. I am a realist in the fact that there will always be low ballers but it's all in how you deal with them. I either ignore them or simply say no and end the convo. I let it roll off of me like water on duck's back unless they pursue it further and then I start to get annoyed. Those who do ask, I know that they simply don't feel I'm worth it and don't want to pay it so they are not going to the good service I provide. It's as simple as that and those are people I don't care to meet. I'm not a doormat and when you bargin, you will never get the "full service" a self entitled haggler thinks he is going to get. Is it pure arrogance on their part to assume they're going to get everything for nothing? Yes, very much so. However, arrogant people end up failing to realize a few things and clearly the solid dollar amount that they are so headstrong on paying becomes the main focus and don't recognize that they truly get what they pay for. And in these scenarios, it will be downgraded service and most likely not the full time they are supposed to be paying for. Would a customer like it if they visited an SP and she was all business at the beginning demanding money? I know it's a turn off so haggling over rates is very comparable to this. No one likes a haggler in this business so to those who negotiate, don't expect the best experience you've ever had. Many ladies may take your money but resent you for it at the same time and where there is resentment, there is less effort and completely warranted on her part. Additional Comments: Sorry to say but most of those guys from those classified sites end up finding cerb and continue with their negotiations on here. This isn't a bitching thread and not something to make light of due to the heat. It's a very common problem amongst the ladies.

I actually do that as well but I know what you guys are thinking as you have already used your imagination. Hehe!

Not a highlight today but yesterday ...Running into Megforfun at gas station. Second time now! lol.

Sitting in my finished basement Inground pool A/C in my truck I also like to rub ice cubes around my neck and chest. Feels so good!

I'm going for a dip in my mother's in ground pool. Even though I have a/c, the feel of the water is always nice!

A shout out to the wonderful gent I met this afternoon and thanks for the sexy leopard and lace dress! This is one for my picture album! Thanks again! xo

My SP friends and I call it "SP years". lol. I don't list my exact age because I don't think 30, 31, 32 or 33 really make a difference and also for privacy reasons. Age is just a chronological number. If an SP is saying she is 20 and is really 30 then that's a problem. No one has ever questioned my age and some people think I'm in my 20's. One guy thought I was 25! lol. I think that is too kind. I still get carded at the LCBO though. I advertise that I'm in my 30's because I am and for the actual age that I am, I think I look good. Most people are surprised when I tell them. I don't have a problem telling a client my age, I just don't list a specific number in public. It's not really anyone's business. There are some ladies who are insistent on posting their real age and that's fine but don't expect others to it as well because we all know that everyone is fudging the numbers or just don't want to list it. Personally, I don't feel that I have to and as far as I know, no one has had an issue with my age.

Getting ready to see a nice cerb gentleman.

This isn't directed at you Craig101 but in the above quote you mention why is there no consistency? Because everything in this industry has gone to shit. When I first started in this business, it was rare that guys tried to negotiate. Many SPs were in line and on par with their rates and there was no problem in receiving them because they set their rates to what the market could bear and being realistic. Yes, the economy was a lot better but that's beside the point. Now with all these classified sites, everything has run amok and gone the opposite direction. I do blame them because those sites are geared toward the mainstream public and women think they can get into this business with just having a cell phone, a lap top and throw some ad up. Seems as though gone are the days where being a companion and all its effort is just a "suck and fuck and get lost" to some for lack of better words. "No restrictions", etc, etc. I do wish there were some sort of set standards as there are in other professions. Still, there are ladies out there who take the time and effort and not just grab whatever cash they can get. That speaks volumes! I cannot stand those classified sites and stayed off of them for the last 4 months. I don't judge those for using them as I've used them myself and gotten a few good customers but I have found that I have to psych myself up to put an ad on there to deal with some of these people. Sometimes my hands were tied and had to advertise there to build up new customers. Here, I don't have that problem. This just makes me want to go start my own niche advertising site for myself and my SP friends where these classified type ads wouldn't exist.

Q is for quickie

O is for orgasm

C is for caring Miquelon

One Sunrise or sunset

A is for "amazing" sex

Y is for Yes, yes, yes!

S is for sexy

Back to somewhere August of 2000. Was visiting in the city my paternal Grandmother lived in. She wasn't the grandmother I wasn't close to because her and my Father had a falling out years before. My Aunt on my Mother's side asked if I wanted to go see her and I didn't want to stating that it would be too awkward. A year later, she died of throat cancer. I went to the funeral with only my sister and cried my eyes out. A decision I will always regret.

Corn Flakes Skim milk, 1 % or 2%?

Hangover Part 1 Beverly Hills Cop 1, 2 or 3?

I am a lover baby!

Got a lot of work done around the house and getting carded at the LCBO! lol.

Watching Hot in Cleveland.

P is for passion.

N is for naughty