Nicolette Vaughn

That was a great show! I don't know why they cancelled it. It had a lot of potential. :(

I would not be worrying right now wondering if this is cheating. That is just the ego part of your brain speaking now because you are hurt. You feel this is cheating on her part because you feel betrayed since she lied to you. She lied to you about something that is a big part of her life which is her job and what she does for a living. You need to confront her about this and decide for yourself if this is the road you wish to go down. You may not be able to trust her again. Ask yourself do you have a problem with her seeing men in what she does for a living? If so, end the relationship immediately. As someone who has been in relationships with men while doing this line of work, there needs to be full disclosure from the beginning which includes trust, honesty and communication. Right now the issue at hand is she lied to you and it happened to be about a job that already has a large stigma attached to it. If you don't feel you can trust her as this is a huge red flag, walk away because there will be resentment and I can tell you this type of work can be very difficult and if she feels she is going to be put down for it, the relationship will never work and you will both come to resent each other.

Enjoyed taking some scenic pictures

I would speak with the SP of your choice by text first to gain some insight as to what you can expect and also given your situation of embarking on losing your virginity. I've devirginized a few gentlemen over the years and communication definitely iskey. It is best to relay what you're looking for to avoid any disappointments. If you're looking on Backpage, please, please, please do your research. My advice would be to pick someone from Lyla. In one of these situations I made it really special for a young man and he enjoyed his experience. I also remember a good regular who introduced me to his 19 year old nephew and this is what he wanted for his birthday. Lol.

Wow! Sorry to hear that! It's those type of women that give other women in this business a bad name. It is the SP's responsibility to have condoms and that's a load of crap but they will say whatever to rip someone off and play the game.. Hopefully your next experience will be a better one! Additional Comments: Yes outcall can be very dangerous. I won't do outcalls in general. There are only two regulars I see at their place and one is disabled and the other is elderly and has mobility issues. Even if you think you know someone like a regular, you really don't. Going into someone else's environment can be unsettling for some. Myself included.

People who are CONSTANTLY trying to one up you. Holy shit it's exhausting. When the hell did I ever enter a race? I wasn't looking to compete. Everything I do, they do and take credit for it with their friends. It's getting weird now. I'm going to tell them my newest hobby is being a furry friend wearing those weird costumes. Let's see what happens next...lmao! Imitation is the highest form of flattery but these one uppers are mentally exhausting. Time to exit the building!

Enjoying my alone time and working on my hobby.

How it was explained to me by other women in the business was some women are dating black men or their managers are black. They do not want their women around other black men because it could be another pimp. This happens especially with younger women. This isn't exactly an ideal business where someone can be slapped with a lawsuit for being discriminated against. The intracacies of this industry are endless. If you take into account that the services offered are that of an intimate nature, that is a definite game changer. It's an SP's body and it's her choice as to who she decides to see or not see. Many ladies have their reasons mostly due to bad experiences. I have a few clients that are black men and haven't had any issues. I've had issues with other men of other ethnicities,l and race. It's on a case by case basis and if anyone approaches me the wrong way regardless of their race or ethnicity, I won't be seeing them. The fact that many women are saying " no black gent" is beyond me. Obviously something must be going on to warrant those statements. It's too bad because there are nice black gentlemen out there who are given a hard time and they have no alterior motives. It's similar to SPs who rip off, rob and use fake pictures. Unfortunately women in this business get bumped into that same category by men who are initially cautious (and rightfully so!) until one can decide for themselves through time and experience.

My only complaint is not getting enough reverse massages. Lol. What melts me is guys with really strong fingers and they come to give you a hug and just start massaging your shoulders and in an instant fix whatever tension I had there. . I would be putty in their hands. I think I will have to start advertising again lol because I haven't done a massage in what feels like a gazillion years because of a nerve injury involving my hand#womenlovemassages

Reminiscing about my long weekend birthday which pretty much was for a full week last week that started in Montreal with great seats at Bruno Mars concert, spa,great restaurants, shopping and more things this weekend with family and friends.. Thanks to those who made it amazing!

To keep your hair from drying out, ease off of the hair dryer and flat irons and try to only wash your hair two to three times a week to let oil build up and lock moisture in. I haven't washed my own hair in about a year and instead go to get my hair washed and styled 2-3 times a week at an amazing rate every month. Aveda products are used to wash my hair now which are more natural. I'm always ready in 15 minutes now. Lol. I used to use Wella keratin restore that you can get at high end salons that sell wella products. It's a mask that you leave in.. I used to leave mine in overnight once a week and it would be silky soft the next morning. Also jojoba oil is great. Taking vitamins A, E and biotin at great for your hair as well.

Haha I was once asked to remove the heels one time because I was towering over someone. I think I was 5'8 or 5'9" in whatever heels I was wearing that day. However there was one time I almost tripped in those shoes just walking a short distance to the bathroom. They could be dangerous! I have noticed that a better impression is made when a person is more statuesque ( esp a woman in heels). I like to stand at the stairs and let them walk in the door after they notified me that they have arrived outside. They just look up and I'm already taller. Lol. I'd never be caught dead wearing those outside. I would probably break my ankle and the shoes I have are just too sexy.

I just killed a centipede bug in my bathroom. Looks like he came up after I forgot to close the drain in the bathtub. Those things can run fast but he didn't get away from me. I would not want to be seeing one of those on my ceiling tonight!

Amazing Bruno Mars concert tickets. Was a great show earlier tonight!

Out of respect for the departed (and while it may not seem like a big deal to some), imo I don't think personal details about her family should be posted. If a client passed, I don't think they would want their personal details about their family or children being mentioned. Not many people are "out" with what they do for a living or their hobbying.

There are not many tv series I watch anymore ( I enjoy shows like Suits or Ray Donavan) but I love 48 hours and Dateline. I watch them all on YouTube lol.

When I used to advertise, I would take a screenshot of my rate page off my website and place it in the picture gallery on BP or wherever it was because people mostly would look at the pictures first. If someone was calling, they probably had a few questions but rates wasn't the first question. It weeded out the tire kickers immediately and only those who were seriously interested were contacting me.

Complimentary Guns n' Roses concert ticket and Bruno Mars later this month.

Made arrangements for a special gentleman for his birthday. He is the President of my VIP club and has been so good to me over the last 2 years. He has no idea what I'm going to surprise him with 2 months from now. I like to plan ahead.

Fajitas with lots of green peppers

A shellac pedicure and a tip again for my never ending wash and blow dries.

I'll take a "Hi, how are you?" ten times over as opposed to "Rates, service, location?" Lol. I don't even respond to those. I will always respond with "Excellente" to send out a good vibe. In any given situation, even if it comes across as insincere because it's politically correct to do so, they are still beig considerate of the other person. I still appreciate it esp in this line of work.

Figures - Jessi Reyez

About to curl my friend's hair for a wedding she is going to today. Additional Comments: For once in my life, today is one of those days that I'm bored and having nothing to do after a long week. Time for some housework.

Being woken up out of a deep sleep early in the morning hearing loud voices and you jump up out of bed ready to take someone on with the baseball bat in the closet thinking someone is in your house..( I have the fight instinct in me when startled) and realize it's the window cleaning company that you forgot were coming to clean your windows that morning.