Nicolette Vaughn

Happy Birthday Taylor! Oh to be 23 again! And you're far from being "old". lol.

It's a full moon tonight.. explains how the whole day unfolded for me.

I believe in this too. If you manifest negatiive things in your head, it's like a self fulflling prophecy. Negative thoughts envoke negative behaviours and then it's downhill from there.I have turned away from negativity in my lfe or those who live for drama. It's like having garbage in your house that you forgot to take out and ends up stinking up the place. No thanks.

Definitely overrated. On a rock is way better.lol. Can't think of any bad places except for a corn field.

Bah,...I remember living and working there and clients would HAVE to book appts a day or longer in advance just to plan to travel across the city and get back to the office or home before rush hour. I will not miss the traffic there!

An SP who was new to the business and was helping her out, she used my real first name. lol. Another time I saw an Asian girl using it. It is funny to see but I do have a common girl next door name so it's not a surprise.

Waking up early and not going back to sleep. Not a morning person before 10 am! lol.

Danielle, sorry to hear.. been down that road myself so I can sympathize. If it's any consolation, know that everything happens for a reason and people also come in and out of your life for a reason. You may not see it now but this breakup is fresh and in time you will know the real reason why it happened the way it did as you are most likely destined for other great things. Take the time now to focus on taking care of yourself. :)

Laying in bed in a tight white t-shirt and nothing else snuggled under the covers...

I'm still in bed and I'm definitely NOT a morning person but here I am! Yay! Now someone send me an icecap to Orleans please! lol.

I'm sitting on my bed watching Real Housewives. LOL. But sssssh... don't tell anyone that! ;)

The only thing that I can comment is that an SP HAS to do what's best for HER, not what someone else wants. If she feels uncomfortable with a certain service and no one person can change her opinion or how she feels then those are her principles and they have to be respected whether a person disagrees with them or not. However, the term YMMV was coined for the sole purpose that all clients vary in personality, their actions when visiting an SP and their hygiene. YYMV as an acronym seems to be used a lot where a client's hygiene is concerned and this is for good reason. Both the SP and client are engaging in an intimate encounter and is a person really going to delve into that situation without certain principles in place where their bodies, health and well being are concerned? Initially they are both strangers to one another and over time trust can be established but not without boundaries and what's within one's comfort level as the provider or customer. Some people look at women in the sex trade as someone who will do anything for the sake of a buck. Simply not true. Personally I do not like C.I.M and it's mentioned in my ads that I don't offer it. It's my body and I am the one who is in control of it. Not anyone else because they want or expect a certain service. People have asked and I have said it's not offered in my services. End of story. There is no trickery or leading someone on. No amount of money or persuasion is going to change that. Some customers may make ladies feel guilty for not offering it and those ladies are often new or not experienced at being assertive so some do it even though they don't like it. And in doing so, it does affect them mentally. Now other things like bbbj is a YMMV. Why? Hygiene plays a big part in this service and also STDs. To be blunt, no one wants to give oral to someone who stinks like ass, hasn't washed for hours, went to the bathroom recently or something suspicious looking down there. So if an SP says YYMV for bbbj and discloses beforehand that the decision will be made based on hygiene, then it is up to the customer to make sure her conditions are met in order to receive that service. If there is an SP that strikes your fancy yet she doesn't offer a certain service or act that is dependant on your enjoyment of the encounter, there are many other women out there who may offer it. You can't berate someone who wants to play it safe. And you also can't berate someone who offers something like bbbj. SPs do what they feel comfortable with and at the end of they, they are human beings and not just someone to break a nut with. I know this doesn't have to be said for the majority of men here but there's always a few who need to be reminded. An SP is a lady first and foremost and should be treated as such.

Knowing someone close to you is soon going to die. :(

PC desktop ( although I don't use it anymore) Bing or Google?

I've had conversations with other people about this a few times in my life. I find when you're young, you're told by your parents to do this or that, to be this or that and you want to gain their approval so you do it. We all have. However, I found as a person gains more life experience and really begins to know who they are as a person themselves and not through compliments, insults or approval or praise from others, it is only then that we know who we really are from a state of loving ourselves and most importantly self acceptance. I've been called "bad" for being an SP from a closed minded individual. Ten years ago this type of comment would have bothered me but now being at the age that I am and knowing who I am, I would let this comment roll off my back because *I* know who I am. My job doesn't define who I am. It is your actions and character that define and shapes who you are as a person. And these qualities can be based upon qualities you've created yourself or perhaps influenced by others. Some people may believe that my decision to become an SP was a bad one and therefore I'm "bad" but that is not such a black and white example and many people fear what they don't understand or something that is not considered acceptable by society's standards. While I do value other people's opinions, compliments and insight, I am okay with who I am and that's all that matters. I have my faults and am by no means perfect but I know I'm a good person. If I wear something tomorrow that was in fashion last year but not so much this year, do I really care what someone else says? No. How is their opinion going to benefit me? We all want to be accepted and approved by others but as one grows older, this becomes very trivial and you realize you have to do what's best for you. Not what others want you to be. Once you know that, life becomes much easier. :)

Ignorant people like this have most often times lead sheltered lives and always have so anything or anyone else who is not the status quo like they are become fearful which they hide with ignorant insults and opinions. They think they know the ways of the world or claim to have life experience but most don't. I know soooooo many people like this. Opinions are like a**holes. Everyone has one but in his case, the author's seems pretty dirty to me. ;) I like to plug my nose and walk away very quickly from people like this. Hehehe. And FYI, many women ( not all of course) who men meet at the bar he may engage in riskier sexual activities due to being intoxicated and could find themselves in a compromising position because of it. I've seen it with my own eyes. And I've heard these women say disparaging things about prostitutes. If you really break it down, what is the difference of meeting a guy in a bar for a few hours compared to meeting a client as an SP? Do you really know much more with a guy at a bar? Probably not. Anyone can say or do anything. There are risks on both sides but people just see the stigma of prostitution so as long as woman gives it up and not get paid, she is still accepted by society. Utter bullshit. I just laugh in my head as many give it up to a stranger willingly and sometimes under not so good circumstances such as being drunk or under some kind of influence. People can think what they want about prostitution but most SPs are educated on STDs etc so this is just an ignorant person talking out of their ass. Society whether it's men or women ( usually women from what I've experienced) get caught up in the exchange of money. It's like that episode that many ladies here who watched Sex and the City can relate to. The main character Carrie Bradshaw has a one night stand with a European business man and he leaves her 1 k in an envelope on the nightstand but he leaves without her number. It is right then and there that she realizes that he thought she was a call girl and she is totally disgusted by the fact but she winds up being a hypocrite and ends up on spending the money on herself but not without consulting with her girlfriends first. Society is full of hypocrites and closed minded. However when someone publishes a book like "50 Shades of Grey" and the media approves it claiming that "it's interesting and a must read", suddenly society catches on and they think the BDSM scene is now something that is somewhat acceptable.. or at least to be able to discuss it in mainstream society. Of course it will only be limited to blindfolds, handcuffs and if they're REALLY adventurous, a riding crop. Many people in life are followers. I prefer to make my own trails. ;)

I am so sick of texting lately with family and friends that my middle name should be 'text' but when it's from a client, most are short and sweet. They have already made their decision to see me as they've already seen all my info online. I like this. :)

James Gandolfini passed away today at the age of 51 of a possible heart attack in Italy. He was a great actor. May he rest in peace. :(

I've been in this situation but much worse...I was on an outcall as a new SP to a client's home and I was literally walking out the door when his wife pulled up. It wasn't a good scene and the reason why I no longer offer outcalls to a person's home unless I know the client and/or he is single/divorced/widower. Some guys do like to live on the edge and I agree with Emily about some men wanting to get caught.

I've probably posted in this thread before but I don't mind if clients shower at my place. In fact, I welcome it! I have nice bathrooms at my in call locations and they are always clean with soap, fresh towels and mouthwash.

Welcome to Cerb! I'm certain you will like it here! :)

Congrats Jade!

Happy Birthday Ms. Samantha!

Welcome to Cerb Alisha! :)