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Nicolette Vaughn

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  1. I also find that personality and other qualities are attributed to a woman's beauty. I've seen some beautiful women with the worst attitude and that made them not so attractive in my opinion.
  2. Empty83, I used to think the same way you do but because I'm a few years older than you and out of my 20's, that doesn't seem to happen that much anymore. When I was in my 20's, I thought I had to prove a lot of things to other people in order to feel more grown up or accepted. I bought my first house at 23, a 60k vehicle and the whole nine yards. In essence I was keeping up with the Jones' who were 10 years older than me while many people my age still lived at home. I was also dealing with a lot of older people in my business and felt I couldn't relate to those who were actually my age because I left home at 19 and settled down at 22. By all outward appearances, I looked like I had my shit together but chronologically I was still 23 or 24 and was still viewed as "young". I believe life experience brings maturity ( not to say you are immature) and life experience brings you more self acceptance. I used to consider myself a materialistic person but have since learned that this does not buy happiness. I found once I just accepted myself for who I was ( flaws and all) that brought more inner confidence. When you know who you are as a person, you will reflect that and people will begin to take you seriously. Don't take this too much to heart about feeling too young. The more you feel this way about yourself, people will get the same vibe off of you and think the same way. Yes, you are still young ( assuming by your handle that you were born in 1983?) but enjoy your youth while you can and don't sweat the small stuff. When we're young, we want to be grownups, do adult things and be accepted. Sure, people judge a book by it's cover but don't get too caught up in trying to prove a point. When we do this, we aren't trying to prove this to other people but more to ourselves. As long as you know who you are, there is nothing to prove. Don't worry though, you will begin to see this in time as you get to know yourself better. And interestingly enough, I sound very young. I've had telemarketers call my home phone and asked if my parents were home. lol. I always laugh and take it as a compliment. Grandparents call and they think they're talking to their grandchild when it's really me! I just laugh esp when people still call me "Miss"!
  3. Simply put, SPs don't *own* their clients so if an SP is jealous because a client likes variety then they have their own issues that have nothing to do with this business. However, I have seen some hobbyists attempt to pit one lady against another by revealing personal info about them as a way to get their kicks or in a bid to get better service. This is wrong and when I see that happening, that's when the trouble begins and I decide to not see them anymore. Act professionally on both sides and you will be treated as such.
  4. I agree. It's just like GPS capability on a cell phone. Big Brother is watching!
  5. I am on a Sons of Anarchy marathon. I am so into it! lol
  6. I am WYSISWYG ( What You See is What You Get). I have been told many, many times that I have a genuine quality about me and this is true. However, there are some details about my life that are none of any one else's business and this can be said for clients as well. I don't need to know someone's life story but I have to say that if I'm comfortable with someone then over time they will get to know a little about me. If a client comes across as secret agent type and expects me to be an open book, forget it. I pick up vibes off people all the time and if I think someone could be stalker material or just plain nosy, they won't be hearing anything about me. In fact, I will take it to the extreme for them NOT to know anything and stop seeing them as a client.
  7. Happy Birthday Conquistador! Hope you had a great day!
  8. I always tip the pizza delivery guy a minimum of $6 as he is in the service industry. In restaurants, I tip over and beyond what is expected. Those people work hard and if the service is good, they deserve it.
  9. I like Webothscore's contribution and he seems like a nice genuine kind of guy. :)
  10. Met a new Cerb gent! Wonderful time! I just inadvertently stumbled upon what is going to be my upcoming birthday present in September! A Persian Teacup kitten! I can't wait!
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