Nicolette Vaughn

I am going to be diplomatic as possible but as a provider I can't help notice that these are private details you are writing about clients who have come to see you. Do you have their permission to post these details? For female SPs, it is frowned upon to divulge such details so I have to ask what your intent is? It is nice to see that you enjoy your job as I enjoy my job as well but if I were a lady of this site and wanted a massage, I would have to worry if discretion and trust could be held to the highest degree as I value my privacy in the role of being a customer. This would make me rethink things. It's all fine and dandy to write sexy tales regarding your job and others reaping the rewards by reading it but at the same rate, these things are what customers expect you to be discrete about and they are reading these things. As there are many ladies who are your target market here, this could be leaving a bad taste in their mouth. Privacy is paramount in these cases and as an SP, I honor it to all my clients. I don't say this out of disrespect Il Re, just as one provider to another considering we both advertise on the same site. Despite the gender difference, as providers we should both be held accountable to the same standards. I don't think clients would be too happy if I were writing about my trysts with them even just once. However, as a male it seems as though this is viewed in a positive light. Double standard perhaps? Just some food for thought.

Y is for yes, yes, yes!

I used to be a worry wart and used to get bad anxiety as a result of what I couldn't control but I've been through a lot of situations in my life where I've come out on top. Now, if I'm worried about something, I deal with the situation to the best of my ability and let the chips fall where they may. I no longer sweat the small stuff. Life is too short and there are always options and support available to whatever the problem is. Situations or problems only control you if you let them. You are the one who is really in control and you can let it make you or break you.. Sounds cliché but true.

Let the SP know ahead of time that you're a first timer. Good SPs will do what it takes to make you feel comfortable within minutes. Don't be afraid to communicate with her about what it is you are looking for. If it makes you feel any better, let her know ahead of time by phone or email. Sometimes just talking on the phone to book the appt can make you less nervous and give you an idea of what the SP is like. Good luck and conquer your fear. Sometimes the little trivial things we make a big deal out of really aren't that big of a deal once you have dealt with them you begin to wonder why you didn't do it sooner. And don't forget to have fun! Life is too short to worry about our own perceived shortcomings. Sometimes we are our own worst critics.

Gingerbread Men

Found a way to make low carb pizza. lol.

Saw one of my regulars ( I love all my regulars .lol) and doing some cleaning while being on a Sons of Anarchy roll. I'm only on season one.lol. Great show!

W is for wonderful woman

Spent Monday outside going to Home Depot to buy supplies for building another flower bed and my neck got burnt a little bit and is itchy as hell. Aloe vera made it worse. I'm not supposed to be out in the sun for long periods of time because of my rosacea.

U is for underwear

My cat has a thing for swiping me with his paw on my ass esp in front of other people. Guess he's territorial with the fact that I'm his woman. lol.

LOL! You're so cute!

She may be new and inexperienced or she has something to hide. Admittedly, it is an SP's pet peeve when she feels like she has to justify her rate over the phone to a stranger but an experienced, reputable SP will be glad to direct you to a site where there are reviews/recos if she is sure of herself and her business skills. When I was advertising on that site once in a while, I would actually try and bring some of these guys over to Cerb or get them to join because all of my info and pictures are here. I had my doubts but many of them didn't seem to know what I was talking about ( I'm sure many knew about Cerb and already members but it seemed like others didn't want to take the time to register to look at album profiles and what not). I took the extra step to give them some sort of reassurance that I wasn't a fly by night but those who booked in the end said it was the genuine conversation I had with them over the phone and that I took an extra few minutes without being pushy. Go with your gut and you did the right thing by asking for additional info. It's your hard earned money and you have the right to spend it wisely. :)

I love a smooth clean shaven face for those who shave everyday.

Basil chicken with cauliflower and brocoli

A is for amazing sex

V is for vivacious

I love the sound of thunder!

Congrats Mikeyboy on reaching 500 posts and for your contribution to Cerb!

Happy Birthday Royal Fun! May you have a wonderful day!

Nanaimo Bars

Lemon Squares

Jell-O with whipped cream