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I met Ashley for the first time and it was a wonderful experience. We took a few minutes to acquaint ourselves and I found her to be a genuine, respectful and kind soul - someone you want to hug and not let go. She is well spoken and very welcoming. Staring into her beautiful eyes and you're transported to another universe. Her lair is quiet, comfortable and discreet. It was a terrific adventure for both the soul and body - for both of us. CM

Ah... a moment in time with Claire.. Every visit is better than the last. I've been seeing Claire for a while now.. she's wonderfully witty and intelligent, matched with a demeanor that is both comforting and exciting. We lost contact for a few months, but made up for lost time a few days ago. Her massage skills and body slides are soothing, playful and sensual. She's sexy and she knows it. While some gents might get tired of "routine", I enjoy each of our visits, still getting butterflies before each playdate. After a big genuine hug, the butterflies are replaced by familar feeling - being transported to another universe - where it's only her and I for while. Claire is a precious soul and has a heart of gold... I'm already looking forward to our next visit. CM

Life is funny at best. Some of us plan things - education, courting, marriage, kids, mortgage, career.. and then, ahh.. retirement. We work and work to provide for ourselves and family. Most of us plan to retire from work and start striking off bucket list items (travel, hobbies, etc). For many of us, life doesn't turn out as we "planned". Far from a straight line, our tapestry ends up looking like a figure-8. Then there is the old "live life to the fullest everyday" motto - again, for some of us, we're just trying to survive the day and start new the next day. There's the conundrum. Youth brings with it the health required for travel and other hobbies, but little in resources to execute. Age brings knowledge and wisdom (maybe) and perhaps more resources, but then our health begins to decline. At 47, I was forced into retirement (cutbacks from a previous federal government). But I was fortunate - still fairly healthy and had a few coins in the pocket.. no pension, but a few loonies in my RRSP. As with many things, I saw a silver lining. I get to sleep in until 7am on most days, I get to set my own schedule on most days. I volunteer with various organizations, so my mind and body are active. And the roof is still overhead and there's a table to put food on. While I can't afford to dine at Beckta every night, I can indulge in Swiss Chalet now and then.. and I go canoeing on the Ottawa River instead of taking cruises on the Mediterranean :-) I think the notion of "freedom 55" is outdated in 2016. But our western society depends on "older" folks to retire so that employable youth get a chance to start their adventures. Is it a social duty - yes, I think so - but 'mandatory' retirement by a certain age is becoming a dream for too many honest, hard-working folks. I'll be "retired" for three years next month. If I am careful with the finances, I should be ok. Fewer Starbucks lattés and more homemade coffee in a travel mug! Perhaps the "live life to the fullest" has more to do with attitude than the activity... CM

What a great topic. Mark Twain once wrote, "I have never let my schooling interfere with my education." Indeed, education and schooling are two different things, but they do paths cross on occasion. An engineer by trade, university was a requirement for me. But learning the four laws of thermodynamics did nothing for me when it came to changing a soiled diaper, or putting my daughter's hair in a bun for her ballet classes, or making homemade soup. My daughter just started on her post-secondary education adventure. We had long discussions on whether university or college or a vocational institution was "best" for her. Academically strong, my daughter also has a passion for the arts (ballet, piano, drawing). In the end, she decided on college - which I supported wholeheartedly. She's following a passion in a field that requires strong math and science, while encourages imagination and artistic values. I on the other hand, stuck with something I was good at, not necessarily what I had a passion for. Our society is made up of many individuals with different tastes, different strengths, different comfort zones. Risk takers often do best running their own business, whereas those who need structure tend to do better in a "9 to 5" type of job. In the end, most of us find our comfort zone... and formal schooling and "school of life" are pieces of the puzzle to finding that happy place. A university education may not guarantee you a job/career at the end. But the continuous education from the "school of life" will help prepare you for most situations as we continue our journeys on this planet... CM

Hi folks, I had been seeing the same SP since 2008 - at least once a month. Always a pleasant experience for both, so I thought, until...... Our latest date didn't happen. I arrived at her incall location, waiting in car park and texted her, as per our usual routine. And waited.. and waited. Zippo. Having other commitments later that evening, after 45 minutes, I texted her and said I was leaving. Later, I got a short text that she "felt horrible" and that she got the day mixed up. Stuff happens. The no-date was disappointing. I could understand if this was a first time date and we got the wires crossed, but after seeing the same woman for 70+ dates and getting no apology or explanation, was much more disappointing, even hurtful to an extent. I didn't expect any special treatment or anything, but getting absolutely nothing was unexpected. Perhaps that was my error - not managing my expectations properly - even after so many dates. I'm all for second chances (and more). But when the SP doesn't provide an explanation and emails/texts go unanswered, there isn't much else to do. CM

Hi folks, Lots has been mentioned already. Here is my short list (apologies for the repeats): Unanswered emails/texts. I don't quite understand this one. A potential client (or a steady client) takes the time to craft a decent email or text and there's no reply. I have no expectation of an instant response (a 24-48 hour turnaround is fine).. but to have no response at all is negative. No-shows: Yup, bugs the hobbyists and SPs alike. Total waste of time for everyone. Indeed, life happens... but not to show up without a courtesy call, text or email.. hmmm. Ooops on arrangements: Arrange for a date on specific day and time, and SP "misplaces" the appointment.. "Oh, I thought it was Thursday and not Tuesday"... maybe a sub-category of no-shows. Again, life does happen.. but an appointment calendar does help. I have mentioned this in a few previous posts. This industry sells fantasy, one date at a time. SPs and hobbyists have responsibilities to make a go of things. If that equation is tilted to one-side, it won't work. Both sides need to be truthful with expectations.. anything less is a recipe for a less-than-positive date. All the best for a terrific (and safe) 2016 to everyone! CM

Just wanted to share my Virginia Snow experience. She fits the 'spinner' description, standing at around 5'0. She greeted me with a big smile and a reassuring hug. Her massage was not RMT level, but was pleasant, tender and relaxing. Virginia provided intelligent conversation and physical relaxation - a session that re-energized the body and the soul. She was very patient and quite dedicated to making you feel on top of the world. Indeed, for a few precious moments, the world's issues were a galaxy away. I am planning on seeing her again quite soon. Her studio is in an east-end business park and is fairly discreet - a little out of the way for me but worth the drive. Treat her with respect and you'll have a great time. CM

Layah might be what you're looking for.. She's tiny-framed (fun-sized as she says in her ad) and she's fun to spend a little time with. CM

To quote Fox Mulder, "I want to believe". With the vastness of our own known galaxy, let alone the rest of the universe, the odds are in favour of other intelligent life out there. If an alien species did visit Earth, I guess my question would be why. Our longest manned spaceflight was to the moon and that was over 40 years ago. Since then, mankind has been limited to earth orbit. We do not have the technology yet to explore our own solar system with manned spacecraft, let alone explore other neighbourhoods. While we might marvel at our own technology advances, I suspect alien technology would be vastly ahead of ours. Aside from "assimilation" a la Star Trek's Borg, we (humankind) isn't interesting enough to visit... yet anyway. CM

I was driving my MX5 with the top down when the heavens opened up. Only a few km away from home so I drove the rest of the way with the top down and the rain gently falling. Got a few 'stares' from other drivers, but haven't had so much fun running errands in a while. Nothing a towel didn't fix when I got home... CM

I love the pin-up pics - sensual yet classy. I am impressed when the woman gives it some thoughts on different poses, uses different wardrobe... ones that show their personality - whether it's playful, sensual, dominant, etc. I love pictures where the woman exudes confidence. That can be in lingerie, stockings and heels.... or it can be work-out shorts, t-shirt and running shoes. It's difficult to put into words... some pics just oozes their sexuality and confidence.. and I find that very alluring. No need for excessive makeup or fancy hair. Pictures that show the woman in her comfort zone, in her 'happy state' are the ones I find attractive. No need for graphic pics of close-up bums in the air or legs spread. Classy pics that leaves something to the imagination are the ones that attract me. CM

This is an industry built on fantasies. As long as there is mutual respect between you and the MA (as RoamingGuy wrote), I see nothing inherently wrong. Some folks are attracted to people because they remind us of a movie star, or someone famous, a first love, or even the "person next door" who is "unattainable". Indulging in a fantasy, a few moments at a time, is that this industry is about. But as with most fantasies, there are boundaries rooted in reality. As long as the fantasy stays within boundaries, I'd say have fun with it.. CM

For reasons already stated.. chemistry, connection, familiarity, comfort... I repeat with the same woman because there is a connection. With connection, trust is built. And that makes play dates that much more enjoyable. It's not boring - rather a comfort level that continues to build with each encounter. Indeed, this is an industry that sells fantasy, a few hours at a time. Repeating with the same woman with whom you connect, at least for me, enhances the fantasy. It's not for everyone. But when one stumbles onto a "good thing" (whether in this fantasy industry or real life), one tends to hold onto it.. :-) CM

As I approach the half-century mark in human years, I have had some opportunity to look back at the tapestry that I have woven. I might tell my younger self not to take things so seriously. I am a recovering "Type A" and life's challenges have humbled me to the point of realizing the sun does rise the next morning and most things can be fixed, repaired, altered or resolved. I would take the time to enjoy the moment more, instead of "planning for future happiness". I lost my wife to breast cancer 15 years ago and raised my daughter alone. Now she's embarking on her post-secondary academic adventure. I could look back and say I should have treasured more "life moments" with her, instead of worrying about the next challenge. Yes, as a single dad, I learned how to braid hair, help my daughter buy "feminine hygiene products", and experienced "teen sleep overs". But I wouldn't change any of it... Would I change anything? Tough question. Every decision we make adds to our tapestry. Looking at where I am at now, the tapestry isn't all that terrible. But it is intriguing to think back and play the "could've, should've" game now and then. Sunny days ahead. CM

I had the privilege of seeing my daughter receive her high school diploma this week. It's been a long haul. Seeing my daughter with her friends and fellow grads, I see hope for the planet - a positive sign of brighter days ahead. CM

Loraine's blog is still online and appear to be updated frequently..

May 30 - joined 1,500 motorcycles and their riders/passengers in the 15th annual Ottawa Motorcycle Ride for Dad, raising funds for the fight against prostate cancer. It was an awesome day!! CM

lol... all these Tarzans here... I got "cuddle bug".. ;-)

canoe potato chips or licorice?

Turning the "big" 5-0 this year, my thoughts wandered back my childhood, through the teen years and into early adulthood. I thought of the jobs I've had, people I've met, first girlfriend, first kiss, new friends, old friends, forgotten friends, friends and family who have passed away, etc. Bush 41 coined the quote, "I want a kinder, gentler nation" in one of his speeches (I believe at the Republican Convention in 1988 ). My topic for discussion... is today's society better off than the previous generation? Sure, we have much more technology, technology that is evolving much quicker than ever. We have more medicines. Most of us have the three basics - food/water, clothes, shelter. I grew up in a household with four brothers and sisters, a mom and dad, one black and white TV with peg legs that caught three channels on a clear night, one rotary telephone that was stuck to the kitchen wall, one bathroom in a three bedroom home with a gigantic backyard with three willow trees and no air conditioning. Yet we all survived. More importantly, we seemed to be happy. I remember those summer days where you would spend the day on your bicycle, exploring the "whole planet", without fear of your photo ending up on a milk carton. No cell phones, no hat or sunscreen, no parents.. just be home for supper, and you better be on time! I remember the great sandwiches in my "Six Million Dollar Man" lunch box in grade 5 (ok most of the time it was PB and J, but it was great). We'd swap fruits for Smarties with everyone. We had milk in tiny cartons provided by the school (now and then we got treated to chocolate milk!). I remember the nightly family suppers - promptly at 6. All of us sat together.. no TV, no outside intrusions. And we talked.. and talked.. we had interest in what everyone else did that day. We asked to be excused from the table to get seconds. We all helped Mom with the dishes (and not only on Mother's Day). Dad would talk about who he met that day.. and it was always "Mr Duncan" or Mrs LeBlanc" (adults didn't have first names back then.. lol). And Dad always brought Mom flowers on Friday, along with his pay cheque so she can pay the bills and keep the household runnng. Most of the petrol stations were full service.. young men at the Texaco station in clean overalls filling the tank of Dad's 1965 Chevy Biscayne, checking the oil and cleaning the windows.. all done while the tank was being filled. Dad always paid cash.. no MasterCharge or Chargex for the family back then. We didn't have much (by today's standards) but we seemed to be happy and content. Sure, we wished for a newer bike or our own bedroom. But we always had full tummies and clothes on our backs. We had our squabbles, but they were soon resolved as Mom and Dad always had the last word.. there was no chldren's aid society intervention. I do a lot of volunteer work here in Ottawa.. helping out at the Mission or at the Shepherds of Good Hope, or sorting food at one of the local food banks. I see many in our society who are not at their best, having a tough go. It's not a third-world country.. this is Nepean and Kanata!! My 18 year-old daughter joins me on occasion to lend a hand. She's the one that pointed out that a lot of people don't seem happy. Indeed, I see a lot of stress in too many people.. stuck in traffic, stuck in the grocery check-out line, standing on the bus. Very few say "hello". Very few smile. Very little courtesy. Very few say "please" or "thank you". I see a lot of fancy cars. As a young pup, a fancy car was any car that had power windows. Most cars today cost more than the family home I grew up in (Dad paid $9,500 for a three bedroom bungalow in 1964 - a HUGE sum back then when you consider Dad brought home $75 a week). I drive a 13-year old Honda Accord (ok it has power windows, but one doesn't work, lol). I see a lot of big homes with two furnaces, all with air conditioning and alarm systems. I see a lot of fast food outlets and big-box stores. I see "bigger and better" things.. but are things really better? The statistics say as a whole, we're living longer and to an extent, we're a little healthier. But... are we "happier"??? We didn't have much growing up, but I seem to remember that we were happy... or at least we didn't worry about as much stuff as today's generation. So what do you think? Do we have a "kinder, gentler" society? CM

Hey Sweetshay, I fondly remember the handful of games I attended at "The Aud" in the mid-1980s... got a special place for all the "old" arenas.. Maple Leaf Gardens, The Montreal Forum, The Spectrum... CM

Today I found out that a dear friend may have found her 'soulmate' after years of searching. Just awesome. I wish her all the happiness in the world.. CM

First... all the best, bcguy42. Cancer treatment is horrendous.. been there, done that, and still around to joke about it (sort of). The ability to laugh at oneself is lacking in some of us. Life's twists and turns can sometimes leave you hopeless. Laughter brings a respite, allows us to recharge and continue the battle. Most of my friends and definitely the providers I see - all have the natural ability to laugh.. at themselves, at funny situations and laugh with others. As they say, laughter is the best medicine. I agree. CM

This is an interesting topic. There's is kissing your mom... or your sister.. or a dear friend. Then there's kissing your lover. Very different. Hobbyists invest (into) a fantasy. For me, part of the fantasy is kissing, passionate kissing. I don't feel much passion can be created without kissing. Passionate kissing on the lips is a very intimate act, moreso than some sexual acts. We are tactile beings and romantic kissing creates an intimacy that cannot be substituted. I am fairly selective as to who I see.. and I've been fortunate to have met many great kissers. Fantasy or not, it's all part of the experience. Without kissing, the playdate becomes rather mechanical. CM

Indeed.. hockey is Canada's game!! 2014 Sochi - Men and Women gold 2015 Juniors - Gold 2015 IIHF - Gold Canada owns hockey gold in the most recent Olympics, the World Juniors and the IIHF, all at the same time... a Canadian first.. CM