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Oh and as for asking the guy for money. That's not an option. That's extortion. And as far as ethics goes, you're breaking the bro code and the work ethics with that one so I certainly do not consider that even remotely close to being an option.

To everyone saying he should consider the ethics about outing someone before giving the information, he's past that point. HE should have considered them before accepting a job to out someone. Whether it was for being with an SP or another woman, all the possible harassment and "bro code" stuff are the same. In my opinion (and what seems to be a majority) he should NOT have taken the job (or any similar) in the first place. but..... (I bet you knew this was coming) HE TOOK the job. Outing someone is not illegal (I wont go into how he got the information, At this point it it is in possession and as far as everyone jumping on the illegal bandwagon, coming from a site with a fair amount of incalls I find that hypocritical. (We can ignore the laws we choose but he can't? Jump on the ethics of it, which seems to be the bigger issue here, not the illegality) So we're down to a few choices: 1. Return the money, Don't tell the guy: If you do this quit the job. Never take another. You're agreeing it is wrong to out someone. Acceptable morally by many here but many agree she will hire another. End result guy probably gets outed. 2. Return the money and warn the guy: If you do this quit the job. Never take another. You're agreeing it is wrong to out someone. Acceptable morally by many here but many agree she will hire another. End result guy less likely to get outed, but who knows how his relationship with sister in law turns out. 3. Return partial amount. Give only information that he cheated and no specifics. (I don't get this one. If the contract says you have to give information on who he is with then you need to give that information and get all the money or not give any info and return the money saying you cant fulfill the contract. If the contract does not require the other persons info then don't give it and take all the money. 4. Give all the information you have and get paid to do the job you accepted. You made your bed now sleep in it. If you choose this, you're work ethic is good, your bro code is broken (Which it already was once you accepted the job anyway), he's outed and please don't show your face here ever again. Cause nobody will trust you. (Well I think that line has already been crossed and although I can't ask you to leave, I'm sure you will not get much warm hugs from many here) Discretion is key to this industry. So in my mind the question is do you want to keep doing your investigative work. If yes, you have to give her the info. If you are willing to quit, this would be a good one to reject and end that side job of yours.

Interesting situation. First point: now that you've accepted the job and have the information I truly believe you should fulfill your obligation, otherwise it's almost fraud. You offer to do a service for a fee but do not hold up your end of the bargain. So yes you should give her the info. (And this is coming from a married man who would not want to be your clients brother in law) Having said that, now that you've announced to the cerb board that you take on surveillance jobs and cerb being a goldmine for the type of information you might be looking for, I would think that anyone (married or otherwise in a committed relationship) you pm asking for information would be (and should be) extremely cautious in talking to you as they could very well be your next assignment.

Ha Ha. Heard about the petition a little while back. Apparently with enough signatures the white house has to give an official response. I was looking forward to how they would handle it. Love their response.

I would certainly agree it is inappropriate to ask a lady how much she makes a year, but to ask someone how much the average person makes in a certain field of work is quite normal. Especially for someone considering entering the field. I have been asked myself that on numerous occasions. From a customer's point of view though, you don't typically ask people offering you any type of service how much they make. It can easily come off as "I'm wondering if you are over charging"

Ha Ha. That is awesome! :D

You're also missing a key factor in your economics. It's like sports stars. Their career is shorter than the regular person. A $60 grand (by your calculations) a year job might sound like a good haul to you , but consider you have to retire much younger. Also, I could be wrong but 10 clients per week EVERY week is probably pushing it. Some weeks might be higher but summer weeks are usually low due to family vacations if I recall being mentioned before, so some of those weeks would probably make the average lower.

I agree with Phaedrus. The flip side of being famous though is that any guy who might want to date her, people will wonder if she actually liked him or he paid for her services. And isn't escorting illegal in most states? That would not help her out the next time she's due in court. (Which is every few weeks based on past records... :D )

I think the question comes from watching mostly American TV, where if you are a cop and they ask you have to tell. (Possibly not all states, but this is frequently portrayed in TV.) Unfortunately a lot of what people know comes from TV and since most of our TV shows are from the US, the average joe's knowledge of law is based on theirs. I myself know more about US politics than Canadian. (Hard not too when their elections run about 2 years.)

We should point her out to that guy who wanted the most exclusive highest costing SP. I think she would qualify.

Meg, I know it's been used, (we have a lovely Destiny Devine here in the maritimes) but it is a second name, not just the only name. How many "????? Love" are there out there? Besides it was only a suggestion. I've always thought yours was a good name.

After looking at the beautiful photos in your album, the first thought that came to mind was...Devine. (Something/someone come from God) I think Lola Devine flows naturally off one's tongue as well.

The best western is close to prospect street which is the main road for restaurants and such in the upper area of town. Easy access from the highway as well. Fredericton is pretty easy to navigate though so really any Hotel is minutes from stores. Additional Comments: The Fredericton Inn would put you right next to the newer shopping area beside knowledge park area. (Also on Regent which is the main road north/south through town.) But I haven't stayed there in a decade so I have no idea regarding card access and the quality of the hotel anymore.

You're probably fine for weight, unless you have a really old home. The problem that can occur with thick heavy snow and ice is ice dams. (picture thick chunks of ice right on the shingles. When it starts to melt a little it gets jammed up and since the water cant go down it works it way in under the shingles and into the home. Many perfectly good roofs leak that way.

A few points: 1. Some hosting companies will not allow "Pornographic" material and would consider an escort site to fall under that category. They could pull your site without return of money (You would not lose the domain name, just the hosting and would have to find another hosting and transfer your domain.) based on their policies. 2. There are a bunch of new domain extensions coming up in 2013. (So instead of .com or .ca there are about a 1000 new ones up for grabs. So you could perhaps get summertimefun.xxx or something like that. For more info and a list see http://www.newgtldsite.com/new-domain-extensions-2013/

For those people saying they're not judging. Perhaps judging might not be the exact word, but you are putting a negative label on people here. The label "Cheater" is negative. Justifying it by saying "It's only a question I'm not judging them" really does not make the question any less loaded and less offensive to some. I don't think it was necessarily over the line but certainly in the gray area as for should it have been asked.

I think where people find a blurry line is that they consider a physical act not AS bad a an emotional affair. And although some mates might be less hurt by a one night meetup with an escort vs an affair with substantial feelings, it does not change the definition of cheating. Essentially cheating is crossing the level of intimacy acceptable (or discussed as acceptable, even though they may later change their mind) by both partners. So if you are having sex with an escort and your better half is there watching/participating/enjoying, then no it is not. If she is unaware and has expressed her feelings against it. (Or if none given, one would assume they would be against) Cheating means crossing the line. Whatever line that might be. Kissing another girl, flirting (some couples are more uptight than others) all of these could be cheating. It's not the act itself, it's the act as to where it stands in your relationship's agreed upon intimacy level with others. It's like asking if driving 100km/h is speeding. Can't answer that without knowing the speed limit of the road you are on. And the answer differs depending on that road.

I was bored so thought I'd play around with the words to a Christmas jingle. For reference to the original words, this is sung to the tune of the ever popular: On the twelfth day of Christmas, my true love gave to me... 12 Drummers Drumming 11 Pipers Piping 10 Lords-a-Leaping 9 Ladies Dancing 8 Maids-a-Milking 7 Swans-a-Swimming 6 Geese-a-Laying 5 Gold Rings 4 Mocking Birds 3 French Hens 2 Turtle Doves And a Partridge in a Pear Tree. -------------------- On the first night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me A night with a sexy lady On the second night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the third night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the fourth night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the fifth night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 5 Cock Rings A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the sixth night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 6 Girls a Laying 5 Cock Rings A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the seventh night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 7 Gals a Stripping 6 Girls a Laying 5 Cock Rings A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the eigth night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 8 Maids a Milking 7 Gals a Stripping 6 Girls a Laying 5 Cock Rings A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the ninth night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 9 Ladies Dancing 8 Maids a Milking 7 Gals a Stripping 6 Girls a Laying 5 Cock Rings A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the tenth night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 10 Fingers Fondling 9 Ladies Dancing 8 Maids a Milking 7 Gals a Stripping 6 Girls a Laying 5 Cock Rings A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the eleventh night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 11 Poly Parties 10 Fingers Fondling 9 Ladies Dancing 8 Maids a Milking 7 Gals a Stripping 6 Girls a Laying 5 Cock Rings A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady On the twelfth night of Christmas, the CERB site found for me 12 Doms a Domming 11 Poly Parties 10 Fingers Fondling 9 Ladies Dancing 8 Maids a Milking 7 Gals a Stripping 6 Girls a Laying 5 Cock Rings A 4 hand massage 3 French kisses 2 Shots on Goal And a night with a sexy lady (I think I need a BIG roomâ?¦. :) )

Keep it up and you'll be banned. If you don't know what you did wrong after everyone's posts, then I would suggest you stop. step back from the keyboard and think on it before continuing on.

You've mentioned in previous posts how you are a regular of hers and how great she was. A nice person etc.. this was not a first visit. Whether you truly feel you have been ripped off or are trying to retaliate for her dropping you as a reg as she says (Which from reading both your versions, I would tend to believe her, although we could never really know) I would be hesitant to call this a scam.

I don't think I would be able to share. I'd want you all to myself.

If you click on their username and view profile, it will show last activity right under their name in the left side of the screen. This can give you an idea if they're still around. If their last activity was over an hour, unless they are real slow readers on the same page, they are probably not here.

Awkward: While fixing your dad's computer you find he has mostly porn in his favorites Really awkward: Finding he has a cerb account. OMG I wish I could forget awkward: Finding he has met some of the same ladies as you. Additional Comments: Ha, Ha. I think I have to point out, this did NOT happen to me. Something similar (different website) happened to a guy I knew in Toronto. All names were omitted to protect the innocent. :D

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What's fun is being with someone who is usually very vocal and be in a place where you have to be extremely quiet. (close neighbors, public, shared room...) Seeing the scream on their lips not being able to let it out...