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Cool! :) Peace Mr Green

Comparing someone seeing a therapist, woman or not, about realtionship issues and not disclosing it until he was comfortable versus him say seeing a woman from the office or whatever for lunch or drinks or texting and emailing on a regular basis and not disclosing it to his SO in my view is...apples vs bananas. My point was that women can define cheating in variety of ways....not just seeing an SP. Peace Mr Green Additional Comments: People who live in glass houses analogy is appropriate I suppose. I don't want to be a hypocrite so I'd likely react the same way she would if she found out and would not be pleased. That being said, if we were both doing it at the same time...then perhaps it would be time for a different type of converstion. Peace Mr Green

Freud would love this thread!! And I've wondered about the possible theories on more than one occassion. But it's Sunday and i'll keep it light...cue the voice over Knowing you?re going get lucky sometime during a date.......$2-300.00 Having a girlfriend without having to deal with all the ?girl friend? stuff Getting naked with women you?d never ever get to meet in the real world Believing for an hour that you?re the most important person on earth?..Priceless!! For all other non-hobby expenses??.there?s Master Card :) Peace Mr Green

I was reading the other day about the Puppetry of the Penis dudes. They were phenomenally successfull and played to sell out crowds all over the world. The article described some the things they could create using just a penis and scrotum. I was getting out the shower today and there's a mirror right there so I thought I'd see what I could create. Man it's hard, I could do an elephant and a one eared elephant and by adding a pair of glasses....my Uncle Lou. But the most fun was Pinocchio! Peace Mr Green

Being in Winterpeg my favorite part about spring is the beautiful women that live here start shedding parka's, scarves and boots. Like butterflies emerging from their cacoons :) Peace Mr Green

I agree that a regular siituation is great for both the client and provider. There's the obvious comfort/safety zone and then there's the familiarity of each other that adds to the intimacy. Just like in the civilian world, all realtionships need tending and it's incumbment on both parties not to get "lazy" and take the situation for granted. And eventhough this is a financial transaction first and foremost in my view both parties need to participate equally to maximize the experience. As we've seen in the cable and telephone game some suppliers took their clients for granted and now there's the constant you're special and we want you back badgering. Well if you hadn't f--ked me over in the first place I won't have looked else where. Customer service is becoming a lost art these days and the new motto seems to be "we're not happy until you're not happy" Peace Mr Green

I had a conversation about this just the other day. Every town can be a small town and it just could happen virtually any where especially if you have similar interests. We discussed possible scenarios and how we could handle it if any of the them were to arise. Could be a nod or a wink or or a smile or nothing depending. Even how to handle an introduction if required to do so. Now if it were to come up I won't feel rude if I can't chat and vice versa. Peace Mr Green

Sort of like Dexter I have a dark passenger...lol I'm pretty positive knows but I can never be 100% sure. And I couldn't tell any buddy since the male relationship is inherently based on ball busting and one of them would blow it for sure. I could trust a woman much more easily and I guess I do Most know that I don't travel a completely conventional path but surprised would be putting it midly. Another reason to be kind and appreciative of one another is we're sort of keepers of each others secret. Peace Mr Green

Personally I wouldn't see anyone who didn't have high self-esteem. I also feel if I can help someone feel even better about themselves, it only enhances the overall experience for both parties. Peace Mr Green

I second the nomination :) Peace Mr green

Seeing Jason on Saturday night in the Peg :) Peace Mr Green

I guess you might say he was cumming and going :) Peace Mr Green

Back on topic.....the importance of sharing references. Yesterday in rather cavalier fashion stated that I had not been asked to provide a reference and wouldn't if asked. After reading the thread again, I was wrong. Here we have these attractive, sexy and in my case much youger woman who in the real world likely wouldn't give me the time of day, prepared to open a door sight unseen and no matter what you look like show you a nice time (I forward a pix in advance so that can practice hiding their disappointemnt..lol). It's pretty remarkable when you think about it for a minute. And all they ask in return is don't quibble about their rate, show up, be on time, be respectful and polite, have good hygiene and be a participant versus a bystander. Wow, where pretty lucky if you ask me. A tip of my chapeau to you all and I'll happily provide a reference if requested to do so. And lets be kind to each other. Peace Mr Green

I found the truthful honest approach worked best for me. I was in a very similar situation and was right up front about it. Nervous, a but shy, past middle age, performance anxiety, basically all of insecurities rolled into one..lol The trick is finding the right women, the ones who may find it a bit endearing and are willing to take time to communicate and help you feel comfortable. You'll know real fast once you make an initial contact. At least that's been my experience Peace Mr Green

The first time I shaved the boys was when I was having a vasectomy. The Doc said I could do it or his assitant could. Hmm I thought but once I met his assistant the fanatsy disappeared. She reminded of one of those East German woman swimmers from the 70's before drug testing was the norm, so I was on my own. I bought a bag of disposables and decided to use Edge Gel and after not being able to convince my partner that this could be something fun to do together (like shopping), I enjoyed a bowl and then headed for the shower. The gelling went very well though I did get side tracked for a few minutes :). With my razor in hand I was ready except everything looked upside down and not like when I shave my head and face. I was moved very gingerly and it was a bit like shaving an egg, I held my penis up like you hold your nose up when shaving your upper lip and I got into a rhythm. I admired my handy work in a mirror and much like when as a kid you try to trim your bangs everthing looked uneven. So back at it. When I showed up that day for the V, when I dropped my pants my Doc just smiled because while trying to even everything out I was pretty much shaved from my nipples to my knees. And when he saw all the little pieces of kleenex covering all the nicks he just laughed and shook his head. Now I leave it as a nice short trim by using a pair of clippers. Peace Mr Green

Man, I'm so naive about this type of behavior. I just don't get it and maybe it's an age thing but life is way way too short to be miserable, unhappy, mean and rude. If you wouldn't treat your SO, mother, sister or daughter that way,then why is it ok to treat a SP differently. A lady is always a lady until she doesn't want to be. Peace Mr Green

I concur completely there's never a reason to make that type of comment about any one. Peace Mr Green

If I saw a provider more than one or two times it would mean to me at least that we have some sort of rapport. Thus I couldn't just disappear when it inevitably runs its course. I think it would only be proper to personally say good bye and thank her for the great times and wish her well in the future and frankly I would hope for the same consideration. Peace Mr Green

I'll provide the caveat that I'm not much of playa but I do play abit. I've never been asked to provide a reference and likely wouldn't. If there is a provider I'm interested in seeing, I'm prepared to take the time to ensure both parties are comfortable. It's a two way street as far as I'm concerned. I don't rely on reviews to make my decision, I rely on the response I receive when I make an intial contact. If there is an interest I'll ask general questions about services provided and rates, but I don't ask about anything specific. I'm open about who and what I am to the point of sending a pix and providing my contact details. I'm polite, respectful, fun and extremely chosy. I know what I have to offer and if I can't get that across through some communication then so be it, I'll just move along. It's not life or death to me. I do get that there are some fucktards out there and references are a very valuable tool to weed them out. I just feel that very quickly I can demonstrate I'm not one of them. Peace Mr Green :)

Jeans, tshirt, barefeet and minimal make up works for me... Peace Mr Green

I am the master of my domain.....:) I'm even ambidextrous....and use my left hand when I want it to feel like someone else... Peace Mr Green

Wow a neat topic and isn't great to be alive? Being a little older I've pondered these and most life type things many times. People come and go in our lives all the time and some we have very intense and intimate relationships with and with others it's much more casual. Have I been in love a lot or have I been in lust a lot, the answer to both is probably yes. Can you be in love with more than one person a time I would say yes. And it will happen when and where you least expect it. To me love/lust are inseparable. I can't be in lust with some one I don't have some form of love for. I agree that love doesn't have to be forever and it's ok to just enjoy it and ride the wave and when it's done it's done. It doesn't diminish it for me at all. In fact I'm not even concerned if I'm not loved back the same way. I promised myself a long time ago that I'm going to live a lot, laugh a lot and love a lot. And that's exactly what I'm doing! Peace Mr Green

No issues with this particular futon ;) Peace Mr Green

I use my cerb handle and make initial contact through PM after that I'll use mostly email which has the same handle. I don't friend anyone unless they've seen me naked that's their reward :>> which expalins that even with my wit and charm I only have 1 friend. Peace Mr Green