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Jolie is truly one of the best!

As a longtime member, I'm always on the lookout for excellent BBW providers in Ottawa. Well I found a new one and she is a real gem. I had seen her ads on another site, and I liked her pics but was wary of a scam because there were a bunch of suspcious BBW ads that suddenly popped up. Then recently I discovered her twitter feed and so decided to take a chance. Try googling her name; she doesn't advertise all that often. She sometimes works at a reputable massage parlour. It was easy to set up an appointment; she was ready on time; good location, easy close by street parking, quiet and private. When we met I discovered she is tall (well, to me at least: about 5'8"), BBW, looks to be under 25, really pretty, with wonderful soft skin and a charming personailty. Very polite. Girl next door that your parents would love you to meet. She is quiet and shy but not afraid to take what she wants. Rates are reasonable for high quality service. Not exactly a PSE, more like a GFE with an edge. A finely tuned edge. You bet I'm gonna repeat!

There's only one BBW in Aylmer who has been advertising lately. "Misty" http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/magical-tongue-hot-bbw-incalls-only-few-restrictions-613-317-5727/63384813

Her ads are pretty simple and consistent so I assume she is real. But I wonder what the experience is like? I enjoy being with a BBW

It's nice to see you here, Little Dirty Birdy. Your website is very cool and I look forward to meeting with you sometime when I'm in town. Over the years I've had the pleasure to spend time with some wonderful SSBBW's. You provide a niche service, but that doesn't mean that it doesn't have great value to some. Be true to yourself, enjoy the journey, and never feel bad about who you are. Some of us think you are amazing. 8-)

Yes, I've noticed that it's pretty boring with little participation. My main kink is about getting squashed by a powerful and confident woman, and anything to do with it. Bondage, smothering, getting scissored, ������ service, etc. But few people on here seem to want to chat about it.

Her legs are great

Anyone have any experience with her? She just popped up in Ottawa recently, I think.

I have often wondered what it would be like to be with a woman with extremely strong legs who likes to show off what she can do to a fellow. Anyone know of a local lady who might fit the bill?

I will endeavour to be polite and sociable as always.

I hope you are hiring her!!!!!!!!

The interesting thing about being with a really good dominatrix: you will discover that she is a very caring, compassionate and intelligent woman who has a pretty deep understanding of your needs. More importantly, she also realizes that the fantasy you have in your head may be more than your body is ready to take, and so she will carefully lead you down your road of self-exploration. So, pick a women on here with a long and solid reputation, (which is quite different from a long advertising history), be open and honest with her as you explain what you are looking for, give yourself over and trust her to protect you, and open yourself up to wild fantasies. With a really good domme, you might find yourself on the edge of falling in love.

Count me in as an admirer of BBW's. taller than me, heavier than me, stronger than me....oh my! There are some wonderful women here in Ottawa who are proud, confident, fun, and delightful to be with.

These wonderful ladies are out there, but sometimes tough to find. Generally, I search for the term "BBW" on places like ........ and cerb, and even .........., still. There are similar boards across Canada. There's a great website in England called Pretty Big Escorts. In the US, there's a couple of country-wide sites, and most major cities have one or two escorts well over 300 lbs; you can find escorts up to about 600 lbs. Generally I do a lot of research on the woman first; for example, check her participation on a board like cerb, and see how long she has been in business. I like to correspond or even chat by phone to satisfy myself that she is a nice normal person, and not some scammer or addict or gang member. I have met few women in Ottawa who are more than 300lbs, but there are some delightful ones in the 200-260lb range. I think the lady in Dartmouth wins the contest for Canada.

OMG Vanessa! I haven't laughed so hard in years! I'm so sorry to scare you like that. I never thought of it that way. Additional Comments: So as not to cause great consternation among some of the readers here (still laughing, Vanessa), and based on the advice received, perhaps I could qualify the question a little? Who are the escorts in Canada who proudly advertise their weight as over 300 lbs? (I hope this doesn't get me in trouble, too)

Hmm, you could be right. Wasn't meant to be discourteous. Each to his or her on, i guess, and to some of us, heavy and sexy are not in conflict. When I asked a similar question on a board in England, we had a jolly old time with it. 38 stone, in case you were wondering.

Some of us prefer Big Beautiful Women (BBW), and some even prefer Super-Sized Big Beautiful Women (SSBBW). I'm fortunate to travel this great country of ours, and I'm always on the lookout for BBWs and SSBBWs who are confident and skilled. Finding really large SPs in the US and England is pretty easy, but they seem to be relatively rare or at least not very well publicized in Canada. So, Cerbites, who is the heaviest escort in Canada? And while we're at it, who is the tallest escort in Canada?

I enjoy being helpless, squeezed and crushed by the woman, and then used for her sexual pleasure. I enjoy trampling because it allows even a woman of moderate size to appply lots of pressure to my chest, easily, for an extended period of time. Apparently, some people with autism find it very comforting to be squeezed long and hard. I'm not autistic, but I do find it therapeutic.

Ah! Your point is well taken, Samantha. It just seemed to me that there is lots of hearsay but not much fact. Thanks for the link to the legal database; it's quite insightful. I guess that if you keep things clean and discrete, and don't have something else illegal or troublesome going on, and no one complains, the police will leave you alone.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/search.php ?

Great discussion and sharing of personal experiences. In that vein, has anyone from cerb ever been charged under any of Canada's prostitution-related laws? Has anyone ever been caught up in a police raid related to having sex? Has anyone ever been approached by the police about their sex-related activity?

Bang on, Angela. (no pun intended)

I don't usually blurt out my kinky request in the first introductory email because some women are quite against going into detail before they get to know you a little. Some kinks can be a little dangerous if you don't know what you are doing, and they can be really dangerous if your partner doesn't know what she is doing. Bruises, scars, internal injuries and infections can happen very easily and quickly, to both of you. You may have built up some expectations in your mind which would be unrealistic to fulfil, especially of you haven't done it before. So for your first time you may want to choose a partner who already has experience with your fantasies and who can guide you safely and enjoyably through the reality. It's a journey; having it all doesn't mean having it all the first time. Many of the women who post frequently on cerb have tons of experience with requests from men to fulfil their fantasies; I would trust their advice. Pick a lady who advertises as fetish friendly or even who offers bdsm services, and start a dialogue with her to see if she is interested and willing to work with you. It's a small community so even if a woman you contact can't help you directly, she may be able to refer you to another who can. I have found several of the women on cerb to be very helpful!

I take it you have looked here? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/search.php Ottawa doesn't have a lot of BBWs. Caramia advertises on here, but I have never met her. Cathy the retired nurse describes herself as BBW. There are a couple of women who advertise on BP, but I haven't met them yet. Lou Simone is from Montreal but travels here now and then. She's great fun.

As a long time fan of being trampled, perhaps I can add to MightyPen's excellent insight. I used to think that I was very alone in this, but I've researched it pretty thorougly. It's not nearly as unusual, nor as straightforward as you might think. The fetish typically begins in childhood. Very early, like age 5 or 6. Think of a young boy crawling around the floor playing with his toys while the women who love and nurture and protect him, like his Mom, Grandma, aunts and older sisters either walk about the room going about their business, or are sitting chatting or watching TV or reading. Who knows what happens, but somehow their feet and legs get imprinted on his sexual psyche. As the fellow grows older, the fetish takes its own twists and turns, so some guys will ask for a slow, loving trample, some will want a disinterested bitch who doesn't care about what she is doing, some will want a pse-type of trample that really seems to get the woman excited (perhaps as a prelude to her sitting on him and taking him), some will want the pain of your heels digging in, and some will want to experience the crushing weight. So in your role of trampler, the first thing to do is figure out what the guy needs. Almost every guy will want more than he can really take. That's important for you to understand. MightyPen's suggestion of starting slowly and gradually buillding up the intensity is a good one for several reasons. First, it's safe, secondly it wll give your client a great experience even if he can't take as much as he hoped, and finally it will allow you to guage how much he can take. You will be very much in control of everything that happens, so it is important for you to really pay attention to him; not just to what he says, but also to his beaviour and body signals. Twice I have been unable to talk when a woman stood on me. Give the fellow time to warm up. Like any atheletic activity, you risk injury of you don't. The first time you step on him, place your foot on his stomach and slowly transfer your weight onto him. Try not to stand on one foot for too long as you are stepping up; when you're on one foot, you are doubling the pressure on that spot on him. Only stand for a few seconds the first time. Give him a moment to recover, and then step on him again, longer this time. Each time stay a little longer, or start gently walking about. There are more muscles in his stomach than his chest, so he is likely to take your weight on his stomach easier. As soon as you step off, the cool air rushes into him, and in many cases, he will be ready to receive your weight again with 10 seconds or less. You can use that knowledge to vary the intensity. Some fellows may want you to walk on their pelvis, penis, legs, arms and even their head. Start slowly until your get to know the guy. Some guys try to hold their breath while you are on top. Discourage this; he will take you longer if he dosen't hold his breath. It's also safer since his blood pressure won't build up so fast. I've been told that smaller men seem to take trampling better than larger men. A man who is fit will take it better than a man who is out of shape. The newer the fellow is to being trampled, the less he is likely to be able to take as much as he hoped. Keeping your balance while standing on someone is hard to do; it takes a fair amount of core body strength on your part. If you do this long enough, you will work up a sweat. If you don't have a strong core, you will fidget as you try to keep your balance, and that will make it difficult for him to take. The less you fidget, the longer he will be able to take your weight. Don't stand with all your weight on his heart. If you aren't too heavy, a few seconds there will not be a problem, but if you stay there for too long, he could have a real problem. It's a good idea to have something very solid to hand onto, like a kitchen counter, a solid chair or couch, or a wall. A hallway trample or trampling in a doorway is good. Avoid hanging onto something that might topple and hurt you both like a bookcase. Barefoot trampling is easier and safer than trampling with shoes or boots. You can keep your balance easier, and you will not leave any marks with bare or stockinged feet. With boots and shoes, it's not just the sharpness of the heel that you have to think about. If you twist your foot on his skin, the tread on the bottom of your shoe could bruise or tear his skin. Also the edges of the heels of even chunky shoes and boots can be quite sharp and could tear his skin. Your weight is obviously a factor, but not as much as you might imagine. I've been fortunate to be trampled by women in the 130 to 300 lb range, and each experience is unique and enjoyable. (When the 500 lb woman stood on me, I saw blue stars for a couple of seconds before I passed out.) If you are of average size, where you stand on him (upper chest, lower chest, chest and stomach or all stomach), how long you stand on him, how much you let him warm up, and how much you fidget will really determine how long he can take it. Oh, and if he's quite erect, he will probably last even longer. If you both get really revved up, you could be amazed at the jumping and stomping that he will enjoy. But start slowly!!! I always ask the woman to tie my hands at my sides or slightly behind me, for her safey and mine. A collar and leash is great, too! Look on youtube for femdom trample; there are some gems there. And of course, if you would like a personal introductory lesson or someone to test out your technique, I'd be glad to oblige!