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Would you define your body type a little more for us? Skinny to one is almost BBW to another. There are several spinners who are excellent providers here on CERB. Peachy is extremely lithe with delicate features, Luxe Mulvari is slender yet exotic and there are others that are equally attractive, weigh about the same but all have different body types... cat

Good luck RG, my thoughts are with you... cat

I'm a fairly optimistic person but I find it a challenge to spend a lot of time with someone who is always negative and never wants to see anything good. I have a couple of people who struggle with the negativity demon but are very open and willing to readjust their perspective once the good in life is pointed out and that makes their company worthwhile. I can find the silver lining in any situation and I love to see someone make that shift and see the light when I can. There are only 4 people in the world who know which of my buttons to push in the right order to foul my mood and I simply chose not to have contact with any of them because they are all lifetime members of the "Fuck Peoples Lives Up On Purpose" club. Everyone else I encounter I can manage my state and keep the positive flowing. My time and life is way to precious to focus on negative thoughts and attitudes eminating from others... cat

I specialize in retainer type exchanges and I always have. It has so many benefits for myself and the gentlemen that chose this option that I can't begin to list them. The emotional intimacy, connection, friendship and stability enhances my life in ways I never imagined in my 20's. The only issue I see with Sugar Baby/Daddy relationships is the difficult position it inevitably puts the Sugar Baby in financially. Young girls become dependent on the financial income very quickly and when the man withdraws (as he ALWAYS does at some point) she is usually left stranded financially trying to scramble to pay her bills. I've seen it so many times and I willingly warn young providers from becoming dependent on one client. There are square girls out there who seek out this type of relationship and if they are genuinely mature then they can make it work but often they do not have discipline to take advantage this type of relationship. If they know the game, they always come out with the long end of the stick and in my mind these girls are just prostitutes with a different business model. They end up costing far more than having an escort on retainer. Even some escorts mismanage the security of the "one, big client" and don't save up for when the ride is over. When the relationship with a square Sugar Baby comes to an end the potential for drama is huge. If emotions are involved, things can become very unstable. When the $ comes off the table, she will panic. Sugar Babies never understand the their true disposablility in the Sugar Daddy's life and when that realization hits, it hits hard. It's this hurt that will make her unstable in her reaction because it makes her feel used. Enter this situation at your own risk, I have yet to see one end with a shred of grace or dignity involved. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned... cat

One of my favorite playdates is where I order in food afterwards, sit on the couch with my guest and overindulge in good food and drink. It is just the perfect way to end an afternoon of debauchery... cat

I have always found their screening to be absurd. I have the rarest blood type and had donated since high school. When I did the soccer mom thing, my husband and I donated every 5 weeks. After I returned to work, I stopped but my husband continued. No where on the screening did it ask him if he had unprotected sex with a sex worker so he didn't have to lie. He never paid for sex so he told his truth. I remember having a discussion with a man once where he laughed about the screening because he was married and when verbally asked by a male screener he answered "I have expensive sex every time I have sex with my wife! Have you ever been married? There is no such thing as free sex" The interviewer was not amused but let him donate anyway. I wish I could donate, they desperately need my blood type and there are proven health benefits for those who donate regularly. Perhaps with this first step they will start to evolve and recognize that the only guarantee of clean blood is testing, not thru written screening... cat

I only use email to book and I find it very effective in sorting out and evaluating clients. I'm very upfront about the type of client I'm seeking and have worked exceedingly hard to ensure my advertising and emails appeal directly my target market. There is an email exchange between us that gives me what I need to screen and it seldom fails me. I have an extremely low no show rate and seldom get time wasters. There are a couple of guests that have my cell and will book via text now but they never call unless it is prearranged. Here's why... When I first started in Canada I had spent years using the phone as my medium of contact but I have a slight hearing impairment. Even with custom ear sets I have difficulty hearing on a phone if there is any background noise on either end and given the delicate nuances of this industry, I would sometimes have heard the address wrong or misunderstood a conversation which would put me or my guest in a situation where I had to think quickly on my feet in order to ensure we were both happy with the outcome of the appointment. If I can see your lips moving then I can understand you, if I can't then there is always a chance I've missed something. In my personal life, I text like mad but I know if I published a phone number and said "Text Only" it would be ignored by some and I am a woman that must answer a ringing phone. To ensure this doesn't happen I have designed my business model to support what I need which is clear, concise communication before a playdate. I realize that it eliminates some excellent clients who will only contact via phone or text but I accept that. It's all about figuring out what works for me so I can provide the level of service I strive for... cat

An interesting question! When I arrived in Canada, I had worn stockings every day I worked for the length of my career. After 6 months here I stopped because my clients didn't seem to notice or care and the investment is enormous. I was spending about $50/week on them and it had no return it seemed so why invest over $2000 a year on it? I still have a drawer full of them and happily accomodate a guest that requests I wear stocking but I don't wear them on a daily basis. If my guests gave me any indication that they like stockings then I wear them every time we play. I did have a guest who loved them and he would bring me a gift card to the hosiery store on a regular basis. He never left a pair intact that could be reworn so it was a good thing he was aware of the costs involved and offset it by the gift card. That kind of consideration goes a long way to ensuring your provider is willing to accomodate special requests. Back in the day I paid for the clothing, toy and special requests out of my own pocket and it ran approx $1200-1500/month. I have a fairly extensive collection of everything now but if someone has a specific request I recommend they bring it with them or advance funds via E.M.T. and I will shop for their request before the playdate. Sometimes I have invested days (literally 20 or more hours) searching for something very specific and that time is not compensated for so bringing your fancy with you is very much appreciated. Perhaps a visit to your local hosiery store is in order. You can pick out the color you like in a size C which should be wearable for just about everyone and take it with you. Your provider will accomodate and put them on with a smile I'm sure... cat

Orofactory stimulation is as unique as our fetishes. Our bodies metabolize food in a very individual way and our brains process scent with precision according to instinct and memory. No two people have the same scent preference profile. I like natural human scent. For me the no no's are asparagus and curry! Asparagus hits my urinary track within 30 minutes of eating and smells like antibiotics. I find curry comes out thru my pores for days. It's a shame as I love both. Some people can eat anything and it never presents a problem, others will present the side effects of their diet for extended periods of time. I know someone being freshly groomed is all that is necessary for me to enjoy them. If eliminating something from their diet makes my guest relax a little more then it's a good thing for them but I believe following the K.I.S.S. is the key to being happy in life... cat

I'm with Sara and Emily on this one, over sterilization is dangerous. Until this year I followed the "If it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger and I'm too grumpy to die young" philosophy. I do keep my living areas clean but I'm not one to disinfected every touched surface in my kitchen. Bathrooms are a different story with showers being my weakness. My work spaces are sanitized, the rest of my house is clean. I received a flu shot this year for the first time as I have a friend who is ill and we have lots of contact so I figured it was the right thing to do for his safety. I don't get virus' so it has never really been a huge concern, I only worry about things I can see, not what I can imagine because my imagination left uncheck is crazy thing. When my children were small I would send them for sleep overs with kids that were sick so they would get the exposure and often they would come home as healthy as I'd sent them. Eating dirt and getting sick is a necessary part of childhood imo if you want them to grow up strong. The immune system is an amazing thing and as adults we walk a fine line between exposing it to what it needs to keep it strong and staying healthy... cat

A toy certainly adds a little more excitement to an already charged experience! I have a rocking toybox... cat

Miss Mya, Why not just go in and ask? It can't hurt, you are beautiful... cat

I love this scene from RocknRolla... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzfNxQBr6Q4&feature=player_embedded cat

An association doesn't have to be public! It can be a very private group that meets, exchanges bad date information and offers support to each other. All it takes is one person willing to organize it. I belong to a private association of Divas. It's a loosely organized group of single old broads that get together regularly to exchange complaints, celebrate successes and bounce business ideas off of each other. We even have a membership ring that we all wear and group of younger D.I.Ts (Divas in Training) that are earning their "Diva" status. We don't have bylaws or rules except one. You can't miss a meeting unless you are dead. Literally. So the next question is... Who is going to step up to the plate up there, make a few phone calls and pick a place to have a coffee? If it's all inclusive, it doesn't matter the race as it will help everyone involved. Once it's established you can drag in the touring girls that pop in up their for their take on the world as they know it. I know if I ever made it up there, I would go for a coffee... cat

I have a facial scar that I got when I was a toddler and my dermatologist has been trying to get rid of it in all kinds of sly ways and I nix it every time. I have patiently explained several times that if he removes it I will never know my left from my right! I have always worried about scars on my body tho and it's why I've never gone under the knife to have a breast lift. I've read so many derogatory remarks about scars that it scares me. I happen to love scars, the way they feel under my touch and the stories that accompany them both... cat

Although we don't tip our doctors, dentists and such, I think we should always show gratitude for excellent service. I take my providers a little something for the holidays and their birthdays just to say "Thank you, I appreciate what you do for me." I wouldn't hand my doctor or mechanic a cash tip but their eyes certainly sparkle when I give them an envelope with an LCBO gift card or a bottle of their favorite poison. With time, perks seem to appear. I have most of my providers cell phone numbers and can text in the event of a general inquiry or a situation arises. How many people have their doctors cell phone number? Not many, but I have found it certainly is handy to have. The important thing isn't the gift itself, it is the acknowledgment of appreciation for those who have a genuine committment to providing the best service they can... cat

K is for kisses! Slow, wet tongue teasing kisses... cat

I use to meter out the present opening. Stockings before breakfast then 1 present an hour till they were all opened. It took the whole day and ensured they soaked up every gift before the next one presented. It made the meal times peaceful and cleaned up quickly and kept fighting to a minimum as I could "cancel" present opening if they acted up. I loved it and I would save "the big one" for after Christmas dinner. The whole day was anticipation riddled and by bedtime they were exhausted and would sleep in boxing day till lunch. It kept them from making plans to go out bailing on family time and they actually loved it. Now they're big they want an envelop with $$$ in it. Like mother, like daughter I guess :) ... cat

I offer an amazing massage session in a private dedicated studio in the Bay/Laurier St area... Email me at [email protected] for details... cat

I have a list of sexy clients as long as my arm but none of them would want to be listed here. They pay for my service which is based on discretion at all times. They know who they ;) are and don't need a shout out... cat

These clear, concise and accurate words are just one of the reasons I have such a crush on you Miss Christine!!! cat

Happy Birthday Kisses to you! cat

Welcome back Miss Samantha, you have been missed... cat

I understand your fear but it is unfounded. They aren't going to be asking about your children, they are not concerned about you as a person of interest unless you are under 18, drug addicted or being pimped. They are concerned about men who prey on women, sex worker or not. They are concerned about someone impersonating a police officer. You are not doing anything illegal and you have nothing to fear. Perhaps you could contact Stepping Stones and see if there is an advocate in your area that would accompany you down to file the report. http://www.steppingstonens.ca/ This time he was verbal, the next time he may get someone in person. Reporting him is how to prevent him escalating this into something where someone gets hurt... cat

Report this to the police! Impersonating a police officer is a federal offense and they don't take kindly to it. We had a situation here in Ottawa where that happened and the police went out and "had a talk" with him. If the emailer was LE his behavior is unbecoming a police officer and his superiors should know about it. What you do is not illegal and they "serve and protect" us all... cat