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I'm 5'2.5 and find I fit pretty well with every height! Once I had a client that was 6'7 and that was tricky but it before kissing was allowed so it worked... cat

I have to agree with Mighty Finn on this one. When I started knocking dishes on the floor and sitting on someones keyboard it's because I want their attention. A new toy works wonders! cat

Miss Meg, So eloquently said, thank you for the reminder! cat

"Gay for Pay" is a lucrative business. If you're in debt, take one up the...I mean for the team. See how you like it before you ask her to do it. Don't ask anyone to do anything for you that you won't do for yourself... cat

Sara McQuestion is out that way as well... cat

I tried to rep this but the function was nonfucktional. This is my entire philosphy towards life. I won't date or do business with anyone I haven't had sex with. That said, anyone in Ottawa own a property maintenance company or a dry cleaners? I have a lawn that needs cutting and bag of dry cleaning that isn't getting any smaller... cat

Amelia, please understand that my statements do not come from being uninformed. 25 years in this industry has given me the opportunity to see things that, at times, I think the younger providers choose to overlook. The seemingly long life ahead often does that. Statistics on a page are one thing, hands on care giving at the ground level can change the way the numbers present. A number with apparent insignificance on a risk assessment chart gains importance with a reality check provided by human circumstance. I understand the difference between the herpes and shingles virus. With a weakened immune system caused by herpes, shingles is a very common discomfort amongst herpes sufferers... cat

I go into "comfy" mode often. My "go to" outfits are mens long johns with wife beaters, a hoodie and cowboy boots. Sometimes I will add a mans tshirt. I am a "trophy" collector and have claimed all kinds of comfort garments from clients that hold special energy. I have a collection of tshirts, wife beaters, underwear, socks, ties and dress shirts from guests I have collected over the years and I still wear them when I want to relax and exhale. I love to feel "lost" in what I'm wearing so trophies fit the bill nicely as they are so comfortable AND have great memories attached to them. I'm fairly sure when I get anciently old I will be found dead in a rocking chair on a giant porch somewhere with stockings, garters, a man's dress shirt, cowboy boots and not much else on. .. cat

I've watched the vote on both boards closely. This is a trixie dilema for many reasons; the main one for me are my ability to continue to earn an income in the event one of these occurs... 1. INCURABLE -Herpes 2. INCURABLE -Gonorrhea 3. SILENT-Chlamydia 4. INCURABLE-AIDs/HIV I don't have an issue with a gentleman having a preference but I prefer that I, as a provider, have the opportunity to get to know a guest before I am forced to make a decision. And it is "forced" as I was trained to always provide the safest service - ALWAYS - so anything uncovered is going against years of conditioning and brings concern to my mind. There are few sterotypes that we can constructively work against, STI/STD transmission is one of the ones that we can stand proud on being untrue with statistics to back it up. I do understand the preference and on this board I expected the results seen in the poll. I genuinely wonder how many men will enjoy it with the outbreaks that are surfacing. I know everyone has read the articles on the newest strain of untreatable gonorrhea that is currently under scrutiny; spreading globally and certainly wouldn't enjoy explaining how their SO ended up with chlamydia now that she is hospitalized with raging infection in her girlie regions and she is now sterile. Mitigating risk is an essential part of this business and I have concerns about the disregard most have for the health and well being of their providers vs. their own pleasure. I also am surprised at the nonchalance shown about the hobbyists own health given the fallout of incurable STD's. I've copied and pasted my response to this thread from the other board. What I would like to add is that if someone isn't in a relationship, contracting one of these will certainly alter your ability to get involved in the future. I have a seen it personally with acquaintances and it's not pretty finding someone who will overlook herpes or gonorrhea... cat

I'm a little confused? Did you reply to your own thread offering insight? Curious... cat

A typical question that has been asked over and over and over and over. Rest assured; regardless of your intentions, offense will be taken. The CERB search option and google are your friends... cat

I am a creature whose natural habitat is the bed, the couch in direct sunlight and typically do what I want, when I want to. As "they" say "Redheads are direct descendents of cats"... cat

I don't think a single glass of wine or shot before an appointment is a problem if the provider is low volume. If she's seeing 10 clients for 15min appointments a day...that could be an issue. The bottom line is that she is comfortable with it. I don't indulge before guests because there are no jitters but a photo shoot? I start with 2 shots of tequilla before I'm out of the shower! Then I continue to sip from a flask until the ordeal is over. I don't get drunk but I definitely mellow out and don't throw up during every costume change... cat

Luxe Mulvari and I will be in Kingston Thursday thru Saturday this week... cat

I'm coming to Barrie on September 19-20th! I'm not sure what category I fit into though. I'm not a yummy mommy as I've left my 30's behind but I'm definitely not a Cougar either... cat

I've been looking for a clothing butler locally as I'm not a online shopper but they are hard to come by. For the time being, I always ensure there is adequate resources to guarantee no wrinkles ensue... cat

BP is like any other advertising resource available for SPs. There are many established providers who utilize it. It is also a hub for bait and switch, cons and rip offs. The key is to do your homework and research a provider that you find appealing by checking the boards and Cowboys Diary for information. Google is your friend. If you are looking for the "cheap" diamond in the rough provider then you simply have to suck it up and TOFTT, then see how the dice roll... cat

Great idea! I always have the "I need to read that!" and never get around to it as I'm in the middle of a half dozen books at the time... cat

Gentlemen, I have known Miss Vivian for years. Not only is she physically stunning, she is a woman of tremendous spirit and heart. Altho she is quiet by nature, she will move mountains to ensure you are happy with her services. I'm thrilled to see this thread and I know she is going to be a tremendous success in the days to come... cat

Old school rules, you or the time up bell, which ever came first. Today, providers and clients use time as a way to gauge value for dollar and quality of experience. It's really quite simple, just clarify with your provider upfront what is more important, sog's or quality of experience. Like Nikki, if you treat a woman like a blowup doll, that's exactly what you are going to get. As an agency girl I gave a demon grudge fuck when I had been disrespected by a client's attitude. You get back exactly what you give... cat

I love other peoples birthdays and try to ensure the visit closest to the actual day is celebrated when a guest is coming to play. It's a fun way to spend a couple of hours. If I decide to offer my time for it, then it's my idea and my choice. Anyone that asked would gently be declined. cat

It is a personal decision and I can understand fully you considering this. I would give my left nut to work for a good agency, even now. I always made more $ with an agency per hour of work involved and I loved having a life where I didn't have to deal with administration or even think about my business. As it stands now, there is not an hour of my life where I don't have thoughts of "what needs to be done?" or "did I do...?" or "what about...?" A good agency is hard to find but is always welcome. I'm glad you've made your decision and happy to hear there may be a new player in town! cat

I've been on hiatus as ordered by my doctor because of a impact trauma to my, get this...trachea! It started Thursday evening with a sore throat but I chalked it up to all the air conditioning going on. Friday I popped into see my doctor who agreed and we decided that lozenges and Tylenol should do the trick. Saturday morning I headed to Montreal for a much deserved weekend away but my condition worsened. My glands began to swell and I knew my weekend was over. Sunday afternoon my support team arrived to snatch me up and take me to Emergency here in Ottawa. The doctors were baffled as my swabs came back clean but my glands were huge and my throat was closed off for swallowing. They scratched their heads debating amongst themselves how my trachea could have impact damage but there be no external visible signs of trauma? I am sitting there with the answer but not sure how to explain it so I said nothing. I knew exactly what happened, it has happened before. Thursday I had been requested to do a "face fuck" and decided that given the guest was a valued client, I agreed. It was just a little one, nothing crazy or remotely PSE. I don't provide this service often because of physical fallout. My doctor and I have had this discussion many times, he refused to believe that oral sex can cause this response unless there is a bacterial or viral element involved but I know a good ff will do it as well. So Monday morning I'm with my doctor reviewing the weekend tests and he finally agreed after looking at the x-rays that it is indeed possible to have strep like symptoms due to a blow job. cat

I have used them extensively for a variety of reasons. If it's to aid with ED, then a single does the job. For sensations there are several that work well ad and are worthy of exploring to see what tickles your fancy... cat

After a visit with me... Dazed and Confused cat