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Great idea!!! I would love to spend a weekend out in nature, either on a boat or in a deer stand... cat

I think you are seeking a Sensual Domina. In my personal life I consider myself dominant but I'm not sadistic by nature so the extremes don't appeal to me. I'm drawn to pleasure and dancing on the fine line between it and pain without crossing it. There are as many different Dom styles as there are people who live. Sensual Doms delight in control and the way all of the senses can play into an experience. They are intuitive to the ways control or lack thereof can enhance the delight of seduction. Sensual Doms have honed the art of allowing one to relinquish control and gives forth the opportunity to push boundaries aside and explore dark, hidden passions without the harsher side of the traditional power exchanges. The key is finding the right partner... cat

I truly appreciate those that book an appointment with me using their "real" information. I give priority to emails that arrive seeming to be a personal email address as opposed to those that arrive with addresses like [email protected] or [email protected]. Personal information is sacred to professional providers and we would not compromise your trust as we trust you will not compromise ours. That said, I underlined professional for a reason. There is a sharp difference between providers and it is important that you do your homework as to who you will trust with this privilege. Professionals have a tremendous amount of time and money invested in their brand and compromising their reputation is not an option. Providers who have little invested will have little to lose. Changing a name and a phone number is easy if an indiscretion occurs on their part. Stick with reputable providers, women who invest in their advertising; not just those with "good" recommendations. cat

I never thought I would say... "I don't ever want to be in a monogamous relationship again." But here I am, being single and finally feeling like my life is "right". "I don't do crazy." I have always attracted incredible characters but I now have lines where eccentric cross over to crazy and once it is crossed, I'm out. "It's bedtime." I was always a night owl, now 11pm seems awfully late. These are just a few of the things that have struck me lately that I never believed I would say. All of them indicate a very scary thing, I just may be growing up... cat

Understood... cat

Perhaps a call to the locations directly... cat

Miss Channel, It has happened to me and I know exactly how you feel. It's a frustrated shame served cold with a side of acute embarrassment. We are human and and just need to accept that we make mistakes; then pray he has the forgiveness in him to give you an opportunity to make it up to him. If he does, you give it your all and he'll be thrilled with the rendezvous. I know you wouldn't ever do something like this intentionally and intention is what matters. cat

I think it's easy to understand the knee jerk reaction, when the sky falls in, to blame the obvious which in this case is CERB. My guess would be the OP's SO found evidence of his escapades and he is now paying the piper and his post is rationalizing his current life situation. With some people, it takes time for the actual act of taking personal responsibility for one's actions to sink in and become reality. There are some people that never reach that conclusion, it is always someone or something else's fault and they never reach the emotional maturity needed to accept they brought the situation on themselves and the situation they face is because of their choices and subsequent actions. Everyone entering into our little corner of the world understands the risks involved even when they won't admit them out loud. Most just hope that the worst case scenario never comes to fruition and have no coping strategy in place in the event it does. Indulging in the services offered here comes with knowledge that you may have to account for your actions and it should never be assumed you will not "get caught". This is exceedingly poor planning in my opinion. If you make the choice to participate, own it. Contrary to popular opinion, this is not a hobby or a sport and has the potential to bring great experiences or complete devastation to one's life depending on how you see the world and choose to cope with the results of your decisions. cat

I went for years with no avatar and only recently put one up. I dislike having pictures taken so never really thought too much about albums or avatars. My current photographer has helped with my anti-photo stance as he will work with me even if I need a tequilla for breakfast just to get infront of the camera and I figured I could live with my legs out there. Red pumps are my all time favorite pair of "must have" shoes and shoes are one of my favorite things so it all worked! I truly admire the ladies who change their avatars regularly. cat

As a woman who has worn everything from a 2 to a 22, I know my bottom has turned heads no matter what size I am. I have seen amazing bums that wear a 16 or an 18 and for me it's the shape not the size that catches my attention. The truly fortunate thing is that you don't have to drink if it's not your cup of tea, someone out there drinks it and loves every drop. I think lululemon is a cult. Two of my daughters have been indoctrinated but I so far have resisted the Koolaid. I'm not sure for how much longer tho, it's hard to resist! cat

WTF? (I love being able to swear without actually saying it!) How did this happen? When did this happen? Thank you all so very much although I'm not sure what I did to deserve it! kisses, cat

I'm so sorry Miss Nicki... cat

I collect unique things that I love. Not necessarily all the same things but things that reach out to me in some way. Having started over from nothing so many times I don't develop a strong attachment to them but I like to surround myself with things that make me go WOW. I know eventually I will rehome it either as a gift or sell it to someone but for the time the piece resides with me it is honored, appreciated and enjoyed. Like Gabriella, sometimes it's an episode of Hoarders that will cause a purge but most of the time it's because I simply run out of space to display things. As I am writing this I looked in the mirror and saw a reflection of shoes, boots and accessories. That's what I collect! I have a china cabinet to display the truly exceptional ones, a closet for the daily wears and storage for the heirloom pieces that my daughters and granddaughters may want one day. Even those need a purge now and then... cat

Congratulations!!!! kisses, cat

I did all my walking in the bike lanes on Laurier today as I saw not one biker but the sidewalks were such a mess. Most people tho still plodded along the sidewalks, ankle deep in slush and snow. I was thankful the bike lanes were plowed! cat

Although I have never been to prison, I have had the opportunity to spend an extended time in County Jail in the South. The attitude there was "don't let us catch you" and it worked most of the time. But the difference in how they treat female and male detainees is vast. Women who were written up for sexual infractions were more harshly disciplined then the men were. I did 5 weeks in Solitary Confinement for being caught making dildos. These were anatomically correct pieces made from paper towel rolls, menstrual pads, toilet paper and rubber gloves. A true design success in my opinion and what irked me the most was that the dildos didn't make it into the "Contraband Museum" which is a room full of glass display cases which house the unique and creatively constructed contraband from noncontraband materials at hand seized from inmates housed there. This museum is passed thru by visitors to the Jail when they come for a tour or to see a loved or less than loved one. You can tell when someone scratches an itch in confinement because they are much happier people the next day. I think it is a bare necessity that shouldn't carry repercussions as it helps maintain sanity. At least it can be used as an unwritten privilege to help motivate good behavior as was done in my facility. cat

This is actually an excellent wine. I saved a bottle and turned it into a mouthwash bottle because it's too cool to throw away! cat

My best friend is a man. He has been there for me without fail. I would give him a kidney or take a bullet for him literally. He is my touchstone. It doesn't matter that we have different anatomy or that we have no inclination in exploring each others anatomy. Our friendship has withstood the tests and tribulations life has presented and I don't see that changing. Yes, men and women can be friends... cat

My hell would be orange. Everything would be that jail house uniform shade that is never replicated anywhere else. You can't find it in a sunset or a garden, on a flower or a bug. It isn't seen at the mall or even on a paint chip but the fires of hell would burn it and I would be stuck looking at it forever... cat

You have brought me to outright tears several times and I miss it! cat

At least they're Dale Earnhardt fans!!! cat

Looking directly at a cat can have dire consequences as many well know. Just to be clear, I am not "that" cat... cat

I think those that offer both should simply chose to post in one area for the advertising period allowed. I offer both but would never bother with putting an ad in the MA section as my price for both is the same. The problem is with so many providers in Ottawa; our ads get bumped off the page in a matter of hours, long before the 12 hour waiting period is up. cat

I agree that there needs to be a separate list for MAs and SPs. For providers that do both, they would need to pick a category for the 12 hour limit and stick with it. It will require some honor as policing it would be a head ache if abused but I don't really think it would be a problem. I don't think that old posts and recos need to be moved. Old advertising posts are obsolete in a matter of days and there can be a link to a reco thread easily included. Just start the new section and it will flow from there. cat