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Great work on the Social here Angela. Now go to bed... cat

OMG! YOU PAINT! Where's the phone number again? cat

I prefer to play first. If I eat, I will try to satiate the tension with food which is impossible to do. An entire cake with a gallon of milk can disappear just because I have an itch that needs scratching... cat

As simple minded as this sounds, I just found out that this is considered a racial slur. It was the shovel argument where I was from and in that sense I have always used it. I had never heard the term "spade" used racially until this summer. Perhaps it's a Yankee thing... cat

I LOVE PANCAKES!!!!!!!!!! (with real maple syrup served from a belly button!) cat

I have a $.10 that says capitalman isn't retiring. He's stealing his client base and going indie. He'll lay low for a couple of months till he finds out that his pilfered clients get very demanding and incredibly cheap after he exits this fine establishments blanket of protection and he will need to start generating more $ just to put gas in the moped. I'll be watching for the rebrand launch before Christmas to announce his return because he missed everyone so much; with a new look, new name and new website! I just hope he's smart enough to adjust prices to reflect the indie status. Everyone knows that indies don't need to charge as much because they no longer have to give that cut to the greedy administration! cat

I agree that in any line of work there will be moments, days or weeks where it just isn't feeling like it should. When I find myself off, I try and identify what the issue is and how to correct it. Usually it is my headspace that is at fault. It doesn't matter usually if a client was curt or abrasive, someones behaviors does not have the power to change my mood unless I choose to let it. If I'm not having a good day, it's me and thats where the adjustments need to be made. I have a standard set of rituals that I use to get myself refocused and if I have a guest coming in, he becomes part of that. A bath with candles and bubbles is a great start, or a shared shower will suffice. Then massages with lots of attention paid to certain areas moves things along. By the time the massages are over, my head is right there in the moment and the play time will be exactly what it should be. Problem solved. If I am not working, the same ritual is performed but I arrange to have a masseuse come in for me. It seems to do the trick and gets me back to where I need to be. cat

The most vital weapon to have is clear thinking mind. I have never been in a challenging situation where a weapon would have helped. It was always clear, focused thinking and strong communication skills that saved my skin. Carley is right, do the work verifing before the appointment; that will eliminate almost all difficult guests, then stay sharp during the appointment. Your intuition is your best resource at that point and will guide you if you stay aware and focused. One of the skills I have found most useful is a daily focus on compassion and I believe that it has been the reason I can count on one hand the incidences I have had in my career. Genuine care and concern can change the energy of an interlude and disarm most bad attitudes in short order. Trust yourself. cat

I do know that when friends went thru the donation process they tried to choose a donor that had similar traits so that the child would pass as their own in public. They were both dark haired, skinned and eyed so their donor was as well. It may stem from not wanting to have a child that stands out from the parents. That said, I don't care what color hair a baby or adult has. I love gingers and as a redhead myself I don't see it as detrimental in any way. cat

Seldom do we disagree WIT, but here I must. A persons appearance in this society impacts just about all aspects from getting a job to receiving decent service in a restaurant. Science has proved time and again that people react better initially to a visually pleasing appearance; then the persons attitude will help dictate the rest of the interaction. People who do not fall into the traditionally "attractive" category know who they are unless they are just obtuse. I have met many men who are wonderful people but have a shallowness when it comes to who they will date. To this day, they are all still single because they will only date an 8 or higher when they are a 5 or 6. Visually appealing men do not usually have a difficult time getting a date altho keeping a girlfriend may be a different story if they lack substance. Unrealistic expectations to say the least in my opinion. It continues to baffle me. cat

I would recommend giving Metcalfe Chiropractic. Excellent service and attitude... cat

My "personal space" is my body which I choose to share with those I feel safe with. I would recommend anyone who has an issue with an SP's booking requirements spend a couple of hours naked with a person who outweighs you by 100lbs, has the ability to do you serious personal harm if they decide to and you know nothing about them but their alleged "first name" and a potentially disposable phone number. After this experience you will be in a position to decide whether or not having reliable, verifiable information is a good or bad business decision. :) cat

Absolutely true! For it to be an authentic interactive experience the ladies must attracted to each other in a very genuine way. Women bond differently than men and I've seen good female friends have a great dynamic in the bedroom because of it. We need to like the lady in front of us for the play date to flow. I have had all types of experiences ranging from fully interactive to on the job training; all are fun if the chemistry is there. Time investment is key. Know the girls separately and make sure they know each other beforehand. Otherwise you may end up with an up close and personal "theatre production" which is only fun if the participants are extremely good actors. cat

Southern... which is anything deep fried, smoked, slathered in butter or fat back, floating in gravy and last but not least covered in marshmallow with a sweet tea on the side. cat

Altho the majority of my client base are not board posters, many have done a history of my posts and contact me because of it. I feel CERB threads have contributed positively to my business and serve as a general source of personal amusement on a daily basis. I also use a posters history to determine if they are someone I would enjoy spending time with. Useful all the way arround. cat

And the faster her ex will get custody of her children and ensure supervised visitation forever thereafter no matter how much time has passed since the pictures were online. Everything we put out there has the potential to come back and bite us in the ass. The types of pictures made public by an SP are not a guarantee of the type of experience one will have when visiting a provider. IMHO. cat

There are so many options available now. The one that I find to be the most intriguing is being done now in Brazil so it will be here in about 5 years is a fat tissue transplant. It isn't injection transfer but actual tissue relocation from your buttocks to your breasts so if you are simply looking for more volume it will do the trick. They can combine it with implants to replace massive tissue loss and do complete reconstruction when necessary with amazingly natural results. I do agree that waiting until a lift is necessary is probably the most fiscally wise path. Breasts are delightful in all shapes and sizes and do not need to be changed for the sake of change in my opinion. It's when life has had the use of them that they can be a hindrance. Sagging makes buying lingerie difficult and getting clothes to fit properly is a challenge. It must be a decision made for the right reasons which only a woman can answer for herself. cat

Yes, CERB is as incriminating as a website when it comes to the Crown building a case against you. It's the risk we all take in order to do business. Gone are the days of classified ads with nothing but a phone number to link us to the ad itself. Now we have a plethora of identifying information out there and the chances of getting out of a charge is almost nil if LE decides to come after you. I cannot stress strongly enough that the risk is usually from within. Ex partners, jealous coworkers, vindictive frienimies and nosy neighbors are the dangerous factors most of the time. A website is a tool to use but not the only tool. It does take more time and patience to answer each and every inquiry but it is doable. I have never had a website and I am not sure I will ever want one. I prefer to communicate directly with guests to ensure we are a good fit and I'm not inclined to say "go look at my website" to answer their questions. Part of niche I service is that all of my guest inquiries are attended to by me. That is my personal preference and it suits my business model. Some websites are an excellent tool to offer insight into the provider, others are not. A website does not eliminate the questions that are asked by clients even when the answers are online. I don't think a website is mandatory but it can make life simpler for some. Not having one is a personal choice. cat

The control factor is not what I enjoy. My partner is not in control in any way when I play anally. He is on his back, laying flat sometimes tied to the bed even. I very seldom do anal on my knees as it does nothing for me in that position. For me it is the physical sensation itself... cat

Yes, yes it is! cat

paddiewack clearly states "I've been seeing this particular therapist for many years" AND "She has never crossed the line". That should be all that is needed to realize he isn't looking to pass her number around. He's asking if others have had this happen with an RMT. This isn't a recommendation. I would focus on the "I've been seeing this particular therapist for many years" and realize that with loyalty and a good relationship many things in this world can become a sultry experience. That is what customer appreciation is all about. cat

Complicating things is an understatement and flawed is an under understatement... cat

I watch Kill Bill I and II back to back. It reminds me that the human spirit is undefeatable with a little determination, a little focus and a clear goal front and center in my mind and heart. Hang in there, you're gonna be just fine. cat

Darling nitelife, Drawing attention to what could be as simple as a typo probably isn't something that needs a thread of its own. I assure you that no good will come of it. My gentle suggestion is to direct your question or concern directly to the MP; perhaps she didn't notice the error. When it comes to age, you are walking on exceedingly thin ice with most women. SPs and age has always been a thorn on the rose and is best not tended to without gloves, preferrably satin. cat

Communication, communication, communication. When I am getting to know a new guest it is a process. There are many detailed emails exchanged before the appointment is set up to ensure we have the same expectations. I will not give a list of services provided...ever. But I can tell from dialogue whether or not I'm interested in entertaining someone. For me, it is all about the mind. If the mental aspects are there 99.99% of the time the physical is a given. Spend some time and read post history on someone you are interested in, perhaps spend a little time in chat. Invest some time getting clear in your head what it is about the Montreal provider that has you hooked. Is it simply a service or perhaps an attitude or life perspective? You need to know what it is if you are going to quest after if you are to find it again. "The One" will present when you least expect her to. cat