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No harm intended but this post is soooo not applicable. I could line up every provider on this board and we would all tell you....IT DOESN'T MATTER if he knows what he's doing. This simply makes men focus on their penis instead of what's between their ears, which is the only organ that counts. cat

Tickling is considered a fetish but is it really? We tickle babies tummies and kittens ears. We tickle bellies and ribs to elicit a giggle or feet to see a smile. It is just plain fun as long as both are enjoying themselves. Add in a feather or some pearls, candlelight and a playful spirit and it's an evening to remember.... cat

Rockabilly has been at the forefront of the resurgence of the New Burlesque in North America. Rockabilly embraced the true showmanship of the stage and brought with them all of the thrill of the Rockabilly movement to sensuality of Burlesque. It's difficult to find one without the other and they compliment in ways that are too numerous to mention. We have amazing troupes here in Ottawa who put on stunning shows. I will post some links later. I agree, Cleo and Berlin both have that edge down pat and are worth meeting... cat

The internet happened. It allowed independents to thrive but it took our freedom in more ways than can be listed here without sounding like a broken record. Services that we would limit to valued clients are now expected by all. The world wide web has been a blessing with a virus attached... cat

jughead has apologized and that is all we can ask. Let's chalk this up to a learning experience, reminder for all of us and move on. I have had several situations where I knew my client once I opened the door. Fortunately they had as many reasons to be discreet as I do so it worked. None of them sought me out knowing who I was, it was inevitable in the area I was working. It made for interesting meetings! cat

I will see you for the 8pm on Saturday!!!!!!! I am sooooo excited! cat

My Darling Victoria, I understand your sentiments and I THINK YOU ARE SPECTACULAR! If it was understood to one and all, what the overhead is to run a business like yours they would understand that reco's make life so much easier. I know how much blood, sweat and tears you pour into all that you do and I admire all that you are. Kisses, cat

I love her work, I've followed her since the early 80's. Never truer words spoken... cat

There are people who are chronically unhappy no matter what they are doing and those that are happy no matter what they have to do in all walks of life. An unhappy person says "I'll be happy when...." but when that blank gets filled in they are still unhappy. Being happy is a personal decision that comes with acceptance of what is. There is abuse in this industry and most SPs are bent in some way or another as are we all. As I have said before; little girls don't decide to be an SP when they grow up. Life happens and they find themselves in it. What they decide to make of it determines whether or not they are successful. cat

I have 2 and adore them! They were a great investment and I would recommend buy one in a heartbeat. cat

She has retired. cat

I LOVE BROTHELS!!! I have worked in several brothels that ran the gamut from a strict lockdown to a rambling country house with more entrances than people and enjoyed it immensely each and every time. There were no "shared" beds or even bathrooms. I loved the opportunity to just show up and work and then go home with a pocket full of $. I loved the focus, there were no distractions. I always took lots to read, all of my beauty secrets and actually read and put my night cream on! Not one of them were Nevada style, I was never lined up with other girls and guests were not expected to walk thru common areas in front of other guests or ladies. I think brothels are an excellent option for women who do not wish to undertake the considerable time and effort required to operate as an independent. As I have always said, it is less than 20% of us that can be indies and do it well. Most women do not want the work to dominate their lives and would like to simply work and go home like any other 9 to 5 job. Sex work is a temporary option for them, not a lifetime career. I had an excellent client base at the brothels that I worked, very much like I do now. It really isn't all that different than being independent except it offered me more flexibility and options than being an indie. If there were a real brothel here in Ottawa, that's where I would be... cat

Let's hope she maxes out. People who pray on those who are weaker need to hear this message, loud and clear. cat

We all have our likes and mine is big bills. I prefer larger bills because they are easier to count, easier to save and much harder to spend. ATMs issue $20s so I don't mind getting them, but its too easy to skim a $20 here and there for me. If one is worried about giving a provider an extra $10, perhaps she's not the provider for them! As for change, it spends just like bills. I once received $374.26 for a $375 appointment. I saw this gentleman twice a year, he saved his change to be able to see me as he was a short order cook in a diner. I always took my toybox in with me so I could lay the rolled quarters in it to carry to the car. As long as the intent is genuine, a provider should never quibble about the currency breakdown works as long as it is spendable. cat

Megan, JH and RG have made the point. It is not the appearance that matters, it's the attitude one approaches with. As long as your hygiene is good and you are smiling, I do not know of a provider that would not welcome you. Have faith and step off the edge... cat

Berlin....shy? Hmmmm. Now there is a novel thought! :tongue: I have never been a dancer but celebrated my 3rd decade of being a patron. I love SCs and have never had an issue with a dancer. If I see one I like I tip her on stage or ask a waitress to send her over if she is cruising. If she's busy it's important to let her know that you would like to see her. She will put you on the dance card. Slower nights means she will have a little more time to sit and chat but if she doesn't thats ok. I can't imagine you not having a blast Berlin. cat

Greek should NEVER hurt unless you want it to. If it hurts, it's not being done right. It's a skill that needs to be learned both giving and receiving. It does take time, you need to know your body and trust your partner. I love Greek play but only with those that I trust to know what they are doing. It's all about the mind set. Are you relaxed and into the moment? If not then there needs to be more time spent getting there. There are wonderful toys that make this journey easier and in the hands of an experienced playmate it will be amazing for a man who is open to the new and delightful. cat

Don't let these boys scare you, it's not the size that matters. No, you don't want to go from a finger to a 9 inch. If it's done right Greek tours do not hurt. It's fun and thats what life is all about. Explore and enjoy. cat

I would beg to differ, the right asian is worth her weight in platinum as an escort. Even a disinterested asian is worth her weight in gold. In my experience they don't like to see caucasian men as escort clients if they are new here. Those born here have a different perspective and are easy to market. I think it's a culture thing. There is a tremendous amount of shame brought on the families if it is found out, thus all the b+s. Parlors are more private, less chance of someone they know walking in. cat

Suffice it to say that SPs didn't really voice in until Mia's entry. This was her decision and the SPs respected her decision to sit quiet and see if it died down. Her explanation is clear and accepted by the SPs for reasons that are our own. There seems to be no reason to continue with the discussion. If someone tried to sneak back in to see me after I had told him that he was not welcome, he would have received the same treatment from me as did Mia. Enough said. cat

Thanks for the mention but I have just crested the 40's tho I am looking forward to the 50's! cat

6 years ago this March, 4 US Marshalls escorted me shackled on a flight to Canada. I had a jailhouse uniform of gray track pants, a wife beater and a sweatshirt. I had a box with books, my comb, a toothbrush and a pair of running shoes. $26 in my pocket, No ID, no contacts but some estranged distant family here in Canada. I spent $13 on a shuttle from Pearson to Union Station to put a fellow deportee on a train to Montreal so they could get to their family. I walked across the street to the Royal York, put my box down, sat on it and marveled at how thin Canadians are and realized how cold it was without a coat here. Made it to Ottawa after a couple weeks of bouncing around Toronto streets and a friend brought Vivian (my Volvo) from the US. I lived in Vivian for the next 5 months working for every agency here in town at the same time and starved. I was lucky to do an appointment a week because I was "too old". I lived off of dinners from guys on Quest and washing up in the Tim Hortons around the city. I slept in the Kettleman's parking lot and down at the Byward Museum watching the city at night. Hurricane Katrina had pushed gas up to $1.35. I was being sent to Rockland and Almont for $90 after agency fees. A guest talked me into going independent but I didn't understand the online business here and didn't have a computer. I used Quest aquaintences computers for the first couple of months. I literally lived on carrots, yogurt and a couple of hot meals a week from Quest guys. Sometimes I would order way too much food so I could have some for later and I would make it last for days. The poor guys must have thought I was a greedy cow! If you are reading this...I apologize! I didn't realize how traumatized I was then, I just toodled around and smiled doing my thing. A Quest dinner date handed me keys to his place and told me to come over if I needed a shower or a safe place to lie down. We have become life long friends. I have started over a couple of times in my life, but this time was by far the financially poorest ever. It has been a bit of a roller coaster but I don't fear being dispossessed anymore. I know I could lose everything I have and I would be fine. I was happy altho a little stressed. I am still amazed at the patience and kindness so many people showed me. Not a day goes by that I don't look around and give thanks to what I have. Life is still a little hectic but I get by and that's really all I need... cat

Travel for work can be very lucrative if you plan it right, but usually the legal aspects are not front and center in the providers thoughts. A misdemeanor conviction for any crime of moral turpitude carries a LIFETIME DEPORTATION from the US if the authorities do the paperwork and if they don't get you on it immediately it will make it's way thru the system and you will have to deal with it eventually. cat

The real risk isn't the government stumbling onto a girls website. Yes they can find information in your laptop and smartphone or the contents of your luggage may tip someone off. The risk of this isn't great but it can happen. The real risk of face shot pictures is from those close to us. Someone with an axe to grind can easily send the border authorities the information along with your real identity and they WILL enter it into your file. I have experienced it first hand with a friend who isn't in the profession but was having a baby with a Canadian and would travel up here to visit while her official paperwork was being completed. The allegations were made and she has had issues crossing ever since. Once they took her 5 month old Canadian baby, brought him out of the gate to his father and detained her for hours. Only with intervention from another friend of mine was she allowed to enter Canada. They were going to send her home without her baby. A list of my closest American friends was forwarded to the C.B.S by an emotionally unstable person and they all have issues coming to visit me now. All it takes one person who wants to fuck with your life and travel can be a nightmare. DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE RISK HAVING YOUR FACE OUT THERE.... cat

I'm sorry, this is twisted. Breasts come in all shapes and sizes and there are as many small breasted women as large! I love small breasts and if the owner is happy with them and wants to do porn, all the more power to her. Insane.... cat