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I would beg to differ on this age thing. Having 25 years in this industry it can hurt more than help to put ones exact age out there. I am someone that doesn't have my profile filled out. I may do it, but it isn't something I feel inclined to do. I do not need to have my "information" out there for anyone to peruse at their leisure. If someone is curious about me, they can simply ask me. I've never been a supporter of the "wide open" methods of promotion, it undermines the dance of seduction for me personally. I don't enjoy seeing every little detail either in photograph or word, I prefer to allow the imagination to tantilize my thoughts of someone. It's the communication between two people that is key and reading a persons stats on a page is a one dimensional view. I understand it is a good jump off point for some but it doesn't ensure that you won't miss a great connection or have an experience that falls short. cat

Absolutely... cat

I find a taser helps in these situations... cat

I owe an apology to anyone who has visited my page because I just went to it for the first time in years and I have nothing there! Maybe it's time I put some sugar in it... cat

I love Betty Boop!!! This thread wasn't about the "one" word or phrase really, it was about finding out what words men associate with my "body type". I really appreciate everyones input, the ladies especially. Thank you! cat

This is the kinda thing I am looking for Kyra, thank you. To everyone who responded, thank you also! cat

I am asking for some input. Lately I have been reading some of the other boards and the way members interpret the way an SP describes herself. This has left me very confused, because all of the words that accurately describe myself have a different meaning in this arena and I don't seem to fit into any of the "traditional" descriptions. Heres the challenge. All measurements are 100% accurate as of noon today. I would like members and SPs alike to help me figure out how to word my description so that I am honest with guests and don't do myself a disservice with words that have double meanings. My Stats 5'2 135lbs 34 C natural 27 inch waist 36.5 inch hips Size 4-6 depending on the manufacture I have an hourglass shape, built much like a 50's pinup but I'm mature and a mother so I wear the medals of life and wisdom proudly; I have earned each and every one of them. I have too much waist to hip ratio to be a spinner. Even at 110 lbs I simply wouldn't qualify as such. In the past I have used the words: Petite - which is defined as being 5'3 or under. In this arena men think it means short and fat Voluptous - I thought it meant curvy and shapely. Men think it means fat, chubby or BBW. Soft - I thought it meant womanly. I'm not a Lana Lee or an Alex G. They have stunning bodies built from hours in the gym and the body type to do it. My workouts are done at home, I have shape but the flesh yeilds to grasp. I couldn't be a hard body, I have tried, I just have way too much estrogen. Men think it means flabby. All natural - self explanatory, if a woman is mature like I am, then gravity has had some say. Men think it means flappy or saggy. I even read one thread that someone was looking for a milf or cougar with high, firm natural breasts. That is rare, even a woman without children has some natural sag. So my question is....where do I fit in? Hobbyists want a category and I can't for life of me figure mine out.... cat p.s. I can't figure out how to load pics but I will get some up this week, it may help for those that haven't met me.

It's about a 50-50 split for my guests. I do prefer smooth but I understand it isn't an option for some clients with SOs. I do shave guests if they request it and it is a fun experience. I have had laser hair removal so all the hair on my body is meant to be there... cat

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I would ask for all humans to have "awareness". Awareness of themselves, awareness of the impact they have on the world, awareness of the connectedness of our entire existence on this planet; how delicate and intricate it is, awareness of how precious and insignificant we are. It would change the world and all other evils would fade... cat

I would beg to differ on who does the contacting. I prefer to have the man do the initial contact and then meet the woman ahead of the appointment to ensure she is entirely comfortable with the idea. cat

Work pictures are the bain of my existence!!!!!!!!! I would rather have my teeth pulled without freezing than do a photo shoot. It makes my stomach flip, my head fuzzy and I require a substantial amount of alcohol to even get started. My hat goes off to the ladies who update their pics regularly... cat

I would be surprised if there was an SP worth her salt here in Ottawa that doesn't have at least 1 pair of thigh high boots! Just ask. If I get a request for something I don't have and the guest seems genuine, I go buy the requested items to add to my tickle trunk. Such items are big fun! cat

There is a market as you can well see by the responses here. There is also tremendous industry judgement when a girl works thru her pregnancy. What you have to decide is how you feel about it and what is going to take care of your needs now so you can care for your baby later. If emotionally it is going to cause you pain and you know you will carry guilt about working thru the pregnancy, DON'T DO IT!!!! If you don't have a problem with it and need to put a nest egg away (as we providers are not entitled to Maternity Benefits under gov't regulations) then work smart and save. This is a decision that only you can make. Think long and hard about how you are put together. You have strength or you wouldn't be an SP, now is the time to make a plan and then follow it thru. Good Luck... cat

Ok, now I understand. This is a hypothetical situation! Sometimes it takes me a minute to catch on. I consider myself an expert on the subject..... 1. Don't say anything. 2. Try and grab a shower if they allow it: put on a set of long johns (white) and warm socks cause jail is cold. 3. Be very accomodating while remaining silent. Do not resist arrest. 4. Don't bother making coffee or breakfast no matter how early they rammed the door in. 5. Do not give instructions or demos of the toys they are too stupid to figure out. 6. Open the safe, if you don't they will take it with them even if they have to jackhammer it out of the floor. 7. Hold out and give the passwords for your computer to your lawyer. 8. Do not point out stash zones in the house. 9. Grab bail $ if they allow it. 10. Know how much $ is in your pocket so you can make sure it's logged into property. 11. Avoid wearing any good jewellery, it may go missing. 12. Have your lawyers # memorized (they take your cell) and know whether or not he accepts collect phone calls. 13. Don't speak with those in your jail cell of your situation. 14. Don't discuss anything over the phone unless it is with your lawyer while you are in custody. These are my suggestions if you find yourself in handcuffs for any reason.... cat

I'm sorry, did I miss something? cat

What a great site! Thank you Samantha for the link, and I agree this site is worthy of private support. Having 4 daughters, this kind of site would have been helpful for all of them... cat

You do that too? I love to have company when I bath. To this day my bff's will sit in the bathroom, talk trash and eat while we take turns soaking. It's weird to some but luckily my girlfriends are as crazy as I am and we are too old to care about the "weird" definition. I often wonder if the fly on the wall goes and tells of the 3 eccentric old Divas who sit around with mud masks on, in bathrobs spending hours debating cut/uncut and it's effects on the female experience or similar unnecesssary discussions. It's reassuring to know I'm not quite the social misfit I thought I was. cat

I don't think it's personal on Murphys side, he seems to poke any and all when he is cranky. I for one find the servers going down to remind me that CERB is a part of my daily routine and I should be grateful for the work put into making it the sight it is. Rest MOD, and know we all appreciate what you do, even if we don't know or understand the full extent of it... cat

It doesn't sound crazy at all and it's more common than you would think. Do not hesitate to tell your provider of choice what you are looking for, you won't have a problem finding one that will enjoy it as much as you do. cat

Qualities in a man? Hmmmmm. This is a tough one because it depends on my mood and the man at hand. I go thru phases and have "it" types that are cyclical and tickle my fancy depending on where my head is at. The type of man determines what qualities I look for. the Nurturer: He's caring and kind. His kiss is always gentle, his breath is sweet, his smile quick and his fuse is long. His hands are smooth and made for the reassuring caress, he is polite and has a dry wit that makes me laugh. He pays attention to the details that I think no one notices or cares about. the Broker: His tastes are impeccable, he is always smoothly shaven and has a sense of mischief about him. He is confident, sometimes cocky but always fun because he is being naughty. He sees humor in the game because he always wins. He never takes advantage because he doesn't need to, being better prepared guarantees his checkmate. He is a wealth of knowledge and quickly admits his faults altho it's usually because he thinks he's fixed them. the Artist: He is delightful in his self torture refusing to admit the genius he has within. Humble and dark, tender and so pained. I love the brilliance of these men and the fact they never see it makes me want to paddle them silly. Their work inspires me to do better, be better. the Goof: He is silly personified. He sees everything from a simplistic view of the world and makes me forget it continues to spin outside our little bubble. He means well and knocks over wine glasses trying to catch sunbeams for me. Jokes abound and laughter marks our time shared. The world is a cartoon for him and a girl wonders if he will ever grow up. Secretly, she hopes he won't. the Hardhat: He is simple. Not in mind, but in life. He isn't looking for the house on the hill, he's happy with who he is and what he has. Hockey, some beer in the fridge and woman to hold is his goal in life. He works hard, plays hard and makes it hard for a girl to remember she doesn't play house full time in the house with the little white picket fence. He smells good even when he's dirty and tastes even better. the Scholar: He is wise, gracious and shares his wealth of knowledge freely. He sees the world in a theoretical way but never really ventures in to living it. He is tender and his charm lies in his tweed coat with the leather patches and the faint smell of pipe tobacco. He never makes a girl feel stupid when she asks questions and usually has great taste in wine which he never tires of talking about and forgives when a girl can't remember any of it. the Bureaucrat: He is pratical. A girl can set her watch to him. He likes to step out of his box and see what else is out there, but only for an hour or two. He is trustworthy, genuinely helpful and reliable. He tells you the truth whether you want to hear it or not. His words are carefully chosen tho and he always tries to make a girl happy during their time together. He can follow instructions exceedingly well when he decides to, if he decides not to; he's just annoying. He always manages to get back into a girls good graces by staying true to form and allowing her to reset her watch. the Sexual Adventurer: He is very big fun in the bedroom but not much is known about them because they only ever come visit once and then move on to the newest flavor advertised. I equate them to bad drugs, you only ever want to do them once even if they seemed fun at the time. The second time is always a disappointment. the Good Jewish Boy: (Disclaimer - one does not need to be Jewish to fit this description) Everything about them screams "bad boy waiting to come out and play, I just need someone to show me how". They are wonderful in the most unusual ways. Considerate beyond belief, sensory driven, intelligent and distinctly interactive. They love to flirt, tease and indulge in the most delightful ways. They appreciate every effort that is made and their eyes say "Thank you" over and over again. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, a girl really needs to try them all. the Spartan: He is strong in mind and body. His sense of duty is the driving force behind his allure. His love of family and tribe is obvious. He is protective to a fault and his discipline is legendary. His body is not his temple, it is the vessel that carries him; he respects it but doesn't give it undue attention. His touch is strong and kisses powerful but he turns tender as the urges are met. His hair is shorn and he wears no adornment. He prepares for battle daily and has no time for flights of fancy. His type is almost extinct. These are some of the qualities I look for and I know I have left some types out but it is too late to type any more tonight. cat

For the most part I am a shower girl. I love the feel of the water running down my skin and turning my face upwards to feel the droplets hit my lashes and my lips. A bathtub is wonderful for the long, slow soak that is accompanied by a great tequilla and a good book. I'm not big on the bubbles or fragrances, just the heat of the water. I love to slide down under and listen to the silence of the surround and feel the parts peeking out get cold and then pull them back under. For me baths are a solo event that makes a long day, week or month disappear. cat

MOD, you cover the booth rental and signage and I'll man it.... cat

I went both Friday and Saturday nights and it was wonderful! A little jammed people wise but too much fun! Friday night I was on the hunt for outfits and I found several booths that carried some really cute pieces for very reasonable prices. It was too busy to try things on so I just sucked it up and bought them anyway. I loved the burlesque on stage - amazing, The Dungeon with the Dom with pink chain mail glasses and the enormous mandogsub on a chain, the naked girls with the body paint! So much to look at it was overwhelming. Saturday night was toy night! The variety was excellent and I re-outfitted my toybox to the max. All kinds of new wizzes, whistles and whatnots to play with!!!!! Swings and slings, tongues and tongs, massage and movies and a little walking hardon monk that isn't quite up to spec. This is just some of the loot I dragged home this weekend. I just wish people wouldn't keep running into my suitcase while I'm there..... cat

We all know life happens, circumstances change, people grow and the sun continues to shine. When I have guests that I haven't heard from in a while get in touch with me; it always makes me smile because I do wonder "what happened to _______ ?" as time passes. Even if it's just an update on how they are doing, it is always a welcome email.... cat