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Congratulations Big Al! I wish you all the best and I hope the Board does the right thing.... cat

My suite has no visibility from the neighboring buildings so closed drapes are not mandatory but I love the dim shadows for setting the mood during the day. If a guest wants the drapes open, that is good with me as long as it's not street level; no harm, no foul. The voyeur in me is strong and I love to people watch so I will spend my evenings in the summer on my balconies watching my neighbors doing absolutely anything. They don't have to be naked or doing anything remotely exciting. I love watching the everyday things like making dinner or straightening up. Watching the movements, the expressions and body language fascinates me especially when they don't know they are being observed; I'm not sure why I have this hobby, I just know I enjoy it. If I could live on an airport bench I probably would. People watching is my #1 favorite pasttime. If there is something racy, that's just a bonus.... cat

First come, first confirmed is my motto. I will continue to send out information as long as the time slot is still open. As soon as someone confirms then those who did not respond will get my next available dance time if they try and confirm. cat

This is absolute bullshit! $4 million in 9 years? WTF? Definitely not the largest in the US then, because a little wee small town agency can do $500G's a year. No underage or drugs, just LE looking to harrass people. I have real issues with this kind of thing. Carr is going to do some time tho, nobody every really wins against the Feds. Wishing his lawyer all the good luck I can send... cat

At this stage of my life, I would hope the next person sitting across the table from me does have the gene and can afford to pick up the dinner tab. Given my track record with truly monogamous men, perhaps one that is genetically deviant in this way might actually survive a relationship with me and make enough to pay for dinner once in a while. cat

There are trolls everywhere and they are unavoidable. People are who they are, some are worthy of your time, some are not. Trolls come in all shapes, sizes and colors and are sprinkled over every geographical locale. But there is more good than bad anywhere you go and you simply need to be aware, eliminate the contact of those that you do not deem worth and focus on the good. cat

To remove children from their mother on a suspected child neglect or abuse allegation; the allegation has to be investigated and proven. It does however, open a file on the family even if the allegations were disproved. At a later date, if there are custody issues or some other legal situation involving the children, the initial report will come into play. Do not confuse the legal standing with reality. The reality is we can end up with a case worker that is biased against us, prosecutors that secretly deem us unfit and judges who side with them. It is always better to stay off their radar at all costs because you do not know who you will end up dealing with. From personal experience I know statements like "they can't" and anecdotal stories of people who haven't had a problem are reassuring, but can be misleading. Be full of care when it comes to the authorities and your children... cat

It all depends on the relationship at hand. I have guests that barely make it thru the door and things get wild, but with others I wait for and savor the couch time; feeling the tension build. What it really boils down to for me tho is the kissing. It doesn't matter how bad a day I have had or how stressed I am, if the lips are kissable and he's willing to spend a little time everything flows from there... cat p.s. A fresh, smooth shave helps too!

I still adhere to a personal DNRD, which means "do not reveal details". Guests are more than accomodating and will respect your wishes. I believe what happens behind closed doors between two consenting adults should stay there... cat

Tim Burtons filming Maleficent (Sleeping Beauty) in Banff now, not sure if its out 2011 or early 2012. Definitely on my list... cat

I'm sorry drlove! I believe everyone comes into our lives to either teach us something, learn something from us or both. Take the relationship for what it was and realize that it added something to you and enjoy the memories that were positive. There are more adventures on the horizon, just wait and see... cat

Turn off? Women turn to escorting for many reasons but the most driving urge in a woman is to provide and protect for her children. Eliminating the evidence of children is next to impossible and if she is a low volumn provider then it is impossible to maintain a separate working location at times. SPs are often mothers, we are also sisters, daughters and wives as well. We are people doing this for a reason and it seldom is because we are nymphomaniacs. Your personal preference is your own, but "Children? What a turn off!" is a statement that offers great insight, note taken.... cat

Given the nature of your question and your posting history BB9800, I am wondering why you are asking? cat

I have had this happen in the past and in order to balance my mental check book I put it in the tithing column. I simply listed it as a charitable donation, listed the guest on my DNS list, put procedures in place to prevent it happening again and moved on. Do not take it personally, he would have done it anyone. Just don't waste another moment of your precious life giving it negative energy as that only hurts you and he is completely underserving of your energy, attention and time. cat

Like LoraLee, my appointments are a combination of both. I can't put a percentage on it because after much thought it really varies depending on the guests visiting for that week. A little bit of both is ideal for me tho... cat

Reviews and recommendations should always be taken for what they are; someone elses opinion. Every guest has their own fancies that are as individual as DNA. I agree with RG, just because an SP has great recommendations doesn't mean she is everyones cup of tea and those who have no reviews may be outstanding. Read the recommendations and get a sense then book with someone you think you will fulfill your requirements then see what happens. You will learn which reviewers share your tastes as your intuition developes. Give your self time to work thru the learning curve. This one experience doesn't neccessarily reflect future fun... cat

It's all greek to me. But I'm sure Mod will figure it out! cat

I agree antlerman, the term Rubenesque is a great word for the size 12-16 ladies. As many know, I am not petite by nature. It takes tremendous discipline to break below the size 10. When I slack off and I'm a 12, I consider myself to be "volumptuous" but when I'm a size 6 I'm still voluptuous because of my wide hip curves. I couldn't be a spinner at a size 2 even with lipo because I'm made the way I'm made and the key is to accept everything we have been blessed with and love it for exactly what it is. Unique and beautiful. Alexiss, I think you look great and you are not a BBW by any stretch of the imagination. Stand tall and revel in all that you are. You have curves, embrace it. Look to Christina Hendricks for validation if you need it, when I looked at your pics thats who I thought of. That girl is all ample curves and is giving the 50's bombshell image a reintroduction to the masses. Thank goodness! cat

In our society today we feel the need to get value for investment and we have been conditioned to look at the "facts" to ensure we get what we pay for. Our industry is a little different because we are selling intimate encounters that include characteristics that are difficult to quantify. Our minds are so busy telling us what we "want" or "need", but how often do we stop the mind chatter and just allow the moment to supply all the necessities without judging it? I have a different view of "services" offered. I have never listed an acronym nor will I ever. If someone has a script in their head on how our visit will play out, there is pretty good chance we are not compatible. As I have said before, there are no games that I don't enjoy; but there are people I will not play them with. There are also times when the situation calls for something else. I prefer to let the moment dictate what is going to happen. In the far past, I have shown guests to the door after we have spent some time talking because it was clear we were not on the same page. I have learned that a request accompanied by a list or a script is one I should refer to another provider. I prefer to let encounters play out because if I remove the thoughts and simply let the moment dictate it is always a spectacular experience. I gently suggest that if you choose a quality provider and go in with an open mind your experience will always satiate and expand your awareness of what is truly gratifying in any situation. I know this may sound lofty or high handed, but it isn't. It's really quite simple and makes life so much more... cat

There is a definite stereotype about sexworkers. I know a couple of sugar daddies who avoid professionals not because they think they are above seeing a professional because they don't want to be manipulated and part of the sexworker misperception is that we are gifted grifters. I do not understand the mentality of people who think they are above being a prostitute because we all prostitute ourselves at some point. Whether it's going to a job everyday that we hate, marrying someone for financial security or any other situation that you are in that you are only there to get something out of it. People feel the need to reassure themselves of their self worth by finding others to look down on, we are just a convenient group to look down on. cat

I accept your challenge! cat

I am uneducated formally, I have no degrees and my high school diploma was handed to me on the sole condition that I did not return for grade 13. Unlike the other ladies who have pursued formal education, I chose to take a different path, to care for the people I loved that needed care, raise a family and try to survive. I could not do what I have done in my life on a Tim Hortons salary. I realize I am not everyones cup of tea and many can't afford my consideration; the key is that I know I am eliminating potential clients because of my rate and I do so for a reason. I set my rate knowing the level of service I provide is of a quality that a certain niche seek; I present myself to ensure they understand that I offer luxury. They are willing to pay for it because they already know that they get what they pay for whether it be a car or an experience. Negotiating with me will not get you in the door. Ever. cat

I agree that ticket prices should cover all expenses and the organizer should not have to pay out of pocket along with doing the work. We have time to brainstorm about how to do this. Perhaps a suite at the Minto and make it a BYOB and pot luck? Then there is only the room fee to cover. Hotel room + booze + women + horny men? Maybe not such a good idea. How about raising ticket prices to what would cover all expenses. I can calculate that when we decide where we want to host it and I would be happy to help out with the organizing. cat

Nail on the Head Miss Cleo, exactly! cat

No bras or panties left (though I'm not sure many of the ladies were wearing them and the men always take theirs because getting the right fit is hard) There was a red feather boa that had a suspicious smell which I chose to leave behind. :wink: cat