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Gentlemen, Everyone needs to stay tuned as to Eve's schedule. She is getting some things straightened out right now. My understanding is that she is going to be available and in a much more stable, secure environment, which is better for all.... Catherine

Darling antlerman, What an incredible way to start the day! You have left me blushingly speechless, which is amazing considering everyone knows my tongue is attached in the middle and wiggles at both ends! Thank you.... Cat

Thank you all, such sweet words from people who know me best! Catherine P.S. Paige....me too!!!

Dear HotAC, Love your style! My sentiments exactly... Catherine

Dear SK, I came from the same kinda people, you just didn't do things like that. Having come from a community where everyone is watching and stepping in, even if it's not their child, I find the "Momma" instinct hard to override. Last week I was at the Rideau, some pre-pub boys were rough housing and one knocked a seniors sitting walker out of her reach and they didn't react. Before I knew it, I had the little guy by the ear, made him replace the walker, and apologize. As I let go of the very red lobe, I realized EVERYONE in the food court was staring and you could hear a pin drop. Hoping no one was dialing 911, I straightened my shoulders, told the boys to behave or I would talk to their mothers, and headed for the exit. Last thing I need is to have LE charging me with assault! I just think too often, they are good kids, they just get caught up in being kids, and that's when adults need to give a little guidance, the problem is there is no accountability anymore. I wonder where it went.... Catherine

Darling antlerman, I am so sorry! I know how frustrating it is when there is something on the agenda that you're looking forward to and it gets sidetracked. Just remember, everything happens when it's suppose to. Who knows, maybe the Universe was just preventing an even bigger catastrophy. We never know, and this philosophy always makes me feel better... Cat

Dear Reggit, What a great piece! I'm glad you had fun, the boys on here would never steer you wrong. Really well said! Catherine Catherine

Dear Sauve, I agree! Input is always good, and if SP's have time to say "thank you for a job well done" it can be fun. I try to send out thank you notes (remnants of social manners class!) but there are times that some things fall by the wayside. If I have ever overlooked anyone, accept my apologies. Paige and I wanted to say thank you in a way that reflected how we felt, and we decided this was the most effective by far. It was such a fun morning that we felt needed to be shared. Cat. Your writing is exquisite! I hope that soon enough my slush fund will accomodate me for a date with you and not just for the pleasure of conversation :). Dear Oncenawyle, Conversation is always a good place to start! Maybe one day I will take all the pages saved on these gremlin infested computers, compile it and send it out for those of you who have patience to sift thru it. Dummpy, the humble is very endearing, but entirely unnecessary! Catherine

It’s time to turn the tables, and the two of us have decided to do the first review of a member here on CERB! Yesterday, we had the pleasure to play with Dummpy together and we would like to share our experience for everyone to enjoy! We will start off by saying this is not the first time we have visited with this gentleman, but it’s the first time we visited together. The two of us were meeting for the first time and he was the common denominator in the equation. His laid back nature and playfulness was the perfect catalyst for such a dalliance, and his insightful wisdom to bring the two of us together was true brilliance on his part. He arrived on time; you can set your watch to his punctuality, freshly showered with his Vidal Sasson hair ready for our fingers to entwine in it. He needs no guidance, but a girl needs to do something with her hands while lying on the pillow. Sorry, getting ahead of the story here! He was dressed in a very chic purple and white striped shirt that we both decided was very cool, almost too cool! His bright sparkling blue eyes were smiling and the chemistry was amazing! After introductions and some brief chit chat, we moved things to a more accommodating venue, Paige’s playroom. It was dark with scented candles, and the touching that ensued sent chills! We took the time to get to know each other, in a slow, languid way. The kisses were sweet and caresses led us to more and more. Prior to arriving, Dummpy and I had decided to have Paige for breakfast, and that was exactly what we did! Her exquisite, supple form occupied our every sense. She is intoxicating and I savored every moment of this succulent exploration. She enjoyed his lips while I enjoyed hers and after what seemed like eternity in heaven for me, it was time to move forward. What a delicious start! Time seemed to stop, and the play flowed from one game to another, with all three of us immersed in one another with continuous stream of pleasure for all. The talent in that room was mind-blowing, and we all seemed to move between each other like we had been playing together forever. It felt natural, but with an intensity that was palatable. He performed, as always, with the skill of a true master and the unparalled satisfaction that comes from true satiation was felt by all. When we finally came up for a breath of air, Paige and I explored my Toybox, with all the usual ooo’s and ahhh’s it always brings. We talked and lounged, soaking in Dummpy’s pheromones, which are quite intoxicating. He always requests that we use no artificial scents, preferring the natural scent of a woman and the mix of all of us was so erotic. The playroom air hung heavy with musk and the sweat tasted deliciously salty on our tongues that inevitably led to things heating up again. But that is a story that needs to be told in person… Yours Truly, Paige and cat… Attitude 10/10 Environment 10/10 Looks 9/10 Service 10/10 Hygiene 10/10 We would give a straight "11" across the board, but we don't want be accused of shillin! P+c

Darling Dreamer, Happy Birthday! May tonight bring adventures even you have never imagined! Catherine

Gentlemen, As we all know, this is a recommendation board, so here is my “recommendation” for a visit with the fantabulous Pretty Paige! We have the privilege of sharing a guest who decided to take it upon himself to introduce us by setting a visit for the three of us together. Trusting him the way I do, and reading so much good about her, I agreed and yesterday was the day! Since arriving in Ottawa, I haven’t entertained with another SP, so it was a new experience and we met at her place. She opened the door, and I was stunned. She has such a great look, her smile is breathtaking and she glowed with that exuberance that comes from clean living and true inner spirit. Needless to say, I was completely entranced. She is such a captivating young woman. She was wrapped in a cozy La Senza robe, and her legs just went on and on. Barefoot, with her long hair in a tie-up, she looked like she should have a pair of cutoffs and a tank on, but there were perfect little black panties hiding underneath. Our petite party moved down the hall, and the rest was majik! She is perfect, with a body that should be captured in marble and displayed. Flawless, and there is no greater critic of a woman, than another woman. Her skin is divine, and her body is intoxicating. A Brazilian bombshell to a tee, I explored every facet with great joy! The real entrapment is her smile, it lights up her face with a genuine glow that is so rare to find. It shows the true beauty within, when many would be happy with just the package on the outside. She is real, and it shows. Without a doubt, she is coming into her own, and while dangerous now, is going to be a true triple threat as time goes on. Brains, beauty and soul, I would not change a thing about her, in my mind why mess with perfection? Yours, Catherine

Darling antlerman, My thinking exactly! Catherine

Darling Amadeus, As we all know, people have vastly different communication styles, which sometimes leads to confusion. Reading Elle's post, her comments mirrored many of my thoughts. If I open an email from a new guest, and it has lists, I simply refer them to someone else. Not always because of the content of the lists, but because often these individuals have a set experience in their minds, and fantasy seldom translates to reality well. No one wants to disappoint, and we also don't want to set ourselves up for failure, resulting in a negative review. Personally, I pass on "out of the gate" requests. Elle's post gives some clear insight into the "not to do's" when getting things started. Good information for newcomers to have. There needs to be a level of trust before details are discussed, and I will never respond to an email that details services with anything but my base intro letter, which gives no details. This usually shows the guest that it's not open for discussion. I like to have a couple of emails that discusses the feel of the encounter, and then I expect my guest to trust me, as I am trusting them. When you deal with indies, it's our reputation on the line, so we aim to please. Considering the history of review boards, when I read "review" I respond with a "Thank you but I'm not available" if someone mentioned it in an email before we met, unless I know him from CERB. Other review boards have been a "thorn in our side" for years, and CERB is the first that I have encountered that is worth participating in. Including links to your posts may help, but I would wait to discuss this in person. I have enjoyed your posts immensely and always scan for new posts with your name on them. You are not the kind of man who would post against a woman request not to, so just keep in mind that not all SP's read the boards because of the negative influence they have had at times. I think we chalk this one up to sharing of information, because knowledge is power... Catherine

Darling OSG, Thank you for the lovely words, every one is appreciated. It is difficult to explain to some why I only offer 2 hours sessions, until you come for a visit, then it all makes sense. That is why the 1 hour option is a one time only introductory offer. If someone only needs an hour there are so many wonderful SP's that can accomodate them. I prefer to take the opportunity to enjoy myself while enjoying my guests, it just makes everything so much more fun. By the way, have I mentioned I am having a massage table delivered next week? Catherine

Even with the unusual presentation, it was a very nice piece. Good job... Catherine

Dear imwildru, I would love to meet an SP that has such a leisurely existence. In my experience, the SP has worked till the wee hours the night before, is up well before lunch to take care of the mundane necessities, like laundry, getting her oil changed, run to "the shop" to drop some $$$ to have the necessities taken care of, hair, nails, waxing so she is perfect for the sleepover, which adds another 2-3 hours to an already crazy day. Then she has to take care of any appointments that "just can't wait" another day. Realizing she hasn't eaten since yesterday at lunch, grabs something to eat on the way to the harried "getting ready" ritual. The checklist is in her mind, "do I have..." and it goes on and on. She spends the last hour making sure everything is in order. She arrives at your house, parks the car and takes one last look in the mirror, hoping you don't notice the dark circles no amount of concealer can hide, mentally moving into the "bombshell" mode. Shifting the mental focus, her walk changes ala "the Usual Suspect" and she becomes "the fantasy". In reality, she is just a girl, with the same amount of responsibility as everyone else in this world. The only difference is she is usually facing it alone. Don't think guests are the only ones tired when the sun goes down, we are all human... Catherine

Dear MB, You raise some very good points, and it is always a concern that we as SP's keep in the back of our minds. As most of my clients know, once I know someone, sleep overs are a delightful option for us. Most SP's have a sense of who is safe and who is not, and personally, I would never book an overnight with a new guest, unless there was an extenuating circumstance involved. It is often difficult for people to understand how we can do what we do, never knowing what is on the other side of the door before we open it. But from experience, I have found that truly unexpected dangerous situations are few and far between. It is usually substance related, and happens when an SP has been running long, is tired and missed a warning sign. The other 99% of the time, our situation management skills will head off a problem before it happens. In order to survive in this business we hone our handling skills to a fine art. When you look at the sheer numbers en mass of this industry, the girls who do their homework and stay on top of the details seldom are targeted for the kind of behavior you are concerned about. Men like that target the weak, trying to minimize the risk of the SP's retaliating. We are a fierce lot if we are put in danger, and our reactions can never be foretold. It is good that you have these concerns, and I am glad she has someone whispering in her ear to remind her of the dangers out there. Just remember that you can only warn, and then be there in the event something does go wrong. If that does happen, just don't utter "I told you so", it's something none of us want to hear... Catherine

Well said Carole, very good information for all.... Catherine

Dear Mars Bound, There are many girls who are "managed" by pimps. They are not boyfriends, they manipulate the girl in too many ways to count. As I have stated before, girls don't get into this because their lives are ticky-boo, they are desperate and therefore vunerable as prey. These men systematically find girls who start out broken, hurt, naive, and they are convinced by a pimp that he will fix their immediate situation. He buys them clothes, gives them a decent place to live, takes them out, and it's all part of the seduction. He sleeps with them, goes for the heart strings to begin with. At this point, often the girls identification is taken, for safe keeping of course and then he has her. The money she and the others make keep him in the money and he either hooks them on drugs or uses violence to keep them culled. These girls are usually in tragic situations, runaways or trying to escape the bad situation they are in. A few weeks of being pampered and they think they are in a good place. But the good ends quickly, and the brainwashing is insidious. A pimp continuously undermines her sense of self worth, and convinces her of the illusion that only he cares, and that she has no where else to turn. Most never phone 911 because they are more afraid of LE for a myriad of reasons. She believes that he loves her, he is her "man" and she toes the line. The pimp explains the 1st wife concept and most girls just accept it. They just want to be loved, and don't know what real love is, having come from places of sexual, physical, mental abuse and most often a combination of all three. True independents choose this as a viable business option, weigh the risks and approach it like anything else they would do. What most pimps don't understand is that a true indie is not a viable target because we are far too strong willed and bull headed to be controlled. We are a stubborn lot, often choosing the long way round in order to maintain our independence. As I often say, pimps are not the smartest dogs in the pack, just the meanest, never underestimate their cunning ways.... Catherine

Darling CK, You sir, are a true gentleman. Thank you for your words, once again showing why you now carry close to 60% of the votes tonight! Looks like a shoe-in, and I can't think of anyone more deserving, (except dummpy, whom I hold a very biased opinion towards!) and when it's all said and done we'll celebrate! On a more serious note, I know that this thread has been gold for Eve, and I didn't mean to quash the thread with my posts. I know there are many very good clients here for her, and by all means, keep up the positive input. I just wanted everyone to remember that she is above all a person and should be treated as such. To everyone who sent a PM, thank you. Sincerely, Catherine

Great idea! Much faster than protien bars... Catherine

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! This is the kind of input I was looking for! I think the protien bars a must at times when the minutes turn to hours. I have started the list and will start my quest for acquisition immediately! Please keep the suggestions coming. Each and every one will be taken and made real... Catherine

I know the language was a little graphic, but too often people don’t think about the experience from all perspectives. I for one, worry about the health risks she is exposed to, especially if she has little ones to care for. Her willingness to fight in the trenches is amazing and I feel shows true inner strength. Right now, she is handling her business the way she feels it needs to be handled. But I also know what that kind of traffic can do in the long run to someone’s spirit. Once the spirit is broken, that is when a woman becomes vulnerable to a host of self destructive behaviors’. For some, its substance abuse, for others it is a deep seated self loathing that permeates every pore of a woman’s body. By the time this happens, those that contributed have moved on to the next BBBJ Queen. She is left alone. Clients have no idea the long term ramifications of this industry on every aspect of an SP, and it’s mainly the negative that lingers and is near impossible to eradicate. I have spent years working with women just like Eve, and every one of them, no exceptions, went thru the same process at some point. The day of internal reckoning will come, and she will remember this time with mixed emotions. It will be remembered fondly as the time she took control and fixed things. Then the memories of the clients that were good to her and made her feel human, accepted. Next she will remember the feelings that the faceless, those that she has had to block out, left her with. The feelings of being used, of being disposable will come with time. I have yet to meet an SP that didn’t have this cross their hearts at one time or another, and unless they have an incredible support system it will remain and tarnish every relationship they will ever get involved in, regardless of how healthy it is. I get tired of this business being so one sided. The only people that truly understand what SP’s go thru are other SP’s and those that are involved with them on an emotionally intimate basis. Clients have no clue what this business can do to our bodies, our minds and our souls. I just hope that all consider this the next time an “Eve” comes along. Would like to see a woman you loved go thru what she is right now? Catherine

I can’t speak for other SP’s, but I do not feel Eve is undercutting me in any way shape or form. She is obviously a bright young woman who hit on some difficult times and did what she had to do. We have all been there, and there is no guarantee we won’t end up there again. To say that because you paid a fee two weeks ago, means you should always pay that rate is nonsense. Does this mean your car is parked until gas returns to $.89/liter? Or did you move out into a cardboard box because you’re waiting for a bungalow in the low $60’G’s to come around? I think not. This attitude is disgusting and repugnant in its entirety. This woman is trying to right things in her life, and I personally think that she deserves far more than she’s charging now. As a matter of fact, maybe I’ll give her a call and take her to lunch, show her what’s out there. Diamonds deserve to be polished, admired and set for display. She will know which clients really helped and who just took advantage of her desperation. And I promise you, she will not soon forget which category each and everyone falls into. She is a person, someone’s mother and someone’s daughter. For you to state that the service isn’t worth what she’s charging tells me that maybe you need to reassess your income requirements. That kind of cheap is self explanatory. I would like to see you do what she is doing? Think about it. How would you feel to have a different dick in your mouth 10 times a day, feel the slime on your tongue, smell the pubic sweat hit your nostrils, forget trying to swallow anything solid for weeks on end because your windpipe is bruised. Would $60 be enough for you? At the end of the day, it wouldn't be. So put your tail between your hind quarters and slink back to the dog house where this mentality belongs. Show this woman the respect she deserves or keep your opinions to yourself. I for one will not tolerate this attitude directed towards anyone. Sincerely, Catherine

Darling Alger, Great input, I have never thought of a robe because I love "fresh from the shower" and if you don't put your clothes on directly it could mean I have you back to the pillows before you know it! Excellent suggestion tho, consider it done. When it comes to music fellas, I want the lists! I love music in all forms, but I never know who sings it, I just know the songs. I seem to be drawing a blank on this, I have been going thru a Rat Pack thing this summer with some New Orleans jazz on the side, and everything else is just out there. I know there are a bunch of you that have oodles of music and know what works together. Share the knowledge. I am not asking for the actual downloads, just the mixes. I always have a fridge full of anything you could want because too often there is a need for a re-energizer and ordering out just takes way too long. I like to start a visit with strawberries and nuts, then play it by ear. I always have glasses and a corkscrew, but I love a good sipping drink at times. I am not a beer drinker, so that is an area I am out of the loop on. I am not a drinker, a glass of wine and I feel it, so I pace myself carefully. I have a passion for Patron Gold tho, it is a true weakness. I just would like to know which labels is prefered so the cabinet is complete. Until later... Catherine