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I second what GeorgieBoy69 said. Be clean and respectful are the only prerequisites to having a good time with a professional provider. It helps to seek out the provider by doing a bit of research using the tools of cerb. Communication with the provider is also highly recommended. BTW...50's ain't that old. Feel free to PM me if you want more info. Cheers.

Absolutely not. The difference of a face pic for me is, if I like the picture of an SP's face, it will prompt me to research more. My decision to see a certain sp would be based on what I read about her and not about how facially attractive. Specifically, If I think she would be a good fit for me, I would be interested to meet. Cheers

Hey Spud The best revenge against the shit you've been dealt is to kick the fucking crap out of it. C'mon man...you can do it.

I drove a Zamboni. I miss those days.

You can dazzle them with your brilliance or baffle them with your bull shit. To me, those people appear confident but only one is. I am neither. I do not consider my self to be overly brilliant (I do ok) and I am definitely not a bull shitter (I don't like those people so if I was a bull shitter, I would not like myself). But I do consider myself to be confident in that I know my limitations and am confident enough to admit when I don't know something or when I make a mistake. And that is no BS.

I don't write many reviews or recommendations as a normal practise but I will sometimes give credit where credit is not just due but well deserved. It has been some time but not a long time since I have spent time with this beautiful Peach. I often tell myself that I am lucky to have gotten to know such a wonderful lady and I am reminded every time we meet. I don't see many SP's other than Peachy and she is the only lady that I can say that I see on any sort of regular basis. There is a reason for that. She is the complete package. She is super cool while at the same time...smok'n hot. Now don't get me wrong, there are many girls that are super cool and smok'n hot but what keeps me coming back to Peachy is that through multiple sessions, we have gotten know each other, we are comfortable with each other, she wanted to learn my likes and my dislikes, she encourages me to explore my sexuality through discussing various fantasies. As a result, I have experienced some real fun activities that many guys could only dream about. Sorry, I am not going to reveal those activities, but I will say they, for me, were more on the sensual side as opposed to the kinky side and the activities are in no way hazardous or demeaning to anyone. Just downright fun. Part of the fun with Peachy is discussing various fantasies and making plans to convert the fantasies into reality in future sessions. So guys..haha and maybe girls too....do yourself a favour...go see Peachy...get to know her and and let her get to know you. Your first meeting will be amazing but if you are so impressed that you will want to see her again...well...if you don't think it could get better after the first session....hold on to your hats. Thanks Peachy for what you do for me. Xo Treat her well...you won't regret it.

I am pretty sure my guy has a heart. He is sweet and gentle. He loves me and his sisters (cats). To have a soul is to have a heart, so to me....dogs do go to heaven. I hope to see my past pets there someday....but not soon I hope. The only dogs that don't go to heaven become hot dogs.

I was at Bluesfest one year with my best buddy. At some point, my buddy pointed out two attractive women to me. As it turned out, one of the women was an SP that I had seen numerous times. I wanted to tell him that I knew the one women on an intimate level but I decided against it as I do not want anyone in my personal life knowing about my hobby. Having said that, I would love to have somebody that I can speak to about my hobby experiences (both good and bad).

Way to go!!! Congrats!!!

I did vote less likely but hear me out please. If here were 2 ladies that I was equally interested in seeing, I would probably lean towards the less formal traditional method of booking. I think if I had to complete a form, it would feel less personal and more like the business transaction that it actually is. I voted that way only to differentiate between formal and less formal. The third choice changes the parameters in that it mentions a girl that I definitely want to see and yes...I would do whatever it takes. Can I vote for 2 options? I can see a benefit for travelling SP's where I can imagine that they don't have as many established clients and that it might lighten the administrative burden for the SP. I think the administrative work for an SP with a higher %age of repeat clients would not be as much of a burden thus the benefit of the formal approach may not be as much of an issue. I am only guessing as I do not know the business side of SP'ing. My 2 cents for what it is worth.

Legalities aside, I don't think there can be any contract for yyy services for $xxx when ymmv exists. I have never seen a contract that says you may or may not receive the services for a set price. It does not work that way. When the services are agreed upon and then not delivered for whatever reason, it is a breach of contract for not satisfying the terms of the contract. There is a problem when there are unwritten rules such as "ymmv" or the client should be clean and fresh etc. it is obvious for most hobbyists and SP's that these rules or expectations exist. But if they are not discussed, there are going to be situations where expectations were not realized. I think in any sort of contract (oral, email...) between a client and an SP, there has to be disclaimer that spells out ymmv and expectations. I would think the safest for the SP's is to refer clients to a website which contains the expectations. In effect, if the client agrees to the terms contained in the website then they are agreeing to terms of a contract so to speak.

In the 80's...I could look down and see my penis. At least it was common for me to see it.

Looks and body type will prompt me to research. Positive recommendations will prompt me to contact. Good vibe through pm's and email will prompt me to book. Chemistry and service will prompt me to repeat. I have had two or three repeat SP's over my hobbying career. I adore them all. In each case there was a rapport established and a high degree of comfort. In each case I received the service that I was looking for so that will come into play also. I would like to think a friendship had been struck with each of my repeat SPs. When I am looking to book, I mostly try to book with my repeat SP but sometimes I will seek out some variety. I have met some SP's that I would consider repeating because I truly enjoyed the experience and I could see that a rapport and comfort level is very likely. Cheers.

Many Happy Returns. 29 and holding I presume?

Sounds like fun...count me in.

This is real easy. I got more than half of them right.

Les Habitants

Traditionally, a meal involving red meat weather a steak or roast beef or a meat based pasta would call for a red wine. I am not a connoisseur, but I have always liked a Chianti named after the region near Tuscany. Rufina is a village in the Tuscany region that produces Rufina Chianti. It is very reasonably priced an is available in Ontario at the LCBO. I find it fruity and light but not too light. I have found some wines that are very heavy with an overbearing taste and some wines so light that it appears watered down. I find Chianti a nice compromise. My other suggestion would be a Valpollicella. If the meal is like white meat such as chicken, fish or a pasta with something like a cream or Alfredo sauce, the you will probably want a white wine. Maybe a Pinot Grigio or aChardonnay. These would be my choices but I am not a much of a white wine guy.

A very, very HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you from me and my buddy, the big M.

Thanks BarrhavenWoody. I had noticed that I did not include the area so I edited my post to indicate that I am in Ottawa.

Ok...first of all, I wasn't drinking (much), I don't do drugs and I am not crazy. But....I went out last night to go to the corner store. It was about 10 pm or so. When I looked in the sky to the north west, I noticed about 10 lights with a fair separation moving in the sky from the west heading east and a bit to the north. I did not hear any sound and the lights were moving at a fast speed. I have no idea what it could be. I have lived in Ottawa for a few years and I never saw that before. There was a low cloud cover last night and the lights I saw could possibly have been a series of concentrated lights reflecting off the clouds but judging from the direction the lights were travelling, I did not get the impression that there was a common focal point on the ground. It was a bizarre sight. I did look in the news to see if anybody reported anything but I did not see anything. Did anybody else see this? Does anybody know what may have caused this?

Sorry to hear. Hang in there.

[size=On top of the labor involved of maintaining an incall is the expense. Hydro, rent, wifi, furnishing etc. Trust me, I've done both and incall is more expensive. I've compared the numbers and the only reason I offer it is because I'm no longer willing to run the roads. I'm willing to eat the overhead at this point because dealing with outcalls is a power dynamic I'm not willing to play with anymore. Incalls cost us more therefore should be more expensive. Period... cat [/size] What needs to be considered are the incremental expenses incurred doing an outcall that would not be incurred if doing an incall. an example would be transportation expenses. Sunk costs are expenses that are incurred no matter if doing in or out. For example, if an SP entertains in the same residence that they live then rent, heat and hydro etc. are expenses they would incur no matter where they entertain. If the SP entertains in a hotel then the hotel rate is an incremental cost that needs to be covered. If a SP maintains a separate residence, then they need to ensure that they earn enough to cover those expenses on a monthly basis. Pricing structure should be determined by supply and demand and what the market will bare. The SP should have an idea as to how many clients they would need to see that would cover the incremental expenses and to provide $x amount to cover the sunk or fixed costs plus a desired amount for profit. The amount of fun the SP enjoys in the business is a tax free bonus.

That is a huge milestone. Congratulations not only on 2000 posts but on 2000 thoughtful, intelligent, inspirational and educational posts. Both quality and quantity...you really are an asset to this community.

I work out fairy religiously. Weights one day, cardio next. I play hockey and ride my bike. I walk a fair bit. I do watch what I eat at least more than I used to. I try not to make it a chore of working out and allow myself a day off here and there as well as enjoy some of life's delicacies. My motivation is the wonderfull women of cerb. It is amazing the influence they have over me.