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I agree with all of what LuvAlts said but I would add that the women that are confident, intelligent, humorous etc as was quoted may not appear as sexy to some gentlemen as they would to other gentlemen. This may be depend on the personality and sophistication of the gentleman in question. To some gentlemen, they may be intimadatet rather than turned on. BTW, I am turned on.

Since I had some home alone time, I decided to watch one of my all time favourite movies, "Scent of a Woman". I know this movie has been mentioned in many threads, but I am going to mention it again. Having seen Scent of a Woman many times, I am always fascinated with how many great lines are in the movie. Most of them made by Lieutenant Col. Frank Slade (played by Al Pacino). Each time I watch I pick up on another gem or two. Many of the quotes relate to a specific woman or women in general. Here are two lines that I noticed today that were said by Frank Slade about women in general, 1) "The day we stop looking, is the day we die." 2) "Women! What could you say? Who made em? God must have been a fuckin genius" I thought it might be fun to hear some other movie quotes about one of my favourite subjects...."women". Please share your favourites quotes made about a woman or women in general and please add some context about the quote. Cheers

For those who like variety, they would lean towards the unknown for obvious reasons. For those who like more passion, I would suggest that the known commodity will provide the more passionate and intimate encounters. The great news is, we the client get to decide. Do we want to test the waters by trying someone new? Or, do we want to have some passionate fun with someone with whom we have developed a rapport. DISCLAIMER: I'm not saying that a new to you provider does not give you the passion that you are after as I am sure they can provide a passionate session. I just think the more you see the same sp, the more passion is free flowing.

Hey Newboy. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. It has happened a few times where I see an ad for a new sp....she looks great and maybe there has been a good recommendation or two...but, when I take the plunge and although the session went well, I sometimes regret that I didn't spend my money on the tried, tested and true. If I do get the urge to explore some variety, I will take my time. I will research the sp and maybe try and engage in a bit of correspondence with her. If I think that we would enjoy each other, then I will take the next step. My best advise....don't buy on impulse.

I think it is not so much the age as it is the experience in the industry. The real young (teenagers) do not have as much experience as a SP who has been in the industry for a few years. I don't necessarily go for the SP's that are in their lower 20's rarely in their teens (I don't remember the last teen if at all). If they are in their lower 20's I prefer to see SP's that have been in the industry for a significant period of time. Those are girls that have seen all kinds of clients and are used to the variety. There is nothing worse than to see your SP cringe at first glance where you know they are thinking " I can't believe I have to have sex with this guy". That kind of look to me is the ultimate contraceptive. I suppose this has to do with the maturity of the SP. If the SP has a few years under their belt, I have a sense that they are comfortable in the industry. If they are comfortable in the industry, I feel they have the attitude that age, race, appearance etc. does not matter to them. They appear to embrace the job no matter who the client is because they have seen it before and they know what to expect. If my age does not appear to be an issue to the SP, then I expect that the session will go well regardless of their age. The chances of booking an SP that has a comfortable attitude are greater for SP's that are just a bit older and are comfortable in the industry.

Don't be sorry, cerb is a community to share thoughts, feelings, experiences (possitive or negative) and to receive support and understanding when needed. I can somewhat relate to your situation. I have been unhappy in the not so distant past albeit I was not quite as unhappy as you appear to be. I did not look after myself, I did the reflection thing and spent time regretting the decisions I made in the past. I am happy to say that I am much happier now. What seemed to have worked for me was to try and avoid worrying about things you could not change and work on what I could. For me, I determined that hobbying gave me enjoyment and made me much happier. I focused on things that would help me continue on what made me happy. It involved some major changes in my life, including moving to Ottawa to make the hobying more accessible and to live healthier. Wanting to enjoy the hobby has motivated me to make these changes and it is paying off. So in short, my advice would be to live in the present and not the past and to use what makes you happy as your motivator to get to where it is you want to be. Good luck to you my friend.

Peachy's beauty has just shown through again with her post. I second what Tongue Twister and Cltchmcg said.

Hey Berlin....who said you could use my photo?

If you really think about it; what is the point to life if it is not to seek happiness? When I wake up in the morning, I am going to do things that in one way or another, hope to make me happier. Maybe it's to go to work (I enjoy my work so that makes me happy) so I can earn money so I can take my family on a trip (that makes them happy which in turn makes me happy). Maybe some earn enough money only to put food on the table and that makes them happy. I go golfing because it makes me happy (sometimes it makes me happy... but I go with the expectation that it will be a happy time for me). I go to the doctor because good health hopefully will make me happier for a longer time. I am also a member of cerb because it makes me happy. If people did not seek happiness in their life then what's the point. Generally, people's happiness can be defined by the success in finding that happiness. Currently in my life, I have been able to find the happiness more than not. That makes me a generally happy person.

My top 3 in no particular order: 1. Peachy 2. Peachy 3. Peachy I hope to see all 3 of them very soon. Others that have seen and would hope to see soon include. I had wonderful times with them. Isabella Gia Nathalie Lefevbre Evelyn Lemay And a few more...... There are some other wonderful ladies that I have not yet seen but are on my radar. I will keep them a secret ...for now. Cheers Y'all

We are almost always our own worst critics. If somebody is not a critic of themselves regardless of whether they were blessed with good looks and good smarts or not, I always admire them because they are comfortable with who they are. If they try to be something more, than who they are, they are usually assholes. Just my two cents.

I was contacted from a friend that I have not heard from in a while. It was great to hear from her.

Great Post!!! I can relate to so many of the comments in this post. I am quite relieved to know that I am normal. No word of a lie...my teeth always chatter while I am driving over to the incall location.

Hoooowaaah!!!

Whichever jeans cristycurves prefers on me....or off me.

If I could....I would like to convince people that they do have the ability to make the world a better place. Be it a simple act of kindness, a smile, a handshake or a generous donation of time or money....it can all make a difference. The motto of the day is not "if I could I would"...it should be "if I can, I will". Additional comments: What Cleo said.

Thanks Luckyme for setting the record straight. Yes, my comment about being too young to die was my attempt at humour. Thanks also to Peachy for showing concern for my well being. I am doing well. Hmmmm "death by pussy" .... Not a bad way to go out when your time is up I say. Cheers to all.

For me, the dirty talk, blunt type ad does not do much for me. That is because I usually seek a romantic intimate gfe type session. The blunt ad suggests more of a wham bam thank you man type session. An ad that is a bit more on the conservative side is a bit more intriguing for me than an ad that says something like, "I want to fuck you till you die". Having said that, I would like to receive a pm or email that will go into detail about what an sp is going to do to me once a repeat session has been arranged. BTW, I am too young to die.

Very good question. For me, I don't carve notches in my bed post every time I get lucky, I don't collect souvenirs from my providers, I don't try to bang as many providers as I can. I see sp's because I like to spend time with a woman that I truly enjoy spending time with, someone I respect and who respects me and who enjoys intimacy just as I do. I don't think that makes me a hobbyist. Nothing against hobbying as to each their own. Maybe the question should be, "what defines a hobbyist?" In my mind, I think those that see many different sp's and look to fulfill a variety of fantasies is a hobbyist. That is not me. I like to spend time with ladies that I enjoy being with plain and simple. I don't think that makes be a hobbyist but I am not sure what to call what it is I am doing. From the women's perspective, if they are able to promote emotions of elation and joy in me time after time, they are true masters of the art of seduction.

Glad you like us. Cerb was my go to place or entertainment guide if you want back when I was travelling to Ottawa for work. I think Cerb might have had a hand in my decision to move to Ottawa. Cheers.

Tan lines are sexy. A nice tan without the tan lines is hot.

I agree with Peachy. I am a much happier person because of sex. The other benefit to me for engaging in the hobby is the motivation it gives me to take better care of myself. Since starting in the hobby, I have lost over 40 lbs. I am probably in the best shape I have been in since I was 30....and that was quite a while ago. I now play hockey, ride bike, golf and work out about 5 days a week. Thanks girls and other fellow cerbites. Additional Comments: I don't smoke before sex or after sex...only during sex. Cheers

Sometimes I wish I did live alone but also sometimes when I travel for work, I find it lonely.

I'm thinking..."KELLY CLARKSON" X 2.

First of all, I am not a lawyer. Maybe in your ad, you could ask the question. How would you like to spend your time with me? Or, what would you like to with our time together? Of course you will have many reco's that have described some of the activities you have enjoyed with some clients in the past. That will put the ball in the clients hands without you offering this or that kind of activity. Your ad could also say that clients should have the physical capacity to engage in any activity they do engage in at any time. Anyway...my initial thoughts for what it's worth. P.S. It is a shame that we have to so careful in arranging some of life's little pleasures.