Emma Alexandra

When i first started in this biz i used the local paper all the time {i didn't know any better} sure i got business but most of the dudes were not the type of clientele i was looking for...and alot of stupid calls...i mean a lot of them...i don't advertise in the paper any longer i find it's just like a cl in print...but if your in a small town and have time to weed out the good from the bad then it's a good place to start... Cerb and EC are the best online advertising in Canada and the price is right.. kisses, Emma

A little Emma rant: there is a reason why we call them appointments....just like the word means..you pm,call,email whichever to make an appointment...just like you would to see your doctor,dentist..etc. We do have a life outside the biz we are just not sitting around knitting and waiting for your calls...most of us need time to prepare...time to look and feel good before an appointment.. i sometimes as I'm sure others do as well get letters saying such things as: appointment now? ready yet? Can i see in in 15? what the heck is up with that? A lot of times I'm either in bed sleeping or out....I'm not running back to see you..lmao nor am i getting up at 3am... that's my rant for today...:wink: kisses, Emma

I see many people that don't do reco's or hardly ever post...check to see how long they have been members for..if it's more then 2 months then i think they should be cool..everyone has to start somewhere... kisses, Emma A

that's perfect...what could she say to that one...

Your totally right mightypen...

me too..he's a great guy...very handsome and sexy and alot of fun to be with...in a way i'm kind of gald his wife is a $#$%% or else i wouldn't have met him...hehe but no matter what i don't think anyone deserves to be treated like that...

she doesn't realize how lucky she is...instead she puts him down and makes him feel ashamed...that's not good for a man's self esteem...nor healthy in anyway...

I think it's pretty normal for men to wake up hard...i have a friend that when he wakes up with one his wife gets pissed...and tries to make him feel bad about it..he's not even trying to have sex with her....nor masturbate in bed beside her...he says if he needs to cum he'll go to the washroom...she calls him a freak and gets angry if she notices the hard on...i don't think that's right or normal for her to be that way...what do you think? kisses, Emma A

Thank You,Thank you...bowing ..hehe {these pictures are for the soul purpose of Amelia's blog and no one was hurt or arrested..although we did have to run like hell when we seen the police lights coming up behind us..i lost all my wine...damn mother @$%#@ bleep..}

How the heck is that GFE? That's crazy. I think some ladies just say GFE and have no real idea what is...maybe i should start a class on all this stuff for the new ladies..lol

I totally agree with you Soleil...

Charging for extras doesn't make you an escort/companion...to me if you charge for extras {excluding greek} or have a menu then your not an escort...your a provider...as in.. for this price you get this and this and for a little more you can do that too...it's not what alot of us ladies want...what kind of chemistry can come from this and that ...now mind you if someone wants to chage more for bbbj sure that's cool because it's her safety at risk...but for the menu thing i really don't think one could say your an escort..sorry that's my rant...i get so insulted when someone asks me for this or that and how much it is...I as many ladies do have a set price which mostly includes..gfe-kissing,daty,bj{with or without condom..ladies' choise} fs...different positions...then for some they can add the pse style with all the little things it includes...but for a set price...it would be a pain in the ass to have a menu...and no fun for me...lol..i would be thinking to much and not enjoying my time with the gent..

lmao that's funny..no A...hahaha

that's why i think there are different levels of ladies...there is one that offer ssog and or have menus..i wouldn't call these ladies escorts...then there are escorts or as i would rather be called a companion...where we offer not only msog but so much more then the wam bam thing...i hate the wam bam thing...most of the gents i see book 2 or more hrs and belive me they leave happy...lmao...because i'm not counting...

Happy Birthday Ava. I hope you have the most wonderful day ever. kisses, Emma

The majority of the hotels in Halifax are sp friendly...i can only think of the one that is key carded after 11pm and that's the Prince George.

OK did you ladies not read what he wrote? I'm very very liberal but i certainly would take offence to anyone calling a lady that....especially on a board full of sex workers....we need to stand up for each other and not let people treat us in such a demeaning way...he meant it no other way other then the context in which he said it. It's a sad day when we let others mistreat us that way..i was happy to see that a couple of the gents stuck up for us in public...i was saddened that others didn't...Emma A

I agree with you Amelia...no matter what, the sp's that don't give references are still women...they don't need to be treated with such harshness...in the real world and this one we are still women. Kind of freaks me out to know that some men think of us like that...

I'm sure MOD can assure you we do not discuss gentlemen in the Sp section...unless your a total ass and we are warning others...

I will tell the sp that i have only met him once but he better show up for her or i'll kick his ass...lmao

I totally agree. The reference thing isn't to chit chat about the gentlemen. We just want to know that someone else has met you and you are cool...meaning your going to show up and be respectful. kisses, Emma A

GFE is a style of service. DO NOT let people tell you otherwise.

Your one of the first one's on my list FB...lol

References are important for the reasons already mentioned...as already said if your an established Member of CERB then usually we don't need to ask anyone. Many of us are Sp friendly...i only add gents {to my friends list} i have met or know to be clients of other reputable Sp's. I think many of the Sp's on CERB know this already but if not they can certainly check my list. Some gents have mentioned to me that when we ask for a reference they think we go into detail...that's not the case. We usually just say {yes he's reliable} or something to that effect. Nothing major as I don't feel it's our place to say anything more.

I have to agree this is a great thread...since i started escorting back in 2004 i have had many regulars..some i still see back in Halifax and NYC {and now Ottawa} I miss them when I'm away and think of them often. I love when they write me and know that they are still thinking of me. This isn't always about money it's about a connection we get with some people...of course not everyone has it but for the one's i have that special connection i often find myself wondering how they are. I'm sure like most of us ladies their are some that we have seen through life changes...marriages,divorce,babies... i love catching up and welcome it. They have seen mean go some many things as well...my close ones know my children's names and ages ..lol..i know theirs as well.. they are like part of my family...sure life moves on and different circumstances bring on different reasons why we don't see each other anymore but through email we can stay in touch....kisses and hugs to you.. Emma A