Emma Alexandra

i know alot of the gents i see love their wives...they just want something to spice things up some...they go home happy thus everyone is happy...i have always thought of what we do as being a type of therapist ...of corse as sensual and sexual as it may be.. we are just making men easier to be around for the wives...hahaha

I have done this many ways but for sure i think he should be on his back so he is more comfortable...especially if he is new to this..

I'm not sure how many would admit to putting there finger up their own ass ..never mine someone else's...lmao if you know what your g-spot feels like its very similar to that...kind of spongy yet smooth..

Charging more because of your appearance is insane...lol..sorry but wouldn't that be the same as charging someone more because they are rich....and that would be pregidous wouldn't it be? you shouldn't have to worry about such things. As AngelaofOttawa said as long as you are respectful and a gentleman then you should be treated the same as any other man..

slow and gentle inserting your finger{i wear a condom} into your lovers ass...i like to have him very excited b4 the hand...haha ...make sure hes in the state where he would say yes to anything you ask...rim him then slowly with insert one finger....keep sucking him and arousing him all the while... {tie him to the bed is necessary}haha once he is comfortable with the feel of your finger move in a bit further ...feel for the prostrate...its feels very similar to your g-stop once you have found it massage it .. i like to give a bj while doing this...and a few other things but i can't be telling all my secrets..wink you will be able to tell if he is enjoying it sand I'm sure he will be...look at his face...i bet his eyes are closed or glazed over...and his making some wonderful sounds... you will know for sure he enjoyed it when he cums like crazy... that's the best way to start....from there you can go to using 2 fingers then toys...but it all takes time...don't expect to be rambing his ass with a strap on the next time you see him....little steps please... hope this helped some.. kisses, Emma A

i would love to teach you...now we just need someone to practice on...always better to teach in person don't you think? hehe

shall i explain in great detail?8)

I'm there to revive you thought if you should lose consciousness...hehe..with my lips...wink

haha you know you love t...hehe just wait until you get past just putting a finger in there...you can even start with 2 fingers and give the P a great massage...it can be compared to when a man finds our g-spot...its fantastic! I love to hear them moan and the facial expressions are incredible...do a prostate massage while doing a bj and BAM...have fun!

The same goes for the gents when making an appointment ....respect on both sides goes along way...

Congrads ATH now your on your way to 200...hehe kisses, Emma A

Thanks guys...i'll miss you too...xoxoxox

I have gone to dinners and lunch many many times with clients....and museums,galleries,movie premier's...you name it i think i have done it...hehe kisses, Emma A

you will love him...8-)

I believe Cat said it best: ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●●-- I love the responses to this thread! The fact that there has been so much caring and thought put into the replies, shows the tenderness at hand. Many of you realize that I don?t really fit into the SP box that most think of when one pictures the role of the SP in someone?s life, so I have a bit of a different take on the emotional aspects in this realm. This post is long, and on the reread I can?t find anything to delete, so accept my apology in advance for the length of this conscious stream of thought that follows. That said, what I say here may or may not apply to any and all. Playing devil?s advocate, I would like to ask, what is wrong with a broken heart? In our society we shun the things that have been labeled painful or hurtful. What is missed is that true emotional growth only comes from the challenges that we call pain. Loving, in my opinion, is always a good thing, even when I know it is going to end. Emotionally, as a society we are closed off most of the time. We shield our personal lives from our work, and vice versa. We keep our friends at arm?s length and build walls to ensure that we don?t have to deal with anything ?painful?. The answer is that we are programmed from childhood that anything negative is to be avoided at all costs. Children are soothed in a hurry when something normal and natural happens, instead of being allowed to experience the emotions and learn to process them. They become adults and spend their lives avoiding anything painful instead of experiencing life as it was meant to be lived. I love to watch the reactions when someone cries in public. Adults squirm in their seats and try and vacate as quickly as possible. Why? There is no reason to shift in our seats unless we intentionally caused the tears, and even then, unless it was a malicious intention why the discomfort? We all experience the broad range of emotions we are designed to feel. Without the hurt, how would we know what made us feel good? If it doesn?t rain, how do we truly learn to appreciate the sunshine? Why are we so afraid to love? I thrive on loving; it?s why I do what I do. I love the guests I have the honor of getting to know. Not the ?you need to leave your wife? kind of love, but the kind that is there unconditionally. Liking the qualities of someone, but loving the faults and watching as someone realizes how truly lovable they are, is my favorite aspect of what I do. I am usually the rebound girl, my guests come to me when the realization hits that life goes on after a D has hit, (death, divorce, desertion) and they are feeling lost and out of touch. Hobbyists make up a small portion of my day, the rest is filled with men who are moving forward and figuring out what?s next. They are the monogamous souls that really want a long term relationship but are not ready. They come to me to reassure themselves they can lie with another woman other than the one that is gone. What they learn is that the world continues to turn and they are going to be fine. I am not a traditional SP, I sometimes develop very intimate relationships with my guests. I give as much as they do. I never utter the words, because I know the effect words like that have, but it doesn?t change the emotions that are felt, and I have heard the precious words more often than I can count. Would I change it? Not a chance! It is needed to allow them to realize that they can still love. People confuse the chemical reaction of falling in love with real love and we are all susceptible. In my career I have two guests that I fell in love with. Both are still close friends that I maintain contact with almost daily. Fortunately common sense prevailed as we realized that the chemicals had taken over and were governing us. Were there tears? Of course! But we rode them out and the relationships morphed into something much deeper and dearer than the heart pounding, mind boggling sense that comes with the ?in love? mantra. I have had numerous marriage proposals, ring and financial statement in hand. They were the White Knights who were looking to save me from ?this life?, when I did not need saving. The other guests, I watch with wonder as they gain confidence and start to move towards finding what makes them happy. I have had the privilege of attending weddings that happened after guests reached the realization that they can love again, and move on. I govern myself with one rule, tell the truth about myself. The emotions that follow will happen; I experience them, learn from them and continue to grow. Don?t be afraid to cry or to laugh, to love and most important don?t be afraid to lose. It is an integral part of who we are as human beings and it is what makes us what we are. Catherine

How could one not fall in love with someone they are being so imtimate with...even if only for the time they are together...i have fallen in love and i don't regret it for one second...

have went through this....finding out who your real friends are...believe me your better off knowing you has your back and will stand by you no matter what...some people are just to judgemental and do not realize what it is we really do...giving of ourselves.. This board has introduced me to some great people that i love and cherish their them. kisses, Emma A ps-i want a t-shirt! lol

no he's making sure its there for you..lmao new reco from Nova Scotia http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=4156&page=6

How you make me blush....hehe...and smile and well you know the rest....hehe thanks so much for your wonderful words....big kisses and hugs:grin:

Can i watch?:grin:

I think i'm the world's biggest flirt...sometimes i don't even realize i'm doing it! when i had to have the police over on a matter not to long ago he ended up giving me a hug b4 he left...lmao....i won't tell you where our conversation was going either...hahaha...i'm so bad but in a good way...:smile:

never done ! hehehe

I love chat....its like going into "cheers". Everyone knows your name...lol and it can be alot of fun. The guys are great and the ladies that are there are fun too...we can have a lot of laughts and its a good place to go and feel welcome...i don't do cam shows...i judt like chatting it up with everyone...as far as people complaining about lurkers some do talk to us you know...lol...you may think they are just there for cam shows but they maybe just shy to partisapate in the whole bangled mess of people talking...i know sometimes i have to tell everyone to stop typing for a min so i can catch up....lol...the guys in chat used to make fun of me for that....i don't mind...the thinkg is we just all have to respect others...some people like to yack and yack and others just are not that way...some just like to sit back and enjoy our banter....i don't see anything wrong with that...it keeps them amused...if some are being a pain in the butt we can just "vote to kick" not to long ago we used to play the kick out gme..it was fun...anyway everyone just be happy...and live and let live...kisses

Travelling like i do i have met more then a few...form rock bands to movie producers and actors...politicians and authors...they are human like anyone else and i respect their privacy so much to the point that i pretend i have no idea who they are....i think that makes them more comfortable...if they feel they want to tell me they will and have done so....a couple have become very good friends and i love them no more or no less then any other man i have seen. All my clients are shown the same respect and privacy.. kisses, Emma A