Akhenaton

To answer your question, sort of, less and less by the minute as "witch hunters" contstantly clamour for more freedom of action, they in effect restrict other people's freedom. In a way, one could say, we have lost the war on terror already, as now we are being subjected to terror from inside. What was the old adage ? you must always fight for freedom, but most people are only too happy to simply give it up. We actually as a society, have surrendered many rights on the basis that we are not responsible for our actions. For example a few years back here in Ottawa, an idividual sued there employer because they got into an accident and totaled their car as well as sustained injuries. The basis was that the employer "did not control" the amount of liquor employees were allowed to drink at the company xmas diner, well the fact that the person left the party and went to not one but two other establushements after this and drank quite a bit there, was simply not a reason for employers to serve liquor to adult employees (!), turns out the only reason the suit came to the employers door step was that the other establishements were not financially viable targets. Thanks to this individual, many employers no longer permit ANY alcohol at functions, and many have done away with functions all together. Another instance is when a parent imposes a punshment on their teen child (for posting what the parent considerred inappropriate pictures on the internet), the teen is not happy, and appeals to the courts who dictate that the child was right and that the punishment was too harsh for the "crime" thus undermines the parents authority. btw the punishment was the loss of computer privilege and not going to a year end outing with their school mates, harsh indeed (!) The more we progress down this line, where we ask the state and "others" to be responsible for our actions, the less freedom we will enjoy.

To me a smile and hello should always be welcomed, as stated above, the easier excuse is always "a colleague" or met her at a course/function/seminar. There is no wrong in knowing one and other, so long as both individuals are mature and able to separate the two worlds. I have met a few sps "in real life' under one or two different scenarios, and it went well both times. The sps in questions where discreet and mature, and we had a good laugh about the circumsdances (during one and after the other, lol) Obviously, if I am with a or many someones, the colleague excuse is the safest, since there are many people who can be "colleagues", not knowing who the other folks are, other courses of action would be iffy at best. During a session, absolutely. Would it be closer to an "affair", well, honestly, if you ask any SO, I think you will find that the distinction between an affair and an sp makes little difference, though it might make one in your mind.

Well, I met up with marianna a while back, just getting to write this now. At Marianna's request I will not get into very deep details, hopefully I will be able to provide enough for you to get a feel for this charming young lady. Contact: I first contacted marianna by PM here on cerb, she was very prompt and polite, and even at that point was setting up the stage, very humorous and inviting. I had a bit of a situation on my way to see her, and she was very accommodating. Arrival: When I got to the location (she is in the middle of a move, thus the low rating, the place was more then half empty, but it was nonetheless very clean) and she answered the door she was dressed in casual yet sexy attire (a nice molding blouse and some lovely tight jeans :) and greeted me with a warm smile and a hug and kiss, we chatted a bit and got the formalities out of the way. The session: I took a shower and she was witing for me in the bedroom, again the warm embrace and smilling face (it's a pity our sp's have to be so careful sometimes, here face is exquisite, the pics are acurate, but lack the warmth of her face <sigh>) The session was a very nice GFE, with plenty of cuddling licking nibbling and froliking. I left the place with a smile pasted on my face that lasted all evening. Would I repeat: Yes. Do I recommend her: Most certainly, especially if you like petite, but not true spinner types, she is just what you are looking for. Need more ? PM me for more details (please ask what you need to know, not just "more info please") enjoy :)

Not sure about your type Mr D, she looks awefully tall ;) Yeah, I did see her once when I was meeting with the then Tiffany (reputed to be her daughter...) she is thin, and about 5'4 or there abouts, but she does not look like a twenty year old. It would be nice if she posted currrent pics of her, some of the pics could actually BE her, just not today....

As the next generation of sinful dwarves comes of age, a new dawn in terror seizes the big city... That or, Dummpy exposed !!! rofl love the grin ;)

Naughty girl ROFL ! I'm sure there's a few high/low places you need him to work at eh ? (j/k) Glad you found someone, my friend's list did not pan out much :(

Here here, well said Aurora.

Hey Joe, just FYI have you tried PK ? they often have early birds, and they do have spots in the east end fairly often.

E.D man, you have that right. You know, it has to be said that most sex these days presents risks, we are in a "risky' hobby, and we are all (lets hope !) mature adults who understand that, Pete and Dummpy have put it out here, but I too get check regularly, and some SPs also offer to show you their tests on request. Now what is the thing about bbbj that makes one "dirty". If you have met someone a few times and have established a comfort level, what is the issue ? yes there are risks, but wake up folks, there are risk just practicing this hobby !!! When people feel that their time with a favorite sp makes them fel good (one would hope that is the intent anyway), it means they where ok with the risk. One thing I heard just today, was that a certain sp would stop seeing clients who see TG/TS, why is that ? because of the stigma ? One such sp is TS Lucy, whos visit is in the announcements section, check her web site, all of her tests are available for review, simply by making the request ! The sp who actually said she would blakclist clients does not even offer the same level of "security". As I said earlier, check out your sources, and do your homework folks, there are many different kinds of people in this world, I for one prefer dealing with more mature and respectful ones. This hobby is a "marginal' activity at best which means we are often perceived as the "dirty" ones as a group, we should be more open to others and different ideas, not more narrow minded, bigoted and petty. Sorry, I guess this is getting me more upset then I thought.

Dummpy, Your point is well taken, as always. I am almost sure you will find someone "young" in maturity at the end of this line of thought, unfortunately, some seem to think it is the only way to impose their "control" over others (prevent them from earning a living, cut them off from an activity they enjoy, etc), often because they feel out of control in their own life. The fact these are spreading is unfortunate but all too human. I too have heard many rumours, and I too have just ignored them when they did not stand up to scrutiny. I would second what you have said by asking people not to gossip, but check up on what they are told for themselves, and as you stated, if what you find leads you to beleive what was said, then the source is irrelevant as you have some substanciation for what you beleive, and that you can share. When all you have is an unsubstantiated source, even a trusted one, what you have is gossip, and we all know what generally happens with gossip, people are tried in the court of public opinion even before they have a chance to defend themsleves, and once done, the shadow of that gossip, the very real damage can never be undone. Have care what you sow fellow cerbites, because that is all you can reep. I hope your friends reputation has not been tainted and that no real damage has arisen, but I know for a fact that often gossip is taken at face value, thus damage is instantaneous. They are lucky to have such a devout friend. Keep up the good fight Dummpy.

LOL, given all the fuss made about the budget, that may not be as much a factor as people like to think ;)

True, but then again few brief posts get nominated ;) (besides some of us enjoy chatty types ;) )

Glad if I can help, as soon as I have something I'll let you know (he is kinda slow about these things, that's why I wanted to know how fast you need the names..)

Hey Emma, I looked up a friend of mine, but he moved, he said he would get back to me with some potential candidates, how pressing is the issue ?

LOL, software does have limits for now ;) But if you want something funny, look at the "halo" around the APC camera lense to the left (almost on the same balcony), it looks like somethin was super imposed the fuzzy digital halo may be a clue to what is happeneing. BTW it IS a composite, check the top right most of the image, the camera mount is the gigapan epic (the camera here is the trick, not sure what they used), and the gigapan stitcher is the product to 'assemble" the composite. The base looks to be fairly cheap, around $380 us ! and comes with the sticher. Regardless, they can use the robotic assembly with most point and shoot cameras (obviously the one used here was not a Kodak Sure shoot $59 model). Still a great tool, and one hell of a photo :)

WOW ! now that's resolution !!!

ROFL, sure that's what you say now, but once the door is closed, watch the "fork" come out !!!

I like it Aurora, but will it truely be an "angelic" start ? hum.... I think I still see the little horns there... (j/k) Good luck on the new start :)

Sorry to hear that eso :( was looking for a play by play (j/K) :)

She was back, and I went to see her and had an even better time then last time, she is great !!

Actually, I did get your point BR, I think I might not have explained mine right, however to each his own. As to having a life, that's what's nie about the fantasy life, we actually get to have two !! Cheers.

I think sometimes it may be difficult to separate the fantasy GF from the sps "true" sentiments, but after all they are providing us with the "dream girl" type relationship we crave, so in that sense it's not to hard to imagine that the sp could also get wrapped up in it (acting a certain way may lead to the associated feelings...? not sure I am explaining this right...) so if you see an sp only once, well, it's often just a cool fantasy, but once you see them a few times, you can actually "escape" into the fanatsy, and actually "be" in the fanatsy, feelings and attitudes included. Does this mean its all artifical ? well my feelings are that if you connect with someone, be it an sp,mp, gf, f or so (even colleague for that matter) there will always be "an once of truth" to it, just enjoy it, respect it, and give it the place it deserves in your life... this hobby, like any hobby IS a part of your life, some folks live in their hobbies and only exist in their real lives, is that wrong ? I don't think so, so long as they are fiunctional when they need to be, and do not cause harm to others. Maybe dating an sp can be hard (I personally have never dated an SP, simply because it never came about, not because I would be opposed), I dated a dancer once or twice, that was ok, the issues where not with the biz per se, more with the "night owl" aspect of their activity cycles, which comes with the turf I guess (I work during the day, they sleep, as I am getting ready for my evening, they are in their morning, when I go to sleep, they go to work...etc...) this is not any different then living with somebody who is doing shift work, or worse night shift and you are on the day shift. my 2 cents.

Sorry you got hit with an ahole like this PP. Its very annoying that some people (who probably could not pass an sp's snif test) try to use other hobbiests but that has always and will always be the way of con artists. If this goes on much longer, we will all have to arrange for a password/phrase to confirm our ids when we meet sps, lol, that would be "great"... Hope you get to meet the peepskwek, should be interesting (PP looking down arms crossed... "so you are who again ? I'M PISTOLPETE, ring a bell ?" trailing shot as peepskwek runs like hell...) Just a little comedy to bring you out of the (rightful) dark cloud PP AK

That, or do like Emma A does, and have pics of many different "styles and times"